Are glory holes actually a thing, or just something that exists in porn. If they're real, where do I go about finding one?
I don't want to ruin my reputation, but so need some dick.
Just find some dude on Craigslist to suck you off, same thing.
>>17364735
It's really risky though. What if he recognizes me, or takes pictures and posts them?
Try your local gay bar. The jankier it is the more likely for a borred out hole in the stall.
I am in my mid twenties and I just cannot find women my age to date. I have no desire to date women who are teenagers or women who are in their 30's. I want a woman at least who is 21.
I don't know where the fuck they are though. It can't be ONLY bars they frequent.. can it?
I am also convinced that I don't see women my age often because they are taken and chad is driving them around in his BMW while dicking the down. I am stuck taking the bus to get around and I only ever see washed up middle aged women who chain smoke OR single mothers followed by a brood of snot nosed children OR obese land whales who make you wonder how the FUCK could someone gain so much weight.
Hold me bros. I just want to meet a 20 something year old girl. Why is this so hard?
Try colleges.
Now hard mode for me: how can I meet females in the 20-25 range as a 30-year-old?
>>17364687
I actually work at a university. The problem? There are strict rules stating that staff and faculty cannot have a relationship with anyone in the student body. Doesn't matter the age. Doesn't matter if she is a grad student trying to get her masters and she is 30 years old and I am just a pizza chef who is 20 years old working in the ktichen(that is a example)
If either party is a student and the other party is a staff or faculty, the relationship can get the person employed by the university FIRED and the student could be reprimanded.
Am a bartender. Trust me, mid 20's women dont hang at bars. Women that frequent bars are 40+ divorcees. On top of that, 85% of my clientele are men.
Go out to a book shop or a yoga class or some shit. Think like a successful 20-something woman. Books, exercise, animals, etc.
Is it possible for a job to turn you gay? I've been a cashier for 3 years now. I have no other options at this point. Still in school and can't get another job where I live. My job is robot-core. I take orders from everyone. I work like a robot. Do and say the same thing thousands of times per week. I've now been watching gay porn. Is there a correlation possibly? Also btw I don't find guys attractive. I like girls. But I just am pure beta cuck mode right now
why have you been watching gay porn if you're not attracted to guys?
>>17364698
I don't know that is what I'm trying to figure out
Why would...having a dead end job make you gay? I don't think you can blame anyone for this but your own gay self
For some reason I only attract young as fuck girls. It's really pissing me off.
I'm not sure if it's because I look young (everyone says I look 17) or because everyone else is ignoring them being young. If I go on kik and message a hundred girls the only ones that ever answer me are 15-17 and the 17 year olds don't talk long either. If I talk to someone my age literally nothing happens every time.
Also when I was younger I was dating a lot more (girls that were 17-19) and now I'm not. I have a style of a younger person in their late teens and I think that's it
I tried tinder and everyone was over 20 and never got a single match but all these girls compliment me and talk to me and then I ask their age and find out they're 16. Wtf
Tell me your secret; I only attract single mothers, divorced sluts, and married women who want to cheat on their husbands.
This is a good thing. Young pussy is the best. Nothing gets you harder. Enjoy it while you can.
But it's illegal guys and 15 is too young
Ever since he cheated on me, whenever I see any girl my self esteem plummets and I want to cry. How the fuck do I go back to normal
Things will probably never go completely back to the way they were before. Either you can live with that or you can't
>>17364648
You still together with him?
>>17364657
I meant my self esteem.
My parents are helping me move at the beginning of August to an apartment in another state for school. The first day I can move into the apartment is the same day as the grad student orientation, so my parents have taken it upon themselves to unpack my things and set up the new apartment while I'm doing the mandatory orientation stuff. I don't want them to do this, but I can't talk them out of it/there doesn't seem like a good reason that they shouldn't do this for me. The problem is that I have a garbage bag full of BDSM gear sitting in my closet (pic related) that has to make the move, and my soul would die if my parents found this thing and tried to unpack it. I'm not going to throw the sack out because shit is expensive. Please, any advice on moving personal stuff like this?
Put it in a box and mark it: "Leave packed" or something like that.
Otherwise, if your parents are normal adults they won't say anything about your BDSM gear if they happen to see it.
If you're very desperate, maybe you could find and rent a storage locker in the area and keep the bag in there until you're ready to go get it.
That, or buy a box or luggage trunk with a lock on it, put the bag in the box, lock it, and hold onto the key on your person.
>>17364685
>if your parents are normal adults they won't say anything about your BDSM gear if they happen to see it
This.
Found this on my mum's nightstand once. Had a good chuckle, but I later started to wonder if this stuff might somehow be hereditary.
How do I choose my major? I just finished my 2nd year of college and I'm still unsure about what I want to do.
Do media studies. There, I decided for you.
Choose something that will get you a job and that you can stand doing. Seriously study something that gives you marketable skills even if it's not your passion. Fuck everything about leaving school with a worthless degree
>>17364620
Anything Engineering will be good.
>tfw yesterday I proposed to my girlfriend of three years at the park she used to frequent all throughout her childhood, where she always planned on getting married
>Got her the exact ring she wanted down to every last detail
>Got down on one knee and everything
>She said "Yes" and seemed really happy
>Today she tells me that she is disappointed that I didn't have a well thought out proposal speech prior to presenting the ring
>She states everything else was great, but overall she feels like it was a let-down because I didn't rehearse some nice things to say in the moment
Am I wrong to feel hurt by this? I feel like she's being ungrateful.
