ITT: Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

It hurts me that I'll never be able to call a girl "princess".

maybe that's not the best thread for it, but what are some good truth and dare questions? I don't really want an orgy, I'd rather have some deep conversations and opportunity to know someone better.

>>18728968
Dude, you got a handful of replies, women don't share universal opinions. Don't despair. Some girls actively advertise themselves as princesses.

>>18728969
>would you rather turn out more like your mother or your father and why
>what's the most out of character thing you ever did and did you enjoy it
>would you rather travel to the future or past and why
>what do you personally find your most annoying habit and most serious character flaw
>if you could do one thing and get away with it (whether it's illegal, not socially acceptable etc) what would it be
>if you could pick your own fetish/kinks, what would you choose and why
>what's the most hurtful information you withheld from anyone not present here
>how do you think other people perceive you and what would you like to change about that/how does it differ from how you see yourself
>what is your most controversial opinion
>what's the most uncomfortable situation you've been in with someone present here
>in what ways did you turn out the ways you hoped as a kid, and in what ways not

Some suggestions. I'm not as great with dares, I've never really played truth or dare without it just winding up being all truth. The grey area between lame and crossing a line is pretty thin in my experience. Maybe stuff like needing to improvise a dance to a song they never heard before while the rest watches, showing off the weirdest thing they can physically do (like lick a toe or curl up their tongue), tasting different things with their eyes closed.

>>18729003
thank you, those are really good ideas!

(I'd still like to hear even more from other anons as well)

>>18729023
No problem! Also not sure what kind of night you are steering for, but if you do like drinking in general I think making a rule where you can refuse a question as long as you take a shot makes it easier to ask more controversial questions without being worried about putting people on the spot so much that it isn't fun for them anymore. And it also tends to make people more personal and open.

Do girls really post in these?

>last night
>texting this girl i don't really know too well but who seemed to be interested in me (said she wanted to get together soon when i last saw her)
>ask her what her weekend plans are, mention i'm thinking of going to a few events
>she says they both sound interesting and wants to go
>a little while later i say i'm definitely going and that we should go together, i can drive
>no reply
>today
>still no reply

So what the fuck. Why even act interested and say you want to go, then go complete silence? Is it lame to text again?

>>18728955
Girls,
What would you do if you could swap places with a guy?

>>18729043
Yes. However this is little information and like you, I can only guess. Her actions don't line up so the most obvious reason is that she was on the fence. If I have to guess I think she had a spontaneous reaction (oh cool, he's into stuff I like), responded in kind, and then started thinking about spending those events with you and perhaps feeling uncomfortable or not having a click with you. Maybe she feels it's too much too soon to have the whole thing where you pick her up, go to several events together and so on. Maybe she sort of wanted to ask friends to come along. Basically she spoke without thinking then pussied out for the reality of it and was awkward about how to tell you.

But again, it's my best guess but still a guess.

>>18729051
The obvious stuff: pee standing up, jerk off (a lot). Then I'd just go outside and walk around, see how differently people react to me. I would very much like to try to pick up a girl as a guy but I can imagine if I were in the position I might feel too uncomfortable about it still. But I am curious about whether I'd know average female psyche enough to be really smooth as a guy, or that I'd still be off somewhat.

Also go to those shabby pubs at night where alcoholics come and try to get people to tell me their life story. Generally go to places (like this, or male dominated hobby events like homemade robot races or something) where women can't go without attracting a lot of attention. Get the most out of observing them from the inside.

>>18729043
Text again if there's still time, shit happens. People lose their phones, texts don't make it through, people get anxious about waiting too long, important plans come up like family visiting. Sometimes people just full on forget to reply. Some people are just generally bad texters, others are forgetful, others are interested but flaky. Play if by feel, does she seem interested in you? In going with you? As long as she still seems interested in you even if she cancels or doesn't reply then I would give her the benefit of the doubt.

Unless it becomes a regular thing I would still give her the benefit of the doubt. If it does, then you'll have to really think about if you're not misreading signals or else maybe she's just very flaky/forgetful, in which case you need to decide if you want to put up with that.

>>18729051
Masturbate. Maybe try fucking a girl too to see what it feels like. I'm not sure if I'd be into it enough to go through with it or not.

>>18729093
>>18729086
Male masturbation would feel so lame to you.

Girls when you sneeze do you try to cover it up and make it not as loud? Seems like it's always a little achoo and not like guys where we just let it rip

>>18729086
>>18729088

she's taken a pretty long time to respond to pretty much every message (usually will respond fairly quickly, then take longer for my follow up... although i've been waiting too now), so i don't really take that as a very positive sign. just, still though, why even throw out the slight signs of potential interest? i'm probably not going to hit her up again today, i need to save a little face and mystery of my own.

>made the mistake of asking "May I kiss you" instead of just kissing her
>she gave me the right cheek
>but before that I'd been sitting with her, talking, running my fingers through her hair and holding her

Did I not make enough moves earlier? Did I do too much? I don't know how to judge these situations.

>and yes, this was the closest I've ever come to kissing a girl in my life
>and I'm on the older side of 25

>>18729134
You fucked up and now she sees you as not a man, but a child. Move on.

>>18729051
Masturbate
Put something up my ass
Have sex
Exercise
Walk around at night without fear

>>18729123
Yeah. I'm told it's cute, but I just think it's more polite to stifle it as much as I can. When I'm alone, I dad sneeze.

>>18729141
>Put something up my ass
Even with the prostate there, it's not that good

>>18729141
Except maybe the last one, those are all things you can do it as a woman.

>>18729051
jerk off all day long.

