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Is there any way, without seeming weird, to send a second message via a dating app if the other party hasn't
replied to the first one?
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I think if the message is somehow a continuation of the first it wouldn't be that weird, if you played it off casually.
Dating apps are so feeble, I feel for you.
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>>18629889

Not really. Shes already made up her mind.

Why would you want to anyway? The entire dating game revolves around move the fuck in if youre not getting anywhere.
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You're all on there because you want to fuck, who gives a shit

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So, I work in a warehouse. Full of metal car parts, plastic car parts, you get the idea. I seemed to have scratched my leg on some metal that may have had some rust on it, but I only just noticed it when I got home. Seems to just rip off the skin, but since the warehouse does have some rust on the flatbeds and other things, is there anything I should do just to make sure I'm in the safe? Thanks.
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>>18629888
Clean it out with peroxide? If you're up to date on your tetanus shots you should be fine.

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So back in March, I had applied to a video game company for an art position.
I applied on the site, and found the email of one of the recruiters, so I contacted him directly about my interest in the job.
The next day an hr manager calls me and says me up an interview.
Day after that, had interview, sent a thank you email the day after that.
A few days pass, hear nothing.
Try to call hr guy, doesn't pick up. Wait a few more weeks, hear nothing, so call again and send a follow up email. Hear nothing.

Months pass, so I assume I didnt get the job.
However, I noticed the game company has another opening for a Production Artist that I would be a good fit for. Although it's not creating art, it has to do with knowing print production, which I can do.

So I applied through the site. My question is, should I do the same technique I did last time and email the recruiter directly?
If I do, should I mention that I previously applied to a different job and never heard back, or just email the recruiter about my interest in this production art job?

What would you do...?
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>>18629875
>The next day an hr manager calls me and says me up an interview.

Meant "calls me next day and sets me up the interview". Damn autocorrect
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>>18629875
>art
>video game companies
Top kek, pathetic neckbeard weeb detected
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That's very unprofessional that they basically ghosted you instead of writing you a formal rejection. Are you sure you want to work for this company?

how to curtail my subordination?'
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i want her back, she's my everything. i have no apartment
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she's pigeontoed

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Fag here.

What's the straight dating scene like?
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>>18629863
Doesn't quite sound like your asking for advice here fucko. Whey don't you go back to r'eddit
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>>18629863
>hey i like u
>i like u to
>tell all your friends "yea, idk about him/her" while either smiling (if ur a straight female) or putting on a coolguy/stoic face (if ur a straight male)
>talk, flirt and spend money like normies until its socially acceptable to tell my friends we had sex
>as things get more serious we eventually fart in front of each other ( randome queefs during intercourse dont count), this opens up a new level of intimacy
>eventually meet each others parents
>if we have parent issues, eventually start complaining about our parents while the other listens and feels a little uncomfortable but naively supportive


And it all just goes down hill from there. You slowly start resenting the fucking cunt/bastard. You liked them so much in the beginning, but after years of comfort you get lazy, sloppy, and while you still like, maybe even love them, you have no motivation or effort until one final argument sends someone over the edge.

You drink with reconnected friends for a few months. Then you self improve after rock bottom. Then you meet someone else randomly or through a mutual friend and do it all over again.

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>Triathlon vs Midlife Crisis

I've been running races and also swiming for years and i want to learn to be a triathlete. I just want to learn to swim in open waters since pool swimming is different and riding a triathlete bike but there's one small but big problem. I'm 41 and becoming a triathlete at my age could be considered that i'm going through a midlife crisis. People tell me the 40's are better than the 20's but many people i know that are my similar age are fat, out of shape and maybe low on stamina. Should i go for it or i'm just someone who should not practice physical activities, be a couch potato and use the elevator instead of the stairs because it makes me feel tired quick and always tell myself that i feel like 20 again?
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Not sure what you're asking, are you saying you should be a fat slob who doesn't take care of himself because that will make you look old?


Anyway, my dad did triathalons when he was in his mid 40's to try and get back into shape. It was probably the best thing he ever did for himself, he was as healthy as he'd been in decades. I wish he would have stuck with it, now that he's had his heart surgeries and heart attacks he can't work out like he used to and has basically given up and decided to be a fat sack of shit the rest of his life.

I'd say do it anon, do it and keep doing it, be healthy now so you won't have as many issues later in life and fuck whoever is fucking stupid enough to say you're an old fart for bettering yourself.

