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I'm kinda fucked in the head atm due to getting rejected by my best friend of 6 years. What I want to know is MDMA a good way to help heal me. And how can I go about it if it is?
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>>17366773
drugs and sex are the only two ways that i have seen work when your entire life goes to shit so mdma should be fine
just take a pill and enjoy m8
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That's one of the worst things you could do right now m8
Only take drugs when everything else in your life is going alright
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>>17366779
I have a trip sitter what questions should he ask me to over come what I'm going threw?
>be 35
>got dumped 12 freaking years ago and never really got over it
>single ever since
>mentally about ten years younger, look younger too
>had opportunities with women/girls but too picky
>they were married or too young and worked for my folks, or my freaking weed dealer
>really regret not hooking up with some of 'em now after being single so long
>got chronic lyme's disease since 2 years ago, can only use limbs for 10-15 minutes until they start hurting, so not out much obviously, can't eat sugar or drink alcohol
>starting a heavy intravenous (sp?) treatment in september
>one friend moved abroad, other friend I keep seeing less, see him like once every two months now I guess because he can only visit me and I can't drive to his city an hour away, he's got less time for me each month that passes it seems
>haven't had a steady job in forever, not working now cause of sickness
>have a car and nice apartment through family though so not that poor I guess
>currently the only prospect for the future is my inheritance, but...
>not sure wanna keep on living if the heavy treatment doesn't heal my arms & legs
I don't know how to meet new people, I guess now would be bad timing anyway with treatment coming up, but I just discovered this board and found a way to finally vent and ask someone, how do I not die alone and find someone to love? I'm watching 500 days of summer and this was supposed to be a feelgood movie so blame that I guess, it's depressing as hell for now.
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>500 days of summer
I watched that movie on my first proper date with the woman I've loved for the last half a decade. Feel like it layed the grounds for our relationship, and it doesn't feel good at all.
So over to you, op. What do you do for a living? Do you ever do anything that does or does not involve alcohol, even if you don't drink yourself?
One way of meeting new people is on your own. Talk to people, get to sit at their table.
Another is to get invited to social events by co-workers or other people you frequently see, and meet their acquantances.
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>>17366768
i have a chronic disease too.
i don't know how much that disease affects your life, but in my case it interferes with my life everyday, so it can be very hard to deal with it from time to time.
what really helps me is to get in contact with people who have the same disease.
it's great to talk with them, because they understand you and your hardships so well. it's like an instant connection you don't feel with "normal" people.
you will also see people leading normal lives with their disease, this always inspires me.
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>>17366801
Damn man, my sympathy for the movie situation, sounds like that really sucks. I used to work in IT or help in my folks shop.
I don't ever go out really. I could never go sit at someone's table if I did go out. I haven't approached a stranger in my entire life I think.
Hmm I guess I shouldn't break contact with my buddy then.
>>17366822
Same here, my sympathies. I use meditation to deal with the depression that comes along with it and it helps a lot. I think it saved my life on multiple occasions.
Hmm, I might look into that, I know there are several forums. Though my sister has the disease too and I know she posts on some of them, we really don't get along, so I wanna avoid her completely. But this is a pretty good idea, thank you and best of luck with your health.
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Am I wrong in just walking out of my job? Im a cook ive been at this job for almost 2 years but it just pushed me overboard today and after my shift finished I said no more. Every single boss there has promised me better but just fucked me over in everyway, I did so much for them all the time but got nothing out of them. I get treated like shit, have to do other peoples jobs my boss will leave early all the time or not care.
It will fuck them over quite a bit me leaving. I tried to last as long as I could or be one of those people who give 2 weeks notice but I cant do it anymore.
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I tried getting transferred, they said yes but then didn't both with it at all.
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Go into Healthcare. We need more nurses. Please?
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>>17366731
I don't wanna be a nurse.
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How do I achieve a cuter, sweeter sounding voice?