>>18729141
Also, even if you are reborn in a Chad's body, merely having sex is going to take a lot of work.

>>18729104
It's not really because I think it would blow my mind, I know how to work myself so that's no issue and yeah having multiple in a row is pretty damn sweet. It's for the sake of experiencing the "counterpart" and, more importantly, I already find the idea of a man getting hard very hot but knowing first-hand what it feels like would be even hotter. I am used to my own arousal, no matter how extreme, not taking any shape. The very concept that a boner is only "there" and drawing attention to himself because the man is horny is strangely graphic and sexy. I would love to know what exactly is happening in his body while I get him there.

Also I just find male masturbation very hot so provided I keep my own sexuality (and otherwise I'd go wild with porn, which I don't care for myself so would also be interesting) the very sight would enthrall me.

>>18729157
You can do the last one as a woman too. I do it all the damn time, bc I don't feed into the paranoia crap the media and feminists try to cram down your throat.

>>18729162
Depends on where you live though.

>>18729158
it wouldn't be enjoyable. dicks need rest

Guy in his late 20s has his 2 stuffed animals from his childhood in his bed. How do you react?

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Why are men so obsessed with interracial couples?

>>18729213
Why are women?

>>18729208
That's pretty endearing. I'm sure some people would be a bit weirded out by it but what's the harm, everyone has nostalgia for some of their childhood toys, unless you need to hold them in your arms to fall asleep there's no issue as far a I'm concerned.

>>18729208
It's pretty adorable and endearing that he still has them, but also kind of uncomfortable since they're in his bed. I don't want to share a bed with his stuffed animals or fuck next to them and having them still in bed makes it seem like he still sleeps with them. If he does then is he capable of letting stuff go? I still care about my childhood stuffed animals, and a lot of other sentimental things, but I don't need to sleep with them and at that age I think it's a reasonable expectation he doesn't need to either.

>>18729213
We aren't, get off 4chan.

>>18729208
I would think it's cute, but I also collect toys so I'm biased.

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Why does a girl i regularly hang out with want to know my opinion on a name? I asked her to go to a movie with me and a couple of hours later she randomly asked me that question. If we were actually a couple this would be a red flag for me.

How can I go from virgin pushing 30 into hardcore playa ?

>>18729229
>>18729238
>>18729245
Oh this was way more positive than expected. I just like to have them with me in bed. Sometimes I hug them before sleeping but it's fine without. Just helps when you feel lonely. I'll keep this in mind when i get the chance to be with a girl. Thanks.

>>18729134

>older side of 25

Damn dude. So am I but I've at least had a few make out sessions (three women and one guy) that didn't lead to sex (in one case because a mix of social awkwardness, performance anxiety and beer dick - "almost had sex" is a messed up kind of virgin status but there you go)

>>18729262
>learn to flirt
>ask so many girls out/strike up a conversation with so many that you are beyond caring about fucking up with one
>practice, practice, practice... no theory can replace the intuition and social skills you develop from practice; not just with flirting or asking girls out, practice small talk at every chance you get, learn to interact with a wide variety of people, to make people laugh
>improve your appearance as much as you can (flattering haircut, slim physique, clothes that fit well, a good cologne, improve your posture)
>try to adapt the attitude that you're looking for a woman who interests YOU, do not act like it's your job to entertain every girl you talk to and do a sing and dance for her, let her work for your attention as wel
>create as many possible ways to meet women, try to pick up a female dominated hobby or volunteering position, join a dancing course, whatever it takes
>reading PUA shit to get inspired is okay but don't go down the rabbit hole and buy into their cynical world view; never forget that most men having websites like these earn money from it and have no incentive to be realistic vs making you believe that you can have everything if only you follow these steps

>>18729270
In general it'd be more universally well received having them on a shelf if you're worried what others might think. Also keep in mind others are going to view it based on how you present yourself too. If you're insecure, timid, meek, and clingy people are going to view it very differently than if you're confident, secure, personable, and independent.

>>18729271
Just stop, cold turkey. Delete everything.

I have been struggling with addiction to pornography and masturbation for over 6 years now. I have a girlfriend of 5 years who is oblivious to this fact since I hide this.
Lately I have had exceptionally reduced sex drive and have not been as passionate/lustful to her, and so now she has noticed and has taken it out on herself. Additionally she has gained a little weight (<20lbs) and pins it on that partially. Her self esteem is now hitting record lows as she gets upset sometimes and cries about how I do not want her sexually anymore. We live in the same apartment.

What do I do? Do I tell her and risk her self esteem take another hit as she finds out her boyfriend has been masturbating in her bathroom for years to pictures of girls sluttier than her? What can I do?

>>18729280
Fug. Oh well im definitely not the latter. But anyone that enters my room will be already close to me so it should matter less. I see if I can find a nice place for them tho.

>>18729288
>>18729289

>>18729288
I do not have a collection. I just use the internet.

>>18729289
Block all porn sites. It's the only way. Also why is your girlfriend crying instead of getting back in shape? And how is your sex life in general? Is it stuck in a routine?

>>18729141
>walk around at night with no fear
This must be a college problem? Everywhere I've been in my life the dangerous places to walk were dangerous for everybody.

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Keep getting asked by female associates
>"Wow, how have you not ever gotten a gf?"
Why

>>18729171
True, guess it would be better to say, see what it feels like to orgasm for once.

>>18729301
because they think you're too attractive not to have had one

>>18729289
Yikes. This is a tough situation. I think she'd feel very cheated to realize how much of your sexual energy went into this... and yes she might also feel extra insecure, although I think by now porn addiction is well-known enough that she'd likely understand it has more to do with a compulsive urge than with normal desire.

