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It's impossible to say without knowing the type of person both of you are and the context of things that were said.

From the outside, I'd guess that you just didn't take the relationship seriously enough. When people complain about petty shit, a lot of the time they have a deeper reason as to why something bothers them.

She wasn't bothered you didn't ask about her shitty day in particular, I'd imagine she felt like you weren't putting in any effort to the relationship and you were letting it stagnate instead of being proactive.

Did you ever organise anything with her or did she do the work? If the idea of visiting someone for an hour then coming home again isn't pleasurable to you, you have to ask yourself "am I taking this relationship seriously?" and "is a relationship something I'm really able to commit to right now?"

let me know how you feel about these points because I may be off the mark.

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>>17378963

I literally know EXACTLY how you feel, last week I broke up with my girlfriend of three years because I couldn't take it anymore. It takes me thirty minutes to see her as well and I work from 6 in the morning until 10 at night and she still expects me to go see her, pay for her dinner, and listen to her talk for an hour to thirty minutes and then she gets tired and says goodbye.

Honestly do yourself a favor if you haven't and cut ties you'll be a lot happier. I'm still kinda depressed over things, but I feel my spirits lifting.

>>17378963
She sounds like a normal chick and you sound like a normal dude.

The problem with that, is that you think normal dude behavior is acceptable to normal chicks. It's not, and that's why those kinds of gripes are very common. Relationships are give and take. There are times you have to set being a normal dude aside, and turn on female empathy. Do those things she called you out on. Similarly, there are times she has to scale back her female idiosyncrasies and understand that you need time and space to yourself, and to not nag you.

This seems like a simple case of two people who are young and largely inexperienced. It's not a huge deal unless you make it one. As you get more experienced and you grow older, you get better at navigating these sorts of problems. You get better at perceiving your partner's feelings, wishes and desires. So it's no longer a game of 20 questions, because you automatically know what you ought to do/say.

>>17378939
>dating a roastwhore
Pretty sure you wouldn't drink coffee from a cup that another man had put his dick in, so why are you kissing her?

Deal whit it, simple as that. Im sure you might be a good guy but no one male or female goes 28 years whitout getting laid if they can help it. Nothing wrong whit being a virgin but its the truth son.

>>17378939
>How do I get over the fact that my girlfriend had two partners before me?

By accepting the fact that she's a goddamned 28 year old woman and that it's perfectly fine to have had 2 sexual partners.

>I was a kissless virgin before her and she was in two long-term relationships.

If those relationships were so awesome, she'd still be in them and if being a virgin were a deal breaker, she wouldn't be with you.

I drill a hole so I can drain the milk

After that, just beat it with something until it cracks open. Then you can scoop out that fleshy goodness.

Try /ck/ next time also, they might help quicker as well as provide some easy ideas what to make with it.

Why don't you ask /ck/?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ekPlm-O4DiU

it doesn't go away on its own, yes go to a doctor

>>17378917
how do you know?

>>17378911
I have them too. I used Preparation H, but it only worked as long as I used it. They'd flare up again eventually after I stopped. If you're sung blood, make sure your family doesn't have a history of gastronomic problems, particularly cancer. You might want to see a gastroenterologist about it if yours does, just in case.

Nice wall of text that makes absolutely no sense.

You clearly have no idea what you want.

Another revelation landed right before my eyes! I was then questioned by a female voice that went something like this: "Tell me, Professor Cos, are there any specific female traits, activities or characteristics that fascinate you?" That's a good question, I remarked! So after thinking long and hard about interesting things that a man can find only in a woman, meaning not things that women do by emulating men's swagger and characteristics, I came up with the following list: Shopping, shoes, fashion, hair, makeup, purses, gossip, romance novels, ballet dancing, women's magazines, daytime talk shows, pop culture, celebrities, flowers, chocolate, strawberries, baked goods, and babies. In other words, the answer was hell motherfucking no. I must say, even though talking about babies is boring, I do admire women, especially older ones who talk about babies. It's about the only thing of any substance that isn't trivial that women talk about when it comes to things that belong to the list of female specific pastimes and interests. I guess you can throw in sewing and cooking, and stuff like that. But again, nothing cool and captivating, nothing that makes me cancel the night out with my buddies so I can be part of the ladies only action. I then felt a sense of clarity, and the heavy feeling from being pressured into reluctantly worshiping women and treating them like equally interesting human beings just washed off of me like someone sprayed me with a pressure washer. After realizing that so many men, myself included were being guilted into conforming to society and following this scripted idea of engaging women and pretending to be interested in women for what women demand men to be interested in, I decided it was time to keep it real. Women seem to want unearned respect and adoration while having no self awareness, or any idea how to create themselves into women that men can genuinely respect and adore.

