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I can get him to agree to hang out in the future?
"Yo anon you free right now?"
>2 hours later
"Nah hanging with some of my friends"
What do
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Insufficient information.
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>>17354930
Show an interest in something he is interested in, learn ALL about it. If you are a woman or he's gay, combine that with being..sexual but not overly flirty, you have to keep control, you are the fisher, he's the fish. That's what lads like, being convinced they are making a conquest, when really the other person is allowing it to happen. If you are a fella and he's not gay, I don't know.
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He's a guy I know at the gym, we seem to be somewhere between acquaintances and friends, trying to get him to agree to do shit like hang out
Literally 0% gay, I actually am trying to build up a social life from basically scratch
Can't tell if his message is his way of brushing me off or if he is just being honest
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Whenever I eat or see someone eating I feel really fucking depressed and sad about it. It's moreso when I see fat people eat or when I'm eating in public. I just feel like I'm gonna break down whenever I do it, though I've never actually went and broke down.
Does anyone else get this? Any idea what it could be or do I need to see someone about this, or is it normal?
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Is anyone you care about fat?
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>>17354929
are you fat, or have you been fat?
any kind of eating disorder behavior when you were younger/do you have any habits now?
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>>17354929
That's weird, you should talk to a therapist about. I can easily see that being a problem in the future. You're obviously linking eating with something bad, but only you can find out what that is.
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Life is absurdly boring 2016-07-14 02:12:10 Post No.17354923
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Is life supposed to be this boring after college? I graduated and just started working two months ago, and the routine just feels so... Unfulfilling.
Go to work. Type shit all day and smile at bosses. Drive 20 minutes. Hit the gym. Go home, make dinner and read a book. Weekend is here. Go to a local show or get drunk. Bang random sloots/go on dates whenever possible and convenient.
The fuck is this shit? College was to be something exciting, 4 years built towards a purposeful goal: graduation. High school? Same shit.
What am I doing wrong?
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yes and no. most people expect life to settle down after college, but for a lot of people its not the case. the difference is that the fun takes a certain level of effort.
in college you are LIVING with thousands of others people who have nothing to do beyond school. you are forced to interact. its natural that a lot of fun things pop up and happen.
in real life, you work with people, so thats a start, but you are not required to see each other after work. considering you are working it doesnt leave much time to really bond.
PLUS a lot of those people are from much different home lives. some are married. some are way older. etc. in college you meet people with similar interests via majors and classes and such.
plus at work you will generally meet a LOT fewer people, and you will generally not get that much 'fresh meat'.
you are in a time in your life where you actually have the resources to do even more, but you have to actually put effort into doing it, especially with friends.
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>you have the resources to do more
Like?
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>>17355030
namely money and time. Now that may be universal, but considering you went to college, you should be able to afford goign out.
i know in college the only thing i could afford to do was eat at dennys once a week, and that was generally just the 4 dollar menu cuz unlimited pancakes.
but assuming you make reasonable wage, you can actually go out and do stuff.
you also have more time. in college i had very little time. school all day, then home work all day and night and even on the weekends. you found the time to have fun, but it was packed as fuck. god forbid you have extra curriculars or a job cuz that would jsut atke it all up.
but as an adult you work your eight hours a day, then go home, and you dont have to worry about homework on the weekends.
tbqh i find adult life easier than highschool even, so much fucking homework.
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Someone WAKE. ME. THE. FUCK. UP!!!!!!!! 2016-07-14 02:12:05 Post No.17354922
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Someone WAKE. ME. THE. FUCK. UP!!!!!!!!
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I am convinced I am living in some sort of bizzaro fucking nightmare.
I have been running experiments on okcupid. Not using fake pictures. I message a INCREDIBLY average woman. I know she is average because I can see her attractiveness score and I can see when her account was made.
She had a FULL inbox. Her account was created about 2 weeks ago. I then messaged a obese woman and got a response within 10 minutes. 10 FUCKING MINUTES.
I repeated this for over 200 women on okcupid. Guess how many average women responded? 20.
TWENTY
Guess how many below average women responded? 75.
Of the rest of the total, they were no response or full inbox.
