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is this an ok to handle a situation with an Ex?
>broke up with a girl almost a year ago
>over the past year sleep at her house and hook up a couple of times
> end up sperging out a few times and telling her my feels
>realize my mistake and cut contact for a few months
>flash forward a couple of months and shes cutting my hair, feels have died down and now just want to end on a good note ( we are both moving soon)
>she says we should hang out soon, I brush it off because I truly don't believe she'll hit me up
she doesn't so no fucks given
> find out that she was with some lesser male that fawns over her from a mutual friend, makes me feel good about myself
>meet some random girl at work, end up fucking
>the same night (a couple of nights ago) she follows me on instagram (she unfollowed me after the breakup) at two in the morning
> message her two days later, "lmao 2 am follows"
>she replies, " LmfAo guilty"
>dont reply for a day
>just sent her, "its funny to know you still think of me after a few drinks"
should I have just left it with the first message? I haven't followed her back yet but she made her account public again since she followed me
>tl;dr ex from a year ago followed me on insta after I stopped giving her attention, was my reaction beta
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shameless self bump
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>>17363551
Why do you stay in contact with her? Why did you break up with her?
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I found a phone near the park and am trying to return it to it's rightful owner (since I'm a Muslim, it would be wrong to steal this device or anything else). It is locked and has no ICE contacts, smudges won't help to unlock it. I tried calling CRICKET who sent me to the manufacturer (KYOCERA) but they won't take a call because it's the weekend.
Other than waiting for someone to call, what can I do? I see they had their facebook open but nothing will be accessed without unlocking it. I'm bad with technology.
If this is any of y'all's phone, please say around where you lost it and what it was in. God bless.
Pic related, it is said phone.
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If someone can tell me the model of the phone it might help too.
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Where did you find it? If it was in a store premises, I'd give it to the store so the person could retrace their steps and find it. Or wait for someone to call I suppose. Also I'm not Muslim but I'd return the phone because I'm a decent human being
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>>17363528
Near a public park, and I thought I would be able to get into contacts after I charged it but then I saw it was locked.
I'm just being cheeky about the Muslim thing.
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How do i build up my tolerance to alcohol,i feel like on parties i'm always the first one to get drunk. Does anyone have tips or advices?
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Don't bother, it's a slippery slope. I now need to drink 15 beer to feel like I'm 'drunk', and usually drink more. It's expensive and bad for you. Celebrate that you can feel drunk with minimum damage to your wallet and organs
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>>17363511
This, if you get drunk too early then start drinking a bit after everyone else or drink slower.
Why is this a problem though?
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1) Drink more often (not recommended)
2) Eat something before hand and while you're drinking (slow down how quickly it's absorbed)
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A female 'friend' of mine back stabbed me a few weeks ago and it caused me to fuck up and hurt this girl I was dating. I only found out she back stabbed me a week later. I want to send the girl I was dating an apology text but I want it to be sincere. Can you give me tips on how the text should look?
>"X, I hope this message reaches you. There's something important I need to tell you but never got the chance to."
>*Explain how female 'friend' back stabbed me*
>*Show screenshot evidence*
>*Explain how I fucked up and what was going on through my mind at the time*
>"I should've done y or z in the situation which would've been better, but instead I made a poor judgement. I'm sorry."
>"This situation hurt you a lot, and I want to make it up to you somehow. If you do want to slowly restart things or you have questions then let me know. Anyways I hope you're doing well. Happy Birthday in 4 days."
On the last line I was thinking of changing "this situation hurt you a lot" to "I hurt you a lot". I'm unsure about the whole "hope you're doing well" and "happy birthday" bit, it's been a while since we last spoke which is why I added it in. Should I explain how I want to make it up to her, or should that wait for now? Femanon advice would be very nice.
I know, I know asking for texting advice on a Mongolian basket-weaving forum is autistic.
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We don't know what happened. Also minimal things like changing some words in your sentence won't change the outcome one way or the other. For what it's worth, put I hurt you though
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>>17363533
In fast-forward.
>there was something that I supposed to keep a secret.
>end up telling the female 'friend' of mine as we were close at the time and she has kept her promise keeping secrets before.
>I thought I could trust her
>but she goes and tells loads of people about the secret.
>Girl I was dating thinks I was the one that told all those people.
I should't have told that girl which is where I fucked up.
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>>17363601
>breaks promise
>wonders why girl doesn't want anything to do with you anymore
Just leave her alone, you've done enough damage
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I bought a headset but it's too tight for my head, can I do anything tomake it squeeze less?
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>>17363447
Bend them a little.
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>>17363451
I left them spread wide on a box overnight, didn't help
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Switch sizes of head
Just got so desperate for weed I started scraping the black kief shit off my grinder
How do I smoke this without a pipe
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>>17363413
Killing yourself would be a good start, degenerate.
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>>17363421
That's the second part of my day
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>>17363450
Make it the first, then.
