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I've been living in Chicago largely being a disabled fuck since 2008.
What led me to this life could take days to explain.
Anyways: I am starting a well paid job finally soon. It involves a lot of traveling and it doesn't matter where I'm based, as long as it's the Usa.
Where should I move that's more pleasant, safe, and well, boring and white? I've endured enough ghetto shit for a lifetime.
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North Dakota.
White, Boring

Watch out for those natives who emulate nigger life style.
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>>17370441
I can handle wiggers better thsn the real thing. There's still a spark of human in them somewhere.
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pretty much everywhere in mid usa / upper west

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/adv/, how do you cope with wanting to be in a romantic relationship with someone (not even a particular person/character) that will never, ever exist?

I just can't anymore. I've appeared happy through all of middle and high school, love socializing with my friends but it's just in the back of my mind, whispering that I'll never be happy.

I've finally broken. The drop that spilled the glass was a lonely drinking session at home and I just can't pull myself out of the depression like I did before. I realized that I will never, ever be happy or loved (I've never been in a romantic relationship, but this is a very complex situation) and just don't care about life anymore.

I just want the suffering to end.
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please respond
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>>17370131
It's difficult to say you will be alone for the remainder of your life. Nobody can predict the future. Someday you will have a fat slob wife and kids and you'll be pissed off even then but you'll have to do it. Until then I suggest just taking a chill pill. And stop drinking, you underage twat.
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>>17370131
>I just want the suffering to end.
Everyone suffers to one degree or another. The truth of the matter is you'll suffer even in a relationship. Sure you may feel happiness and joy at first but eventually that will wear out and you might want to leave her or vice versa. In middle school you'll be constantly changing relationships and don't think that just because your "peers" are talking about all the sex they get that it is actually happening. I can assure you it is not.

What is true is only you can remain hopeful about your situation. I wouldn't recommend going out and trying to "fix" your situation as that will only further your suffering. Instead work on yourself.

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If age of consent is 16 in your state does that mean you can bang a 16 year old in your 20s? Is that morally wrong?
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Yes you can and no it's not as long as she likes you and you respect her. Just no pictures/videos until 18.
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>>17369771
Nothing wrong with it if you both want it. It's just weird. People might think there is something wrong with you
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>>17369771
>Morally
>Wrong
wew lad

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My boyfriend's mother is extremely sick with a lot of things including MS, and he's had to take care of her from a young age.
She might die anytime soon. I have insecurity issues so I fear that the shock from her dying might cause him to break up with me.
He has no other reason to, and he frequently showers me with affection. Am I just paranoid?

And yes, I do care about his family. This is just one thing that's on my mind.
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Sometimes he says I should leave because his life is too much of a burden. I never will, though.
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>>17369749
>Am I just paranoid?
Yes. Your paranoia is what will likely drive him away from you if you can't control yourself.

>>17370141
>Sometimes he says I should leave because his life is too much of a burden.
That's because he feels guilty that he can't be a normal boyfriend with a normal family. He loves you so much that he wants you to be truly happy, even if it's without him.
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>>17370148
He'd literally have to have armed bodyguards drag me away by the hair. No amount of "burden" will be enough for me to be okay with leaving. I love him too much for that to be much of a problem.

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Should I get a prostitute and get it over with?
Someone told me to keep my vcard when I was 23 years old. Should I listen to his suggestion?
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>>17369537

if ur virginity is so useless you could give it to a prostitute, then its not worth losing at all.

why pay to lose it?
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>>17369546
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>if ur virginity is so useless you could give it to a prostitute, then its not worth losing at all.

>why pay to lose it?
My virginity is priceless. That's why I kept it for so long. So I should ask for money to the girl who is willing to take my virginity now?
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>>17369546
Nice assumptions and shit logic there.

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Hello, I've been sick for ten years. I can't seem to find any doctors who are any good and actually listen to me instead of saying "Oh, you have depression? Prozac time," when I've got cold sweats, fatigue all the time, muscle aches, etc. on top of the depression. Where do good doctors live?

Pic related, i'm always exhausted n feel shitty
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>>17370801
try a private clinic. youll be kissing the ground i walk on. trust me. i just didnt go cause i already knew what theyre going to say. maybe you need some direction.
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>>17370801
also my personal opinion - if theyve found nothing wrong with you, then try exercising lightly and eating healthier. try putting more light in your room and putting motivational music on. if you skip over all of this then you cant ever have energy!
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>>17370822
I have done all that already ad nauseum, tried every herb and supplement there is, tried therapy and positive thinking, etc. I'm sick dude, you can't just skip it away

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I graduate next May with a computer engineering BSE. I am interested in what joining the military with a 4 year degree has to offer. Pay wise and just overall is it worth it. A few questions:

How competitive is it? I'm not at the top of my class, but unless I fuck up I will graduate magna cum laude. Not sure if GPA matters all that much though. Basically, would I have decent chances actually being commissioned or should I not exactly bank on it?

Which branch would be best, considering my major? I don't care about being deployed, relocated, put in a dangerous spot with snack bar potential, etc. Just where the best opportunity would be for comp engineering major looking to be commissioned. I assume Air Force, but I have no idea.

Generally speaking, what kind of pay could I expect if hired/commissioned? Is it worth it overall with the benefits and such? I want to serve my country so there is that gratification of course, but I want to weigh this against going into the work force before making a decision.

Thank you.
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talk to a recruiter
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>>17370236
There's an enlistment thread on /k/. Yes, you're trying for commission, but it may help. A lot of initial entry stuff is similar.
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>computer engineering BSE

Navy or Chair Force.

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Any people in a happy long-term relationship here?
I'm just wondering how many heartbreaks does it take on average to find someone you truly click with.
The thing is that I never did the relationship drama and break-ups as a teenager so now (at 26) every bad experience and heartbreak absolutely crushes me (while other people my age are probably already numb to it). Is it even worth it?

