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>tfw you go somewhere you aren't really there
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Let me preface this by saying that I am terrible at reading signals. The majority of my relationships thus far have begun online. That said...
There is a guy at my job who I really have a crush on. He seems to like me too. He greets me with 'hey pretty lady' regularly, says I'm funny, and seems interested to know the details of my dating life whenever they are brought up.
>For example, I told him about a funny interaction I'd had with a customer of mine and how she asked me about the men in my life, at which point he questioned me about who the men in my life were.
We regularly talk to each other about our goofy online dating mishaps (tinderlol) and I think (but can't be sure) he asked me out on a date? He asked what I was doing after work and when I told him nothing he said that he was planning on cancelling a date with some girl he didn't want to see and wanted to know if I'd like to come have a drink with him at a local restaurant. I declined because I was caught off guard, and also wearing some pretty gross work clothes. (I work with a lot of chemicals and such.)
Today he comes in and we goof around as per usual, but he tells me a couple of times about how he wants to talk to some other woman we know at our job. He has mentioned her before, too.
I've read in some places that when a guy talks casually with you about being interested in other women, he sees you more as a buddy and less as a love interest. Is this typically true? Did I just blow it super badly by declining to go out with him the other night?
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Sounds to me like he just mentioned the other girl so you'd notice him more. So go for it. Worst case scenario you were option 2 behind that girl... And if you guys hit it off he'll most likely forget about her
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he's probably not the type that gets hung up on a single girl, and so he's okay with moving on to the next one easily. He's gonna keep you guessing because everyone wants what they can't have.
He won't reject you if you "change your mind" though.
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Nice! Thank you for your input.
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Considering our previous interactions, you're probably right on this one.
So I was just reflecting. Earlier this week I said something to him about being afraid of every bump I hear in the night. I vaguely remember him saying something to me in regards to him owning a gun and how he should take me to the shooting range and teach me how to use it. Oblivious, I responded flatly "I have a dog and a taser. I think I'm good." Damndamn. How do I fix this? How do I let him know that I'm interested but just dumbaf?
I'm a female in my early twenties and I've never had sex. It's not my appearance or personality that's caused that, I'm just so scared of being emotionally vulnerable during sex. I've been with my current boyfriend for a while now and I'm worried that he is ready for that sort of relationship. How do I open up to him and not feel terrified whenever he brings up sex? Also, I'm noting that I've never been abused and had a happy childhood. Pic Unrelated.
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>scared of being emotionally vulnerable
Can you elaborate?
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Sure, I feel very guarded of my feelings and I don't want to get attached to people.
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>>17364886
Not even your boyfriend? Huh.
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I can't figure out what to do with my life, or even a hobby I can stick with. I want to be one of the best at something but I don't think I care about anything enough. What do?
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fucking answer me, reeeeeeeeeee
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>>17364852
>I can't figure out what to do with my life
> but I don't think I care about anything enough.
What did he mean by this?
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>It's a lazy anon bitching about nothing episode
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Is this book the final red pill of getting girls?
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I've read so much shit lately on body language, social skills, all that, and the whole pick up artist thing has really piqued my interest lately, can anyone here confirm if its good or bad?
And I don't wanna hear any of your "wwwah manipulative" shit, I mean good as in it works or bad as in it doesn't
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It's bad
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Also what about this one
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The Game is a series of anecdotes from his time in the pickup community. It won't teach you anything, but it is entertaining.
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How to have good feelings after sex? 2016-07-17 04:52:34 Post No.17364828
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How to have good feelings after sex?
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19 year old (non-summerfag) here
Today I had first time sex, and it felt empty and unsatisfying.
On the past few months, I've been breaking out of my shell and making friends.
And today, in a party, I decided to have sex.
And I did. With this girl much uglier than me (I'm a decent 7/10; she was kind of chubby) who was older and had a child.
After it I felt sad. Even cried. Also had remorse. I felt like I wanted to go back in time. My friends told me to man the fuck up but the post sex feeling was shit.
My main guess for what may have caused is: I had sexual desire (wanted sex) but I had no attraction to her.
Is this thinking right? If I'm attracted to the person will I feel more satisfied?
A secondary guess is that it may have to do with Christianity, which is a religion I grew up with and deconverted (rationally) as the time passed by.
Anyways, how to have satisfying sex? How to feel good and happy after it?
