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So you want to take more than six fucking years to graduate with an English major? Jesus

As an English major your either going to have to write a best selling book and doing freelance stuff in the meantime. Or you'll have to be an English teacher, which means you'll have to get a teaching certification which is even more time for you to waste. If your miserable with a finance degree now, you'll be pretty fucking miserable doing it for 40 hours a week, but If you've lasted this long are you sure your not depressed or something to suddenly become disinterested. If you have the money and the time for more college work then keep going and "follow your passion", meme or not. But how do you know that you won't change your major again and end up wasting more time?

You've been privileged to attend college and you're going to waste it on a worthless degree?

From this point on, if you ever have to depend on anyone else for financial help because of your pathetic English degree then you're a huge faggot

>>17364256
ive not had good experiences with ssris

It does not seem that way to those of us who aren't suffering from a severe mental illness.

>>17364260
Do tell.

>>17364261
I'm suffering from a severe mental illness.

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>>17364245
>underage being underage

>>17364691
I'm actually 23 lol

>>17364818
Shit man, time to go out into the world.

>>17364243
push yourself through the two weeks, look for a job at the same time

fuck the resume


everyone hates me and im still here

adopt the mentality of "they are wrong i am right"

Some jobs just don't work out. It happens. If it ever comes up in a future interview, which it probably wont unless they do the old question 'why did you leave your last job?', just say it wasn't a good fit for you or something.

I'm pretty sure they legally have to pay you hours worked.

Depends on the job if it matters.
They have to pay you for any hour you work

>>17364183
Separate cell phone.

If she's dumb and somehow you can't figure this out on you're going to get caught you retard.

You are scum

Don't settle just because you're "in love" there are a lot of women out there.

>>17364146
Nothing like taking my wife's son to the movies.

>>17364547
So should I just ignore it for now?
Before she asked me about accepting her kids, she found out that if she left this guy and got with someone other then me we'd never be a thing.

>>17364129

You don't stay with someone who lies to your goddamn face for 8 years.

>marriage
>children
>cheating bitches

you fucked up man. teach your kids and "your kids" not to fuck around with cheating whores

>>17364129
aww Fucking man , having to kill your youngest is gonna be tough but it will get better. Leave that bitch for sure tho.

>>17364078
seek help if it gets severe to the point where you contemplate suicide

dont go on ssris because they make you feel even shittier

I used to get that when I was younger. I thought the term 'broken heart' was just a cliche'd phrase until one time I woke up after realizing the person I loved didn't feel the same, and my chest felt empty and cold. I could actually feel the contrast in a hot shower. You'll be ok

It's depression. You should see a therapist

Don't take her for granted and keep it interesting.

What kind of things did you do with them?

How would we know what you're doing wrong?

If you want to find out ask your exes. Contact them and tell them that you want to figure out what you're doing wrong and ask them to tell you why they left.

If you haven't done anything wrong then why is she? Did she just lose feelings? Maybe it's just you, if this has already happened with 4 different girls.

just do it.

Yes, you should.

You can message her first if her privacy settings allow it, my friend. ;)

Play it cool. Maybe she'll even add YOU.

exercise works best for me.

if anyone could answer this for me i'd be grateful, im trying to use it as a push

http://www.strawpoll.me/10675596/

>>17363940
You've got it backwards, OP. You have guts in spades. They have kept you alive despite your condition telling you nigh-obsessively that you want to die: a point on which you and your disease disagree. You want to live. You want it so badly that your condition cannot overcome it. And so you are alive today, no matter how desperate the situation seems.

Remember that. Your brain is running a rogue program, and it, not you, is telling you that you want to die. It lies. Your question shouldn't be how to kill yourself, but how to kill the urge.

To give you the most informed advice, you should post more pictures of that GILF.

>>17363891
>Can she compel me to take a paternity test?
No, but a court can, and if you refuse, they can presume that you indeed are the father.

in America you can't win in these situations lol. should've kept it in your pants

IF YOU COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS AND YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF AFTERWARDS THEN MY ANSWER IS:
Idk man. I have this running joke with my family and friends where occasionally I'll sarcastically throw in the fact that I'm flawless or better than everyone. It's gotten to the point where I started believing that I'm actually superior.
I don't (negatively) compare myself to others because that's fucking stupid. There are millions of people who are stronger, smarter, nicer, more attractive than you and I. But what exactly does sitting there, dwelling on how these people are better than I am change?Nothing. So get over it. You've probably got a mental disorder or two that causes you to compare yourself to others. There's not much that you can change about that except possibly taking medication.
Realize that nobody is perfect, and that everyone has problems. And that no matter when it is, how old you are, how great you look, how much money you have, you'll always have problems. So don't envy others just because they have something you don't. They have other problems that you very likely don't have nor will have to deal with.
Also keep in mind that you can't change your personality. You are, who you are. And you shouldn't really want to change like that anyway.

IF YOU COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS AND JUST FEEL BAD ABOUT DOING IT BECAUSE WHATEVER THEN MY ANSWER IS:
Who cares
Like honestly whatever.
Get over it.

>>17363828
>But what exactly does sitting there, dwelling on how these people are better than I am change?Nothing.
exactly. it doesn't change anything. other than the fact that other people know there is someone better out there. you know it, everyone knows it. no point in trying if you know everyone else is going to see you as the 2nd, 3rd etc.

>wasting time with roasties

>>17363652
>I've had pictures of other guys dicks sent to me and told me to "Go cry about it you fucking baby, I'll be fucking that"

Who else here /diamonds/?

Anyways OP, is this just one girl? Just dump her and move on for fuck's sake, she's clearly a psycho. There are decent women out there, but you have to leave your current crazy gf.

>>17363673
I'm fairly certain he was telling stories about different girls.

>>17363651
What about her sexual history bothers you?

How did you learn about her sexual history?

Why did you pry if you knew it would bother you?

>>17363668
>What about her sexual history bothers you?
Anything, she tells me she sucked a dick and it makes me feel sick. She tells me she had sex in doggy style and it makes me feel sick. None of it is good news to me or even no news, it just hurts.

>How did you learn about her sexual history?
We talk about it sometimes but I never let on that I care

>Why did you pry if you knew it would bother you?
Because it's a part of who she is and if I loved the girl why should to lie to myself about something that might be significant?

>>17363687
request that she doesn't talk about it anymore with you and try and forget about it

the past is the past and you DO love the current version of herself. Think of the cringeworthy shit you did when you were a teenager, etc. Would you want to be judged based on that? let it go