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here is my predicament I have to go to a cookout at around 5:30-6, I haven't eaten anything all day, I usually have a routine of drinking 7-10 beers a night I get started around 7pm my question is how long should I wait after eating to begin drinking so that I can still get a good buzz....I don't want to waste beer by not catching a buzz......also I don't want to look like an alcoholic by saying "i cant eat because im drinking later".....any advice?
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>>17363400
>I usually have a routine of drinking 7-10 beers a night
Is this normal? I thought "normal" regular drinking was like no more than one drink a night, like a glass of wine with dinner or something.
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>>17363409
It's normal to me and my unique position... not sure how other enjoy there evenings
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>>17363400
>here is my predicament I have to go to a cookout at around 5:30-6, I haven't eaten anything all day, I usually have a routine of drinking 7-10 beers a night I get started around 7pm my question is how long should I wait after eating to begin drinking so that I can still get a good buzz
thats not normal, sounds like you are an alcoholic
when you get to the point where you are thinking about the ramifications of refusing food at a party cause you want to guzzle another 5-6 beers you need to stop
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when is it too late to start over?
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>>17363398
It's never too late, just press the continue button, and you'll continue to play Mario!
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>>17363398
Ray Kroc started over at 52 and died a multi-gazillionaire, so clearly that is not too late.
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>>17363401
But I'm Luigi.
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Is anyone here two-faced?
Is it normal to secretly dislike most people, but pretend to like everyone?
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>>17363347
Yes. I'm a bubbly ball of obnoxiously nice fun and sunshine at work/in social situations. At home, I'm a cynical twat who rants about people and things like some old codger.
Only my girlfriend knows about it, because she lives with me. If anyone else knew what a shithead I am on the inside, they'd be stunned.
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>>17363356
Same as me exactly, why are we like this ? Why can't I drop the act ?
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you guys ENJOY being around people. its just another need humans have. food. sleep. human interaction
but you general dislike things because of other things in your life. im the same way
>life of the party. dudes and chicks all around loving my company
>this one time i was in line at a walmart and some random dude turned around right into my "fuck off" face. actually put down his items and run out of the store
life.
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guys I don't even know what search terms to use to look up information about something my brother just told me (pic not really related)
He says he just shit out an Australian quarter, and he hasn't been to Australia since 6 years ago
so what the hell could this mean? was it stuck to his intestine walls? did it tear a hole when exiting? why would he shit it out now?
WHAT DOES IT MEAN?
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>>17363331
It means your brother is either an idiot who ate a quarter, or an idiot that shoved one up his own ass.
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>>17363337
he was there for some girl, who knows what kinky shit they did together
I'll give him one thing it's never a dull moment around him
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>>17363353
She forced him to smuggle drugs money in his intestines, he just doesn't want to confess.
Girl I like became single recently. We got talking again and she was complaining about people wanting to get with her, she's getting over a recent split etc. She said she appreciates me giving her space and not bugging her, so he wasn't hinting at me being a bother.
Liked this girl for a number of years but always missed out due to her being in relationships. Now we are hanging out again and she is single it was starting to look good. She's naturally flirty and would flirt with everyone in a group of friends but I felt like she was particularly interested in one guy specifically but it wasn't mad obvious because the flirting was all round.
So now I'm kind of feeling like, do I just drop her and don't waste any more time if it looks like she's interested in someone already, or is the thing to do to persevere and win her over?
How do people even get into relationships anyway? Whoever I've been interested in always seems to be in a relationship already or has a fuck load of orbiters. Do you just befriend heaps of girls and make movements when any of them become single or what? Because to me it seems if they are hanging out with other guys they will develop bonds and have a big advantage over me when I come along.
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>persevere and win her over
Stopped reading there. Ask her out. If she says no, move on and don't look back. In all likelihood, she's not gonna go out with you ever.
If she gives some bullshit excuse like "I just want to be alone for a while," then consider giving up there. I guarantee when the next Chad comes into her life she'll forget all about wanting to be alone.
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>>17363329
This.
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You're pretty much a beta orbiter. If she liked you/was interested, she'd be on your dick already.
Hello /adv/
I'm 25 y.o with no degree after I droped out of 3 (psycho, japanese, english studies) it just seems university is not for me.
Today I spend most of my time behind my computer (reddit, twitter, fb, 4chan, videogames) I learn nothing basically.
I still have my part time job in a restaurant where I work one day a week, and I sometime stream on twitch but my total incomes barely hit 1000~ (and on that I spend like 800/900 every month wether it is for food, electricity, bills etc)
I have no driving licence as I live in a big city that has tramways.
I scarcely do my loundry or my dishies, as soon as I have time I sit at my desk and spend my time doing nothing, but I'm pretty sure there is no glue on the chair of my desk.
My flat is 20m2 and it depresses me. I'm in a relationship and we sleep together everynight but at daytime we are in our respective's flat playing video games or just chatting.