What the fuck is this nightmare man? Why the fuck are average women so full of themselves? Is their ego so through the fucking roof that they don't even realize they are just one step above dog shit?
These women think their cunts are made of solid gold. This is why I don't like ego boosts. It makes people think they are worth more than they are. FUCK THAT.
What is this fucking nightmare?
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>>17354922
So you're mad because average girls aren't desparete to jump on your dick. They are the "average" women, what did you expect?
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>>17354922
I've never seen anyone play the field and come away happy.
Like, if your goal in life is to have a relationship, you're only going to attract other people who's only goal in life is to have a relationship. Then you'll just be living this weird farce together while constantly posting on social media about how you have a relationship.
You're either lucky enough to accidentally meet someone who you have chemistry with, or you settle for being alone for a while. You can't force romance where there isn't any.
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>>17354922
I could be as much of a pig as you are and say that of course the below averages replied because they probably don't get many messages, but I think the problem is you're a cunt labelling women based on their looks and you'd be lucky to even get a fucking reply comment on 4chan (I guess you're lucky today).
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How the fuck do I get people to notice me online?
I feel like I'm terrible at this whole social networking thing. Each one of my online accounts has 10 followers at best and at least half of them are bots.
There are a ton of Twitter accounts for example that are just depressed nerds shitposting that have a metric fuckton of followers. How do they do it?
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Be a depressed nerd shitposting
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Post pictures of your pet on instagram
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A few months ago I had a small disagreement with one of my instructors (sort of like a TA, just not called that) in a college class. It was truly an incredibly minor visual judgement. I don't recall exactly what I said, but I don't think it was out of line, I simply stated my opinion and completed the task based on my own judgement. I don't think I said anything rude.
On the day that it happened, the main teacher of the class came in and asked how everyone was doing / how the assignment was going. The instructor replied with a joke, saying "Anon is actually teaching ME about how to do X, Y, and Z, Ha Ha". At the time I didn't really think anything of it, I just laughed along. However, in light of other interactions and comments by said instructor, I can't help but look back on it and find that statement incredibly contemptuous and hostile.
In the time since, this person has called me "defensive" in a formal evaluation, and has continually made sarcastic comments about me being a know it all. I honestly don't understand what this person's fucking problem is. I don't typically talk much in classes; it's not like I'm one of those people who draws attention to themselves to show off.
Is there any good way to deal with this? It's not like I can make a formal complaint. I only have to interact with this person for a few more months, so I suppose the easiest thing to do would be nothing.
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Some people are just jerks. Given time, even they may show you their good sides.
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>>17354866
Consider having sex with them
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>>17354866
Most people in positions of authority don't like being challenged. The less secure that authority, the less they're capable of coping with it well.
To take his insecurity as "contemptuous and hostile", well, whatever. I wasn't there, I don't know if your judgment is fucked up though I think it probably is.
Does it matter what his evaluation of you is from an attitude standpoint? Like does this mean anything aside from this class, and is it even part of your grade? Because if it's meaningless, it's worth considering whether or not it's a reasonable perception of you but ultimately isn't worth much more than that.
If it's something that's actually meaningful, like it's going to affect what other classes you can get into or if it can affect your grade and you think this guy is trying to sandbag you, I'd probably ask for a meeting with him and the actual professor in charge of the class to discuss the evaluation. I'm also pretty confrontational so I'd probably ask "Hey, when you say I'm 'defensive', do you mean like how you freaked out when I pointed out whatever in the lesson a few months ago? Because I'm trying to figure out if this is a good-faith evaluation you've given me and what behavior specifically is responsible for you saying this, or if you're just still butthurt about me pointing out that you're were wrong."
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Why is missionary position so hard? I feel like between holding myself up and doing that awkward half pushup I can only last for about a minute or two before it becomes too exhausting and not fun. And when I try to thrust too hard it just comes out. Are there any tips for it?
A little background, I just recently came out of permavirgin status so I don't have much of an idea what I'm doing in bed. I enjoy it when she's on top but she said she enjoys the mish better.