Is this from a movie?

>>17378883

You will always miss a place where you felt special, had new experiences, and like.

If you ever go back though the experience will be very different. You're in love with a first time, and you don't get another one of those.

And your traveling companions are pussies who will always whine about what they don't have. Look for some early divorces and financial ruin.

>>17379275
>Look for some early divorces and financial ruin.
What?

Bump again

well that's perverted. what the fuck is wrong with you?

>>17378882
>What are worse things that won't be physically harmful?

Minding your own fucking business and let your brother start smoking and possibly quit smoking without your meddling.

>>17378882
Are you 12?

Numb the pain by severing your head instead.

>>17378823
Why would you want to go down a thing like that?

>>17378823
Let's all love Lain.

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>>17378811

Assuming your parents are anything like mine, you'll dad won't care either way he'll just be happy he's son isn't sucking cock and presumably getting laid.

Your mother will either A) take her as thread or B) think she has a new buddy to joke around about girl things when ever she comes over.

In either way it's best to just tell them and jokes aside they will be happy for you regardless as long as she makes you happy.

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>>17378811
>I'm embarrassed of my family finding out and making fun of me.
>"hey look, our son has a gf now hahahha"
>"now he has a girl ahahhahaha gl on chain hahaah"
>"dad, bro, there is nothing wrong with having a gf"
>"HAHHAHAHHAHAHA"
>"are you both fucking gays?"

Lmao, let them tease you. Youre getting pussy either way.

You sound a bit paranoid, but i dont know how severe this supposed stalking situation was.

Anyway, if youre actually concerned for your safety, dont go, or tell her to uninvite the guy, but that is probably much less likely to happen unless you two are good friends...

>>17378822
Yea i pointed out the potential issues to her, but she just insisted that she has changed and nothing will happen.

She says she only invited her closest friends and really wants me to go. I'm not sure but i think she might have made some reservations somewhere, so that's another potential problem.

>>17378837
*insisted that he has changed

Nothing?

>>17378786
My cats fight and bicker regularly. Usually happens when I get a new one. But over time they get more normal with each other. Or one eventually establishes territorial dominance over a certain spot, and they don't fuck with each other anymore.

I don't see why you'd take one back.

How did you introduce them? I would advise against giving up on one of them if you just threw them together without an introductory period. My sister moved in with me with her cat (I already have 2), and it took about 2 months for my alpha (she's a queen bitch) to take to her, but it was worth it to take it slowly.

http://www.humanesociety.org/animals/cats/tips/introducing_new_cat.html

>>17378777
>i get to boss a woman around for my pleasure, so i could be completely truthful to my sub and how i feel about her and what i want her to do.

Then I would say you were less of a dom and more of an asshole.

Just treat her like you did your other subs.

Make her pick your cotton

>>17378777
"You're a dirty little slut, aren't you?"

"Who's a good little fuck toy" whilst your dick is in her mouth so she has to point to her self. That's pretty fun.

Just make her feel like she's a play thing, not a human. That works pretty well for me with my girl.

Of course, and I'm sure you know this, keep it to the sex.

>>17378836
Really though? Is being honest a bad thing? Is being an out and out dom a bad thing?

Worst case scenario you are going to end up on a pornsite.

Think they had time to copy your friend list?

>>17378784
Few hours probably.

But if celebs can live through having nudes thrown around for the world to fap to, I think a nobody like me can stand something like that...probably.

What could they do? Message whomever they could get their hands on telling them they have nudes? It's not like there's really any value in nudes if the person doesn't care if others see it right?

>>17378805

Sure. Just keep in mind that it might be a problem if you wish to enter a certain jobfield, should your name be linked to these pictures, and easy to find on the internet.

I would say just let it go, nothing you can do about it now.

>>17378714
all you can do is shut up. more discussion and she'll become more angry but know this she is pissed and you will pay though it is irrational. The world revolves around her so if you don't want to orbit get out.

Your best friend is going to the military. Your reaction was reasonable and your gf is a bitch -.-

>>17378714
It's risky, but if you don't want to sit through the storm you could try to make her feel bad for getting mad at you. Something like "I can't believe you would compare you going off to school to risking your life" or "You know that could've been on of the last times I said goodbye to him." Unless he joined the chairforce, that is.

Ass cancer. Cancer of the ass.

what exactly are you sitting on? if its too soft, be it the seat or the bed you lie on, you will be destroying your back.

have you been stretching? that might help you loosen those tight nerves, that and drinking plenty of liquid. gotta stay hydrated for it all to work

>>17378708
Your ass shouldn't hurt, but your back should a bit. Are you using proper form? What exercises are you doing?