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Jesus. Well uhh, first, I can tell you that sex is far more enjoyable with someone you care about than not. Also don't have sex at parties. Also don't cry after sex. People will make a tabloid out of you
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>have sex just so you can say you've had sex
>wonder why you didn't enjoy it
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>fucking a fat whore because you were pathetic enough to give a fuck about being a virgin
>being surprised that you feel like shit
You're a fucking idiot
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My mental health is deteriorating and I need some advice /adv/!!
Long story short, I've been experiencing weird symptoms and they really scared me.
They gave me mini PTSD or some shit.
Basically, I convinced myself that I "am" possessed for the past 2 weeks and it's starting to hit me now.
I can't believe I fell for my own lies especially when there's been literally zero paranormal activity.
I basically gave myself sever anxiety because of the weird symptoms I was feeling and my mind is so dumb that the only conclusion it came up with was demonic possession a la The Conjuring.
I have noticed that I have convinced myself so bad that I keep checking my back repeatedly 24/7 for "muh scratches" and there's ALWAYS literally nothing.
(cont.)
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I know you said (cont) but I'm going to go ahead and stop you right here. You're clearly mentally ill if you're buying into that, albeit subconsciously. No one here can help you. Just see a mental professional
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I also notice that this "demonic possession" is all I think about to the point where I literally give myself panic attacks.
When I see a picture of Jesus Christ I start feeling weird, but that's because before I see it I always tell myself I'm going to get a panic attack.
It's like I'm inducing it on myself.
I went to the doctor for these weird symptoms and they said it was anxiety, but I got an upcoming appointment with a neurologist.
I've been going to church as much as I can, and I've been praying as much as I can because it helps.
I keep checking my arms for scratches like a mad man as well.
I can feel my mental health deteriorating, and my dad has schizophrenia.
I swear when I get these panic attacks I start acting like I'm possessed.
One symptom of possession is the random speaking of tongues, and so in my mind I speak in "tongues" but it's nothing.
Here's an example of the "tongues" I speak, "Cookie wookie tookie mookie lookie".
I swear to God I just rhyme gibberish and random ass words.
This possession thing is all I think about and I'm always anxious because of it.
I feel tingling in my head, I start acting retarded like Jim Carey in The Mask or scared shitless.
How do I make it stop?
I don't want to end up in a mental facility or something like that.
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>>17364815
I already am going to see a mental professional.
I just have to fill out some paperwork, which I'm going to soon.
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I'm at my wits end here, I have absolutely no one to go to about this problem.
Recently went through boyfriend's phone, and found that he was saying some pretty nasty things about me to his friends, which include;
>said that if another girl showed interest in him, he'd leave me.
>says that i'm crazy, and wishes he had a normal girlfriend
>said he's with me because he's never failed at anything
>says that he wished he had a girlfriend who wasn't dogshit
Confront him about it, and ask if that's how he really felt. Says no, he was just angry at the time because we were arguing so much. Starts to cry,and says he's a nasty person, and has nasty thoughts about people all the time and that he may have BPD.
This isnt the first time, he's spoken so horribly of me, i've tried asking if there was something i'm doing wrong. He says no, that its just him.
What do?
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That's rough... I have BPD, you can count on that he's not lying. You get really nasty thoughts and get bored of the people you love and go through these love-hate cycles almost daily.
Do you feel you need him? Because if you stay with him it could get worse. He can easily become abusive. Lots of abusers have BPD...
If you decide to stay with him, tho, he should start going to therapy
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Leave him. That sounds terrible. Why would you want to be with someone who talks so horrible about you when you're not around
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>>17364807
>What do?
If you have even an iota of self respect, dump him. Even if he did say those things in anger, why would you want to be with someone immature enough to say that sort of shit? Those are his true colours, plain and simple. Of course he's going to deny it when you confront him.
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I recently started flossing since my dentist told me I had cavities but it's a real pain in the ass.
Any tips on flossing? How not to waste so much floss? How to get the back teeth easier?
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Start with your back wisdom teeth and gradually work your way to the front teeth. Make sure when you floss your front teeth that you work around your gums.
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Think of the floss as a scrub, not a pick. Don't just pop it in and out from between your teeth, pull it against the tooth and rub up/down then side to side. Be sure to wipe the floss every so often to clean it off as you're going. Eventually you'll notice what teeth collect plague the worst and can mainly just focus on them. Floss BEFORE you use mouthwash, and if you want also before you brush. Don't leave it for last or half the shit you floss out will stay in your mouth.
To get to the back of the mouth you really just have to mess around with it in your fingers till you find what's most comfortable for your hand/mouth size. You could also get dental flossong picks, which make flossing stupid easy.
If you have a little cash, water jet flossers feel and work great, if maybe a little pricey for floss.
