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>>17379310
If your under 18 you can contact childrens aid/social services to get out.

If over you can rent rooms from some charity groups like YMCA or good shepard for really cheap. Not a lot of space but enough to start a life from square one.

>>17379318

A couple hundred dollars will get you far as fuck.

Where exactly do you live? If you can get to a burger king without driving for 2 hours, then that means there is probably some kind of urban center not too far away where you can attempt to secure a ride to the nearest greyhound station or some shit.

There is always a way.

>prescription

What are you on?

A few questions.

How old are you? This determines the type of services you can get.

What state are you in. Ditto for the services.

Are you addicted to anything?

Let's start there.

>>17379305
Drink alot of acidic citruss fruit flavored juices. A friend of mine in her teens had pisstests from her child services but after this they didnt find any thc
Concentrated citrus is best

>>17379305
Stop smoking weed.

keep drinking water

keep working out

consider detox kit

Know that none of will feel comfortable with someone flying around high as a kite above us.

Hi OP, i just passed a drug test for my company and i smoked like a week before. So consider yourself lucky, you have ample time to get that thc out of your system. Try the following (you can find these tips pretty much anywhere):
Pure squeezed lemons
Cranberry juice
Finer
Leafy greens

Basically, you want to burn the fat that contains the thc molecule. That's why it stays in your system for so long. So get lean. And don't smoke.

>>17379279
>Boss asks me to call her when I'm free.

Stop sperging and call her back. Stick to your story. For all you know she want to know if you saw where her favorite clipboard went.

>>17379295

I'm pretty confident she's calling in regards to me not being there. My asst. director said she was "weird" about it, and 30 minutes or so later she texts me that. I'm gonna be calling her back at the time consistent with my story, because I told them I wouldn't be back until around 2:30. I'm thinking that sticking to the story is my best way to go, and I'll likely get off with just her saying "dunt do that," but I've got no alibi if she presses me for proof.

Amateur.

Never, ever lie about things like doctor's appointments. They can be verified far too easily. But it's worse. If you've shared your GPS data they can tell you haven't gone anywhere near Grandma's house.

You can say you're sick, just not sick enough to go to the doctor, and stay home and play vidya lest someone bring by chicken soup.

As a boss, I would much rather have heard "I'm flippin' tired and need a day off" than the absolute bullshit people fed me thinking I'd swallow it. If the boss is decent at all, you'd earn yourself a shitton of points if you told the truth now, and said why you didn't feel comfortable asking for a fully justified day off.

I'd recommend Spanish, because I learned Spanish for a while and discovered that the other romance languages came naturally.

>>17379271
Learn French, then you can say you know a dead language in a couple years

Spanish is going to help the most by far if you live in US. It's a nice advantage to have when interviewing. Depending on what field you're getting into, you'll like deal with Spanish speakers and companies like that.

French can be nice if you plan on doing any traveling. I mean, most people speak English, but some people also speak French. Lot's of Europe and and especially countries in Africa speak French.

It terms of practicality and overall betterment of life and your career: Spanish.

For possible traveling: Spanish, and then French.

>tl;dr: Learn Spanish, it will help a lot. Then pick up any other languages you want to after that

>>17379255
Um....you owe her an honest explanation after wasting 3 years of her life. I mean, come on- if you're gay then you wasted 3 good fucking years of her early 20's. lol. You owe it to her and mostly to yourself that you are gay. Be honest, don't make up some shitty excuse.

>>17379342
>wasting 3 years of her life

I mean I don't think it was necessarily a waste...we've had a great relationship thus far I think

Also fwiw, I'm not necessarily gay...I think I'm leaning more towards bisexual but I won't know until I explore that side of myself, you know?

I don't think I can 100% be honest with her at this point yet because as I said, I don't want her "outing" me before I'm comfortable with it

>>17379255
You're an idiot.

You wanna give up 3 year relationship because you wanna attempt to be gay.

Relationships require commitment and if you can't commit to her you should just end it. There is no way you can back burner her while you fuck around with guys.

If you find her sexually attractive then you are not gay. If you are gay you are using her and wasting her love and time.

This thread is the bisexual equivalent of the "i wanna sleep with other girls but keep my gf" threads we see all the time.

>>17379219
> Part of me wants to be in a relationship with him desu oh god and most part of me just wants to be really close with him enough for the people to think that we MIGHT be dating or in a relationship.

infatuation. Which is a perfectly normal point to want to ask some to date at.

