I've fallen in love my best friend. The thing is she's a lesbian. She's told me she had feelings for me before. Should I still go after her? And if not how will I get over her?
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Well if she had feelings for you before its possible she could have them again.
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If she's bisexual then it's not so bad to go for it, depending on the details, I guess.
But if she's an all out lesbian, then first try to imagine what it would be like if a gay guy were pursuing you, and if you'd consider hooking up with him, assuming your straight.
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>>17336340
Is that pussy good?
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How do you guys go about approaching people in public? I plan on going to a musical venu alone and I'm not the best at it. I'm not one of those friendless types in fact I have quite a few, the thing is it's either been people making the first move on me or through friends of friends. Never quite done it myself.
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>>17336333
Bump for same question
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Just say something simple at first like "hey nice shirt" and try to hold a light conversation from there.
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Just say "hi", and talk about something with relation to the context. If he/she is worth, they'll have a conversation with you without problem, and if everything wents ok, you can get their numbers, so you can invite them to hangout someday. Just try, you won't lose anything.
About a month ago I was feeling really shitty, so on a whim I booked a flight to the US Virgin Islands for next week. I didn't really think anything of it at the time other than a get away. Well, now I feel nervous. Ive traveled a bunch before, but never by myself. I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice for me. I have nothing planned for when I get there other than my hotel.
What do you do as a solo traveler? And what is there to do on Saint Thomas for single people?
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=what+is+there+to+do+on+Saint+Thomas+for+single+people
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I dunno I usually just relax but ive only gone camping alone. I enjoy the tranquility of nature and try to feel what solitude is like.
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I'm not sure how the virgin islands would be for meeting people, isn't it full of rich white families? Anyways, just enjoy the scenery and visit all of the touristy spots. Go drinking and dancing. If you see cool people don't be nervous chat them up, solo travel can get a bit lonely so it's nice to make friends.
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so my relationship of 3 years ended. We are both pretty emotional over it. There was a pregnancy scare and I sorta blew up. I wasn't really getting cooperation from this girl. Things really started to fall apart 4 months ago.
We both still want to hangout and do stuff together. Is this a good sign we're going to get back together?
I love her. it feels over. I think we both want to see what else is out there. but fuck I want her back. maybe it's just the thought of being single again that scares me. But I honestly had alot of feelings for her and I loved/love her.
any advice>?
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well I dunno maybe some time jacking off alone is what you need if your not ready to get someone pregnant.
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>shes in school debt 45 000
>she has no full time job just part time
>im not ready
>shes not ready
I blew up cause I felt I wasn't getting cooperation from her. I was patient and waiting for her to apply herself more and seek full time work. I pregnancy scare just freak me out.
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I'm in a similar situation and it's really scary, we are trying to make it work though. We're spending a little more time apart and working at ourselves as individuals and being less dependent on each other. If you really love her work towards being healthy rather than just giving up.
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Girlfriend never wants to do anything.. and not in the sense that she's lazy or something, but she just doesn't want to go to any place I pick.
For example:
I picked a pretty known science museum that's 25 bucks. She doesn't want to because its too expensive and she doesn't think she'll enjoy it.
Fair enough,I looked again and picked a free place to go. A really beautiful park in San Francisco. Nope.. Too boring.
So I told her we can walk around downtown San Francisco and get some dessert. She doesn't want to walk + too boring.
Then if I run out of shit to pick she tells me we "never do anything"
WHAT THE FUCK AM i SUPPOSED TO DO WHEN SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GO ANYWHERE
This is how it is for EVERYTHING its either too expensive, or too boring , or no walking, etc.
What pisses me off is that she spends hundreds of dollars on festivals and concerts but won't spend 25 bucks to go to a stupid museum that we can experience together. Like even if its stupid, we don't know its stupid. It could be awesome, but she doesn't want to find out "the hard way" aka "waste 25 bucks" I don't want to pay for it because I used to always pay and its not fair that she won't go somewhere with me because it's "too expensive" (25 bucks..??) yet she spends half of that buying panera bread and spends 10x that buying festival tickets.
It's not even about money too because she buys me presents and shit. So I just don't fucking understand...
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>>17336281
Ait her down and explain that she needs to make an effort. And at this point, if she doesn't, it might be time to walk out.
