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my girlfriend is really fat and I dont want to show her to my parents or be seen in public with her and I dont feel sexually attracted to her like at all
but she has an amazing personalty and its really easy to talk and have fun with her but at the same time i've dated MANY extremely attractive 10/10 girls but I just couldn't maintain rapport with them
god ffssssssssssssssssssssssss
like she has a super cute face so along with a 10/10 smile and way of doing thing but porking her would be like a difficult and unsatisfying task and im a super sexual person
what do I do?!
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>>17366949
Tell her to run everyday and stuff her fat gob less.
Till then, satisfy yourself with girls that are around, don't worry too much about being faithful, unless it makes you guilty.
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>>17366949
For a lot of fatties, they just lack the fit culture; the discipline, diet, and lifestyle can all be learned.
So take her on jogs and to the gym. Hell, start goibg on walks in the evenings. That's just good for relationships period. Gives you guys a nice chance to hang out and talk to esch other.
Start cooking with her. Show her how to make healthy meals while encouraging healthy habits.
There's the old proverb "give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime"
Help your girlfriend learn to fish.
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Just be friends instead
I'm tired of it all and I'm going to take the pussy way out and kill myself with helium.
Try and stop me.
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Do it
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Do whatever the fuck you want with your helium, but don't kill yourself. The last thing we need is another suicide to happen because someone wanted to be cool and edgy on 4chan.
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How do I become friends with a lady that has blue hair?
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You kill her 7 evil exes first, duh.
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>you gotta have blue hair
BURNINATE TROOOOOOOOOGDOOOOOR
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ask her if the carpet matches the drapes.
>Meet a girl that hits 100% the right spots
>We have a lot in common, start chatting more and more
>After a month it's something like 20k messages
>Ask her out, she immediately says yes and is obviously happy about it
>Dating for 2 weeks, every time we have a great time and she sticks to me like a velcro
>Friday night, today I want to tell her I love her
>We went to a cinema but the movie was so shitty that we laugh all the time and there's no mood for "the talk"
>Afterwards we decide to go somewhere else before splitting, end up in a rave club (her idea)
>Having a great time, 2 guys tried to grope her and I told them to fuck off, getting pumped up from the coke and booze (she's high too)
>We go outside, she says she's tired so I walk with her back to her house
>On the way we talk just like before, I tell her that I wanted to talk about something but we're high as fuck so maybe it's better to do this when we're sober
>She smiles, says it's a good idea and we can meet tomorrow
>The next day I call her to ask if she wants to go to the riverbank to watch the fireworks
>She says she's busy today and will call me when she knows if she will manage to go out
>Doesn't call, ignores fb messages in the evening but reads them
>The next day I hear from her sister that she's going on a 5-day holiday all of a sudden, alone and doesn't know yet where she's going
>I try to start a conversation for 2-3 days but she just responds "k" etc
>Things stay like that for the whole week
>She comes back, the next day I ask her if she wants to go out knowing she's doing nothing that day
>"Dunno, I'm pretty busy today"
What is going on? Did she decide overnight that she doesn't give a fuck about me and tries to ignore me until I start ignoring her?
I know that she's not meeting anyone else because we have many common friends and I'd get at least a tip from someone.
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>>17366931
The reason doesn't matter, get over her. If you let her do that once, she will do it again.
>we both do coke while drinking
Because you know, drug addicts are some of the most predictable, reasonable and consistent people on the planet.
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Two weeks is nothing in a relationship or time to get to know someone. You guys (you at least definitely) sounded like you were in honeymoon mode hardcore. Move on and don't pursue her. The balls in her court now, you did all you could do. If she wants to make it happen, she'll let you know.
Also drugs.
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This happened to me too, We both dated for quite a while, then she begain doing the same stuff that's happening to you. I eventuall had enough and left her, stopped talking to her, my mind was at peace, and then she tried to contact me again 2 months later, and I noped her. Dude get over girls like these, I call em fuckgirls. you don't wanna waste your energy, time and stress about it
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Is it even worth the effort trying to find a girl who actually has a unique personality or should I just pick up/bounce between the local cum sluts in the area?
I feel like all the interesting women are already taken.
Keep in mind I live in Buttfuck, Nowhere so we otl have arranged marriages for land which I have none of.
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Tell me about yourself
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>>17366932
Literally I spend every waking moment improving myself or my situation. I usually don't pay attention to having a relationship because I realise it will come eventually with doing what i like but about once a week its like a swell of loneliness.