Do you get professional help for the addiction? I take it that you don't as you didn't mention it, but otherwise inviting her along and telling her with the support of a therapist who can put things in perspective might help.

Otherwise honestly yeah I think in this position I would go for it. If I imagine myself in her shoes... I think it's going to be 50/50 whether she'll be mostly relieved or mostly angry, but again, if I picture myself in her position I think if anything I would not be able to forgive you if you hadn't told me at a point this low and I found out later on. E.g. finding out two years down the line that while my self esteem was going down the toilet and you held me while I was crying, you knew what was really at play and did not tell me. So I think from that point of view you are forced to take your chances at this point.

Get some sources online that give a thorough account of porn addiction, sit her down during a stress-free moment, tell her you avoided this topic because it is painful and you didn't know how to tell her and didn't want to damage the relationship, but given the situation you no longer know what else to do, stress that you love her and this is an issue of yours you had before the relationship even started and so on. Then hope for the best. It seems like you're caught between a rock and a hard place...

>>18729298
I will try. It is just too easy half the time to get around blocks, and I have to block search engines.

She is only periodically crying, and I insist it has nothing to do with her weight. So I figure she does not care enough about pursuing the idea.

As for my sex life, I am most active at night where I finish her off purely from foreplay. Actual intercourse is boring either because I have jerked off 3 times before or I have not and I last 2 minutes. She always enjoys it, at least that is the appearance.

>>18729289
I am going to therapist for sex addiction. I can't deal with it alone. I don't think you can either.

I got professionally fitted for the first time and my bra size is 30C. Explain this to me. I was too nervous to ask the girl personally. All she told me was most stores don't carry my size.

>>18729213

He can have her. Anyone who wears a bathing suit like that; no thanks. I bet she got every variation of STD known to man, and probably one or two undiscovered.

>>18729303
>me
>attractive
TOP LEL
good one
but seriously theres a reason im on the 4chan virgin wall of shame

How do I eat a shit ton of crap and still lose weight or keep an okay figure as a guy?

Women seem a lot better at this than men and I have no idea how they do it.

>>18729338
Just don't eat as much on other days and have an active lifestyle.

>>18729338
Exercise a lot.

>>18729312
No, I have never tried or had a therapist.

I have additionally lied that I do not and have not masturbated. I will think about what you said.

Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it.

In a relationship, how do you let your boyfriend know that you love and cherish him but also that all of his opinions and beliefs are worthless and stupid and that you don't take him seriously? But that you still love him. Is there a way to do this without being emotionally abusive?

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>>18729327
The letter, is your cup size, essentially the volume of your breasts. The band is the circumference of the area just below your breasts, your bust. Since some bras are made to different specifications you might want to try it on if it's a brand you're unfamiliar with. Sometimes +/- one cup size or one band size might fit better, and usually if you go up a cup size you go down a band size, or vice versa.

If a store doesn't carry your size it just means buying online or potentially buying custom made. I find it odd that stores wouldn't carry 30C but maybe I'm picturing your size wrong since the size changes relative to your body dramatically. All of these breasts in pic related have identical volumes for instance, but relative to their bodies they have very different bra sizes and look very different.

>>18729327
This is how dumb your question sounds:
>I got professionally measured for the first time and my height is 5'5". Explain this to me.
Do you want us to explain to you how you grew to be this size?

>>18729369
No, because you don't cherish him if you believe his opinions and beliefs are worthless and stupid. They're his opinions and beliefs and you're free to disagree or find them incompatible and an affront to everything you believe in. But unless he's asserting something factually wrong and not an opinion or belief or value you happen to disagree with, that's your problem. You calling them worthless and stupid is a reflection of yourself, not of him.

Learn to be a better, more patient, more understanding person or find someone more compatible.

I moved in with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. It was great for the first week, but now I'm almost constantly thinking about how this was a big mistake. All his little flaws that I didn't care about when we weren't living together have now become all I can see about him. We have had sex once since the first week. I've noticed that I'm a lot more bitchy now too, always nagging and snapping at him. And I'm actually looking forward to leaving for work in the morning since it's 7 hours that I don't have to see him.

Did we make a big mistake? I'm almost positive he's feeling similar about this.
We've been together for 4 years and our relationship has never been this strained before.

For the ladies of 4chan: what are your favourite kind of condoms to use. My girl and I bought one of those variety packs of Trojans with 3 in them and liked the ultra ribbed but I want to change it up for her a bit since we usually use durex avasts.

I know about eating her out before hand and such and I do that and get her in the positions to stimulate her the most. Sex is kind of boring to me but my favourite part is her reactions and how she likes it so Im thinking some sort of "her pleasure" condoms would help to throw in every so often.

>>18729369
kek

>>18729395
You'll have to hold a big conversation with him about that, and only him, no bitching with your mom or whatever while ignoring the problem.

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This is more of a question for other girls: how long does it take for your bf to make you cum and how can you cum faster? It usually takes me 90 minutes of touching and or oral before I finally finish. I feel bad since after a while he goes flaccid. It takes me longer to finish because I feel like I'm taking so damn long all the time.

Girls, have you ever developed feelings for the guy you confess every secret of yours?

What are the political opinions of girls who browse 4chan?

>>18729437
I'm kind of old school leftie, in that I believe in women's rights, protecting the environment etc. but not in "Identity Politics" bullshit.

>>18729155
If it wasn't good, you've done something wrong. That prostate can be pretty magical.

>>18729437
I'm a communist. I think racism, misogyny, and the like are real problems even in the West, but that they're enabled by capitalism and will be abolished with communism, so we shouldn't get bogged down in stupid, liberal IDpol because it's not gonna fix anything.

