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Sometimes, when I fuck, I know I'm not going to finish.
It's great for my girlfriend so I keep doing it anyway - but sometimes I feel really frustrated. What am I doing wrong? We usually try only once a day (sometimes more)
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The more sex you have, the longer you last...
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you'll get better at it and realistically not everybody gets off every time. as long as you're both having fun it's all good.
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>>18732500
Bro I have the same problem. Last time it happened to me we fucked for like 20 minutes couldn't cum so we stopped, cuddled, chilled, then went back to it and came in like 5 minutes.
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My bipolar medication has given me erectile dysfunction. How do I explain this to the woman I've been seeing in a way that doesn't send her running for the hills? I understand it probably won't work out, but I will probably be working side by side with this woman for at least 5 years since we're in the same PhD program, so even if we can't make it work I want to broach the subject in a way that will not make me look like a total loser.
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Why not just get some viagra instead.
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>>18732508
Well, I also have had very little sexual experience. I've only had sex twice in two one-night-stands. I guess I'm using the ED as a crutch for postponing sex because I don't want to disappoint this woman.
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>>18732499
You can't. If it causes ed and you think you might deny her advances 100% of the time, then that's pretty damaging. There are ways to please her without you needing to penetrate her. Try that first instead of just a flat 'I can't right now because my meds'.
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I'm at a point in my life where I have a great job but no family and not many friends. I'm comfortable, but want more. I do mad drugs and have tried everything in the book besides heroin and meth. Mainly though my vices are weed (3x a day), cocaine (I do a gram a month but that gram lasts me two days where I am perpetually coked out), and alcohol (5 drinks every other day). I'm at a point where I love doing drugs but they're the only thing that makes me feel really really happy. Otherwise I'm pretty bored. Of course quitting is a nightmare too I feel bored perpetually.
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Pick up an actual hobby besides drugs and stop hanging around people that enable you. It doesnt sound like youre too deep in the hole considering youre not getting yakked or drunk every night. Moving to a different city where I dont have any connections anymore helped.
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>>18732484
this is a lot of assumption so clarify if im wrong but it sounds like your issue is that you dont do anything. you say no friends or family so what are you doing drugs alone? just sitting in your room doing nothign while on drugs?
if so, when you sober up your issue is probably that, well, you're not doing anything. of course you're going to be bored.
start a project, get a hobby, and i wouldnt worry about withdrawal too much. your consistent vices are cocaine, but you only do it once a month so its not like you're super hooked and could probably quit with minimal side effects.
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how are some people just able to take whatever they want in life
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they use confidence
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they preach for something big and get everything until they have what they want.
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I'm gonna watch this show for the 4th time now, thanks to you faggots shilling it every other week.
I want to talk to some specific prisoners.
How do I find exactly what facility the people are residing in?
>anybody have any experience talking to inmates?
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You contact your state's justice department
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Depending on what kind of specific prisoners, there are also groups for specific kinds of people that went to or are going to prison.
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Do I tell my wife?
My marriage has seen some serous issues. On the one hand we're a great match and literally pulled each other out of suicidal depression (abusive upbringing for both of us).
My sex drive is very high, hers is very low. Sex is rare and often a chore at that. She can't/won't do any sort of blow/hand job, I'm allowed to cum on her occasionally while she looks disgusted.
Naturally I'm having a hard time not looking at other women.
My wife told me at one point to just get a mistress. I took her up on it, and although I never had sex with anyone else I texted and such. Wife got very mad and said she didn't think I'd actually do it.
We're doing an okay job of moving on.
The other night a coworker was talking to me, and I ended up telling her that I was very attracted to her. It went nowhere. However, guilt/anxiety now plagues me because I feel obligated to tell my wife about it, in order for there to be respect and honesty in our marriage.
On the other hand, nothing happened. It could just be even more damaging. I learned from the experience and I honestly think our marriage is improving. But for almost a week now I've been hardly able to breathe or sleep because of the amount of guilt/anxiety I feel.
P.S.: I have anxiety disorder and unnecessarily sensitive conscious from hyper-religious upbringing.
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Sounds to me like you only have half a marriage.
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I would recommend you let her know, holding on to that is going to kill you inside ans make you grow old fast. Its going to suck, but after you recover you will have one weight off of you.