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whiskey and cigars
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Post Vocaroo
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>>17366704
I know this is going to sound ridiculous, but I'm too insecure. I tried making a vocaroo but I just can't get myself to post it. I don't like the way I sound :/
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Hey, guys. I feel really inadequate and like nothing I do matters. I'm 19, don't have a job, don't want a job, live at my mothers and stay at my girlfriends house really often and don't do shit but write crappy music, I never graduated high school and have 5 credits. What the fuck do I do to motivate myself? Seriously? How in God's name am I supposed to be like "oh, yeah, this sucks, but I'll do it anyways cause it's the right thing to do" or "it's for my own benefit". What the fuck? Honestly...
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Why do you have this feeling of inadequacy?
It sounds like you're anxious about the future. Is this true?
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>>17366679
kinda in the same boat
eventually the crippling depression and crying myself to sleep at night got to me as well as some other family shit and i thought fuck it
i gave 0 shits about what other people think and decided to go out and get a gf and some bros and life has been looking up
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>>17366679
Make a list anon, what needs to get done, short term goals, midterm goals and long term goals. Due this every day and get as many things as you can done improve yourself anon
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>Be 23
>Virgin
Should I just fuck a hooker and get it over with?
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What do you need to get over with?
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>>17366683
The fact that all my friends all have GF and probably getting daily puss.
I just graduated college and have a decent job making decent money. I'm not fat and I don't really think I'm ugly. Just never had a GF or knew anyone that liked me growing up.
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>>17366687
Do you think fucking a prostitute will actually change anything?
Hi /adv/, I'm a heterosexual male looking to buy a sex toy to put my dick in.
I have come here for recommendations and reviews. There are just so many in the market that I don't know what to buy.
What do I get? Fleshlight? Doc Johnson? Tenga? Something else? And that's just the brand. What model(s) do I get?
These are some of the criteria I'm looking for:
>feels good on my dick
>preferably something to put my dick into (ie. no basic vibrators to put under my dick)
>nothing that goes up my ass, no matter how many times you repeat yourself
>money is probably the lowest concern, but try to be reasonable (ie. I can spend over $100, but I won't go over $500)
>preferably something easy to clean
>preferably something that doesn't resemble a vagina or other body part (I just don't want to have to explain myself if someone sees it; worst case scenario I can store it in my safe)
I'm sure some of you will just tell me to have sex with a real woman, but if I could do that, chances are I wouldn't be making this thread. Even then, I suppose having a sex toy still wouldn't be a bad idea.
Despite the topic at hand, I am 100% serious about this. I am shopping for a personal sex toy, and I could use some genuine help.
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http://www.ohjoysextoy.com/category/comic/review-comic/penis-toys/
The comic may not be great but the reviews sound legit.
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>>17366628
Bad Dragon's Sugar Star
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Hey /adv/
I'm in the hospital, I had surgery yesterday afternoon and today I've become really sick. I'll be honest with you guys, i'm scared. The nurse told me theyll be moving me to the icu. My heart is going really quick and my blood pressure is starting to drop, i have a fever. Any med bros out there able to explan what sepsis is in laymans terms? I know its like an infection or something. Cheer me up please, i'm a bit worried.
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The same thing happened to me OP. Sepsis can be fatal, but usually isn't. I was in the ICU for two nights with dangerously low blood pressure, and I really thought I was going to die.
Good luck anon. I wouldn't worry too much if I were you
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MedBro here: Sepsis is essentially a blood infection due to an excess of bateria that somehow got into your bloodstream. You have bacteria in your blood, but it doesn't sound like it's gonna be fatal since you were in the hospital when they caught it.
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>>17366625
This isn't quite right. You can have sepsis without bacteraemia.
Sepsis is a systemic inflammatory response to infection. Inflammatory signals cause all the tiny blood vessels in your body to dilate which can drop your blood pressure (and your heart rate increases to compensate).
The main issues with this is that your organs don't get the pressure they need to be perfused. Kidneys are especially vulnerable, but they respond very quickly.
All in all, if you're young and you're well enough to be able to post this, you'll be fine.
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Graff tips? Not getting caught, any homemade ink? Pic unrelated
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Shameless self bump
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>>17366552
Here's a fucking tip: Don't do it. No body wants to see your shit.
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>>17366756
I don't care, your life is worthless and so Is mine. Nothing matters. I want tips I didn't ask for your opinion on my art.
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I have 2 options for my career.