>>18729451
Damn run-on sentence. Shoulda paid more attention.

>>18729451
Do you really believe humans are capable of a communist society? I'm a socialist and everything, but communism sounds fucking insane to me.

>>18729437
I'm from a small town in Texas, only about 800 people, and I'm libertarian.

>>18729437
I'm socially libertarian, and fiscally moderate, with some very strong opinions on specific issues that don't really line up with any main party.

>>18729460
I hope so. I think the selfishness and greed we see in people in capitalism is not human nature, but the result of an environment that pits us against each other in order to survive. My hope is that a society in which no one's compelled to exploit people, no one will do that. I don't think it's coming in my life time, but I don't want to be a defeatist. I just try to educate people and do charity work.

I firmly believe that capitalism is doomed, though I don't know if humanity's dying with it. Creative destruction and all.

It's a cliche, but for the curious, I recommend listening to Richard D. Wolf g's introductory lecture on Marxian economics and reading The Ego and Its Own by Max Stirner.

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How the fuck does something this perfect exist?

>>18729395
You're not mature enough to live together. Living with someone requires compromise along with patience. If you really love the person you would be willing to overlook these flaws for the bigger purpose. Spending time together and enjoying each other. As the other anon said, you need to have a conversation and start to compromise. Work out who does what. Stop being a nag and be a friend and lover.

>>18729301
Pity.

>>18729491
Shes not very qt. Very lady like, not youthfull at all.

Cara is much more "alive". I really like her.

>>18729500
>he prefers infantile over mature

>>18729491

It's not perfect. So there's your problem right there.

>pussy on pedestal

>>18729491
Yeah, she is perfect.

>>18729486
Thanks for the response. I wish I could agree with you, but I just can't believe it would work. I honestly believe that capitalism is a consequence of human nature that can't be avoided. No matter how sad that is.

Maybe if we colonize Mars we can try again, screen who we send off, maybe do a better job at building society.

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>>18729500
She is fucking qt what the fuck nigga reereereereereeree

>>18729432
90 minutes? Damn. I cum in 30 seconds to two minutes.

It sucks too, because I'm super tired after.

>>18729486
>Capitalism is doomed
Karl Marx said that, yet almost 170 years later it's still chugging along. Meanwhile nearly every socialist/communist regime has risen and collapsed.
>selfishness and greed is not human nature, but caused by capitalism
it really isn't.
greed has been a sin for at least 2,000 years which absolutely precedes the notion of capitalism.
the people in Russia before communism didn't know capitalism then, most of them were serfs. nothing changed for them. all that ultimately happened was they replaced the tsar with lenin/stalin/whomstever other dictator was in power at the time

>>18729511
>Maybe if we colonize Mars we can try again, screen who we send off, maybe do a better job at building society.
That's another problem with communism. you're trying to engineer society and tell people that because they believe certain things, they are undesirable and not allowed in society.
at least under capitalism you have the belief that with dedication, skill and a bit of luck you can become a wealthy elite too. communism lacks that. there's no reward for hard work and dedication.

>>18729525
What the fuck, how? Even when I masturbate it takes me 20-30 minutes at the fastest.

>>18729503
Nah, she is.

>>18729532
If you want to be quicker, then you need to masturbate less / watch less porn. Ask the nofap weirdos.

Also doesn't that start to take huge chunks out of your day at that rate?

>>18729546
If I masturbate less I'm less frequently turned on and I might not orgasm at all. Stopping porn is probably a good idea though since I've been watching it since I was a kid. Although I wonder if it's too late for me. I doubt most grills look at porn every day like guys do, so I can't even confirm if noporn works the same for grills

>Also doesn't that start to take huge chunks out of your day at that rate?
It depends, most of the time I want to finish quickly so I just masturbate to porn it takes 20-30 minutes on average. If I use imagination it takes about an hour. It's not too bad really.

>>18729821
I'd think it's the same regardless of gender: the more you masturbate and watch porn, the more desensitized you get. But I'm a dude, so I couldn't tell you.

Having said that, porn seems especially bad. I stopped watching porn altogether, and I enjoy masturbation a lot more (it's also a lot quicker).

I just moved to Nashville about a month ago. I'm interested in dating but I'm planning on being here less than a year. I'm trying to springboard from my current job here to a job in Charlotte.

Should I bother dating if I'm here to advance my career, or would it not hurt to meet girls?

>>18729460
Why wouldn't we be? We all share a planet, why not share her resources? Though personally I think communism would work best on a community scale rather than national or international scale.

>>18729831
Humans are kind of selfish, if you hadn't noticed. Also, most people (and animals) can't function properly without a reward mechanism.

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>>18729486
>I think the selfishness and greed we see in people in capitalism is not human nature
You're fucking kidding, right?

As long as humanity has existed we've been smashing our neighbors with a big stick so we could get their resources or prevent a future where they smash our skulls in to get our resources instead. Christ you fucking commies are delusional.

>>18729821
>>18729824
I'm a girl and can confirm nofap to a certain extent.
My sex drive is weird, I go short bouts of time where I'm horny non stop, and then can go months without even thinking about it. Every time I come out of those month long dry spells though is when masturbating is the most intense. Almost too much though, to the point where the first couple times are almost painful how sensitive I am. And then as my on switch progresses further and further it takes more and more for me to get off, until I return back to my months long strings of celibacy.

>>18729146
>dad sneeze
Is this a thing?

>>18729437
Mostly middle with a slightly left lean. For social issues I can go either way on.
Economic issues I tend to go more blue, but I also recognize that some of the left's economic theories are unrealistic.

