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>went to Uni for a year, transferred to local community college for pre-reqs, now need to go back to Uni
>family's broke, running off bank loans, only $9000 in debt despite 3 years of college (paid for my own community college/some grants)
Caught in a bind on housing, however. My university is about an hour away from my house, and given my classes I'd need to commute 5 days a week, about 10am to 5pm. Naturally I couldn't work much by commuting and run the risk of car issues/inclement weather, but it would be considerably cheaper (live with parents, so low rent/bills).
Living near/on campus would be convenient, however given local renting costs it'd be at least $4000/semester (between $8000-$10000 extra in housing loans a year, on top of the $14000 in loans I've already taken for only classes). I have no leads on a job if I move near campus either, however my resume isn't shit so I could at least find low-pay things or some IT work related to my studies.
I do need at least 2 more years of college, so this will add up over time. I'd personally like to live near campus for networking/living the college life, but the costs are insane.
What do you guys think, is the drastically increased college costs worth having a more genuine college experience? Any tips on playing this out either way, or factors to consider?
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Roommates?
Communal house?
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tl;dr I need to either commute 5 days a week, 10-5pm to school for super cheap, or move up near campus for an increase $10,000/yr in living costs alone. What do?
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>>17367958
I don't know anybody near campus so I'd live alone until I find a trustworthy roommate.
It's in a ghetto neighborhood, so I'd likely live just outside of town (dorm prices are outrageous there). I'd keep an eye out for roommates, but won't be jumping at ads in such a shitty neighborhood like that.
My submissive gf wants me to make non-sexual rules for her
I don't even know where to start, any ideas?
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Give her a bed time, a diet plan, and a list of people she can talk to when you're not with her.
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Forced exercise.
She has to share all fantasies with you.
Special clothes.
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>>17367957
Yeah that sounds good, maybe I'll replace the last item with making her refer to me by a specific name with other people
Thanks anon
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I'm not expecting her to reply I'm at peace with what I said. Just want to know what she ment by me having feelings for the idea of her ?
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>>17367948
She might have thought that you just started having feelings for her, or that you only like the way she (insert action here). She's may also be in the Nile and in shock of your confession, with this being a flighty response.
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>>17367948
Pic related
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Sounds like she is trying to low-key get rid of you.
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I come to you all with a simple question,
How can I be a better kisser? Right now I'm not really using my tongue and I don't really know what to do.
pic unrelated but cute
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Lock lips, noses touch cheeks, tongues wrestle.
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>>17367922
Use one hand to touch the back of her head
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>>17367949
I'm honestly just more focused on the tongue aspect. Like what do you mean tongue wrestle?
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You guys helped me find love 2016-07-18 05:25:22 Post No.17367916
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You guys helped me find love
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Thank you, thank all of you, for helping me meet the love of my life.
youtube.com/watch?v=1tkLxtxbv3Q
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>>17367916
>I met my girlfriend on 4chan
>4chan
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It happens. I met my now ex-gf right here on /adv/. We did date for a few good months.
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>>17367916
Brandon stahp
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26 virgin here. Really scared about having sex though. I avoided it when I was young out of not having curiosity but now I'm really scared because of the possible situation. I might even go vigin all the way.
Tried to masturbate with all my foreskin pulled back and I had to stop because it was too fucking weird and even painful.
Now I'm basically scared shitless of doing that again because of the pain. What do I do? psychiatrist? or a hooker?
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>>17367901
My plan is to go virgin all the way man. Fuck all the noise of dealing with other people and shit. I'm also asexual, so that helps a bit. I'd go see a doctor if it hurts to jerk off, that doesn't seen normal...
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See a counselor. If your problem is overcoming fear that's probably your best bet.
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It seems like people get trouble with their foreskin if they go for years without pulling it back. It's not a problem for normal people, who wash normally and so basically do it their entire lives. Masturbating also does it, but you start washing much sooner than that.
Reminds me of guys in India who decide not to ever use one of their arms, and their arms sort of shrivel.
You have bigger problems than sex. Sex is another thing altogether.
