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My gf's (25th) birthday is in 2 weeks and I'm thinking what I can get her. She got me a dinner & casino package (4 course dinner and free money to spend in casino) for 60€ for my birthday.
I'd like to buy something similar where we get to have an experience together. She talked once about going to a musical but I don't like that and I think it would be a kind of lame present. We've already been multiple times to a thermal spa so that's out of the question too. What else is there? (for roughly ~60€).
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>There's a Thing She Likes
>I Don't Like It
>Because I Hate Getting Laid
You fucking sperglord, go see the musical.
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>>17368197
Plan out a day of fun together. Go to the water park, go out for lunch, see a movie, take her to fancy dinner.
Also write a poem or letter for her, about how much she means to you and everything she is to you, from the heart and full of love, it'll do wonders.
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>>17368199
i wouldn't even know which musical and it would be against the point because the casino is something we're both looking forward to while the musical is sth she might love but i'd hate
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>Became president of a college engineering club
>About to start a national year-long competition
What advice do you have for a new leader?
Any books, documentaries, or other sources of information you are able to recommend?
Qualities and characteristics of an effective leader?
>pic related
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>>17368183
Emotional Intelligence 2.0
The Leadership Secrets of Genghis Khan.
Do your best to be empathetic and gentle yet rational.
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Make sure you blame your failings on having Aspergers. Make sure other people do your thinking for you. Blame people for shit they didn't do, especially when you know they didn't do it. Make sure your parents run the place.
tl;dr be an affirmative action case autistic sperglord
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>>17368183
actual answer: have a fucking spine. take responsibility for your group's greatness and weakness. Defend your guys. Don't lie.
Hey guys last time I bother you with my poor grammar.
So I need some help in creating a function that will read data from a txt file into an array of structures.
I am having trouble trying to store the data in the array list.
The exact requirements are as follows:
>>The function, loadNames, should be called to read the entire names.txt file and store the data from each line into a struct of type Name. The main function should pass an array of Name structs to loadNames so that it can simply read a line's data into the struct at the first element of this array, then read the second line's data into the second element, etc. This should be done for all 4429 lines of the names.txt file. Once loadNames has completed and returned to main, the file, names.txt, must never be read again during this execution of the application.
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Also also as I understand I can not use the string class when declaring the structure.
>>You should notice that the Name struct uses a C-String to store the name found on a line of the text file. You must use this struct and the c-string field, name, exactly as defined above. Using a c-strings requires library functions like, strcpy, strcmp, etc. (see textbook). If you want to use other strings in the application, you are welcome to use the data type, string, for these -- but not for the Name stuct's name field. The string type is found in many examples in the textbook.
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Dude, this isn't stackoverflow
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>>17368171
I know but this board has been a little more useful on the past :c
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I done goofed guys
>Girlfriend and I had an argument
>I thought I had seen an STD but was wrong
>Didn't tell her because I knew she'd get upset with me but she noticed I was concerned
>Kept pressuring me to tell her what was wrong, I keep saying "Nothing" because for all intents and purposes nothing WAS wrong
>She starts crying, I tell her, we argue for a bit
>Kisses me good bye, asks me to text her when I get home
>She texts me couple days later, says she doesn't want a sexual relationship with me
>I defend my actions, she says it's not about whether or not I'm a bad guy for it, we still argue
>I ask if she wants to meet and talk in person, she agrees but then goes to hang out with her friends because she doesn't want to argue with me
>I send her a lengthy apology afterward, she says we'll talk in person
>We set up a time, I remind her
>No responses to texts, she just went to bed instead
>I go off on her over text about how immature she's been and how sick I am of her bailing on me
>We argue on the phone while I'm at the airport for my trip to Vegas. I say how I've been beating myself up over what happened and it was shitty of her to keep dodging me and that I just wanted to be there for her and help her out, she says she doesn't have to justify why she hung out with friends instead or doesn't want sex
>I text her "it's up to you to decide if I'm still worth talking to. I'm not letting this bother me while I'm gone"
She hasn't texted me yet, but I'm still on vacation. Was I out of line? Should I reach out after I fly in tomorrow? Is it even worth it?
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>>17368125
Cut contact and move on.
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>>17368138
Just like that?
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>>17368285
Do yourself a favour man and listen to anon, you have 2 cut her out
I really need help. I'm a teenage boy who has been straight all his life. Up until about this year, at least.
For starters I've had 2 serious relationships with women in my life. I was sexually attracted to both, and am currently still in love with my current girlfriend.
The problem is, I've started to find myself attracted to feminine men. Examples being traps, drawn yaoi and the like. I find masculinity to be disgusting, but yet I find myself not minding the gross cock attached to an effeminate man. I'd never go near as to act out on these thoughts, but I can't help but have these fantasies when browsing porn.