I'm no radical on either end of the spectrum though.

>>18729856
Oh my god yes. My dad sneezes so fucking loudly. Actually all the men in my life sneeze like that.

Ladies. All my friends constantly compare me to a dad. I dress like a dad, have a dad bod, sometimes they say I act like a dad, and apparently I have a dad sneeze. Is this endearing or disgusting?

>>18729338
Women retain fat more than men, so they can't ever eat a bunch of fucking garbage and lose weight unless they have a godlike metabolism (that will crash with age).

Most thin women meticulously count calories to stay thin. It's a lot of work.

Do some girls on tinder respond of of obligation or kindness? This girl's giving me NOTHING to work with, I'm not a fucking interrogator, I wanted to actually talk. This is fucking 3 times now, maybe it's me.

>>18729873
Endearing IMO.

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Almost everything this girl does seems like she might sorta be into me. She makes eye contact, she laughs a lot when we talk, she initiates conversation, she touches me out of nowhere, etc etc

But she seems kind of resistant to the idea of being alone with me, or doing some activity with just me. Its been brought up occasionally with friends ("Everyone but Anon and Anonette has seen this movie, you guys can watch it together later") and once by me (Asked if she wanted to grab a bite before a group outing), but each time she's denied it for one reason or another.

I can't figure out if I should be taking this as an obvious NOT INTERESTED signal or what. 6 of the 7 past days we've spent hanging out in either a group of 3 or 4 people, one of those days being something that I wasn't previously apart of that she invited me to. She obviously enjoys being around me, even if it's only as a friend, so I don't get why she's resistant to doing something with just us two. She does have like, very specific and thorough criteria for her to consider someone her "friend", so maybe I just haven't earned the right to hang out with her alone yet? I've known her for maybe 6 months ish, and the last month or so we've been hanging out a LOT, getting to the point where it's almost every day. Maybe I'm just bad at reading people or women, or maybe I'm assuming that we're better friends than we actually are?

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Single girls, where do you hang out and/or would not mind being approached by a guy?

t. social autist

>>18729141
>Masturbate
We have downtime, you'd maybe do it 2 or 3 times a day, max 4.
>Put something up my ass
Hmm..
>Have sex
Same
>Exercise
You can do that now?
>Walk around at night without fear
Valid, but danger's danger for anyone.

Where do I find gamer/internet savvy girls? Join a club? Go to college? Cause I applied for 5 colleges for Spring 2018 and none have replied yet.

>>18729395

What're these flaws? Does he leave the bread open? Toilet seat up?

Told a girl she had a fat ass
She said "hahaha really"
What should I say?

M lips are fucking huge, is this a turn off for girls?

>>18728955
I have a major crush on my guy friend. He lives kinda far from me but we talk on the phone for hours every day. Were actually on the phone now. Ive been more and more obvious lately but hes a little oblivious and pretty self conscious so i dont think hes catching on. I also dont wanna get rejected/make things weird.

>>18729940
Explain how you've been obvious.

>>18729878
Idk possibly. I get the same treatment from guys though, if that's worth anything. Feels like I'm having a conversation with a brick wall, I send them a thoughtful couple sentences- a paragraph, and all I get in return is "lol yeah."

I think its more that some people are just shitty conversationalists, and in all honesty I came to realize I was expecting way too much given I was using online dating. The whole appeal to online dating is for the autists who don't know how to interact irl and have poor social skills.

>>18729902
Really anywhere, its more about what they're doing rather than where they are.
Does she have headphones in? That's the universal signal of "don't talk to me". Does she appear to be in a hurry? Probably not a good idea to approach. Is she studying or working or otherwise really concentrated on something? Best not to interrupt.

Is she just kind of sitting around, maybe scrolling on her phone? Probably won't get too mad if you say hello. Worst case scenario she'll say hello back but explain she's in the middle of something and can't talk.

Otherwise,
Obviously bars/parties and other obvious social events are great places to go too.

Looking for thoughts and advice from both genders on my situation.
I was asked by a female friend I've come to really like if I wanted to move in with her and 2 of her friends. The rent is a good price I can afford and I'd have my own room and I really need to move out as is. I'm worried though because this invite i think implies my feelings aren't reciprocated and if these don't die down then I fear living in this home with her would result in a lot of awkward situations for me. I feel like it's more likely that some awkward confrontation will happen between us at some point and if not it's still more likely I end up feeling like a cuck as she hooks up with other guys than us getting a thing going while living under the same roof.

>>18729940
He may feel the same, and if you talk that much it's a good indication that he does. He may be acting oblivious as a way to distance himself though. A lot of us stay away from long distance relationships. There is in most people a need for physical closeness, and a lack of it in a romantic situation is very stressful.

>>18730005
Looks like a one way ticket to cuck city. Avoid, if at all possible.

why is that 90% questions about dating advice here comes from guys?

>>18730014
Where do you think you are?

>>18730005
yeaaahhh I'd advise against it. Not a good idea to move in with someone you have feelings for unless you're dating already. You'll just be miserable if/when she does start bringing guys home to fuck. I'd say its too big a gamble.

>>18730014
4chan is a male dominated site.

>>18730013
>>18730023
Pretty much what I've been thinking. Follow up question though, whats best way to tell her why I'm not going to go through? She knows I need to move out and knows I can afford it and I know shes gonna ask why I don't want to. Idk if I should just be brutally honest or sugarcoat it somehow. Genuinely enjoy hanging out with her even if I'm not getting any so not looking to burn any bridges.

>>18730065
Say no. If she asks, give her a "are you serious" look and let it die.