Also, that gross smell on the floss is the bacteria that's eating away at your enamal. If you want a good once time to keep flossing, give that shit a good wiff because that's probably what others can smell you your breath if it's bad enough.
Twice a day, at least. Take good care of that mouth m8, tooth pain is some of the most irritating there is to live with.
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*a good incentive to keep flossing
Okay, so I posted earlier about really bad period pain and asked if any femanons knew what to do to make it better, since in my case Aleve and Advil actually make it worse. It got progressively worse throughout the day, I went to the ER and got morphine and hydrocodones for it, and they ultrasounded me, checked my blood, looked at piss test..... found nothing abnormal. Going to a billion doctors when the clinics open on Monday. So I guess I'll just ask my old question: Femanons, what kind of things help you with menstrual cramps?
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>Ibuprofen makes it worse
Jesus Christ. Well what I do is I use a heating pad on my lower back while I lie down.
Maybe you have ovarian cysts or endometriosis.
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Heating pad and drinking warm liquids help me. Avoid caffeine it makes them worse. And excersise or at least getting up and moving around as much as it sucks at first really help. I'm in more pain when I lay down, even though it makes me wanna lay down more cause I'm in so much pain but moving around does make them more tolerable
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I use a hot pack on my lower stomach/upper pussy area
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my 16 year old son wants a girlfriend but is too afraid to talk to girls i didnt even kiss a girl until i was 28 how do i help my son im thinking of taking him to a doctor and getting him on medication could that help
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Tell him to start hanging out with guys that hang out with girls.
That's the easiest way for him to learn
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tell him to stop masturbating and adjust his diet to protein and testosterone based foods
you miss every shot you dont take
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You were supposed to break the chain of betas. What have you done?!
I definitely need some advice
There's this girl my friend is super into, but she's made it explicitly clear she is not into him but he refuses to give it up .
Yesterday I matched with a girl on tinder, not knowing it was her. She kept telling me how hot I was and that she wants to fuck me and keeps sending nudes, but i just discovered its the same girl
What do I do? Am I a bad friend if I fuck her?
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Yes. If he's still into her you either
Wait for him to get over her (she might not be horny by then)
Break your friends heart and ruin your friendship for a long time or maybe forever
Or suck it up and find another girl.
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Yes you're a bad friend if you fuck her.
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He's not like a great or super close friend, and I'm gonna be moving to a different city in a month. This is why I'm so conflicted, sorry for not mentioning that
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/adv/ i need your help!
Girl friendzoned me a while back. Like a LONG time ago back in high school. We still regularly keep in contact. She knows I'm in love w/ her. I grabbed her ass one time and she seemed to get really offended about it. But in the past she admitted she was super into me. I was just autistic back then (still am now w/girls)
Anyway i'm seeing her this weekend.
What's something I can say to win her over? Should I just admit my feelings and leave it out on the table? Should I just be a beta cuck and go home and fap my feelings for her away? What /b/ WHAT?
Plz halp ...this has been bugging me for a long time now. Pic is unrelated, just to get your attention.
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confess and hope for the best
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>>17364802
That's the beta, retarded way to do things
If you're seeing her because she wants to just hang out with no hint at all of it being a date your already screwed, making a move will just make you look autismal.
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>>17364755
Don't confess you will lose her girls don't want to hear that you have been in love with them. Just be cool with her treat her like a friend but show some level of sexual/romantic interest if it goes well as her on an other date. Check back in with us anon
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Should I study some Korean or Chinese?
There are a lot of Chinese people in my neighborhood. I hear kids speaking Chinese daily outside, I hear Korea less often. I know a tiny bit Korean already though.
Which girls are better?
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Chinese if they're from the North of China. Otherwise you're fucked.
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I'm from the future; you should study Chinese.
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How to get a higher libido? 2016-07-17 04:23:51 Post No.17364745
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How to get a higher libido?
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I'm a 20 yo f and I've been with my bf for 2 years now. He's very good but I just don't have any sexual desire anymore-for him or anyone else. I used to-at least for the first year we dated-but now I just don't.
As background:
I've never masturbated enjoyably-everytime I've tried I just kind of gave up due to lack of pleasure and feeling immoral.
I feel bad cause he's into me and wants me to be into it too. I told him we can just have sex when he's in the mood but apparently I have to be too.
Idk what to do--he seems down about it. I don't want to lie and fake being in the mood to make him happy but I might have to as I lack any drive.
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on any meds?
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>>17364756
nope! and never have been-unless there's something in the municipal water supply
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anybody have advice on this?