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>>17366920
literally me, i want advice too
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So i recently got off my ass and took a trip to /fit/ and start to get my life back together
i decided to get better looking and to meet some girls and bros to hang with
i could probably get one of the 7/10 "popular" girls if i try hard but my ideal woman is the shy one that no one notices, the one that people usually don't care about, the one that spends her time alone.
i always thought these types of girls where much more understanding and loving and less likely to be complete cunts about stupid shit and cheat on me. I also really love the way they act all shy and cute, i think its sexy as fuck.
anyway i don't have a huge amount of experience with women and was wondering if i should spend time trying to get a good looking 6-7/10 qt girl who might not work out or go for hanging with the shy cute girl no one notices.
I mainly ask because i have heard from other anons that once you start to give these girls attention and really get to know them and love them some of them end up thinking they are better than you leaving you for someone "better" and i would kind of hate that
i would rather not learn the hard way and would appreciate some input.
maybe im just stereotyping these type of girls but i really don't want a broken heart again and it would be easier for me not to bother if there is a high chance of them cheating or leaving
for reference i would consider myself 6/10 18m kind of skinny and don't look buff but not flabby
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>>17366919
In all honesty your problem is you're trying to find someone who you think won't leave your sorry ass.
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>>17366935
probably true but aren't we all?
i would much rather not have someone i like drop my ass the same as any other guy
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>>17366946
Yeah but a relationship built on fear always end up being a failure. Some people get into relationships because they fear of being alone. You want to get in a relationship where you fear being left.
Sure everyone has these fears but they shouldn't guide your relationship choices.
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Hey /adv/,
I've been best friends with a girl since I was 15. I liked her at first but all we did was kiss and not much else. Our feelings for each other completely diminished and she's been just my best friend since. She's helped me through so much of my life. She's so caring, compassionate, and loving. She's been there for me after breakups and I've been there for her. We live an hour apart and get to see each other roughly every two weeks to month but with Uni coming up in a month I feel like I'll hardly be ever to see her let alone talk to her because of how hard I'm going to have to work to not get weeded out in the engineering department. She's going to be a senior in high school this year and I'll be over two hours drive away from her. Throw on top of that her boyfriend is extremely jealous of me and guilt trips her whenever I take her out as a friend. I know I'm probably being irrational but I'm terrified of losing her. She's there for me when no one else is. I know I can vent to her about everything and it feels amazing to have someone love and trust me like she does. I've had so many nightmares about losing her. It may seem weird to love a girl like this and not want to date her or fuck her or whatever, but she is my emotional stability. Something I have yet to find in a girlfriend... What the fuck should I do /adv/?
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Talk to her about confrunting the gelous fuck bag. He probably is insecure as fuck. Also expect hear shit about him from her since I highly believe he will start lashing at her out of sheer jelousy. (Just an (un) educated guess though.)
Other than that you havr skype+fb+ any other messengers.
You could also try going out with both of em.this way you show him you dont want only to be with her and you get to spend some time with her. Maybe get to befriend the nigger though I doubt that. Or try double dating xD
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>>17366934
I already tried befriending him but he's just become more and more hateful of me. He already lashes out at her (not physically) he just gets pissy at her and ignores her for hours. And I don't know if I'll have time for a girlfriend until freshman year is over. The school I go to throws all the hard shit on you first so you stay up till 3 every night to get rid of the excess fuckers.
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>>17366964
> already lashes at her
Damn why are chads so fucking predictable.
I seriously think you should either confrunt him and call out his jelousy(expect shitstorm thought). Or talk to her abkut him since he could rapidly degenerate intk phisical abuse. He clearly is playing the emotional card though.
Stay on your toes m8 this could get messy fast.
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This is all hypothetical
I rear ended a woman on a highway and we both pulled over to the shoulder, we both got out and I asked if she was ok, she immediately asked for money. First 100 then 200. I agreed and went to the adjacent exit and found that she did not follow at which point I panicked like a retard and left. She may have thought the next exit but i picked the one right next to us.
About 5 -7 hrs later i notified both city and state police of what happened. Both said nothing was reported and i left my info. It has been a few days, less than a week but this includes this weekend so i dont know if the cops do that sort of work during the weekend or wait til monday but no one has notified me of anything
Im fairly sure she did not get the plate number but not certain.
Should I start talking to attorneys now? I have not yet been charged with anything. How much would one cost(Ballpark)?
Before this i have only had one out of state speeding ticket and thats it for my record.
Can i finance an attorney? Or did i just ruin my life because im a fucking idiot?
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Ive barely been able to sleep or eat since this fictional event happened. Dont be like hypothetical me bros.
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In all honesty she most likely does not have insurance, she instantly asked for money which is a clear sign she is a greedy fuckwit that's too broke to pay insurance.