I don't know what I am or what to think. I'm totally head over heels in love with my girlfriend, but there's still times where I'll find myself preferring to pleasure myself to what I said above as opposed to a woman and some days the opposite.
I'll appreciate any advice on this topic. I could really use it. Pic unrelated.
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Look up the Kinsey scale. It's not much advice, but it might explain a thing or two about what you're feeling
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>>17368111
Stop looking at porn. Obvious.
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How's your sleep?
How's your diet?
How's your exercise?
Str8 up.
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>girl I met at a party
>chat with her for ages, and want to get in her, and seems to like me
>added her on FB
>I haven't talked to her and she hasn't talked to me since, and it's been a week
>lives on the complete opposite side of the city, and I can't drive.
What should I do?
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>city
It's called public transport
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>>17368102
Ride a bicycle
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>>17368102
clearly you fucked up for not texting her in a week
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>be me
>19 yr old gril
>life is so messed up that i feel completely isolated from my peers socially
>mom died 5 yrs ago
>dad died 2-3 months ago
>other childhood traumas include being preyed on by a pedophile at 14, parents being drug addicts, religious nut foster parents abusing me and my brother
anyway what do i do? i dont want to die exactly i just dont know how someone like me is supposed to exist anymore thanks
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>>17368064
Is there anyone you trust that you can lean on?
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Go to a psych. Don't dwell on the past. Figure out how to improve your current situation and do it. Get hobbies. Avoid negative influences.
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>>17368064
Be huge and pwn large, gamer mentality is what you need
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Hey guys, I need some advice.
Next month, I might go out for drinks with an old friend.
Just to give you some background, we met each other in a nano physics summer workshop two years ago. At the time she had a boyfriend and she was really loyal to him. I admired that. We got along great.
The workshop only lasted two weeks, we live like a thousand kilometers away from each other.
So, we started talking on facebook, and she agreed to us going out. She mentioned being single and posted a picture about losing people and re encounter them, meeting them the second time around it made more sense, timing and being ready for each other.
What do you advice me to do? Like, preparations?
I already know where could I take girls out. I think I should buy condoms and have them in a drawer next to my bed (have an apartment with one roomie, old friend from college).
Me, a 25 yo male virgin, her, a 24 yo girl with 2 past boyfriends I know of.
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Is this night a couple drinks between friends, for you two to get in a relationship, or a one night stand?
1 would be best, having a friend that is also a girl doesn't mean you should push sex.
2 would be difficult, LDRs suck big fucking dick and generally hurt the parties involved and waste time and emotions.
3 would likely damage the relationship you two already have and distance your friendship.
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>>17368057
Basic advice is come into this expecting to hang out with a friend. Unless you two already spoke about doing something more, think nothing of it. Treat her like any one of your buddies, have a fun night, hold good conversation.
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>>17368057
We're not good friends. We seldom talk. But I do like her a lot. She said she could move here if she found a good job here, 'cause she can't find a decent job where she lives
>>17368061
This is what I thought. I'm not going to go with the "I'm going to seduce her and have sex". I'm going more with the "I want you to have a great night and have great conversations".
But If she gives me signals, I'll do her.
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CV Critique, Job hunting advice 2016-07-18 06:17:58 Post No.17368036
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Look at my CV and judge.
I've tried for the concise approach with the bullet points and shit but inexperience in writing a CV is making me skitz.
The previous job I got through a friend, so no CV required. It isn't finished, still have some extra details to input but is this what employers are looking for.
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Put your penis size, and how many girls youve fucked on your resume.
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When you go in for a job interview, place your resume on the floor and start having sex with it.
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If the interviewer is a woman, take out your penis, and rub your nutsack on her face.
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Is it wrong to not want to stay friends with my ex?
We didnt end on a bad note, she just didnt want to be in the relationship anymore (i guess) yet i just feel like im pretending to have fun when she talks to me now. It hurts when she keeps trying to talk to me like nothing happened.
2nd question; How do you stop being friends?
(We're both 19 and going to be seniors in highschool, if that matters)
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>>17368030
Tell her how you feel, that it hurts when she acts as if nothing happened at all. She's not at fault, and probably cleared everything and even did ask you if you could be friends, but she also probably has a hunch that you're faking enjoying her company. It's probably best for you two to break apart for some time anyways.
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Sometimes it doesn't really do any bad, but it never really does good to stay friends with an ex. Usually the person who wanted to break up will be fine with it but the person who doesn't feels shitty about it. and it can be really messy if neither person wanted to break up. it's nice to have good intentions to stay friends but if it isn't good for you you have to advocate for that and explain your shit to her
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>>17368039
Thanks man, thats really what i want to say-- im just not good at this sort of thing.