I mean, I am heavily introverted, lazy, and have low drive to do shit, and I still get off my ass and go out with my girlfriend, no matter how boring it will be. Because it's about spending time together.
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Bro, straight up tell her how you feel. If she doesn't realize that you are fucking irritated by the way she acts, she will never understand.
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I'm just starting to get really bored. I feel like she does the shit im talking about in a way that makes me feel like I'm a shitty person for not finding stuff to do.
But I guess today I just had a realization that she has to put effort too. I realized that if I hadn't been picking shit for us to do that we would never do anything.
and I would probably get blamed for it.
Our plans RARELY fall through.
I'm shy but I love going out and shit.
I like going to raves and stuff like she does but I don't want that to be the only thing I ever do.. That's just stupid.
I feel like the only time she falls through with her plans is if she's going to raves.
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hi /adv/
im struggling with a heroin addiction
i think ive been addicted for about 6 months and i only snort it i have never used a needle so i doubt its as serious as other peoples addictions
the longest ive made it without heroin was 48 hours and when i keep trying to quit i repeatedly fail at about 36 hours...i really need your help in trying to go longer my current goal is 72 hours
i start getting really bad aches and pains after around a day and they start to get so bad by 36 hours that im almost always using again
i could try rehab but the problem is that i work with cmh and with all the times theyve threatened it im deathly afraid that they will put me in an adult foster care home if they ever find out im using so rehab pretty much isnt an option until i get done with these thugs i actually own my own house and ive heard horror stories of peoples houses getting sold out from under them when they get put in an afc home
does anyone have any personal experience with this? or if not has anyone helped their friends get off hard drugs? any advice would be greatly appreciated
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>>17336257
If you don't go to rehab you'll eventually overdose and die so choose.
Death, or rehab.
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>>17336257
Ibogaine
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>>17336257
What's CMH, and why are you in Adult Foster Care?
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ok so I'm about to ask my boyfriend the defining the relationship question
We just graduated highschool and I want to know where things are going from here. I have no idea how to ask him!
Anyways tldr I need to ask my highschool sweetheart bf through text if he thinks of us as a serious relationship. We just graduated and I want to focus on school, but if he thinks we're serious I'll make space for him
SUGGESTIONS PLEASE
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>>17336246
fag
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>>17336249
I don't normally talk like this he's just waiting for a response right now and I'm at a loss of words
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Copy paste what you wrote here.
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How do I get into BDSM? 2016-07-08 03:04:25 Post No.17336205
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I've just about had it with women acting like they're gods gift to earth in every interaction. I've dated and fucked before and girls are always like "uhm I'm the girl why don't you pay" or "uhm I'm the girl protect me and entertain me"
I gave them a chance and tried to respect them as equals. I really did. Now I just have the urge to choke a girl, facefuck her, slap her and spit on her and just dominate her out of years of a pent up thirst for revenge (for wasting my time and patience by acting like a spoiled Cunt) and anger.
I need an outlet to take my anger out on women, and beating them will just get me in jail. BDSM seems like the perfect way for me to just get a 2x4 or a whip and go ham on a girl.
Anyone know how to find girls into this shit? Should I try finding swinger communities?
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You sound like a balanced person fit to be trusted to be a good dom.
I clap my hands for you in slowmotion.
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>>17336222
You sound like a smug little shite with a bleached asshole.
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>>17336205
That's really fucking hot, I'm into being dominanted like that.
You can try www.fetlife.com, that site is like a BDSM Facebook sorta but I have found men off there that could put me in my place. If you're feeling edgy and don't give a fucking, then try www.collarme.com, that site had off people so I never went there but if you just wanna go ham then there.
Also, Fetlife has groups specifically for people in your city so they do munchies where they all met up and you could potentially find someone. That's a good way to get into your local bdsm scene.
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I'm a teenage boy looking for teenage pussy. It's very simple but I suffer from anxiety and am currently not talking to any girls and they don't talk to me. I am quite attractive and have had quite a share of hot girls to like me but I blew it because of my anxiety..How do I get laid?
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Sex clubs and online dating.
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You have to be 18 to post on this site.