>>18730065
Easiest way is to probably say something like "I think I'd prefer to live with some other guys"
A lot of people are weird about coed situations without feelings being one of those reasons.
Or you can say you found something better/cheaper even if you didn't. If she asks about it later you can just say it fell through, but you're gonna have to find something anyway so you can just say that was the better option.

Do guys really smell their fingers after they scratch their balls?

>>18730075
Yes.

>>18730075
Sometimes. I like the smell of my balls.

>>18730075
>>18730079
>>18730086
lol

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>>18728955
>get home today
>gf is fucking crying
>aparently, some other girls talked some mean shit to her
>Now she's depressed as hell

So girls, say a group of girls starts talking mean shit about you
How could you deal with them, IN ANY WAY THAT ISN'T MURDER?!

>>18730111
I move on because I graduated high school 5 years ago.

>>18730111
Women are children.
Don't worry if your 2 year old cries. It's what they do. Just hug them, tell them it's ok, and then offer food.

>>18730075
its how we gauge whether or not its time to bathe

>>18730075
Not usually, but sometimes.

>>18730127
>>18730135
Yes, but what do I do about THEM?
How do I tell those bitches to fuck off?

>>18730158
you come to those bitches and say
>fuck off

>>18730158
You don't do anything. You cannot control other people, including your gf. You just remind yourself you're better than them and go about your life. Tell your gf she doesn't need to feel down about a bunch of bitches, who cares they're assholes.

>>18730014
The internet in general is male dominated typically, with notable exceptions such as lolcow or tumblr. This is magnified even further with imageboards.

Bada boom I'm a fuckin genius.

>>18730198
>>18730021
>>18730028
but there are way more females here asking other questions.
it's just proportion of questions within gender that bugs me, not their general number

>>18730014
Because men are stupid and generally are the most confused about dating

>>18729901
This is how I know I ask dumb questions, because they're never answered

I feel like I'm doomed to always misinterpret everything

>>18730227
Men also have to be the aggressors in dating. I can't count how many times in these very generals women's response to dating advice has been "I'm the woman. I can't do anything to date him. HE needs to come to ME."

>>18730246
No your questions aren't answered because no one's going to read your novels

>>18730246
I don't read any question that's longer than a paragraph or two. Shorten shit and you'll probably get more responses.

Girls.
How do you feel about a man caliing you princess or a very fancy name like it.

Not your bf.

>>18729912
He leaves his dirty dishes in the sink for someone else (me) to clean up.
He leaves toothpaste marks all over the sink when he brushes his teeth and doesn't clean them off.
He always leaves the tv at a ridiculously high volume while the cable thing is at a low volume so when you turn the tv on the start up sound it makes is unbearably loud.
If he's the last out of bed he won't pull the sheets up so it's tidy.

There's a dozen more things that I can't think of he does that infuriates me.

>>18730266
>Not your bf.
Please don't.

>>18730266
Like I want to punch him in the face

>>18730269
How do you tolerate that?
I wouldn't

>>18730276
>>18730275
I'm not talking about a complete stranger.

But somebody who you are very acquainted to, possibly a good friend.

>>18730283
I don't care, that makes no difference.

>>18730266
>>18730283
Yeah no, don't do that. Only my bf gets to call me pet names.

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Girls:
I met this chick off of Tinder and we've been going on dates for about a month. Today I was about to delete the app and checked out her profile on a whim, and saw that she's updated it. New bio, news pics as recent as a few days ago. We haven't had the exclusivity talk, but should I feel concerned? Thinking she may not be as interested as I assumed.

>>18730295
>news pics
*new pics

>>18729831
>tragedy of the commons

>>18730295
You should talk to her about where she thinks whatever you two have is going to go, because it doesn't sound like you both have the same idea about your 'relationship'

Girls, specifically those on tinder.

What makes you get cold feet once a guy asks you for a date?

Ive had the app for a 3 weeks, about 70 matches and most of them respond. Texting goes well, they agree to a date and then ghost me. This has happened like 10 times.

A girl first messaged me today, responded very quickly, we talked for a few hours and as soon as I asked for a date she stopped replying. What gives?

Should I text more? Like I dont want to invest two weeks of messaging just to get ghosted.

Help me please

Guys, girls, anyone who knows:

How do I make myself more attractive?

>go to gym, lift, played bball in high school, overall pretty athletic
>5ft11, 155lbs
>As a kid, only ever wore athletic wear (shorts and a tshirt, nike stuff) bc low maintenance
>18 now, do the same thing
>kept my hair the same way since I was 7
>most attractive girl I dated is about a 4/10

How can I dress better and/or fix my hair a different way? I know this sounds retarded but I don't even know what would look good on me. I checked /fa/ but it's all greek to me.

>>18730311
>3 weeks
>70 matches
>they respond
Lucky bastard.

Girls, what does it mean if someone ask "are we friends?" we've never discussed our relationship before so this bad. I kind of like her.

I called a girl "nerdy" and she took great offense to this. This was not my intention, I was just trying to establish some common ground. Do most girls find these sorts of descriptors derogatory of offensive?

>>18730320
Doesnt matter if nothing happens out of it.

girls how much time do in have to wait to start talking to a girl online again?

this girl from college that i dont know added me and i said hey and then we started talking until we eventually stopped talking and then she said hey and we did the same thing, we stopped talking yesterday night and i dont know if i should say hey now or wait some time.
a friend told me to talk to her now so things dont cool off

>>18728955

Girls, how would you go about breaking up with your bf of 3 years when he has no idea you want to break up and it's coming out of the blue?