1. This job will pay exceptionally well, will have more flexible hours, but I won't enjoy doing it very much.
2. This job will not pay as much as job 1 but I will get a good amount of money, I will enjoy the job itself more, but I will enjoy it more despite the longer hours.
What do I do? Do I pick the job that I could do and be mildly annoyed with going into work, or should I pick something I would enjoy more even if it will be a harder path for me in life?
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Bump.
And one more thing is that if I pick one job, I can't jump into the other field. I'm locking myself down into one field
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"Can't jump into another field"
Try not to think like that, dude.
To your question: nobody here can really tell you what to do. it's more complicated than money vs. Enjoyment. You should probably hit up a career counselor if you have the time to do that.
Overall, though, people generally regret going for the money more than going for the enjoyment, but everyone's different.
Good luck.
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>>17366541
If job 1. is going to result in you constantly being stressed, then it might not be worth it to risk your health just for some money.
I knew a guy who died at age 46 from drinking too much. His job was very well paying (I think he was a CEO or a senior director or something like that) but he developed cancer from all the drinking, smoking, sleep deprivation and stress of job.
If Job .2 makes you happy and keeps you afloat, go for it.
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hey 4chan, so my girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me and dumped me like a piece of trash a couple of weeks ago. today i found out she is changed her name to his last name. i want to get revenge on both of them but i dont know how to do it without it being traced back to me
>wat do
>pic related, its the bitch who caused me so much pain
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Kill her. Kill him.
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She looks fat and slightly retarded. Consider yourself lucky for getting out of a relationship you were bound to be trapped in forever cause you're a pussy.
How do I know you're a pussy? Oh that's easy. You want revenge. Grow up, faggot.
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>>17366547
she was slightly fat but she was perfect for me, perfect body perfect everything, thats why i cant get over her
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Is therapy necessary for social anxiety? Like does it really work? I've been to my university's counselling services and saw no progress after a year's worth of seeing them. I did individual and two group therapy programs and I hated going and sometimes felt worse after. They're not psychologists in that they can't diagnose me if that matters.
There is an outside resource I can use in my town but I called them a month ago, said they would call me back the next day but never did.
So is there other alternatives or should I give therapy another try? Also any advice as to how to stop talking myself out of going/ calling?
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>>17366534
If you went to therapy and in the first try failed to help you with social anxiety than yes I could easily argue that your problem is preaty fucking severe. The simple fact that you talk your self out of it even though you know you have a problem is sign.
Either the therapists were shit or you went in with the conviction it wont work(psichy stuff is highly reliant on your own will to change).
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>>17366643
>Either the therapists were shit or you went in with the conviction it wont work
Yeah it was a combination of the two but the "thinking it won't work" came later when the counselors were just having me vent and that's it. Group was just uncomfortable and boring because all it did was show me that I wasn't alone in my feelings but I already knew that.
>The simple fact that you talk your self out of it even though you know you have a problem is sign
That makes sense because my anxiety talks me out of anything and this would be no different. But I think the fact that my town's psychological service didn't reach out to me after I called really made me feel like I don't deserve. Pathetic I know but I always find ways to put myself down.
I know I need to get help it's just that my one source my insurance covers appears unreliable and may be a sign that they aren't the best for treating people.
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>>17366689
So basicly your question is about where to get help.
Ok if you do have money I suggest going somewhere else even if it is not insurance covered. Better to have a problem solved than living with it and have it cause more shit (and possible fonancial loss).
Also you could maybe give the guys that didnt reach out to you after you called another shot. Maybe some kind of error happened and they lost your number/appointment/what ever the hell they had for you. Especially if they are one of the few in your town. Preaty sure you are not the only guy there with problems.
Also I think you kinda missed the point of groop therapy. Its more of a duo of look more people have that problem not only you AND what did others do to cope with it. What was bad and what was good what would I have done instead etc. Again if the therapist was shit than it could be explained
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I'm beginning to stop loving a woman who loves me so much she will likely regress or outright murder/suicide if I leave her. Help?
She's functionally worthless, hasn't been taught anything necessary to survive despite having a similar childhood, doesn't do anything and basically just wants to cuddle and fuck all the time. Her physical constitution is too weak to exercise with her, she's too immature to teach a martial art, can't teach her to cook and it took Pokemon Go to get her to walk. Among many other things.