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I fucking hate myself. When I was younger and lived with my mother and stepfather with my 4 little siblings, all of which were children of my stepfather, I was so fucking cruel to my oldest little brother, verbally and physically abusing him while treating my other siblings with so much love, I loved him too. But with both of my parent figures being drug addicted pieces of shit who fought (verbally) and got drunk and high to the point of being basically dead every fucking night and me being the 15 year old oldest child having to take care of all my siblings I guess I abused him to vent, at the time I didn't know that's what I was doing. One night my stepfather attempted to beat my mother to death in front of me while all my siblings were asleep, I called the cops and my mother barely survived, but I was permanently damaged with the sight of my mother bleeding from her face and neck profusely, I went to live with my dad after this, and my siblings went to live with their father, 2 years of being homeless with my methhead dad pass and he gets locked up, I was with one of his friends at the time so I stayed there until they kicked me out because they suspected me of doing drugs in their home, which I never did, drugs and alcohol fucking ruined my life I'm fucking terrified of the shit. Every day after being separated from my siblings I fucking hated myself because i finally realized how I treated my brother, I feared that he would remember me as nothing but an abusive brother, after being kicked out I moved in with my mother's parents, my grandma and my abusive piece of shit grandfather. My grandmother shows me pictures on Facebook of my siblings and how they're doing, apparently failing school and homeless with their piece of shit father, I have to put on a face pretending I'm not dying inside just from pictures of them, turns out all 4 of my siblings were diagnosed with PTSD as well as me, my brother remembers me as abusive.
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Now I get nightmares and horrible dreams every fucking night about them and my past because I really do love my siblings but I can't go back in time and stop myself from being a piece of shit, I honestly think I'd be better off dead. I don't know how to work past this.
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> I honestly think I'd be better off dead.
No one is going to tell you this upfront in real life because of social condemnation but being here and just reading what you say, yeah you probably would be better off dead. You ruined other people life's out of just because you could and you did it continually so I'm guessing you really didn't have any kind of moral compass.
Thanks for this. I sometimes think of killing myself but at least my brother loves me and is actually a real happy folk.
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>>17367932
It wasn't my intention to ruin his life, if I could go back and fix it I would, no matter what it took, I was blind back then, I didn't know what I was doing, I was just acting out in anger because i never had proper parents who gave half a shit about me. But that's no excuse for what I've done, I really do deserve death at this point, whether I regret what I did it not I still did it.
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Sooo..ex i was pretty serious with. We broke up. Had some issues. Started seeing each other casually. I know she messes around with guys. Talks about it a lot and I talk with her. I was her main guy though. We get into a problem again. She doesn't want to talk to me although we still have the odd exchange impart from her ignoring me. I send some other messages tonight and she sends a pic of her kissing another guy. Laughs when I call her fucked up. Tells me to leave her alone. What do I do? Should I be taking this so hard? I'm going to text her tomorrow. Sorry for the retarded posting. I can't think very much right now. Guys we used to be really in love. She's told me things she wouldn't tell any other guy. I find myself wanting to persist but what do I do from here? What should I say to her tomorrow? Is this honestly the end? I'm not jealous and I don't care about the kissing, it's the fact that she did that with ill intention. I realize how much self respect given up for her.
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Give her some space
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So I shouldn't talk to her tom? I can't just pretend this didn't happen though. What should I say? Should I tell her I'm going to give her space? Just stop talking to her? How long?
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>>17367860
>She's told me things she wouldn't tell any other guy
She already is.
Cut your losses, get away from her. Don't reply even in the off-chance she messages you. Find someone else worthy of your time and affection.
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How do I work up the courage to go through with killing myself?
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>>17367859
If you are doubting you arent ready.You have this inner voice calling subconciously for survival.Read existencialism.Specially Camus.
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>>17367861
Camus was an adulterer.
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>>17367859
Here's the best way:
Go see a therapist, and tell them that you're trying to work up the courage to kill yourself.
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If a man was gonna finger a woman's vagina after he got sperm on his hand, would washing the sperm off with water and soup be enough before he fingered her to not get her pregnant?
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Assuming decent washing technique, the odds should be very, very close to zero. Not QUITE zero -stranger things have happened- but we're talking tiny fractions of 1%.
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>>17367840
How about the condom plus pull-out method while not on the pill?
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>>17367836
>water and soup
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i wanted to send my oversea bf something personal but i really lack any ideas any help? the backstory behind that is that i will be dead in a few weeks (2 maybe 3 weeks if anything) and i want to send him something personal so he got something from me but every idea i seem to get seems bad the longer i think about it and im very uncreative especially with gifts since i never really got any or had someone to gift something to
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>dead in a few weeks
Wut?
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You only have a few weeks to live and you are on 4chan. This is such an incredible place.
Anyway, send him a nice photo of you. If you have the money, go get a good professional makeover and professional photographer, and frame it. Send a heartfelt letter with it.
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Elaborate. What's he do, what do you do, what does he like, what do you like? Why are not long of this earth?