You notified police first about the incident, so even if her money hungry ass reports it, you're in the clear since you were first, and she obviously didn't care enough, or had enough money to press charges with an attorney.
All in all, it was an accident, and you happened to crash into a scum bag driver with no insurance. Don't rush into any legal involvement, as you will pay more than she will be able to give you, since again, she's probably a broke bitch with no insurance.
Don't worry about it, you're fine.
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ditto, she didn't have insurance. Which is why she took off. Just thing about it for ten seconds you lucky moron.
>anon gets a silver plated gift land in his lap
>he has an autistic fit of panic and nearly trips over his feet to turn himself in
Do not report it. Pay the repair if any yourself, it will be cheaper than the increase of insurance if you call the claim. Also you would get in trouble for causing it then running (from their point of view) and would get in trouble.
Stop being retarded.
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> caught between religion and love
I'm 28 yo, and I'm still virgin. I was born and raised in an ultra conservative-christian family where I was taught that I can't have sex until I'm married.
I had multiple occasions to hook up with girls but I was mentally blocked by my conscious and the thought of the girls being "outsiders", not part of my religion.
Recently I met a pretty lady in the hospital (I'm a nurse) and I found her very attractive. So we spoke, we joke and we laughed, and... I think we are in love with each other.
The problem is:
1. My brain tells me we can't be together because we are very different: she likes to party, drink alcohol, doesn't care about God etc;
2. I love my parents and I couldn't bring her home without disappointing my family, with my choice.
My heart likes her and wants her, my brain says to stop talking with her... I'm really "mindfucked".. And I don't know what to do.
Any adv, opinions would be appreciated!
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Why do you think you know about love when you don't know about sex
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What do you mean?
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>>17366873
does she know how you feel about religion?
if not, why not?
yes sometimes opposites attract. because sometimes its the differences that makes better partners.
if you like her and its obviously she likes you back you need to take the next step and take her out and date her. dating doesnt always lead to sex straight afterwards...
then if you like each other enough then introduce her to the folks later on down the line.
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Is it cheating if I masturbate with another guy on Skype?
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I don't know
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Can you repeat the question
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YOU'RE NOT THE BOSS OF ME NOW
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Should I tell her something?
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Hi /adv/
I am an asshole.
>last year
>fwb with this girl flatmate
>no one else knew, kept it lowkey
>it was fun, we both did it as a stress release
>no commitments
>I had to leave for summer, she was kinda sad about it but we left on good terms
>talked a bit during that summer
>felt like she needed more attention, I felt she wanted something more
>got scared when I came back, got autistic about it
>didn't talk to her, avoided her
>she got a boyfriend, happy about her
>we avoided each other
>she avoided the flat, moved out with her new bf
I am not jealous, not angry or sad (and I have no right to be), but I was a complete douche by not talking to her after that summer, and I feel like she might've had negative thoughts that could've lead into "fuck I'm this and that, he's avoiding me because bla bla" and I hope she just got over me and considered me just an asshole, but I want to say something, I want to tell her she's been amazing during our time spent together and that she shouldn't see her as anything but that.
My question to you, /adv/, how do I make it right? Is there even a way to make it about HER and not about ME? Because I don't want to do this if the only thing I could accomplish is inflate my ego by telling her 'yo it's cool you're cool' or tell her a sob story. I want to keep it real.
I fucked up, I'm sorry.
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Meet her and say that she did nothing wrong, it was all you, and ask her how to make it better, man. Amends are hard but such a weight gets lifted off your chest that you'll be amazed at how bad you were feeling and didn't even know it.
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I don't think I'll get to see her in person again, so my only chance is via internet.
Also, I don't care about any weight off my chest, as I said in the OP, it's more about setting things right for her not me.
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Seems contradictory.
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Tried tinder and only got 1 match after a month. Ended up being too complicated to start anything with her. Should I try OKC? I heard that you need to shell out big money for it to work properly but alternatively that it is better than tinder.
Is it even worth trying with a free membership?
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Uh, you don't have to pay anything. It's completely free. You can pay for their "premium" service that lets you search more specifically, or you can pay to "boost" your profile so that I guess you show up in the featured list, but both of those are pretty worthless.
Pro tip: When you answer questions with explanations, you show up in everyone's "News Feed" thing. So if you write really good explanations, you'll get lots of views this way. I've found both of my long term relationships on OKC, and I've just moved to a different city and get ~7 views a day if I answer one question a day. I've gotten lots of messages, too. I'm a guy, too, so it's not like I'm drowning in hook-up requests like the girls.
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If you got one match on tinder, and don't live in bumble-fuck nowhere you might not be attractive enough for online dating.