[spoiler] But first consider thinking about the future beforehand, dont want to do some shit on impulse. [/spoiler]
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My wife is vanilla. Just missionary or her on top -- once a month maybe... on average. I stopped talking about sex with her. Everytime I bring it up or try to spice it up she thinks I'm telling her shes doing it wrong and then she feels bad that I think she's not doing enough. I work my ass off buy her things, anything she wants for her birthday or christmas, or just give her my paycheck. Every time she asks me what I want for my birthday or Xmas I tell her I want sex. Not just vanilla, but really playing like handjob or blowjob. She cums first and then i gotta "hurry up". She never wants me to lick her pussy. 69 is out of the question. Anal? A-no! Trying out new positions is maybe 2 different ways once a year other than missionary or her on top. No toys. She don't own a vibratory.
I never ask for gifts except to make me cum. I'm frustrated. I would be celibate before I cheat, but I won't go on like this anymore.
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I've been her quite a while, and as the years go by I find it hard to still find the same joys as before; I don't want to be the bitter anon, 4chan always has been shit, but not this shit. are there any oldfags still around having the same issue, how do you deal with the new 4chan?
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I'll admit the newer people are a lot more sensitive, and because of that the jokes are nowhere near as funny, but idk, I feel like some gold still occasionally pops up around here. I guess just bounce around from board to board and try different sections out. I used to be a regular at /b/ from 05 until around 07 or 08, and since then I've just tried different boards out.
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>>18732321
Man, it won't be 2007 again. Sadly.
Life goes on. We get older.
Guys leave because they get a life and kids. Others stay. But when you're not in college anymore, of course you have other priorities in life.
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>>18732321
Psych man here.
I been around 10 years and been feeling this since a year in.
Its not getting worse. It just never was that good, and a short time is all it takes to get it and shake off the edgies.
The issue is its very addictive. Like facebook chat or snapchat. Its designed to be that way.
You send a post, you get a (you), it can be validating sometimes. You get to assert yourself over perceived morons, something you dont get to do in daily life, say what you feel, you can help people which is always a nice feeling. Theres much porn.
Theres just a shit tonne of dopamine trigger sources all over this site. So its hard to peel away.
Me, i change to a flip phone once in awhile for a week to detox from data. When i get it back im pretty good about staying off of places like this for months.
But if i check in once im back for awhile..
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I'm a 25 yo female looking for advice during a break up. We've been together for over 8 years and thought we would spend the rest of our lives together, and we both lived accordingly.
He says he just wants to focus on himself right now and not have to worry about anything else. He doesn't want to make room for me in his life, which I understand, but I'm just very very sad about the whole situation.
Anyway, we've been traveling around the country for the past year as he works job site to job site. We are currently both back in our hometown together, days have gone buy where it feels like everything is normal. He still loves me and I love him dearly, so this has been hard.
So now that all that is out of the way, questions for you guys.
He has offered to let me come to the next place he goes till I get back on my feet. I don't know if his heart is in it, but he realizes what little opportunities our crappy hometown has, he's a really nice guy. I want to take this path, cause reasons. But I think it would be the wrong choice and would end up feeling about as good as slowly ripping a bandaid off of a mortal wound.
Next choice; stay in said crappy hometown with poor prospects and job opportunities and quality of life. But have an entire support system of family and friends.
I'm just so surprised that any of this is even happening honestly and could use some insight.
I know I'm on fucking 4chan, but please be gentle...
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Why did you break up. I don't buy ''focus on myself''.
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>>18732318
This OP tell us the whole story.
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>as he works job site to job site.
what have you been doing?
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We started going out just recently but we usually just walk around town most of the time. We both are nerds with no social life so we don't know what else to do together. We'd probably most enjoy playing video games together, but we both live with parents and it's always awkward to have a date at your parents house, so that's out of question. There are no arcades here either. I know people often go to cinemas together, but i'm not a big fan of movies. We enjoy just walking and talking, but is that all there is to dates?
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>>18732252
Laser tag/paintball, if there's any nearby, could be great. That sounds lame af but we had fun at the aquarium wth my girlfriend ahah
Also just go to your/her place it's not that awkward past the first time your parents meet them, really.
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you are just really not cultured... look at any romantical movies, books or theatre. you are taking this wrong, what you doing is not sufficent at all. is this your ideal of dating the love of your life or are you dating cause you are just "bored" ? if you like losing your time keep going, either learn to date and become better. build confidence and get strong.
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>>18732275
Honestly from my experience i can tell it's awkward. the amount of times i had a guy i'm dating dash awa from me mid-kiss/hug just because someone passed next to my/his room is bigger than i can count. It wasn't a single case, literally every man does that.
Aquarium sounds pretty cool, i'm gonna look around and see if we got something like this.
>>18732286
I'm dating cuz we work really good together. Why do YOU date?
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When you type habitually using paragraphs for whatever reason (like I do because I've been typing most of my life and it's an unbreakable habit) and people say reddit spacing.