Please share your experiences.
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>>17369394

there is no average. even if you did the math you already admitted that your life is outside of the norm. and other people are too.

you have people in their 40s who are permasingle and cant seem to figure out why. people in their teens do marry their highschool sweet hearts and make it work.

more often than not, you just float through life meeting one person after another, truly clicking for short bursts of time (in the grand scheme of things) and moving on when you've outgrown one another.

what do you mean by truly click? perhaps you truly did click with these people but the almost inevitable break ups just happened cuz... well they're almost inevitable.

what was your longest relationship?

and yes its worth it imo.
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The other anon is right. It is worth it.

It really is a wonderful feeling to go through life with the person you love. To grow alongside that person as an individual, to have someone challenge life with you. It is wonderful. Please don't stop looking. You will endure a lot of heartbreak to get to that point, but I guarentee you it will be worth it.
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>>17369439

meh, i just meant its worth dating and having fun. im not a believer in finding one partner for life.

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Already have planned, lights, disco ball, dry ice, beads that you put on the door, a marquee, a dj, and security. I also want a hot tub in the back for the afterparty me and the girls.

have any of you experience in the matter? pls chime in.
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>>17369032
Booze?
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Are you in highschool? If so your house is gonna get trashed. Not worth it just go to someone elses place.
If gou are an adult, you are going way to tryhard m8. I find a wii and alcohol is literally all i need, and even the wii is optional i also avoid anything people can play their music on so i don't have to listen to shitty edm.
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>>17370057
Nah I'm recruiting tough guys to throw out anyone fuckin shit up

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So, my boyfriend and I have lived together for almost 2 years. Like most couples, we decided how to divide chores.
I cook, clean, pay most of the bills, and financially bring in 3x as much as he does.
He has one job: take out the trash.
Yet often when I ask him to he flies into a rage saying he doesn't have the time because of work. At the same time, I cook huge meals and keep the house spotless and I work as much as he does, in a much more complex job that involves a lot of 'homework'.

Today he finally took out the trash after the point where there were 3 full trashbags sitting in the kitchen and then he couldn't be bothered to replace the bag.

I ask nothing of him and it's still too much. What do I do?
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>>17370193
Jesus Christ you two sound like my parents. I don't know if I should give advice as every time I try to tell my father or mother to change for each other, they don't bother to listen or just plain ignore me. You're not doomed to be like them though as you are in a somewhat new relationship as it's only been 2 years and whatnot and not everything is established yet. You still have hope but I suggest to surprise him at work with something nice,(if you can because some jobs are just not compatible with what I just said.) Get him in a real good mood by doing what makes him happy and proceed to start talking(in a subtle fashion) about why he gets so angry when he has to take out the trash. Ask if it's something at work that's troubling him so much or something along those lines. Do what I said, see what happens and post his reaction/explanation.
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Bump
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>>17370193

You're dating an asshole. If you don't want to put up with the things that an asshole commonly does, don't date an asshole anymore.

You're welcome.

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I'd like to ask about a delicate subject. Cheating.

Basically, has anyone here done it even though they loved someone and if so, why and for how long?

Basically I know it sounds like an oxymoron but I'd like to understand how or why this could happen.

If that's too triggering and will invite too many shitposts, I rephrase to has anyone here cheated and felt guilty but kept doing it for whatever reason?

And this is a question I'm aiming primarily at guys.

Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend who for all intents and purposes was great for you, and what advice would you give for someone who's having thoughts about it?
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Dude guys have cheated on the hottest women in the world. Sometimes with filthy prostitutes. It's an impulse you either follow or you dont and if you do there's always going to be some bullshit way for you to rationalize it to yourself. Have fun
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>>17370434
Yeah i'm actually currently in this situation. I'm in a relationship and have a fwb, but no deep feelings for my fwb, we're able to just hang out like normal friends, then i have endless love and adoration for my SO. I guess it's just a thing that some people can do and some can't. They just have to be two separate worlds.
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>>17370434
I did. I only kissed another woman, but it was enough to make me feel guilty and nearly ruin a relationship.

If you love someone and you're considering cheating, sit down with that person and talk to them. Sometimes people just grow apart and sometimes people feel neglected. I know that I personally just felt very lonely. The two of us had gotten so comfortable with one another that we stopped feeling like we had to talk. We no longer had those long drawn out conversations that made us want to date in the first place.

If your partner truly loves you, they should be able to work with you to understand your feelings. It may be that you need to walk away from the relationship. Or may you just need to talk to that person.

But don't cheat. It will eat away at you.

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How do I leave this? Holy shit people are so stupid and poor here
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I'll switch places with you.
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>>17370398
Ok you can take my angry poverty ridden redneck parents too
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>>17370424

Thank you. It'll be a nice change from the silence

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Just signed my first ever lease. Renting a small home in a cove in the city with 2 roommates for the next 12 months. Pretty small, but a great backyard. All advice welcome.

>pic unrelated
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This is a blue board. Don't post random nudity to try to get our attention, this isn't /b/.
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>>17370362
Good advice
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>>17370371

Do you know these roommates?

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Acabo de Violar y Matar a un perro para ver si me Gusta la zoofilia, es para ver si me dejan de gustar los niños para que no digan que me gusta la Pedofilia, así que he querido que me den un consejo, como hago para que no descubran mi gusto sexual?
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>>17370346
Pinche cochino.
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>>17370366
La mujuer cocina la emparedado
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Time to get this pedo shit out of here

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I'm just a lonely potatoe looking for a hot frie any tips
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>>17370334
Cut yourself into pieces and hop into a fryer.
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>>17370341
That is so deep :/
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I'm afraid to get burned

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