Pictures are the only thing that matter. If you are fat/neckbeard improve yourself first then jump into dating sites.
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I live in bumble-fuck nowhere, but not a fat neckbeard. What do?
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31 y/o dude, not really suicidal but i see no point in living. i have nothing i want to accomplish, no goals in life whatsoever. i have a shitty job, but for an uneducated retard like me it pays pretty good (baout 2.5 times the minimum wage where i currently live) so its not that bad. no social skills to speak of. dont feel a need to socialise anyways. i have a place to live, enough money to get by and save quite a bit. got some close friends whom i neglect more and more, got a pretty good family too. and everyday i wake up and i wonder why the fuck do i even get up from bed. why do you? when i think about it, if i knew for sure that my family/friends wouldnt be traumatized by this, i would off myself right now without thinking 1 second about it, not because life is so hard on me, but because its a fucking drag and nothing more
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Just get a hobby m8
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>>17366852
Tried that, get bored of anything really fast. Nothing sticks to me for more than a moment
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>>17366883
Really? What do you do during your free time?
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>My family loves me and supports me like no other, is always there for me
>My gf of 4 years loves me and has taught me a lot about life, has always backed me up against others, says I'm her other half
>Due to conflicting ideals and actions between these two I find myself a lot of times in the middle and I'm forced to chose either one side or the other, consequently hurting the other.
I haven't slept in 6 months, I am always in constant worry, I can't think straight. I can't enjoy my life, I'm always hurting loved ones.
Last week I though about ending it with my gf but she told me stuff about how much she loves me and she did some things that helped me greatly in my life and that makes me feel like ending it with her will make me lose and hurt someone so precious and important in my life. I can't breathe.
Was there ever any time that you felt similar? What did you do?
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>>Due to conflicting ideals and actions between these two I find myself a lot of times in the middle and I'm forced to chose either one side or the other, consequently hurting the other.
You're going to have to expand on this. Why don't they get along?
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>>17366786
Without explanation, I would choose gf. Your family has raised you and been great to you, but it's your life now and your significant other should be by far the most important person in your life. You'll be with her for the rest of your life but your time living with your family is finite.
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>Gf believes that the relationship is the priority and then comes everyone else
>Family believes in shared time between gf, friends and family
>Gf thinks I should live off on my own (or with her) and grow as a person
>Family believes we should all stick together and help one another grow
>Gf thinks that instead of having an organized future and focusing on my career, I should live my live and do as I feel, experience the now, do another job if I have to as long as I'm happy
>Family thinks that organizing my career future is whats most important for me, so I can be independent as a person , do my thing and support those I love and will love in the future.
>Been in situations where my gf has said "If you love me drop everything and come see me"
>Been in situations where family has told me "Your gf is abnormal and she is poisoning you, you have become depressed"
>Been in situations where my gf has said "I would give all my life for you"
>Been in situations where family has told me "No matter what you chose we will always love you and support you"
All my friends are telling me that this relationship is poisonous and I have lost myself in it. I am no longer a happy and optimistic person. But on the other hand my gf is like this because she has been through a horrible past of abuse and even so she has changed into a better person even since we started dating. In the end its up to me. But I'm interested in hearing about other peoples experiences.
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Hey /adv/ I could use some advice
I have been talking to a girl for a few months, and we are about to date (we only haven't been because I had an internship out of state); however, I keep having my doubts. She is attractive, fun, adventurous, generous, and an all around good person which are all characteristics I want in a girl. I am having trouble getting past a few things, and I want to know how others would oversee them. For one, she has done a few harder drugs (and I have done even more) but this bothers me. I am being such a hypocrite since I know my use extends beyond hers, yet I cannot stand that she has even tried them. In addition, she has been with more guys than I have girls. I know this shouldn't be a problem, but her number is definitely higher and it eats at me. To be honest, I know I probably have these problems because of my own insecurities. I just do not know what to do. I want to be with her, yet I do not want these thoughts to eat away at me. Thoughts?
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I think you are right that a few of the issues are on your side. If you want to get over issues with her, then it is going to have to start with you. She obviously cannot change what happened and neither can you. If you really like her, and want to be with her, then you are going to need to just accept them and get over it. Being a gentleman is being better than the man you were the day before. Be a gentleman and start improving yourself in order to be happy with her.
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Stop being a little bitch and get over your insecurities. Who cares if she has had sex with more guys. Sometimes sex is just sex that doesn't really mean anything. If she truly likes you and wants something, then the sex probably means more in your scenario. Take a fucking chill pill and get over your shit.
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I think the other two comments made some good points, but I also understand your point of view. What kind of relationships has she had with others in the past?