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Are you fat? I'm chubby and this one can be hard for me. It's possible though since I do anal in this position. Just lower your body and go with it. Get comfy and thrust slowly. She'll probably like it better than jackhammering her pussy. Important thing is to relax and fuck through that burning sensation in your legs.
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One thing you could try to help is positioning your body closer to hers, and let your hips do the work, instead of your legs. It may help you slip out less often.
Also, don't be afraid to put a little of your weight on her. In my experience, women tend to dig that.
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I rest my whole body on my lady and my head is often totally over one of her shoulders. Use your hips: you need to work those muscles to get it right.
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In /aco/ we have something called "Drawthreads" where you make requests to someone else draw it, something like "Requesting "X" character from "Y" cartoon doing "Z" action".
The problem is this: my requests is always deleted by a jerk janitor, even when my requests never broke the rules.
What I can do? Any email where I can report this bad moderation?
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What requests did you make.
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Uh, that's not a draw thread. It's not poor moderation to delete it because that's a request thread, which should be in /r/. That's why it's getting deleted, that's no different than going over to /h/ and posting one picture and asking for more. You aren't adding any content or valuable discussion.
Btw every "draw thread" that I've seen is started by the artist, saying that they will draw things that anons ask for, and those stay because again they are adding valuable content.
TLDR: Your "draw thread" belongs in /r/, so post it there.
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Or I guess /wsr/ on the tiny minuscule chance that it's something normal and not "i wanna picture of my fursona raping sasuke's butthole" or whatever the fuck.
How do you go somewhere and start over with just a grand and no car
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you don't? that's too little money unless you have someone to stay with for a little while.
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>>17354790
You dont really. not comfortably.
are you willing to be uncomfortable and do things you shouldnt, potentially illegal thigns?
than hitch-hike to a city with good public transit, find a really really cheap sublet, pay first and last up front, and get a job by the end of the first month.
let old men suck your dick for an extra 100 to 150 a pop
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>>17354790
Realistically? Save up a bit more money, line up a job in advance, then take a bus/train to the city you want to start over in. Otherwise you are just going to end up on the streets because 1 grand isn't shit.
Couple days ago, not a best friend i only knew her for around a year but as each day goes in im finding myself remembering more and more of our conversations.
I mean we wernt romantically involved i always told her aswell im not looking, (mostly without being horrible because i just wasnt attracted). But as the year went on our friendship was growing and i teased her a lot more than she teased me but it was fun bantz.
I do find myself analysing now and really hoping i didnt hurt her feelings, she was really innocent and had a lovely personality, i am feeling guilty, she was young and didnt deserve this plus ive never lost anyone close to me this is a weird feeling
She was really supportive to me when i told her stuff and she had arguments with others in store but she always came to me and asked me when i was going on break so we could go together
I think whats getting to me is i thought a lot more people would be upset and responsive about her death specially on social media but they're not, bar her family but i feel like a lot of people judged her on her looks but she was such a beautiful person, so sincere and youthfully happy go lucky
I am sad but im scared im going to spiral, i cant talk to work colleagues because they never took time to get to know her like me, why are people so cruel?
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are you going to the funeral? can you get in touch with the family? you should grieve with them.
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this. you have my condolences, OP.
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>>17355128
No I dont have connection with family. I did talk to one friend who was distraught, she was pretty cool. Other than that people at work just seem to be like "its sad" and carry on normal, theres no empathy.
I just wish i spoke to her more
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Getting randomly prank called by someone or people, two different numbers so far, called back and can't seem to get any information about the caller, I blocked the first number...what do?
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Simply Post the Numbers here. haha
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But I don't know who the person/people are yet, so I wouldn't want to give away information about my self.
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>work in an apartment-turned office
>owner of company is nice enough to keep fridge stocked with some basic groceries, including cases of bottled water
>however, this is obviously a courtesy
>I drink a LOT of water
>we're going through a case of 24 a day at some point (office of eight people in total)
>they know I'm the one who drinks the most water
Could I get in trouble or ruin it for everyone else or something?
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USE THE FUCKING TAP
WHY ARE YOU GETTING A NEW BOTTLE OF WATER EVERY TIME
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>>17354775
A valid answer would be "we're on a fucking well, cunt." Anything else and he's the cunt.
