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>>17356924
I get you but there's no way to say that without coming off as a prententious douchebag.

But I get you. It's like there's this gap between me and other people that doesn't exist for everyone else.

>>17356924
>Do people other than me exist?
Yes
>Am I a person?
Yes
>Am I a person in the same way they are?
No, you live in "different" worlds as how you perceive it differently than somebody else.

Everyone lives in their own "world" and communicates to other people's worlds that seem simular, but never really are. Some people's worlds are more distant from other worlds, which becomes clear if you try to communicate with someone that has severe autism (not the meme assburger autism that might be somewhat true, but I believe that assburger is something that has more to do with a kid's upbringing --> never learned to socialize properly, and it's getting worse because of new technology).

>>17356938
philosophy of this nature has been turned into something that is viewed as being pretentious or pseudo-intellectual.

Hell, philosophy in general has had shit smeared on it in the past decades. No one likes the philosopher anymore, and for anyone to consider themselves one only serves to set them apart from everyone else.

>>17356907

beds are mostly a preference more than an actual 'what is best' thing. thoguh some are clearly better than others.

if you can, try one of the new purple matresses. its 1000 bucks for a queen size last i checked. you can try it for a hundred days and get your money back.

DONT BE AFRAID TO GET YOUR MONEY BACK. most people just buy and dont fucking bother changing it when they dont find it comfortable.

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>>17356922
purple?

>>17356933

youtube search for purple mattress

Iktf. Long story short: ask her out. You are only playing games mainly with yourself like this.

>>17356970
Thanks

>>17357151
It's another thing to actually do it. I'm in a somewhat same situation right now.. I did ask her in person last weekend but our conversation got interupted and I didn't continue it afterwards ffs.
She is really "cover-up-shy" /timid/reserved. It's really fucking with my head because I can't read her.

>>17356836
Are you a barber?
I have no info on this stuff besides comedy tv series.
What's the requirement? What's do you even do?

>>17356836
Hey homie, that was me that was in that hobbies thread. How do I get started? I haven't sung since elementary school. Do I just find a local chorus and tag a long? There is a men's chorus near me should I start there?

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>>17356859
I am not a barber, though people often ask if I cut hair when I tell them I do barbershop. There really aren't any requirements. The vast majority of barbershoppers are amateur singers, so you don't have to be a music wiz to do it. As for what I do, I sing with a chorus every Thursday night and rehearse with my quartet on Sunday evenings. I can go into more detail for both of those things more if you'd like.

>>17356862
Joining a chorus is pretty much how everyone starts out. There are many barbershop choruses or "chapters" throughout the United States and Canada. You can find one by using this link (http://ebiz.barbershop.org/ebusiness/Public/ChapterProximitySearch2.aspx) or simply google "barbershop chorus in X".

Chapters are mostly all associated with the Barbershop Harmony Society of which I'm a member. You don't have to join the society to participate, but you do if you want to sing in a competition and get other member benefits along the way.

Be warned that not all choruses are created equal. There are some large choruses with a wide age range among its members as well as smaller choruses which are made up exclusively of old timers. I've sung with both and don't find the older, smaller choruses as appealing. At any rate, just go to a chapter meeting, introduce yourself, and go from there. Barbershoppers are a pretty friendly and welcoming bunch.

>>17356804
obviously. where r u going?

>>17356804

you're the guy who just asked this about the teacher you know from france, arent you

If it's local. There's no point in asking someone in New York how to use the transit in Los Angeles.

What the fuck is ptp

>>17356863
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PTP

>>17356905
>links a disambiguation page

>>17356793
Ever considered that your "gastroparesis" could be psychologically inflicted?

>>17356793
Medfag here

Talk to your specialist. I imagine you're on something like metoclopramide or domperidone already?

My off the record advice would be fats. You literally can't eat anything more energy dense than fat, at 9kcal/gram
Try olive oil... But expect some mean poops if you do this endlessly

One pound of fat is 3,500kcl. You'd gain around a pound of fat for every ~400mL of olive oil, on top of your maintenance (which for you would be very low)

Fried chicken, fast food, milk shakes, king size candy bars

Are you male?

>>17356758
I am a female

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>>17356761

Paris c'est nul y'a rien à faire là bas

As long as you're wearing pants, there's nothing inappropriate about asking for tips.

>>17356724
why would it be inappropriate?

have you had great sexual experiences where it involves sweaty sex with running mascara? we relate these 'pheromones' to geunine good times that excites us, it lets us know 'hey this is how it smelled/looked like when i had a great time'.

Its not a fetish.

>>17356736
Yeah definitely, sex while camping with my ex was intense.

Fetish or not, it's frustrating, is there any way to drop it?

>>17356746
Not really. My ex enjoyed the smell of me when we were really intimate(im a sweaty borderline pig compared to her petite big booty frame), its all about hormones telling us to mate with that individual.

Rather than hate it, just enjoy it. It's common with humans.

A better way to word the problem:


People are quicker to find something to be a problem to them, relating to someone else, and then operate on that problem with that person before or without ever communicating that there is a problem.

They develop an idea that subtly boosts their own ego in the form of seeing something as a problem, but they never open their mouths to use words to let reality challenge the words, because they would rather hold it in and operate with it.

Op im from brooklyn and we have a saying there.
"Say, im walking here"

>>17356808
dude EXACTLY

>>17356678
>your job or me
I would say her because he sucks at his job.

You gave him multiple chances to get messaged back, i say now its the waiting game for you.

Wait till he messages you back.

>>17356678
You sound pretty fucking creepy to be honest.

>>17356668
I guess my question would be what can i do about any of it??

you work in ems?

>>17356713
no I never said that. That's just an expression of being sick of it.

>>17356601
Just be less of a drama queen.

I bet everyone in that classroom remembers your breakdown but will struggle to remember what you said about your girl.

you think of yourself too highly, no anger will spout if you have no ego to offend

>>17356612
Gah, I usually just have a faggy smile on my face while loudly offending someone in a way that makes them cry

It doesn't really look like I'm mad but I'm burning inside. The classroom one was an exception. I'm not proud of what happened.

>>17356625
Well when I was a little insecure fag I was even worse. Now I don't really care about insults.

how long is said hike? timewise

Not a big ass backpack please, khakis, light shirt that matches khakis, hiking boots/shoes. Trail mix. Water bottles (not alot of them because too much weight), a compass, potable battery charger for phone, flash light, knife, sunscreen, mosquito repellant.

Dont bring alot of weight as I said, if you can a man purse (fanny pack) would be best and just joke about your man purse to your date to break the ice.

>>17356543

I want to say starting from the morning to noon; 8 - 12