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I am still desperately in love with my ex, what do 2016-07-17 06:19:52 Post No.17365065
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I am still desperately in love with an ex. She moved cross country four years ago. She currently has a boyfriend but recently she has started sending me and my family ggifts, even a father's day card for my dad. She often texts me a hand drawn cartoon character we invented as a couple. Should I tell her how I feel? Is it appropriate considering she is in a relationship? Should I just be happy we have a good friendship and leave it at that???? Or do I profess my undying love and move to be with her?
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She's playing games. Cut her out of your life like the malignant tumor she is. If she loves you, she can come back to you.
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What the fuck is her problem? She seriously has issues if she's doing all that shit while having a boyfriend
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>>17365077
She sees my parents as family to her so the dynamic is a bit strange.
>>17365074
She might be but she seems very sincere. If she feels like we are "family" the things she does sort of make sense. I'm still confused about it tho
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Three months, still miss her so much
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3 months? Try 10 years
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8.5 months here, still suffering. Work more, faggot.
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6 months in for me, starting to forget about her now.
Still thinking of her every now and then and getting back together would be really cool but I think I'm subconsciously starting to realize that I have to move on.
Try to put your focus on yourself instead of her, peruse your interests and become a better person.
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Need some ideas quick. Already know not a movie. Please help me
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Age?
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>>17365062
Both of us are 18
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>>17365062
set down some poke lures and wait.
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I had a fight with my gf and I want your guys opinions if I overreacted
>Gf always calls me from her work on break
>Her male coworkers are always saying shit in the background to mess with her, cause she told them I'm easily made jealous
>Usually she ignores it
>2 or 3 times, they've said something and she starts giggling so much that she isn't paying attention to what I'm saying
>I feel like a cuck, sitting there while my gf takes a minute to calm down from laughing at other dudes joking/messing with her
>We talked about it tonight, I said I feel disrespected
>She says "you know I don't mean it in a bad way" and I say "If I had did that with you on the phone, would it be okay?" and she avoids the question
Now shes ignoring me. I don't think I was overly aggressive, i just said basically that I think its rude and I feel disrespected, I said I'd like for her to speak with me the way that she'd like me to speak with her. Am I wrong for being upset about this
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You've become a workroom joke essentially. She finds the scenario cute or funny. You're not wrong for being upset about it really, but it honestly isn't that big of a deal. Who gives a fuck about her coworkers
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Dump her, she's probably fucking and sucking those thirsty fucks as we speak.
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you're not wrong for being upset about this. but if she is going to be childish like this for some shit that obviously upsets you, you need to let her do her thing then. don't ever let someone who is supposed to care about you disrespect you.
speaking from experience, those guys don't care about your relationship and are not going to respect that and the fact that she is talking shit about you to them denotes a lack of respect she already had for you.
basically, let her ignore you. you do the same shit right back desu. only for good reason.
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Why do I fall in love with any woman who shows even the slightest amount of attention towards me?
It's not like I don't have experience with women. My longest relationship lasted almost 2 years. I don't think I have low self esteem since I take good care of myself and hold myself in high regard.
So why? Why does this keep happening to me? Am I just a hopeless romantic?
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If by
>hopeless romantic
you meant autistic, yes.
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>>17365042
it's not like I want it to keep happening, why the irony my friend?
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>>17365036
Desperation and no real foresight / perspective.
You're not actually in love, you're infatuated because you desperately want positive female attention and are therefore starved as a result. You should probably shift your mindset to something else and learn to live with yourself on your own, rather than jumping in with what sounds almost literally anyone. You're also probably fabricating signals in noise.
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>get told about a show by new friend
>enjoy show tell jokes people laugh everything is fine.
>after show new friend and her closer girlfriend make plans to do other stuff
>go outside to get hugged good bye
>waiting for urber to show up
>see them chatting it up waiting for their ride
>they walk off somewhere else and talk there
I feel a little bit excluded but I barely know this person so
Was I just totally beta?
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Beta about what?
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>>17365025
No? It's not beta to let two people who are clearly intimate with each other talk in private. This is kind of basic-to-mid-level socialization, bud.
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>>17365057
That's a relief. Thanks!
