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Well I don't find her attractive.

Do you?

>>17357410
She might've been fuckable 250lbs ago.

>>17357410
I'm sure a black guy would bang it.

which city do you want to move to?

BETTER SIT ON MY PARENTS COMPUTER AND USE THEIR INTERNET TO FROGPOST ON 4CHAN!

>>17357406
kek

>>17357352

>save up money
>make friends in the area you are planning to go
>Ask to stay with them for a bit
>Go

theres a thousand ways to do it.

>>17357357

also, credit cards, credit accounts, etc.

take out as much as you can. then wait a few months so that your credit limit gets raised. then move.

>>17357359
So just buy a ghetto apartment off credit and work my ever loving cock off

>>17357334

not necessarilly 'normal' but its not wrong or anything. it depends on why.

pain? kinda normal, especially iwth an inexperienced or not very thoughtful guy.

>>17357334
Anything's normal the first time. You've literally never done it before.

No. You dun fucked up big time, quite literally.
Stop being bad.

On a serious note, first time isn't supposed to be good, but it isn't supposed to hurt a fuckton/much at all if you do it properly.

>>17357305

im not sure of any cross reactions. dont the shrooms effect your kidneys / liver?

>>17357305
ayyy
im on the same boat here senpai on my third month
and no
im pretty sure you'll be good
i mean of course depending on the mushroom you intake, but i dont think most psychoactive nor organic ingredients interfere with the treatment
i think the only risk generally comes from shit that takes a toll on ur liver (eg. alcohol) but even then, doing it once wouldn't hurt

>>17357326

I took it but only for two months. thankfully i didnt need any more than that.

>>17357301

you arent either.

she asked the same question and instead of volunteering anything you said 'not a lot'.

you are both just giving non responses and expecting the other to open up for you.

my general conversation, wherein lets say that green text is the person im messaging

whats up?
>not much, you?
just got off work, gotta go to the gym, then a relaxing night of editing ahead of me. What you got going on today?

see how that works? they didnt have to volunteer anything. i did. now if they just say
>cool, not much, just bored.

then you can get mad at them, cuz they clearly do not care. but usually they say
>oh cool, where do you work?
>also, editing?
>idk i was gonna go do XX or YY but my friends being a dickballs and wont answer my texts

to which id say
>i manage an office for a psychic. not as fun as it sounds, mostly just paperwork, but its really rewarding work. i edit videos in my spare time. that sucks about your friends, any chances of going alone?

and so on.

but if you are actually putting yourself out there and they arent saying anything, then go ahead and justd stop talking cuz they clearly arent interested.

>>17357301
But you're also not giving her any information to reply to.

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>>17357316

>just got off work, gotta go to the gym, then a relaxing night of editing ahead of me. What you got going on today?

I sent her this sentence just to see what I'm missing out on


her response is


>Been to the gym now just relaxing :)


I mean what the fuck am I supposed to do with that. Why do women give you their fucking numbers if they're just going to dismiss you the second you try to wedge yourself through the door that is a fucking human conversation.

sorry for stupid english
Russian fag that was drinking at dinner with my mom here

>>17357284
i mean as a person that also wants to get their shit on track
i think the only real option is pretty simple
u stop thinking about it, planning it etc and just
go and do it
answer is
you dont REALLY want to step out of ur comfort zone and change
you just know that you should change and you feel bad about being the way you are
but LOGICALLY
if your life is heading into the ditch and you know this and WANT change, you will change
but you don't REALLY want to
because staying in ur comfort zone and smoking that
G A N J A
A
N
J
A
is a lot easier

>>17357284
'get an accountabilibuddy.

someone who is also on the road of self improvement that helps hold you accountable.

get together and make lists. long term, mid term, short term goals. create monthly lists on how to advance those. meet twice a month to simply cross things off the list and reward yourselves for good work.

According to the patterns I've been taught, I should be picking up some sad mop with no self-esteem for a wife, who'll do all the work for me in hopes of gaining any worth and value for herself. This is unacceptable and shitty.

A sane, reasonable solution would be to go to a psychiatrist, but I am yet to convince a psychiatrist that I am actually male, and can't afford to give him anything sparkly as a distraction.

I don't really believe my family considers any of their remarks actively harmful, they just don't realise it's easy to put two and two together and understand the joint message going "we understand and accept your choice to become a stupid evil destructive inherently narcissistic ape".

I believe it's their doing that I'm afraid of going into explicitly masculine or exclusively male spaces, out of fear that they'll smell something's off and tear me to fucking shreds and eat the remaining pieces that they can't fuck.

Stop posting. Take it to /lgbt/, we can see through the bullshit here.