>>17364557
You are not wrong, she is ungrateful.
sounds really materialistic, but not in a physical material sense. spoiled? i'm not sure.
but yeah that's fucked up.
Ditch her.
What drink should a man order on a date with a girl?
Unless you can properly drink hard liquor and can hold your liquor, drink beer or something like jack and coke. Something watered down that you can sip without looking like a faggot
Nothing is more unattractive than a man who is fucked up, slurring his speech, acting like a fool.
I didn't realize drinks had genders, order whatever the fuck you want you beta
A beer, faggot.
How do I live in la as a waiter
Do your research, mate. Will you have backup funds if you can't land a job, as well as a place to stay, etc?
Are you already in L.A, or going to California to do this? It affects things greatly depending on where you're coming from.
Sorry if this is lacking, but I don't have too much info of yours to go off of.
>>17364562
Going to California to do this
>>17364610
You're coming at a great time 100F all day errday IE REPRESENT
I fucking hate socal what the hell is wrong with you?
Hey guys, i cant seem to get girls to like me, is it my looks? Be honest
>>17364516
Shots fired
I think you look fine. im a guy though.
Just need to work on your face gains and hair, mostly. A beard might do you good, but because I'm not /fa/, I'm not sure if changing up your questionable attire would help
>Ok so I noticed this article online while searching for porn
http://m.animalnewyork.com/2015/get-cash-undies-guide-enterprising-ladies-web/
>Can I as a broke man pose as a female or the boyfriend of a female on these sites to sell panties?
>I'd be buying the underwear and wearing it myself they wouldn't be able to tell difference is just say I'm a big girl.
>Sell day old panties for $40 a pair until I have enough money to afford an Xbox One and Halo 5 and Xbox live subscription.
>Is this legal or could I be sued or jailed?
You should do it just for the keks.
My sides are taking orbit right now imagining some sad sack huffing your ballsack annointed panties.
Dude, please, do it and post pics
> Use candy on a stick as a dildo then sell it back to the pervy masses!
This sounds like the most fool-proof way to get a yeast infection
Hey
I've had these for a while and I don't have a sore throat nor does it itch.
Am I dying? Super aids? Or just allergies?
yeah they called stones or something
>>17364461
Toinsil stones, pop thoeS fuckers! And post
>>17364461
I think those whitish things are called teeth.
OK, I need a discussion on morality and ethics of a job, or the nature of "killing". I should note I am not religious so claims that "it is immoral because god says so" are not really what I am looking for
Generally speaking, I am a mechanical engineer who potentially will begin working on drones (not hobbyist drones, as in actual war drones) hypothetically it is the perfect job, I am extremely qualified for the position, it pays well, is in an area I love, and I could potentially keep this job with benefits for life.
however I am wondering how much responsibility I would have for the deaths of individuals, whether terrorist/enemy state/unarmed civilians/etc.
Are Oppenheimer and the engineers/physicists/mathematicians of the Manhattan project liable for the deaths caused by the bomb and the resulting cold war?
Additionally, who is liable in the killing of others? the Nuremberg trials came with the conclusion that "following orders" does not constitute a defense in the death of civilians, but at the same time, those who followed hitler and were willing to kill jews were inundated with antisemitic rhetoric for so long that it could be construed that they were brainwashed into thinking that these people were literally not human and were the root of all that was wrong in the world, so is someone who is brainwashed actually liable for their actions? The Manson trials came to the conclusion that even brainwashed, people are liable for their actions, but other trials have come up with the exact opposite conclusion
My conclusion so far is that those who are brainwashed are not liable, but I am still a bit on the fence.
additionally who is to say that we are not currently brainwashed into believing that our government's actions in hotter sandier countries are just?
is it just to work on drones knowing they will be used to kill?
is killing ever just?
is there ever truly a moral justification for war?
>>17364431
You are creating a machine that flies and shuts. You are not the one hitting the red button.
If you don't do it, somebody else will.
>>17364431
Do you believe that your country should have the means to defend itself? Do you acknowledge that other countries will continue to develop more advanced weapons, and use them against your country if they get the opportunity? Do you also acknowledge that in the defense of your way of life, other lives may have to be taken, either directly or indirectly?
On a more specific level, do you believe that drone warfare is a step too far, and that no civilized countries should use it?
Once you answer these questions, you'll be closer to a decision.
I currently work as a military contractor, doing software engineering. I see and work on lots of things that could aid my country in war or hurt enemies. But I believe that my work ultimately saves life, if it means having a superior military force as a deterrent to war. And I don't believe my country will just go about using the weapons irresponsibly.
so ive had a pretty steady supply of benzos (klonopin, xanax, ativan) for a couple years now. in the last 3 or 4 months, i would only take one once every week or two because my daily meds were working pretty well. about 3 weeks ago, ive started feeling anxiety all day almost every day with constant panic attacks. is it possible that i developed a dependency on benzos? i thought you had to take them more frequently for that to happen.
i dont think taking it once or twice every week or two could cause that.
Benzo withdrawal is the closest to hell on Earth you can come.
>>17365069
Nah not having Benzo is