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I'm a retarded loser. 2016-07-17 05:58:27 Post No.17365013
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I'm 25, and have never had a girlfriend or asked a girl out. How do I approach women I don't know?
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>>17365013
you're too far gone, start digging your own grave.
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Nigga how do you not know how to talk to human beings after 25 years on this planet?
>Go up to woman
>Say hi
>Compliment her
>Give her your name, ask hers
>Ask her questions, and start a conversation
Cmon bruh
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>just b urself
Really you have to get to know them first. You don't just solicit strangers unless you're Fabio grade sexy or have enough money to compensate for all of your shortcomings. As far as how to get to know women... the wizard council has yet to figure that one out.
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I've reached a situation that seems so palpable I'm sure others have been there, as absurd as it is:
I have a rather taboo sexual interest, which I share with my best friend. Over the last few days I feel like tons of shit has gone down. My friend recently had the opportunity to act on this interest which he'd never done before, I'm learning many of the people I know through this friend also have experience or interest here, and I may have an opportunity to act on it for my first time too.
I'm a really sensitive guy. All this stuff hits me like a train; I'm super excited but super scared and uncertain. A lot of questions that are often on my mind anyway now require a confident answer: What kind of person am I? What defines a person- their actions or thoughts? What sort of person do I want to be? Can you choose? etc.
Anyone else been here? What did you do and what did you learn?
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What is this taboo sexual interest
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>>17365015
getting boned by a handsome g shep
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Is he introducing you into some pedo ring or something? What the fuck is your thread even talking about
Someone just called me a "gull" in a post, contextually it was completely uncalled for and the discussion had no connection to gulls.
What did he mean by this? Was it autocorrect or some weird slang?
Also if it's relevant at all, he said it because peacoats are my fetish
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Found the gull
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>>17365004
Im not a fucking gull. Puffins are my favorite sea bird.
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>>17364997
It means someone who frequents /cgl/
>/cgl/
>C-gul
>seagull
>gull
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psychometric pre-employment tests 2016-07-17 05:53:28 Post No.17364996
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psychometric pre-employment tests
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I have aspergers and for that reason I produce a slew of anomalous test results
I am concerned that blind pre-employment screening might discriminate against me because my results could easily be mis-interpreted, but that similarly refusing to participate would rule me out of contention (officially or unofficially).
the problem is worsened by declaring that I have aspergers, because I would be certain to be discriminated against
most people have no idea what aspergers is, confuse it with classic autism or their knowledge is limited to media stereotypes
an employer would google it, and I would be at the mercy of their ill informed personal projection of what aspergers is
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...Okay, so... what advice are you asking for, or are you just making 4chan a personal blog?
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Just take the test, align your retarded puzzles and hope for the best aspie
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>>17365002
I am looking for a solution that provides me with protection from unfair discrimination
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Ausfag in high school in need of career advice. Always on the edge of dropping out due to mental health shit. Always unmotivated and dead inside. Recently I had an epiphany and that I didn't have one career in mind, and that there were many things I wanted to do.
>visual arts (something i've loved throughout my whole life, i've always been drawing and painting)
>fashion
>perfumery
>make up
>baking
I'm interested in all of these and I'd love to have careers in all of them throughout my life. What do I do? Right now I haven't been to school for like a month. Is it necessary for what I want to do? Should I finish up school or should I start picking up certificates and apprenticeships?
Any suggestions would be helpful.
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>>visual arts (something i've loved throughout my whole life, i've always been drawing and painting)
>>fashion
>>perfumery
>>make up
Good fucking luck. These shouldn't be career plans if you've got bills to pay. Hobbies sure, then you can turn them into a career if you get lucky.
>>baking
Culinary schools will expect a high school diploma or similar, but a small time baker only needs to know how to bake.
Stay in school m8.
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Finish school. You're not going to get anywhere in life without your high school degree, people will look down you, treat you like a retard, etc. You're not even far behind, you can easily catch up and pass with ease.
Unless you're part of the 1%, you're going to have to do hard work to get far in your life. This means that you have to start studying for your classes, doing the assigned work, and making sure that you do well. You can't let your personal feelings jeopardize your future. I didn't show up to High School my entire final year and didn't do any study at all, and I did fine; but that probably won't be your case.