About six months ago, I stopped caring about personal hygiene. I stopped shaving, getting haircuts, shower less than once a week, I literally never wash my hands. I still brush and floss but that's just common sense. I'm sure that I just smell like shit and cum all the time because all I do in my free time is sit around naked masturbating and picking my ass.

I get normally people would just tell me to pull myself together. But recently I've been getting propositions from my female friends. It's not just an isolated incident. 3-4 of them have been trying to get with me pretty persistently to the point where I'm soft ignoring a couple of them (they're lovely ladies but I'm just not interested in sex/dating at this point in my life).

Like, what the fuck? Could they have some self respect? Can anyone explain this phenomenon?

>>18730331
Not really.
My boyfriend routinely calls me weird, autistic, nerd and cunt. Like, at least once a day.

>>18730373

If you're genetically compatible, you actually smell good to them. Sweat and how it smells is a part of evolutionary coupling process and studies indicate that especially for women how a man smells is an important attraction feature.

>>18730360
>"It's been a good run, but I no longer love you like I used to, the relationship doesn't work for me and I think it's time to break up."

>>18730356
There's no correct formula for this. Whatever feels good.

>>18730405
>If you're genetically compatible, you actually smell good to them.

Yep. Downside being that if it even gets close to sex, the smell of his putrid dick and his unwiped shit will be horrifying.

Is it weird that I find it attractive when a girl has a unisex name like Sam or Alex?

>>18730425
Because you like tomboys bro.

Should i gofor it or be single because I cant handle it? I met a guy i really click with and he treated me so well on the 2 dates i went with him on. And i was sort of falling for him. But i freaked out cuz I've never been treated so nice by a guy before and I am scared of commitment. so i broke it off and told him we werent a match but that he was a great guy. We were on good but distant terms but then we bumped into each other again and started joking like we did before and i still really like him and i think he still likes me. I think if i explained why i broke it off he might give me a second chance. I could see myself being his gf really easy and it scared me.

But then i think now that it might not be so bad, but i dont want to make him sad again. Well maybe i am horrible but i would like some advice.

>>18730430
What's the worst that could happen if you two get back together?

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>was seeing a girl for a while
>things were pretty great
>then a family member of hers died, she stopped going to college classes etc
>i got sick as fuck and couldn't see her for two weeks
>eventually shes back on track and catching up
>but says we have to leave things where we were at because she needs to get her college happening again
>wants to keep in touch so we do but minimally
>saw her for a moment today, we both smiled and waved but continued on since we were with people

Would it be weird if I sent her a message? What would I even say? I do feel like it's a good way to worm my way back into her life but still, I don't want to come off as desperate.

>>18730437
I guess im scared that i would leave him eventually and make him sad because I've always been single and am known for never liking a guy longer than a week or two. There was always new guys to meet and like. But this guy is different. I just hate making people sad. And i dont want to make him sad. But maybe it could be really great. I'll think on it tomorrow after sleeping

>>18730443
I think you could message her with a short but sweet 'Hey you seemed like you were doing well earlier today, hope things are going well!' So she has the option to open the conversation, or just say 'thanks' , with no pressure to continue

>>18730449
Flirting is context based. We can't really help you since that would be script making.

>>18730455
You're completely right. Thank you.

>>18730460
Sorry we couldn't help further anon.

>>18730447
I think you need to take the risk. You don't want to be wondering what ifs in a couple of years.

>>18730465
Nah, i realized im overthinking, and to act and react in the moment.

>>18730454
That still sounds a little much to me. I was thinking something like "Sorry I didn't stop to say hi" and adding something on like asking how she's been or what she's been up to.

That said though, I did ask only a few days ago what she'd been up to and didn't get a response. Hence my not wanting to look needy and shit.

>>18728955
How can you tell when an ex gf wants you back
>inb4 check the faq it didnt say anything about exes

>>18730360
>>18730405
>"It's been a good run, but I no longer love you like I used to, the relationship doesn't work for me and I think it's time to break up."

Wow, that's so cold ! If I was in a relationship with someone for 3 years and they couldn't come up with something better than this I'd be mad.

>>18729395
So what do you do that might piss him off?

>>18730111
What did they say. Don't lave out important details fagboy

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>>18730111
>woman
>cant handle the bantz of other women

Thank you to the anon from last thread who gave me the adblock advice.

>>18729251
Nothing important

>>18729278
>try to adapt the attitude that you're looking for a woman who interests YOU, do not act like it's your job to entertain every girl you talk to and do a sing and dance for her, let her work for your attention as well
Is there a way to do that and still be polite?

>>18729369
>you love and cherish him
>all of his opinions and beliefs are worthless and stupid and that you don't take him seriously
Get a real dog or let the poor guy off the hook.

>>18729434
Not a femanon but that's a good sign you're in the friendzone.

>>18729910
Both of those are good ideas. If you want to be more specific the meetup boards would be a good place to check out.

>>18729922
She liked it, roll with it.

>>18730248
Which is funny, because the dating advice for women I've seen advocates for the opposite attitude.

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Ladies, does it hurt to kiss or get oral from a guy with stubble or a beard?

>>18729213
Here's how it works
>White Male + Anything = ok
>White Female + Anything but White Male = not ok.

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>>18730703
I think it's funny you're trying to make it specific to a race. I'm friends with this black weeb who used to complain about black guys dating outside of their race all the time, but getting ass blasted if their women ever do it too. I'm sure we've all seen some girl getting her panties in a twist over a guy dating an asian too.

>>18730677
I don't think I've ever even felt my husbands stubble during oral or kissing and we do both pretty often. I doubt a beard would hurt at all. Maybe it'd be a bit uncomfortable or a tad difficult if it's lumberjack status but even then it's pretty eh.