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Im a 23 year old male with a shy narcissistic personality. I haven't had a single relationship in my entire life and pretty much I'm a joke. I play way to much video games and spend 3 hours at the gym or the rock climbing gym 4-6 times a week so I can get out of my sad life. But the problem is I'm too shy to talk to ask someone out; and when I do go out with friends I'm always the laughing stock or I get bored of the activity we are all doing very easily. Ive been told I have no personality, and the closest thing I've have to a relationship is some girl online who rarely responds to me. I've never lost the fat boy mentality and the only thing that happened after I lost 90 pounds is I've become narcissistic. I'm pathetic I'm creepy and please help me, I dont know what to do to be happy.
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>>17368024
Do you have any friends to lean on, OP?
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>>17368041
I do, but whenever I talk to them I just lose interest when they start talking about themselves. I try to be there and talk to them but if I'm being honest, I'm a terrible person who tries to fathom what people are feeling but over time I get bored with it. I'm just interested in my boring self. I know this attitude is really disgusting and narcissistic but I can't help it. I have a feeling I'll never be in a relationship the way I am.
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>>17368054
You definitely need to focus on yourself before a relationship, every possible outcome would be poor. You need to talk with your friends about your struggle with narcissism and how it's distanced you from everyone, rely on them for help. Worst case scenario, get a counselor.
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Is it possible to make myself repress a memory? There are some things i want to forget ever happened.
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>>17368015
Everyone has things that they want to forget. Repressing memories, denying yourself, fleeing from your thoughts takes a great deal of discipline and will. You have to think of anything that's not the thing you're repressing. Run from it in your head. It'll piss you the fuck off and frustrate you greatly but if you want to repress it that's what has to happen.
Another thing you could do is be vocal about it, vent to your friends and lean on them for encouragement and support. You'll feel better after letting go of what's on your chest.
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>>17368045
thanks anon. I've tried talking to people about it but it didn't really help. the only person that gave me support was my sister.
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>>17368115
Then the path ahead of you is a long and difficult one. It'll likely take a couple months for you to no longer think about them, but keep fleeing those harmful thoughts OP. I have faith in you.
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I cannot describe my reasons for doing some things (abstaining from some things, more accurately) except by the desire to not "fall from grace" so to speak. I'm not religious at all. I don't fear hell or hope for heaven. So, why do I feel bound to conventional, contemporary morals (etc) in so many ways, some very intense?
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Specifically: What is the allegorical meaning of this "heaven" I'm apparently seeking?
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>>17368004
because humans evolved a moral code in order to survive. millions of years of evolution are compelling you to behave
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A lot of people are ascetics, even if they aren't religious or spiritual. I'm that way. You probably don't see the "pros" of those activities outweighing their risks and negative consequences. Perhaps you greatly value self-control and self-restraint, and don't like to be out of control. Maybe you take pride in purity and your ability to resist temptation. Maybe things that are typically appealing for the majority just so happen to not be for you. There are plenty of reasons.
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My CSGO items are history 2016-07-18 06:02:49 Post No.17368001
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My CSGO items are history
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>Playing CSGO for a rly long time ever since the release
> Friend gave me a 2$ item and told me if i wanted a knife i need to bet on the other team that says has a 10% of winning
>I do as he says
> They rly won.. 80$ reward.. and i keept getting lucky and i was almost ready to get that knife.. it was waiting for me to pick it up
> went to the seaside
> when suddenly Valve announces that gambleing sites are getting Banned
> The website i was suppose to get the knife no longer exists..
I was so close...
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>>17368001
Look outside, I know that you'll recognize,
It's summertime~
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You just made me feel so good about myself.
I sold my $3,500 worth of items I won from betting 2 months ago. Been regretting it, kinda wanted to get back into DotA 2.
The entire market has crashed without betting websites. I sold at the right time!
Sucks to be you though.
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Thanks for cheerin me up..
If you enjoy listening to me suffer then il let you know i play on a 70$ lapyop and you just earned 3,5k... world is such a nice place man...
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How do l stop obsessively wanting a relationship? l need to open myself to life but this seems to be the only thing l think about. l'm a young male by the way, and there's no girl involved.
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>>17367989
How young is 'young'? Disregarding the 18+ rules your age will likely determine what would be best for you.
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>>17367993
19yo.
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>>17367996
As an older guy that once upon a time felt that inner and exterior pressure to get into a relationship by any means necessary/no matter the cost, it's normal. You're a young man. You want access to the goods of a relationship--sex, companionship, emotional stability, etc. I guess what I'm trying to say is you don't obsessing--if you were asexual it would be normal. If you repress these feelings or avoid it, it will manifest in other areas of your life probably in negative or unintended ways. Try to channel your yearning into something positive. Good luck though. Also, try to improve yourself enough to give a girl every reason to say 'yes'.