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I have to do a compulsory internship for my studies in IT and I have two offers:

1. at a large well known company
2. at a very small (5 people) startup

I like the startup a bit better personally. But will it be a bad decision regarding my cv? Will a future employer think less of me than if I did my internship at a renowned company?
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Doesn't matter as much as you think it does, any code you write during it will be shit because you're still a student. All code I wrote during internships was shit too. You might get better paid and maybe accommodation at the bigger company, but there's slightly less chance of you doing something that has a big impact there.
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>>17368846
You are more likely to be given real work to do in the small company, and also different kinds as you get called on to assist everyone.
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>>17368911
I think I will learn a lot of stuff at both companies. At the end, I just wonder whether it'll make a big difference on my CV.

So I really need some relationship advice that leans to the sexual side
I am Asexual. I suck at literally everything on this topic. And I have a great bf that every time I go over to his place and we want to do something, it doesn't really work

He's accepting enough that we don't actually have typical sex, but anything else we do either hurts or isn't very good. He's eager to please which is great, but each time he fingers me, it's okay for about a few seconds before it begins to hurt really badly and I wish I never asked in the first place. I can easily do it better myself, which is saddening because I know he just wants to make me happy

This follows up into the fact he really wants to go down on me. We have only attempted this twice, first time it felt good and I enjoyed it but the second time he said I tasted awful and I made him stop. I'm an unhealthy person with decent hygiene. He said I could get some special soap to fix the problem but I still live w/ my parents and I have no fucking clue what to do. I desperately want to see if there's a way to fix both issues but this one takes priority.

So basically, is there any way to get my sex life sorted out/how do women make themselves taste better? On his side he only needs handjobs so even if I am not the best he seems okay, which I'm eternally grateful for. I just am lost on the rest.
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>>17368811
You're not asexual. That is something i have to make very clear!

And the problem with bad tasting vag can be fixed with a special soap designed to the area. Your mom can most likely tell you where to buy stuff like that
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>>17368825
I am an Asexual that realizes that I have to do sexual stuff to keep a relationship going. There's nothing more attached to it/I wouldn't be desperate for advice like this on the internet if I didn't feel I needed it for my bf's sake.

If I ask for the soap, she's going to wonder why, and I don't want to go into that.
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>>17368832
You are talking abouy enjoying stuff and wanting to try stuff with your bf. An asexual just doesn't have the drive, it's not because it hurts or anything, they simply just don't get turned on.

How old are you? Your mom shouldn,t be surprised that her daughter with a boyfriend haves sex

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>came on her belly
>washed my dick well
>put it in without condom

is this safe? she won't get preggers this way right? please no stupid answers. i'm really anxious.
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congrats on your kid 9 months from now OP! Remember this post cuz im not telling you congrats 9 months from now.
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>>17368781
You can wash it all you want. There was probably still some left over semen in the 'pipe'

If you peed after it, you're probably fine
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>>17368781
There's a small chance, but it's about the same as your chances when having sex with a condom on.

You should probably start using at least some kind of actual protection, buddy, unless you're okay with the idea of having a kid.

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Hi /adv/

Say if I were an idiot that never learned much about math (such as basic basic algebra and so on) where would be a good place to start?

I've been wanting to actually properly learn math for a bit now aside from just stuff you learn in primary school.
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>>17368777
Be more specific. What level of math are you currently up to?
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>>17368780
I guess I finished everything before high school really, sorry if this sounds stupid not exactly sure how to say if that makes sense.
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>>17368787
Take a plato course, I guess. My friends who were not very good at math took these instead of traditional math courses. It's hard for me to recommend something for you if I do not have a place to start, since there are many different areas of math.

If you're done with algebra 1 or 2, then plato courses should be a good place to start. Whenever people paid me to do their plato stuff for them in high school, the material in them seemed to pick up from there.

What do you think of white guys with Asian tattoos? Hot or Not?
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Not. Fucking weeaboos.
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>>17368751
What is perceived as attractive changes with time, getting a tattoo for this reason is beyond stupid.
Your personal taste also changes with times; getting a tattoo is stupid.
Tl;dr: just do it!
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>>17368751
>if the guy is already passable (read: not hideous, morbidly obese or dirty/gross/a cunt) and is interested in the culture he's tattooing onto his body
Hot

>if the guy doesn't give a shit about culture and just wanted an excuse to have something on him that would make him look cool
At best he openly admits he just got it because it looks cool and it does nothing, at worst it's annoying and off-putting, depending on how much he pretends to know what he's talking about when he clearly doesn't.