I ask sometimes, and then they actually claim I'm /from/ reddit.
Do these people genuinely think you are from reddit or are they just trolling you?
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I do reddit spacing and I spend 90% of my internet usage on 4chan
Fuck the dirty screbs who don't use paragraphs, when you move to another topic you skip a line. That's how grammar works and it makes shitposts more readable too.
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>>18732239
it doesnt fucking matter at all, and it doesnt matter if its trolling or serious. its just a way of getting a free (You). Everytime someone calls out reddit spacing, its a guaranteed 3 (You)'s for who ever called it out. Personally I dont care for calling it out, and I can read 4chan posts just fine, spaced or not.
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>>18732239
/adv/ is the most reddit board and you're proving that stereotype
The way to write on 4chan is to have a break after every sentence
Something like this is the the norm
Redditors write fucking essays
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How do I meet women?
I don't know where or how.
Clubs and bars? Can I go alone? Or is some other way better. I've met all women I've had dates with on badoo, but I'm fed up with that shit, looking for new methods.
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life is fucking unfair
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you can go to bars yourself. You're just going to be very awkward for a good 3 hours until some girl gets super drunk and starts hitting on you
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Tinder and other dating sites. Or meet them when hanging out with friends.
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Im trying to learn web design but I feel lost. I've learned the basics of html5 and css3 and am starting Javascript. Yet any website ai try and make looks like it's from the 90's and I can't seem to recreat any websites I find. How can I get better? Am I in the right track or not? Idk where to go from here.
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You're going into web development, not as much into web design if you're learning languages. Web design is just design, not really actually building it. Modern websites are often not build from the ground up, but they just use frameworks. And that's good practice. If you're into javascript, you could use angular for example as framework. I learned web development from making those 90's-style websites first and then moving on to frameworks.
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>>18732218
Thanks, I'll look into frameworks.
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Should I break it off? 2017-09-17 08:59:38 Post No.18732159
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I've been seeing this girl for over a month now, she's young (19) and I'm 25, and sometimes I feel like we don't have much to talk about. Actually a lot of times I feel like we don't have much to talk about.
She's a really nice girl but there are so many long, awkward pauses in conversation when we're on the phone or hanging out. We're always trying to find something to say, and part of that is my fault for being so bad at talking to people. Maybe this is just the awkward stage? I haven't been with too much women, relationship wise. But I also feel like we are way different and also she's 19, she's gonna get bored of me eventually and wanna fuck other guys.
I just feel like if I'm with a girl then conversation should flow more easily if we are truly comparable. The sex is nice, I do enjoy hanging out with her sometimes but she also lives pretty far from me and driving out to her is exhausting in and of itself. We've never had the "what are we?" conversation yet but I still feel like if I break it off I'm gonna hurt her feelings and I really don't want to but I feel like if I wait longer in the hopes that I'll develop stronger feelings for her and it ends up not happening it will only be worse. Am I overthinking this? Should I just keep talking with her and keep having fun and sex with her or nip it in the bud and break it off?
Tl;dr
I'm talking to a much younger girl, we don't have much to talk about and conversation is often dry, physically attracted to her but don't know if that enough. I don't want to hurt her feelings and I would like to just have a FWB situation but overall I just want to know if I should break it off or maybe see if things develop into something more once we get past this awkward stage.
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If you can't hold a conversation at the start when you're getting to know each other, how do you expect to sustain this relationship?
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>>18732163
Yea guess we're just not compatible. How can do I word this to her in the best possible way?
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girls are only good to me when I use them and provide nothing. I'm a total robot 'nice guy' loser at my core but life only gives me more lemons when I throw all my current lemons at a wall. I don't get lemonade but I do find girls will give me the world even as far as giving me money, weed, gifts, and raunchy public intercourse on the condition that I provide them absolutely nothing. I have never had a fulfilling relationship with any girl that I've happily payed a meal for. (even though deep deep down i'd always be more than glad to).
is this just how life is?
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>>18732154
What the fuck is this shitty analogy. You are just a cunt
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what kind of name is kayla
which country is this
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>>18732173
USA
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Is Tinder a good place to do things with women when I'm actively not looking to have sex or get feelings or a second date or anything? I'm not in a good place for a relationship, but I would like to go on a hike or go bowling or with some women without the romance.
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Yes, lost count how many of them post "Friendship only" "Not DTF" "Only looking for friends"
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>>18732151
Tinder is for hookups. If you want that friendzone shit then just ask your coworkers what they're doing on the weekend and then invite them hiking or bowling or some shit.
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>>18732162
>coworkers
All of them are guys and most of them barely speak English