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>>17354758
if ur concerned about it bring your own water. if thats too expensive well NOW YOU KNOW HOW THE COMPANY FEELS.
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Would a business degree in finance be good? I'm a 21 year old university student who didn't get into a computer science program last semester. I honestly just wanted it because I'm a nerdy weeaboo who wanted to never let go of games.
I have zero social/work experience, I have no friends, and I'm probably stuck in some delusion. My mother will never kick me out or force me to get a job because she had to work 2 jobs while going to school, and she doesn't want her kids to do the same.
I think my mother has accepted, or doesn't want to accept the fact that I'm a worthless loser. Would a business degree in finance be good? I don't have any special attachment to it, but I feel like a degree in finance can be used in a multitude of places. What can I do to prepare myself to leave home immediately after graduation(15ish months from now)? At this rate, my mother will let me live the life of a NEET and I don't want to burden her anymore.
Things I've started doing:
- Scheduling a week ahead of time in hour blocks that can be moved.
- Limited video game/anime time extremely.
- Started exercising/working on hygiene.
- Started reading on necessary life skills.
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20ish months from now*
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>>17354746
My main worry is if I'll actually be able to find a job*
Sorry about my unclear writing.
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>>17354746
I love these tight japanese streets. I wanna go to japan.
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Don't know what to do about two girls 2016-07-14 01:04:32 Post No.17354741
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Don't know what to do about two girls
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Okay so long story short, there is one girl who I met a few months ago, she was cool and we clicked really well. The problem was distance, so we didnt get to hang out very much. But we still talked a lot via text. The last time we hung out, she was being a little bit flirty, laughing at all my jokes, asked for my jacket, mentioned how I should take her to this one restaurant sometime. Cool, seems like she's interested. Then she left for Australia for 2 months. We still talked, it was just hard because of timezones. I haven't messaged her in 2 weeks, but she's coming back in 2 weeks. I'm sure we'll probably hang out with each other through mutual friends, but should I call it quits if she doesn't message me back when she comes back to the states?
Other girl, I've hooked up with her before a year ago, we stopped talking and then randomly bumped into her at a party. We started talking and she's like cool in similarities department and pretty hot, but she's kind of clingey and clinginess annoys me. A while ago she messaged me and said how we should hang out when she's back and then got into flirty territory. Cool, she's dtf and maybe go somewhere.
So bottom line, two girls, one I'm pretty into, not sure if she's into me anymore, and then there is this one girl who I can tell I'm probably not going to get too far in a relationship with. What do.
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>That was neato
I needed this.
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So what do non-white people do after sex?
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>>17355825
try to escape before the cops show up
I feel stuck and I'm not sure what to do at this point in my life.
I'm 23 years old. Almost 24. I still live with my parents. I would like to move out. I don't make enough money currently to move out. I currently work a part time job at a retail pet store that I'm just completely bored of. I want a new job that makes more money so I can move out and eventually go through school.
I sometimes suffer from bouts of depression but for the most part have it under control. I haven't done so well through community college thus far because of lack of interest/motivation. This past semester I failed my 2 classes I was taking because I got depressed from a break up that happened mid semester.
I live in Houston Texas. It's very hot and I can't use the AC in my room during the day because a breaker will flip and turn it off anyway. So I'm miserable when I'm at home during the day.
Basically I think it all comes down to money. If I could get enough to move out and put myself through school then I think I would be happier. I just really hate my current job and don't know what options I have when all I have is a high school diploma and a few college credits.
Then tgeres the whole social aspect of life where I have friends but sometimes I feel like unless I'm the one to contact them first then we would never talk or hang out and I only really have like 5 people I hang out with and I only really get to hang out with friends once every two weeks if I'm lucky. It makes me feel lonely and depressed sometimes.
What should I do? What job should I go for? How do I get better at talking to people? Make more friends?
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You any good with computers?
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>>17354928
Somewhat. Why?
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>>17354699
Well, if you wanna get better with talking to people, you gotta just do it. Go out there and talk to people. Go to a party or something. Find a connection between you and someone else so you have something to talk about. I highly recommend watching sports so you have something to talk about.