It seems I've no ambition, no motivation, I just take life for granted.
I would like you guys give me advice on how to get motivated, day to day hacks, experiences anything.. feedbacks I don't care I just need... To hear something..
Ps : 25 yo / girl / France
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Welcome to real life.
You just asked the one million dollar question.
I wish I could help you, but I'm the same situation. I've got literally no motivation to do anything, especially after having moved out to Australia and Japan for a while. At least for me, it didn't change anything. Now I'm back home, trying to do a master's degree in a super shitty city, but I'm basically postponing my problems I guess.
26 / male / Italy
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>>17363352
Never thought you guys would have problems, considering how beautiful your countries are (from ads and tours, anyway).
Anyway, my problem is that I'm a NEET that really tried to get into college, but I flunked completely. In the end, it was a mess. Now I'm stuck trying to apply for jobs, only to find out they never want to hire me. I did resumes, apps upon apps, and never got anywhere. I feel my one year of college experience won't get me anywhere. I even tried applying for janitorial work, petsitting duties, retail, and even serving.
Then again, this is what I get for living in a state with the most population, the densest heat, ultimate droughts, and fucking terrible living expenses.
In short, how did you guys get anywhere? As I assume Italy over there had a job or two.
20 / M / USA
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>>17363302
I feel you, OP.
I'm here in the same old little town with no future and no opportunities. Everyday i wish i could escape this situation, and I WILL. Going abroad, I guess.
I keep a little note with a list of things I'd like to do at least once in my life. It gives me the hope and motivation to go on. Why dont you try, too?
I hug you from the distance.
You have skills and qualities, find them, let them grow, and learn to accept your flaws, but dont let them limit you.
You can do it.
We all can.
I wish you a GREAT day.
24/ F /Italy
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At what point does independence become failure? Or does it not? I'm 24.
I like to do a lot of things on my own, not because I'm anti-social but because my interests are not within the interests of my friends.
I go to movies alone, I take road trips alone. I walk around the city alone, I go to music festivals alone. I haven't had a girlfriend in years, but I do have friends who are both guys and girls. Should I trade independent solitude for actually enjoying things my friends love so I'm always doing things on my own?
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Independence is never failure.
There is no reason you cannot have 2 groups of friends. Share your time equally between (1) the friends you have already and love, and (2) perhaps find one or two new friends who enjoy the same things as you. There are many ways to find local platonic friends online.
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Being lonely and being alone are two separate things dude. If you're happy as you are then you can stay there. Personal comfort and contentment is what a lot of people would kill for. I'm younger than you but I don't think I would trade my solitude away again. Tried hanging out with a few people but really my hobbies are not ones i can really share that easily and I'm ok with that. Friends are cool every now and then but I think they are highly overrated. You sound like a pretty successful individual to me
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>>17363358
I am happy most of the time. I love doing it. But sometimes I see other people who are having fun in groups and I wonder if I should be doing that too. I travel to all these places and photograph weird shit, or explore and hear new things, but at the end of the day I have nobody to share these things with. I make social media posts which attract some attention, but other than that I just have all this stuff that nobody else is aware of.
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Hey guys, so I'm in a very serious hetero relationship with a girl. We have always been honest with eachother and open about our feelings and overall it is a very healthy relationship. A few days ago, she asked what I would think of having a threesome with another girl (she doesn't want another guy.)
Obviously I feel good about her not wanting another guy, but is it bad that I am still uncomfortable with the thought of her having sex with another woman, even when I will be present and participating? I feel like I would get too jealous, but I don't know. Has anyone dealt with a similar situation?
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>>17363260
She's shittesting you. Don't fall for her b8, m8.
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>>17363260
Probably best to just say you're only into her. If she's really insistent it's a huge fantasy of hers and not doing so is a dealbreaker, reconsider. It's just better not to go here, though.
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>>17363281
Are threesomes really as destructive to relationships as some people say?
All right here's the deal. On Friday evening I placed an order for some sprouting seeds for my germinator over Ebay. The sprouts cost about 1£ and shipping also 1£. All of a sudden I remembered I dont have any money until Monday (silly me, I know) and I cant reach my bank until Monday morning. Ebay already started sending me warnings to 'Pay now!' and the god damn hippy seller from Pissingham, England doesnt answer my 'Listen m8, I'm a bit skimmed until Monday' message at all.
Should I be afraid of Ebays wraith of Jew policy or just wait until Monday?
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>>17363254
You are stupid. This is a non issue.
You can pay whenever the fuck you want. Unless the seller directly tells you he wants to end the transaction, nothing is going to happen. The seller isn't going to send until he gets money.
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>>17363262
Yes we already concluded that I acted without foresight.
So I shouldnt give a fuck at all?
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>>17363273
The worst thing that will happen is he gives you negative feedback, but that won't happen. I've had sells where faggots like you take over a week to pay.