>>17357273
>mother dies
>thinks she'll be fine 4 months later
it depends on the person but idk man thats normal for her to go ape shit over
its widely accepted for her to get depressed and be emotionally disrupt, but the problem lies in the fact that sometimes people take it too far, grief is acceptable, but this is taking it a bit too far.
Now you need to conclude if she has
A) lost her mind
B) taking this shit too far and going full self-pity oo boo hoo :-((( (this is fine for a certain period of time, but not when it gets to a point where u neglect your partner because of it and get basically selfish)

>>17357273
YOu should become a better person. She isn't doing anything wrong at all. Good grief. It took me over a year to stop acting depressed when my mom died whe I was a child. Then for years I'd still cry at the mention Of a mother. It's normal. You need to seriously learn to be a nicer person.

Now what I say might be long shot, so feel free to dump it all in the trash but my guess is...

she had some serious fucked relationship with her mother. She might had narcistic mother, what indicates that beside her long mourning? This:
>Before this happened she was the most amazing woman I've ever met. She let me do whatever I wanted and if I was playing video games or something she'd get all sexual and pleasure me as I played. Just always was doing something for me.

She was doing everything to make you feel happy with her, because she had no self worth beside what people tell her. She was conditioned by her mother to feel worthless and was never good enough.

You can read it on it. Read about narcistic parent.

Well this fuckers get children because they can manipulate children and completly depend (addict) their children from themslves. They brainwash their children to make children think that without them (parent) the world will fall apart and lost all meaning. Also children is conditioned to always pleasure their parent.

So long story short, it might be that her mother was narcistic and completly addicted her daughter from her. You girlfriend world was build around her mother and while it's a hell of a life and she would have to overcome this later in life or be miserable all the time, her mother died and whole life of your girlfriend crumbled.

I'd be inclined to see if white vinegar works before trying bleach.

Resist the urge to use steel wool. It will indeed get rid of the stuff, but it'll scratch the hell out of the tub, and that's not just an aesthetic problem. Mold and mildew and crap thrive in those small scratches, and so the problem will actually come back faster and worse than before.

>>17357266
Baking soda. You need a soft abrasive to scrub that shit off with

>>17357266
Baking soda or salt and a scrub brush.

>>17357252
Try anal

lube it.

>>17357252
What is your height and weight?
Its important to relax. And by relax i dont mean you think about being relaxed, no you stop being tense, you stop thinking about it not fitting and you actually loosen up. Make the foreplay very long, use lube, use the right position (doggy maybe?) and again, get relaxed, when everything down there is tight it will not work, especially for your first time

i dunno i think they give you a cookie or something so you don't have low blood sugar but i would ask them.

It isn't advised. It probably won't kill you but you won't feel very energetic

>>17357217
Blood carries oxygen to the muscles. You donate blood, your ability to move oxygen to the muscles will be diminished.
For high intensity, short bursts (anaerobic exercise), your muscles will still have their strength, but the ability to perform the regular amount of reps will probably be lessened.

As far as cardio goes, that's an aerobic exercise, so your ability to run distances will be shot, and you might pass out if you push yourself too hard.

I'm not a doctor, I just took a bio class. So I could be entirely wrong, but in my mind this is a possibility. Some common sense advice would be to take it slow and decrease reps/weight.

Don't go for it. Not worth it OP

>>17357169
Devalue her. Make her feel like shit. Bitch might come around that she needs to use her pussy to come up to your level. Always see her as a side option

>>17357169
k.

Yes you definitely should. Don't like her on OKCupid though, talk to her in person. You are much more likely to get in her pants if you approach her directly

Tell her you love her long time

>>17357175
This so much. Use okc to probe info, but real life to talk. While bitches wouldnt hesitate to skip you online will give you the time of day online for having the nuts to approach her. Plus, its on the spot instead of giving her time to think. Irl is just better

get off the drugs and get help. dont start looking for love before you at least start getting treatment.
nobody wants to fuck a degenerate.
after you get mentally stable work on getting your life in order.
>after your well put together getting dick and pussy is super easy

>>17357159

I'm kinda getting help. I mean I'm on medication for the insanity and I'm kinda in treatment for everything else.

I'm going to quit the drugs soon. I already quit heroin a few weeks ago, and that was a 7 year addiction.

as far as getting my life in order

I'm bipolar 1 with serious psychosis on the side. I've been described as schizoaffective before but I don't think that was a serious diagnonsense. Anyway, I'm literally crippled by my mind a lot of the time and it's going to take months for my medication to start working. EVen the mood stabilizers.

how is it easy? What do I do? I literally have no idea.

>>17357180
its not going to be easy, just hold off on relationships until youre stable because its just going to exacerbate your mental state and cause unnecessary and even ruin potential hook ups.
first
>join support groups
then
>go back to school or get a job
you gotta get used to being part of mainstream society and functioning well in room with other people and responding well to social interaction,
youll have to be patient