I love the girl, yeah, but I've been over the puppy love thing for three months at least and shit is so stagnant beyond that. As far as sex goes we're a match made in heaven, though lately I only want to fuck when I've had several days of distance from her or I know she's leaving right away. Don't have the patience for this blank slate, fixer-upper pet project shit when it's on top of general ineptitude.
tl;dr Yan, lots of sex, stagnation, obnoxious, helpless and obnoxiously helpless. Assist?
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You're the guy, so you can leave her if you'd like. The choice is ultimately yours.
If she's going to kill herself, let her. If you're worried about her killing you, have her committed.
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>>17366508
You dont love her because she is weak? Or because you literaly cant do much with her? I sugest maybe grabbing a hobby she likes or make her enjoy a hobby you like. Try to find what ever commun ground is left.
Also dont really give up on martial arts/exercise thingie. Whi knows maybe she will toughen up.
If its truly over. Than just make sure shit storm doesnt happen. You could talk to her parents/friends about it worse case. Just to give em a heads up that she will have a bat break up.
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>>17366508
ghost her and skip town if you can
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I wanna know how to deal with stress and anxiety. I recently suffered from difficulty breathing and also chest pain quite often for an entire week, so I went to the doc thinking my heart was failing or something but she told me there was nothing wrong (physically), that I was too stressed and that I better relax and take it easy. Idk how tf to do that tho, any tips? I've tried thinking stuff like "it's just an exam, failing isn't the end of the world" but every time I think of finals or any problem however small it may be I get really worried and start feeling like shit. I even feel nauseous and I've been told I probably have gastritis. Honestly I'm worried of how it'll be when I have to get a job, or if I ever get fired from a job. I'd probably die
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I know there's medication for anxiety but I'd like to know another way, or what you anons do when you're stressed. Any comment will be much appreciated
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I usually listen to angry or abrasive music. I've been doing it for a long time, but recently read a study that supports its effectiveness.
http://musicfeeds.com.au/news/heavy-metal-increases-positive-emotions-reduces-stress-australian-study-finds/#/slide/1
I didn't read it on that site, that's from a google search I did right now, but that's the study, I think. Get some metal, hardcore punk or harsh noise and de-stress with it. Listen to an album or half an album and see if you're less stressed after. Working out also helps me, but I can't do that every time I'm stressed.
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>>17366561
All right, thanks I'll try that and see if it helps.
Dated a wonderful woman for three months. I didn't tell her that I wasn't looking for an exclusive relationship, and she fell in love with me before I found the right time to have the talk.
Basically, she never asked me about my prior relationships, how long it had been since my last one, no questions about sexual history, nothing to make me think that she was in a rush to make me her BF.
I know it was wrong of me, that I took advantage of her reluctancy to get on the subject, even though I was very conflicted about it myself, and I've beaten myself up over not doing the right think and bring it up, for months now.
Tbh, I was fucking someone else (someone who has meant more to me than any other woman in my life) at the time I met the woman in question, and that ended about a month into my new fling. She still doesn't know about her.
When she drunkenly finally brought up her concerns about exclusivity, I told her that it was too early for me to promise her anything, and that I didn't really believe in monogamy. She agreed about lifetime monogamy being unrealistiv, but she couldn't handle the thought of sharing me, she was too much in love with me, and two days later was the last time we talked. She broke everything off immediately.
Fair enough, I didn't deserve her.
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However, quite a few of her friends have started threating me differently. They don't greet whenever we meet (a lot of them either work at some of my regular pubs, or frequent the same places I do.)
One of them had a talk with me after he saw me make out with a girl the other week, and basically told me that the rumor was that I fucked several other women at the same time as woman in question.
This is only true for the first month, when we hadn't started seeing each other daily yet, and in all practicality SHE was the other woman.
I didn't touch any other women for the last two months I was seeing her, and I haven't fucked anyone else since she broke it off. It's been almost four months.
How do I fix this? Should I talk to her and tell her that I care and that I didn't go behind her back, should I talk to her friends, or should I just give no fucks and live with the fact that people think worse things about me than I deserve?
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please bump, /adv/isors
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>>17366484
You can't be with her.
Btw ur a fucking whore