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I'm 20 years old and I'm still living with my parents. They want to leave to Texas because my mom can't stand Chicago's weather.

She decided to leave as soon as possible, which is next month and she told me and my older brother the following options.

A.) We go with her, get jobs and pay rent while living under the same house as them.

B.) Me and my older brother both get jobs, we stay here and find our own apartment while I go to school.

Now, I'd be ok with A.) If it wasn't for the fact that I still wanna go to school and my GPA IS shit. I won't get any financial aid if my GPA is too low, so I need at least a year to fix it.

However I don't have that much time. My older brother thinks that I can still go to school and have a job at the same time.

My first and previous year I fucked up my classes really bad, and I couldn't keep up with school work and my job at the same time. My GPA at the moment is 1.00. Is literally trash.

I recently just got interested in computer science and right now I'm even watching a couple of free courses online about it. I just learned about binary and threads. I really wanna make an effort in school now.

Although I fear that working and studying at the same time will mess me up. And the most important thing is, how will I pay for my school? I wouldn't mind paying out of pocket, but try and put up with rent at the same time? I don't know if that's even possible.

I don't know what to do, I need some guidance. Can I pull through with this and hold out for 4 years while I try and get my bachelor's?

As gay and beta as this sounds, I've never been this scared of the future. I'm gonna be on my own now, and I'm afraid that I'll just end up being a poor sap with no education with no shot to a decent future.

Any advice or personal experience? Anything I should consider doing?

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My girlfriend posts nudes on Reddits gonewild board. I love and trust her and we do it for fun as role playing. She never shows her face just posts nudes from her work and at home. She has 800 followers and seems to get exited about the attention she gets from men. Especially when they threaten her with rape and hunting her down. This obviously has me worried because these guys online can get really obsessive. Is it possible she could get hacked and they can find her even if she has an iPhone with greater security?

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how long does it take to learn how to drive? Im being a lazy bum and havent gotten my license yet. What's the estimated time that I'd have to invest in to drive. The reading, testing, and hands on experience put together.

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Is it morally wrong, or is it healthy to enjoy the company and attention of girls you find attractive when you're in a relationship?

I've been in a relationship for 2 years and it's been on the whole fantastic, but recently I've started getting closer and spending more time around someone I used to have a crush on, but it never went anywhere.

A lot of people say we're quite flirty with each other, and I can see where they come from but it's mostly just banter with each other.

I'd never cheat, but I know my girlfriend has a slight jealous hang up about this girl because I USED to like her, which in turn makes me think should I enjoy or allow myself to be around this girl as much as I am, and enjoy her company?

My girlfriend isn't totally hung up and a jealous bitch about anything, but if she could she'd prefer I didn't interact with this person outside of necessity.

The thing is, I do actually enjoy this girls company, but I can guarantee nothing would ever happen between us, even in the most ridiculous of situations, so is it bad to do this while knowing my girlfriend is a tad jealous?

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How do you deal with mean spirit, violent, aggressive, envious and all around miserable individuals in an assertive manner? Despite them being intimidating and always verbally abusive.

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So me and my girl got in a debate either the usage of a children-like sex doll would promote or weaken the urge of actually having sex with a little girl or boy.

I think it helps a person that actually likes little children and knows it's illegal to not go after them.

IN the other hand, she thinks that these sex dolls will promote the urge of going after a child since they will get so attached to the routine of having sex of a children sex doll.

What /adv/ think?

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I'm tired of my boyfriend calling me a "roastwhore" whenever he is angry at me for being too busy. He's a sweet boy, and writes poems about me (even though he tries to copy Ezra Pound and James Joyce). He has threatened to break up with me numerous times such as when he saw me reading books by Harold Bloom, Herman Melville, and Nathaniel Hawthorne, telling me to get "real taste" and to read Ulysses (which I have). Whenever I try to kiss him he'll pucker his lips and start sucking on mine, then he'll run around the room screaming "AAAAAAA!".
It's really getting out of hand.
I told him that he needs to act normal, man up, and stop acting like a child. Then he started to cry and told me that Schopenhauer was right.
I comforted him the whole night although he told me "stop touching me, witch" but cried even more whenever I stopped.
I'm considering reading some Freud and applying what he says to my boyfriend but I really don't know.
Everything is just so confusing but I love him too much and I'm worried he'll be (even more) out of control if I left him.
Please help me /adv/ :\

Our sex is normal, he'll play Bob Dylan time to time during it. I don't mind too much...