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I've lost all sexual and romantic interest in people. The only thing I want is a platonic bdsm relationship, where there's no intimacy at all. I don't want sex, the thought of kissing someone makes me nauseous, I don't want any emotional connection. I don't find anyone appealing. Attempts to masturbate have failed, I can't get off anymore, though it feels kind of nice.

What's wrong with me, and how do I fix it?
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>>17368717
>What's wrong with me, and how do I fix it?
You're either just asexual and it's not a problem so just be okay with that or someone burned you hard enough that you've become an edgy little faggot, at which point you need to unbury that hurt and figure your shit out.
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>>17368728
The concern is that I used to be very sexual. A little over two months ago, I suddenly lost all interest. It was like flipping off a switch. I've been waiting for it to go away, but it hasn't.
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>>17368717
How about don't seek a relationship then? Why do you think you need to be in a relationship to be normal? Relationships should only be when you feel a connection with someone and want them to be a part of your life indefinatly. The world has just become overly sexualized and your feeling of confusion result from that. Just live your life and don't worry what other people are doing with theirs

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>need a new anime
When i was a teen i was into FMA and other shonen
Grew up, been into other stuff
Recently started one punch man, and i finished Attack on titan and kabaneri of the iron fortress
I liked the latter the most. What are some other cool anime that have a decent end (iron fortress had a shitty end imo) you would recommend? With similar style would be awesome.
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Go watch Jojo if you're into shonen

Also Code Geass
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>>17368772
Code Geass is a great suggestion
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>>17368667
Give Samurai Champloo or Cowboy Beebop a try

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Hi,
there's this chick I know from a university sports group that I had half a year ago. I only spoke to her briefly in that time and last time I spoke to her was casual and half a year ago.

In the last couple of weeks I saw her a handful of times where she seemed to blush / smile at me. Last time at the cafeteria complex but she only smiled from afar and I didn't think much of it.... until the evening that day when I held my dick in my hand once again...

Problem: now lectures are over and I could only see her in the cafeteria complex by chance within the next few weeks.

so HOW should I talk to her?

should I get her number from the Whatsapp group we were both in ?

should I wait somewhere and then try to 'coincidentally' meet her in the cafeteria complex?

please answer with the reasoning behind the decision. Thank you very much guys!
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>>17368649
Get her number.
"Hi. I saw you across the room and realized it has been months since the sports group. Would you like to join me in a coffee/Coke to catch up?"
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brump
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just be yourself :^)

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>Me, male in 20s
>born in a very religious family
>pretend to be religious for "reasons"
>anti social
>long story short, parents needs their son to be successful, married and etc
>How can I get married, I'm emotionally unstable and don't want to hurt anyone
>I admit I'm not that handsome, 3/10 honestly
> I don't see myself anything special
> Got a secure job, that my parents wants me too but too depressed
>All of my friends are successful and I'm not
> I want to be true to myself, doing the things that I proud off n perhaps, enjoy
> Hate myself for trying n keep falling, but ultimately, there's nothing can compare the joy of seeing the work you work ur ass off n get paid for it, even if the pay is so little.
> but this kind of live is tiring
>Got to please my boss, parents and myself.
> When I try to sleep, anxiety creeps in n I worried about all thing.
> Death, loneliness, someone to love
> I be honest to myself, saying that heaven doesn't exist and I probably would die alone at 50.
> I have no special someone or best friend.
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Move out and do your own things.

You're male so the likelihood of your parents killing you for not living up to expectations is extremely slim.
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>>17368624
Go read (or listen) to "no more mr nice guy" by Robert Glover, you can torrent it if need be. You sound like someone the books is written for, sacrificing yourself to please others and then wondering why you're dissatisfied with your life at the end of a day. Make you own path and satisfy your own wants and needs. If you lose friends/family on the way so be it, true friends and family want abandon someone trying to fulfil their basic wants.
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OP, your pic hits me right in the feels

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What is /sci/s opinion about relationships with a big age difference. I am a 26 year old guy dating a 40 year old woman and I have to say it is hot af, but I think it is not socially accepted, or is it?
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>Science & Math
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>>17368610
Mods need to give out longer bans for these threads.
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>>17368612
Chill out dude I was just asking for scientific opinion

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Do I have to give up anime and games to become a happier person?
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>>17368579
if anime and games make you happy, giving them up will make you less happy

if all you do is play games and watch anime, and these two things alone don't make you happy, try something else
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>>17368579
It's a start.
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>>17368579
Not unless they prevent you from doing things that make you happy.