Kids will find any reason to make fun of you, it's part of being a stupid fucking kid.
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Sounds like you're decently confident that you're capable and just need the push to do it. Consider the fact that any serious replies will be telling you to do it the push you need.

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I had changed my diet around completely about three months ago. Working out at least three times a week, eat all the right things. I've lost 17 pounds.

Today, I had a stressful day. And shamefully cheated. I didn't pack enough to eat at work, and was so hungry. On my drive home, I picked up mcdonalds nuggets and fries. I haven't eaten this in months (even before I started dieting).

I binged on nuggets and fries, ate the whole meal. Felt like complete shit afterwards. Told myself, I am already over calories, this will be the last meal for today. As if that somehow makes up for it...

I just projectile vomitted like a broken hydrant three times. Lesson learned. But, what should I do after that binge and purge? I didn't make myself throw up, I just got so sick. What do I do to, I guess, make up for this? I feel weak as fuck. Do I make myself a healthy snack or something? Already drinking tons of water.
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>>18629847
bump for halp
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>>18629847
Sometimes having a cheat day isn't a bad thing, sometimes its honestly a great thing. Maybe not McDonalds of course but regardless it isn't always a bad thing.
There isn't anything you need to do! You've been doing great for yourself and you had one time in the past few months that you ate bad. Just don't let yourself try to make excuses and eat bad food more and more. Go back to what you were doing and keep at it, no need to make yourself feel like you ate the entire families thanksgiving dinner by yourself.
IF ANYTHING, see how many calories you ate, and just burn it off extra. Take an extra hour in exercising to burn them off if need be.
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Cheating on your diet once in three months isn't going to hurt you.

In fact, some diet plans give you one day a week to cheat and eat however you want, arguing that it's somewhat helpful to have those high calorie days once in a while. Don't feel ashamed about eating something else today.

What's more concerning is that you threw up after eating the food.

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The first time I only got a bump, but no answer. I'm even more desperate now in case the bookmarks file gets written over.

I am a total autismo about my bookmarks, and today they all disappeared. I didn't do an iCloud backup of them, so restoring from the ipad is the only option. I've tried some software but all is the same shitty cloned program that doesn't get past the iPad detection phase. This has happened before, but they restored on their own that time. Now, closing safari and restarting the ipad(including hard reboot) did not fix it. My history is still there from before safari crashed and it was cleared, and there is website data under safari in settings. This leads me to believe it's just the bookmarks file that is corrupted. Any help? All the programs I've found are indian scams that are obvious copies of each other. I can see why one would hate these opportunistic idiots, they even pay people to make a video on their broken product. Things like dr fone for example, don't work.
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Pic slightly related, the people who fork copies of the original software and charge $100 for it.

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After years of working odd jobs and never really thinking about what I want to do with my life I'm at a standstill. I'm tired of working shit part time or awful factory jobs. I've been wanting to go back to college and actually try to finish out a major but I have no means, so I am considering going navy for a few years. Does anyone else have experience with navy? My recruiter told me I scored high enough to go nuke, but my navy friend is telling me to take a much simpler 4 year contract and get out to collect my GI bill.

Thoughts? Advice? Also a side note I don't even know what I wanna go back to college for. I've already been in and dropped nursing school and electrician school. Both were interesting to me but I was a little shit riding off of scholarships from doing reasonably well in school. Pic unrelated
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bump

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So I needed a job, because I'm only taking three classes this semester, and I got a shitty retail job 3 weeks ago, for just above min wage.

>tell them I can only work part time, 20-24 hours a week
>they told me that is fine
>they schedule me for 34 hours each week already
>job is massively shit, and after a week I already felt like taking my own life

I've worked a lot in the past, just never retail. How the fuck do people do this? I literally get home at the end of each day, and straight up contemplate killing myself.

On top of this they've been hitting me with a closing day, and opening day back to back numerous times. So I'll work 2-10 pm, and then have to be back at work at 7 am the next day and be there til 3.

I just don't think I'm cut out for retail. I didn't believe people when they said it is completely soul draining. What should I do, just look for other work, or do I try and tough this out?
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Sounds like you're a bitch

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So I work in advertising - my whole career I've only done digital advertising. Last year, my company made the shift from having us specialize in digital advertising, or traditional marketing, to know both. I quit.

But they convinced me to come back last month. I thought I could learn how to do traditional marketing.

But now my back is up against the wall with a huge project due by Friday, and I just can't wrap my head around it. I'm just completely lost and in a total panic.