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OK so you're basically me when I was somewhat younger. My advice is that you should stop seeing sex as the objective. There are so many things you have to learn before that. Start with just talking, when you are not a complete retard when talking with girls start thinking about sex.
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So, here is the thing. I have had a crush on my uncle for the longest time. So about two months ago I finally told him about it. Here is the weirdest thing, he actually responded positively, and said he would be interested in trying it! Well, next day he says he was drunk when he told me that and though he is curious, he won't let his girlfriend find out and now he won't even talk to me. What can I say/do to get him to give me a chance? Please help me I am desperate!
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BUmping this cause I really need advice
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>>17336193
Well, if it seems like he's having second thoughts, you should probably back off. The worst thing you can do is push the issue if he's having doubts.
That being said, just because he was drunk when he said yes doesn't mean he changed his mind when he was sober, just that "sober him" should "know better" so now he's second guessing. I'm sure his girlfriend is a big part of that. But hey, if his girlfriend ever breaks up with him, just take him out drinking, guaran-fucking-tee he'll be inside you by the end of the night.
Good luck anon.
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>>17336229
Thanks for the advice, but I am unsure if the girlfriend will ever be leaving the picture.
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My parents are moving out of state and can't take our dog.
The place I'm moving into doesn't allow dogs and this is the only place I've found we decent roommates at price that won't kill my savings account.
He's an 11 year old beagle, too healthy to put down and too old for anyone else to want him. Any ideas?
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>>17336172
ask friends of the family to take him
dont me the man who just puts down a dog cause he has no further use for it
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>>17336189
I'm literally out of friends other than the people I'm moving in with.
I even offered to take him with me 7am to 7pm every day to work and around town if he could just sleep in my room.
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>>17336208
explain to the owners of the place that he is old, doesnt bark, doesnt shit/piss on the rugs and that youl take care of him
if they are human they will understand
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>be me brushing teeth
>sees some gum recession
>gets very worried and makes dental appointment and everything
>have some sort of anxiety
>remember i have younger brothers
>asked to see their teeth
>plaque everywhere
>gets even more worried about them more than myself
>never worried about anyone else before
>first time feeling this
i never worried about anyone well being before. of course i always give people my regards but i only felt real worry with my younger brothers.
whats that mean?
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>>17336133
cringe
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>>17336133
It means you and your brothers should see a dentist and get your teeth cleaned.
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forgot to add. mom has cancer and i have to figure out how appointments and taking care of kids works. it feels like she can go any day now. so i gotta learn fast on being a parent because i guess i love my brothers and also dad is not in the picture.
I want to become a well known artist so I can make a positive impact on the world. It's extremely stressful because it's almost pressuring . I was presented with the idea that none of the difference-making ones have that mindset, though. that goes from the author of "Power of Now" to comedians like Russel Brand to artists like Bob Marley and Kendrick Lamar. What are your thoughts on this??
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I think they mean that they know they have the power to change the world and can envision it, but on a daily basis they arne't constantly checking themselves against that goal.
That isn't living in the now, that's living in the future because you picture yourself of where you want to be instead of where you actually are.
If you want to change the world with your art, envision your goal and work daily towards it however do not constantly check yourself against your goal, it just creates anxiety and depression about the future.
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>>17336125
Don't quit your day job
Do your art as a hobby, but don't count on it to pay the bills
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>>17336125
>What are your thoughts on this??
L.M.F.A.O.
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I'm considering cutting my tounge out so that I cannot speak ill about god.
Thoughts?
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>>17336116
You can fix your ill words with repentance and prayer, if you cut off your tongue you'll never be able to spread His word, anon.
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Religion is one helluva drug
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Careful, an asshole named Lautrec might want to kill you for your fire keeper soul.
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Opinions on freckles on men
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I'm 19 and a daywalking ginger (midly tanned but still have freckles on my cheeks and nose)
Is it unattractive in general or is it even suited for some guys?
>Pic related, it's like this but just on the cheeks and nose
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>>17336082
maybe it's because my sister is a redhead but I find gingers to be repulsive
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Are you actually fucking serious? I'd say a lot of guys dig the freckles.
I'd kill to have a girlfriend with freckles. Sure melanoma sucks and all that jazz but most guys don't even really care about em.
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>>17336097
Reading comprehension!