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lonely alcoholic, I have good friends I'm really close to, but I don't want to overwhelm them with my burdans. I feel as if I need a connection w/ something greater.

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How do I convert to homosexuality? I hate women; particularly roastwhores.

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but suddenly i've completely lost attraction to her
simply because of the knowledge that im fucking the same hole that 3 other guys have. specifically guys that I dislike in person.

I dont have a virgin fetish and ive never thought like this before but
I cant brush off the feeling. I used to care so much about everything she said and now suddenly shes just annoying meatsack.

I wish I didn't feel this way. is this relationship completely unsalvageable now? Nothing even happened, it was just a thought that pop'd into my head last week when we were together and I cant shake it.

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What do?
We've been talking for 3 weeks and we've met at shows before.
Do I press on or back off?

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Hey /adv/ i have a love for stuffed animals. Like i really love them, nothing sexually at all but i collect them, and treat them like children.
I want to find others to share my love to stuffies with, a place where it's possible to share pictures and stories of onces teddies.
Do any of you know where?

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Why are there so many females on adv

>is its cus you just like to tell people what to do?

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I feel as if I don't really understand masculinity. I am a male but I don't do things that people would find stereo-typically masculine.

For example, I don't like watching sports. I don't like chasing after women. I don't feel some insatiable need to fuck every decent woman I come across. I don't really feel aggression.

What really makes me think is the not chasing women part. I hate chasing after women. I hate sticking my neck out just to be cut down time and time again. I don't understand how anyone could enjoy "chasing" women. I would much rather be pursued by a woman because pursuers innately have so much more control and power. Chasing is a suicide mission to me.

Also, I don't know too many "manly" crafts or whatever. Never lived in a place with a garage so naturally I couldn't do projects or learn working with tools.

Overall, I am not effeminate but I just don't know the ins and outs of masculinity. I honestly, just feel like a man trying to survive. Anyway I can.

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I'm married and I'm in an open relationship. My husband is functionally asexual due to a medicine he's on. My husband is also very vanilla and I'm pretty kinky.

I've had trouble over time finding people to explore my sexuality with. There was a period of time I gave up, and of course that's when I met my husband. My husband is great, he is my best friend and my life partner, but he's not a sexual match.

The objective of the open relationship is for me to explore my sexuality and not let the sex issue come between us.

My ex was the first one I opened up to about my kinky side. We were both relatively young (19) and he was so bright-eyed and optimistic about us. I wasn't as confident in the relationship and it tore us apart eventually. At the beginning it was great and we satisfied each others emptiness in ourselves, bit it was an emotionally abusive relationship.

About a year ago I met this guy online who shares some of my kinks. He's kinkier than me, and he doesn't make me feel inhibited sexually (in conversation) at all. We meet up every few months for coffee/makeout time, but haven't had time for much else. Recently things have gotten steamier. He wants to know if we can have a side relationship. I'm 23, he's 24. He's never had a "serious gf".

This guy appears to really like me. He notices manerisms I make and other cute things that people notice when they crush on someone. A few months back, we sat on the beach as he kissed my neck and kinda asked the universe why I wasn't single. He asked me like 2 weeks ago if we could have a side relationship.
I told him I didn't think that was possible, since I'd let him down, but he has persisted.
We've had 2 "dates" recently, and they've both been amazing.
I do like him, I just don't want to hurt him.

There are also some wierd similarities between this guy and my ex, and I'm not sure if my judgement is clouded by me imprinting things about my ex's expectations of me onto this guy.

What do /adv/?