What the fuck do I do? Just admit I can't do it, and quit? I had a little bit of training, but it was like trying to go into a 400 level college course when you're still a freshman in high school.

Help.
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>>18629720
>marketing
Fuck man, any unskilled bastard can do marketing bullshit. Wtf does it require you to do that you think is so hard?
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>>18629757

Well, it's media. I need to put together a $150k media plan including billboards, TV, radio, print, and other things. You don't get to just "pick a number" and see what sticks, you have to intricately plot out what that media is going to cost each much, who to target, where to get this data from, and all of that kind of shit.
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>>18629771
You can't just call up someone at Nielson and have them give you a quote on what some of this would cost? I believe they do consulting, so you should be able to get some price quotes. Also, I believe they sell software to track your marketing footprint.

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Finished my 6 month treatment 3 weeks ago. My libido has taken a nose dive. I don't even jack off any more. is this perminate?
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>>18629716
>perminate
my god. get to the doctor right now, lad
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>>18629716
Looks like somebody havent read the side effect. Get fucked dumb kid. You traded clean skin for all your hormones.

Btw without enough testosterone you can start growing boobs. Can you imagine the torture at school when boys will find out you have boobs in locker room?

Do this >>18630352

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If i step into a machine that records my entire body on an atomic level while destroying it in an instant and then reassembles it somewhere else, am I a clone?
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>>18629678
Well, parts of you are being destroyed every moment.
Are you a clone right now?
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Yes a clone as the original matter is not retained
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>>18629678
Definitely. If the machine were to malfunction and failed to destroy the original, there would be two versions of you.

I resent my long term boyfriend of 7 years for his frequently shitty attitude and how over time, I have noticed he has slowly started to become comfortable enough to take it out on me, then blame me for his aggression.

He's never hit me. It's more manipulative or controlling. I guess I used to be a doormat or Mother Theresa. When he was upset, even if it wasn't at me, I'd run to his aide and just try to be the best gf ever. Then that turned into never being good enough. Then eventually it turned into me being the butt of every joke. Every day he just nags me for my personality, some little thing I forgot to do, etc.

He's dependent on me emotionally, but that also means he totally feeds off my emotions. If we argue, his punishment is typically several days of silent treatment. While that could be seen as "cooling off" from arguments, there is no reconnect after. He just threatens that if I make him angry again, the silent treatments will be for longer and longer.

This has caused me to slowly start resenting the fuck out of him. He takes no responsibility for it. And only when I am at my wit's end and ready to break up does he apologize.

I have acknowledged that I am in the cycle of an abusive relationship. How do I end it? This person feels like a drug. And I have no friends to fall back on.
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You deserve it desu. Either he asserts his dominance or you'll slink off to find someone who will.
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>>18629667
To add, he is currently ignoring me now. It's been two days. I don't feel clingy anymore as I would when he used to ignore me. Part of me just feels like, "Oh the silent treatment again? Lovely, see you in a few days and can't wait to have the conversation where it's all my fault. Talk to ya then!"

I feel like I can't end it until I have taken back some kind of control. He's a master manipulator. Will I even get it around his head how much he fucks up? I feel like I need this to move on, and he probably won't give it to me (not that I've tried, desu).
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>>18629672
>>18629672
Wouldn't have even done that. To be honest, his silent treatments have me thinking more and more of just going out and being reckless. I have never felt so conflicted on my loyalty to people.

I was and still pretty much am infatuated with my bf. I am just so unhappy and the more I think about it, I am unhappiest when he is around.

Does life get easier when you just kinda except it's supposed to suck?
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>>18629664
For me it got way easier when I started doing self enquiry meditation, before that I was depressed, for others it gets easier when they get what they want in life (girls, nice job, etc.)

what you said works too, accepting it just kinda sucks... I mean look at the Bubonic plague, 50 million people sufferingly died, imagine each one of them had family and friends and they die gruesomely. And look at how hideous most animals are, especially dogs, wild dogs bite things to death with their teeth... Life sucks imo, just be good and nice to people so it sucks less.
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It will relieve some of the pain one's expectations not being met. The disillusionment is one part of the process but not a good strategy for eliminating suffering.
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>>18629664
You should accept randomness as the normal state of things. Because it is.
Sometimes things go well for you and sometimes they don't. Be aware of this, take advantage of the situations when things go well and always be prepared for things to go wrong.

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