Something that I would send is several handwritten heartfelt letters, with video and audio of you reading them to him. Pour your heart out. Everything else is finite.
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So I was driving home from my gfs tonight and she lives on top of a huge hill. I'm finally slowing down to 30 mph (which is the speed limit) but a cop pulls me over because of the speed I was doing originally. See cop pull into close neighborhood to stop, but he assumes I was trying to get away. He keeps my insurance, and lets me go. Almost arrests me though because I'm not good with the police. I'm 18 and this is my first violation ever, should I contest it?
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>I'm not good with the police
what do you mean by this?
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>>17367829
>Keeps your proof of insurance
This is not how it works.
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I'm timid. The police don't like that. And he kept my proof of insurance. I don't know what else to say.
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Won a bet against a girl 2016-07-18 04:30:07 Post No.17367823
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She said that if I won I could ask her anything if it was "within her reach" (nothing sexual) and yes, I'm a guy
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>nothing sexual
Then why bet?
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>>17367823
Ask for money.
Get a hoe.
???
Profit.
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>>17367823
Make her spend a night under a bridge.
Then rape her while disguised as a homeless transvestite.
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I have a problem guys. So how do you convince a girl to let you eat her out? I've talked about it to her and she's kinda on board but really nervous. So nervous that she closes her legs. She also hates blowey Joey's.
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>>17367806
Start slowly. Make out, kiss on the neck, etc.
Be romantic and loving. All the while, silently work your body in between her legs so you have leverage.
When you've got her in the mood, pin her, even by choking, and hold her while you go down on her. She'll go wild for being "taken". Women love a man that takes control.
That being said, make ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN that she's not the kind to consider this rape.
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>>17367821
Sounds hot. How would I go about and pin her. Right now I have the 69 position in mind with me on top
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>>17367830
Wait on the 69 for a few months until you've got her really comfortable with oral.
Just suddenly get a very firm grip on her neck with one hand and choke her a little. My girl goes crazy when I do that.
Don't actually collapse her trachea, just let her feel the pressure around her neck, not directly on the anterior. She'll know you're in charge, and it will turn you both on.
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Broke up 2 weeks ago can't take it. 2016-07-18 04:08:26 Post No.17367782
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Broke up 2 weeks ago can't take it.
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So I have been dating her for 5 years now , I'm 23.
Basically we dated all through our college days (sadly not in the same college or University).
We had one break up due to religious reasons, but we never had a bad relationship I can even say never a bad day.
We had just agreed that I would meet her parents later this month and start preparing for our engagement, and since we live 2 hours distance apart, I did meet her very little for the whole time, but last year we met nearly everyday, but during her exams period we could not meet and soon after she started the exams she stopped answering any phone calls or texts, and when She answered she answered very madly saying that she is so busy with her exams and blamed me for wanting to talk 24/7 which was so far from the case as I only sent her texts after she finished an exam checking up on her nothing more.
Told myself she needed some space I waited the whole exam period waiting her to call or text and before the final exam I asked her out she refused but accepted that I would just take her home after the exam thats before the final one. When we met I gave her a gift on our way home she was so happy said that she missed my car so much, and everything seemed fine, and I was telling myself that I was such a kid and really all that she needed was space.
Just after I dropped her at her home I texted her and again she barely answered like ok, have to go, etc.
So asked her out on her final day of exams, she refused saying she would want to just go home and sleep and refused that I even give her a ride home like last one.
On that day I got surprised by her posting pictures of her day out with her college friends and looked so happy actually, that I did not want to be gloomy about it, and it wasn't something spontaneous as she was very prepared with her dress on and all. anyway when I told her 'why didn't you tell me you will go out?".
she answered "I'm really sorry, but I tried, because we are so different."
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this was 2 weeks ago, and I really could not take it sent her alot of texts questioning what happened ?
And What had actually say this but she never answered.
Today she sent me saying "You know, no matter what I do I will never find someone that would care that much for me."
That only made me feel worse I really do not know what to do or how I should feel about her as I learned that during her exam period she started dating one of her colleagues and she was out with him on that day.
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Anon, she sounds like a bitch. She ignored you, lied to you and went out with one of her colleagues. I know it's gonna be hard but let her go. She clearly doesn't give a shit about you since she basically ran out on you. If she comes crawling back to you, don't take her back. She sounds immature for not even talking to you about this breakup.
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Hang in there bro, something similar happened to me, but focus on improving yourself and learning from this situation. Don't stay dependent on her, and in the future never invest more in someone than they do into you. Good luck Anon!!!