Your pathway to whatever your final goal is, will be pretty varied; but it all starts with finishing High School.
Of all the things you mentioned, Fashion and Perfumery are probably the only viable options of them all, and even then they're extremely hard to get into, and will require an insane amount of luck. I'm friends with a girl who studied fashion at RMIT, got places on runways all around Oceania, but then couldn't break into the international market and got stonewalled.
Surely there are some subjects in High School that you find fun or interesting? Go talk to a careers adviser, whether it's at a University or in your High School.
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>>17364985
DO NOT GO TO UNI, IT WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE. It's difficult and crazy stressful for people who are 100% mentally stable, it will not treat you kindly. just learn skills and crafts, make yourself a useful person. Also, deal drugs, it makes a lot of money.
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am i or my girlfriend wrong? 2016-07-17 05:36:45 Post No.17364961
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am i or my girlfriend wrong?
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so, I really need your opinions, me and my gf have been dating for about a year a few months now, and I need some opinions on things. My gf says im too protective and manipulative, but i dont think i am. Shes starting to make me feel like im manipulating her and shes making me feel like shit for saying how i feel. for instance, heres a scenario thats happening now
>me and gf chilling at my house, midnight, shes exhausted and is barely staying awake
>she was supposed to go over some guys hose at 11 to study
>not really okay with this, but i trust her and i dont make a fuss about it
>i tell her to just go home since shes so tired and she has work tommorow, shes also been working 6 days a week, so i was trying to tell her she needs her sleep
>she says shes gonna go home and go to bed
>she gets home, tells me shes going over this guys house to study and all
>i say no, you need your sleep (we had a similar sitiatuion to this a few months ago where i was pulling long hours at work and she told me to stay home a few nights and i did) so i didnt think this would go much differently
>she says she needs to get this work done, but shell leave in an hour and message me while shes there
>an hour goes by, no message
>call her to see if shes okay
>gets upset with me, tells me she needs to get this assigment done
Weve had stuff like this happen before, where she wants to do something stupid and i tell her she shouldnt or i just flat out tell her no , like one time she wanted to get trashed and go to another city to see some concert, which i said no to. am i being overprotective here? Im just trying to look out for her, shes awful at taking care of herself and i want to try and help her. im not trying to be controlling, i just trying to care for her. she does similar things to me too, and i listen to her, but when i do it back to her she always says im acting controlling or manipulative, and its tearing me apart. I dont think im controlling or anything, pic not related
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shes just twisting my brain around, she makes me feel like shit for getting upset at things like this. i dont think shes manipulative, but i dont know. i just need some opinions here on what you all think. you guys normally set me straight on these kinds of things.
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Who the fuck studies at midnight? The only thing she's been studying is that guy's anatomy m8. Girls these days have figured out that they can make guys keep their suspicions to themselves or get rid often completely by trying to turn things around and make you out to be a 'jealous' boyfriend, or emotionally abusuve etc. Her story is suspicious as fuck, and any sane man that cares about someone would also have concerns
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>9
thats what im really worred about man, i think it was more to do some assigments or something, and her and this guy have the same class.but i told her to not go several times, and she just went anyway.
Whenever I think about aging I end up deciding I may ad well kill myself now because life as an old dried up piece of shit feels pointless to me and it's creeping up so very fast. How can I cure my vain obsession with youth and beauty?
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Male or female?
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i know wher ur coming from. my dog si the only thing that loves me. im never going to meet someone and have a real fimly fo my own. when my dog is gone illhave nothing left; litteraily. thats when ill probably kill myself. twenty now, dog is three. probably hass ten more yers. goodbye 30
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>>17364941
I'm a guy but I'm super fem. Not a MtF/trap/tumblrkin though.
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>told myself I would get /fit/ over the summer
>it's half the end of July and I haven't excersized once
JUST FUCK MY SHIT UP
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Now that's a JUST!
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Don't hang yourself!
You'll just break the roof beam.
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There is no better time than now.
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I can't stop talking to myself
When i'm not thinking about not doing it I inevitably start muttering nonsense
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JESUS CHRIST
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>>17364896
it's either stress or mental illness
see a doctor
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>>17364902
Jesus christ I love you