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alright so im 26 and im working in an office with 3 middle aged women (they are disgusting before anyone..)

ive been here for a year now - first job - but i cannot take it anymore so i decided to use earbuds and listen to music at work because i am no longer interested in them

i came to the realization that they are two faced bitches and i should never tell them anything ever

the other thing that annoys me is that their daily topics are: kids, family, shopping, food, kids, kids, work is shit

i mean if work is shit and you cannot believe that you have to be here then go the fuck home but don't expect to get paid for it

they have 0 education and im the only one in the office with an actual work so they just basically come in to talk about feelings and stuff which is annoying because i cannot concentrate and sometimes when im on phone i cant hear the other party because of their chit-chat

anyway long story short - i could probably keep on complaining for 15 pages - can i be engaged by my boss not to use earbuds and not to listen to music? can they punish me for using them? im answering phonecalls always and stuff its not so loud that i wouldn't hear the phone ring or important stuff but its loud enough to distract me from them (sometimes its not enough)

i was thinking about handing in a formal notice that the work environment is not good but then again i know they wont do anything and id just piss everybody off even more
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Wait what women who are probably mothers will talk about their kids
Or or wait women gossip jesus it's almost like these aren't facts
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>>17368581
first job mang i had no fucking idea that older women have no life and can only talk about unimportant shit
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>>17368567
Technically they could. But as long as it's not interfering with your work I don't see why they would.
I'd recommend headphones though, better sound quality that way. Skullcandy is good if you're on a budget but want decent quality.

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How do I not bust a nut in under a minute during my first time?
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>>17368562
That minute is going to the best feeling you'll ever have.
Why prolong it? Embrace it, you only experience it once.
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Greater men than you have tried and failed. It will happen.
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Eat her out so she comes before you stick it in.

You won't even need a minute.

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>know girl for a while through hobby related social circle
>recently begin talking more
>more recently get flirty, dance together on a night out, lots of physical contact
>texts me this morrow 'Morning tiger' with winky emoji

Would you assume she wished to indulge in carnal relations with you?
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>>17368498
>>recently begin talking more
Really can't tell. Maybe she just wants to talk about the hobby with someone

>>more recently get flirty, dance together on a night out, lots of physical contact
Maybe she likes you or maybe she just wants to dance with someone. Really can't tell.

>>texts me this morrow 'Morning tiger' with winky emoji
So she sent you a message in the morning. Really can't tell if she likes you or not. Could just be concerned for her hobby buddy's well being after a hard night of partying.
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>>17368504
We kinda started talking more after I found out she was a Christian, so we talk about that alot.

Last night she started bringing up the subject of sex, and specifically pet names, hence the 'tiger' part. I told her guys love being called tiger.

Im gonna see her tonight. Do I ask her to go for drinks?
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>>17368498
You best start to flirt back and ask her out instead of wasting your time asking memepeople for advice at this stage ya chicken

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Hey /adv

Recently enough a group of my friends and other people have been organising beach parties. I went to a few and they're quite fun. Unfortunately the last one I embarrassed myself horribly. I got seriously drunk and started getting sick. To add insult to injury I went to a state of trauma. My friends looked after me and got me home as well as the other people too which I'm thankful for.
Now I feel scared too go back. I feel I can't go back. I feel highly embarrassed and feel if I go il only embarrass myself and ruin other people's night. There's one today. Should I go?
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You should go if it isn't already over.
I drink too much and throw up and pass out every so often.
In fact I hosted a barbecue where I ended the night by throwing up and passing out. The only time it ever comes up is when I bring it up.

Point being, nobody gives a shit except you. Everyone has a bad party.
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>>17368542
This, it has atleast happens once to everybody, and the only one making a fuss about it is you, sometimes my best friend comes up with it and we laugh it off, Eitherway, don't stress about it happens to everybody
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>>17368491
Don't worry about it too much. Stuff like this happens, and honestly I think almost everyone has been there at least once. Heck I know I've been there a few times. Just don't overthink it!

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