>>17379233
I dont know.. Im like the shy type and i dont know if he has a girlfriend.
This is like the first time that happened to me and the things he does kinda makes me assume lol idk im so clueless bout stuff like this

>>17379219
Talk to him

>>17379192
Take calligraphy class.

Never fail essays again.

That's way better than mine....
I helped mine a little by constantly writing carefully

Heh lucky you. I still haven't practiced my own signature. It can become a legal problem when you don't have an unique signature mark.

lay low for a week

>>17379195
This.

Story?

your monthly income should be atleast 3x your rent

>>17379197

This. Everything else pretty much takes care of itself. If that means you have to have a tiny room in a shared house, so be it.

1/3 for rent, 1/3 to save, 1/3 for expenses. That's a good starter ratio. Soon you'll be living off last year's money. Also, if you do have roommates (and perhaps especially if you do) never eat anything other than beans and rice or perhaps oatmeal around them. Roommates get jealous as fuck in a hurry when they see you eating far above them, and they get nasty.

Don't leave your toiletries in the bathroom. People jerk off into conditioner just for fun.

Don't cook, they'll want your food, and don't leave anything in the refrigerator because it will be eaten/stolen/fucked with. This also goes for cutlery, pots and pans, etc. It doesn't matter how nice they seem, sooner or later they'll get the muchines and be too lazy to go to the store. You don't want having a roof over your head to hinge on something you knew better to avoid.

>>17379222
Trips for truth

>>17379159
Get out more.

Doesn't matter where or what you do. Just go outside and people will talk to you. No excuses just get outside even if its scary.

>>17379159
Bump

I have the same problem

>>17379159

>cant
>cant

sounds like this is your major issue.

>i get rapidly friendzoned

you need to stop thinking of friendzoned as the rare negative option you keep receiving. the default for people who know each other is 'friends'. you are not being zoned. you are simply approaching women and they are not returning interest for a variety of reasons.

its normal to be just 'friends' with someone you get to know. women are not obligated to date you.

Sounds like a sure thing that you should just go for. I would compare ending your previous relationship to a mercy killing of a zombie.

man up
break up with the first gf

>>17379157
>can't break up with my original gf, because I know I'm totally gonna ruin her life
that is an unbelievably inflated ego you got there OP

>>17379115
online dating is a pain if youre a dude. do it anyway tho, what have you got to lose

>>17379115

normal? nah. but a social life nonetheless, yeah. i mean what even defines 'normal' ?

Why do some people have to be autistic in the first place?

just dont talk about politics and religion, it always ends bad
specially if you dont know much

>>17379013
I't not that you are stupid but arguing a point from emotion never wins. Research to support your ideas and lure him and them into another debate and kick their asses

research your political ideas more thoroughly so in the future you can debate them intelligently and use facts to support your case instead of feelings. Also if someone flat out insults you in that way you should call them out on it by saying that if its so dumb then they should have an easy time explaining why instead of just throwing around insults

I do love politics and debate anon, we could practice a bit if you want? What topic were you guys discussing?

>>17379012
you wasted 3 years on a heartbreak? you realize everyone goes through rejection and lives. You shouldn't care if she gives you a second thought and focus on your own shit.

>>17379030
Yeah I know, and what's worse is I wasted them on a heartbreak from a glorified fuck buddy, not even a girlfriend. But knowing that it's ridiculous doesn't really help. Telling myself to focus on my own shit and stop caring about her doesn't really help, because I still think about her a lot. I wonder if the saying 'first love never dies' is true, and I wasted mine on someone who I knew it wouldn't end well with.

>>17379030
Lmao, this. Honestly, she's just another human being at the end of the day, ugh, god, i really hate people.

I know how you feel. I don't have advice for you because i'm in the exact same boat except I'm a female feeling this way for a male.

Honestly, the best thing for us to do is meet up and bang each other and fall in love with each other instead of these losers.

There was a couple who used to write back and forth to each other in the letter threads like a year and a half ago. Hers were okay but his were amazing. They stopped for a while but someone with a similar style or probably him started writing letters like a year ago. I've seen a few love letters in those threads but his always stood out. You can check the archive or maybe someone can help you find them.

Male here, I wrote love letters before in highschool/college. I melted when my exs wrote some for me. Im not sure if it will have the same effect if you arent dating the guy, so it may come out more of a surprise to him when you give it to him, so be prepared to follow up on it with words/actions.

>please dont type, handwrite it. Craft paper is even better than the typical notebook/printer paper.

>>17379011
>anyone here ever write or receive a love letter?

>receive
Yeah, when I was in middle school from a girl I didn't like. It was awkward and I didn't know how to react. Never spoke to her again