>>18730677
Not particularly.
It can irritate my skin a little if we make out long enough, but pain is a big word.

>>18730716
Well I was just expressing my viewpoint, I don't know why but it bothers me seeing white women with other races yet I have jungle and yellow fever.

>>18730677
Not a girl but my ex really disliked making out when I had just spent a few days without shaving. She said it stung. But when my beard had grown a little longer, the hair was softer so it was ok.

Women, Do women have tits pride between them?

>>18729930
No, Bubba

I can't help but feel that my sexual inexperience ruined my chances with this girl. first attempt could not get it up. second attempt came super fast when i entered her pussy.

And after that there were chances but not great ones where we have all the time in the world instead of her needing to get up early and that stuff so i never progressed to penetration. So in my mind i was like well next date we can fuck. Wrong she broke things off. Now i feel bummed out i lost the girl, lost my virginity but have not had proper sex. I guess i needed to seize the moment better

we were both inexperienced by the way

>>18729491
But she falls under the category of "too perfect". Your "kill all men" antenna would be going on overdrive 24/7. You would be the driving force behind a penis holocaust because of protective instinct.

>>18730812
Listen man it happens to the best of us, don't feel too bad.

>>18730849
you know first i could laugh about these awkward moments but now it's starting to bother me that it could be a factor in her leaving.

>>18730853
It probably was but look at it this way, do you really want to be with a judgemental cunt that judges you on your first time?
First time is generally awkward and shit for everyone, if she was expecting it to be like it is in the films then she is retarded.

You were nervous and you penis reacted, can't be helped.
Next time will be better.

>>18730814
You folks must really like Cobie.

>>18730874
Some people are just ridiculously beautiful. Idk, think young David Gandy or Matt Bomer maybe? Something like that.

Girls, Do you like beard or shave ?

>>18730889
I personally prefer stubble.

>>18730889
Both female flatmates said stubble. Like 3 days stubble. That or clean.

A girl I was talking with on the phone asked me if I wanted to fall asleep together with her with the phone still on, what does this really mean?

>>18730929
That she was tired.

Girls I need your opinions.

Last year I made some pretty bad choices eg. Drugs and hanging around the wrong people this lasted nearly the whole year.

This one girl I hooked up with a couple times last year, we were friends for ages too, kinda stopped talking and I've not posted anything on social media for 5 months so to people I've been MIA.

I really cleaned myself up compared to last year. Got a well paying job (my dream job), nice car and motorbike, improved my fitness and appearance.

I'm gonna message her soon and see if she wants to catch up. She doesn't know about my car, bike, job, or appearance (last time she saw me I was at my fattest) So I'm gonna surprise her and take her out on the motorbike.

If a guy you were attracted to did what I did/plan on doing how would you react ?

>>18728955
There's a girl I really want to date but I made a bit of an autistic first impression. How can I fix it if we meet again. I accidentally made fun of something she really enjoyed because I was nervous and didn't know what to say.

Girls, why are you so stupid and useless?

>>18731009
stop trying so hard to impress her you dingus, your servile attitude isn't sexy

When is it time to tell your crush (male) that you are in an open relationship therefore available if he is interested? And how do you do it?

>>18731027
"my wallet doesn't care if i fuck others, wanna smash?"

>>18729437
For reference, I'm from the Netherlands.
I'm a minarchist, very close to being an-cap. I have some authoritarian tendencies when it comes to terrorism. I'm also socially conservative.

>>18729483
This. Word for word.

Girls

I've been messaging/calling/video with a girl for a few months now and we are going to be meeting soon. We've gotten pretty close so far and we both are mutually interested in each other. We talked about dating and both agreed it just depends how things go once we are together, but how we are boh interested in the idea.

But... other than 2 terrible ONS when I was much younger (I'm 27 now, she's 27 too) I don't know anything about physical affection. I have 0 confidence when it comes to kissing, sex of any of that stuff. How do I tell her this?

>>18731075
Just tell her.
She probably already kinda suspects it, and she won't mind if she already likes you.

>>18730319
ask parents and friends. they know.

>>18730792
Lmao what the hell is that. This is like thinking girls make out with each other or something on sleepovers.

>>18731082

So I just flat out say "oh hey, just before we meet. You should know I have practically 0 experience with affection"

That just sounds bad. Yeah she does like me, as I said, she said she likes me and thinkings dating me would be fun as we've had contact for the past 4 months to get to know each other. But she doesn't know I am very far behind in the physical affection part. I just don't want to disappoint her

>>18731120
Don't tell her anything, at most that "it's been a while"and that's it.

>>18731128

the reason I want her to know is because I like this girl and don't want to disappoint her. I really think once we meet in person things will go well since we are both attracted to each other. So I think there is a good likelihood we will start dating once we meet. But, I'm just really worried that my kisses will/would be awkward. I've never had a real kiss. all I've experienced was very very brief awkward making out with 2 ONS like 6 years ago. I really don't want to mess this up with this girl, I don't want her to be disappointed if my kisses are not good

>>18731120
You don't have experience with this. You can't change that. Whether you tell her or not, she will know that you aren't experienced.

If she knows it beforehand, she will most likely try to make things easy for you and help you out.
If she doesn't know, she might not understand why you act in a certain way and she might mistake your lack of confidence for lack of interest.

Don't lie to her, that's terrible foundation for a relationship.

>>18731135
I don't think you can really be bad at kissing. And if you mess up, oh no, you'll just have to try again lol, such horror. It's kind of cute, try to see the positive side, stop being such an idiot.

>>18731135
Stop worrying about her and do your thing, women want to feel desired, not treated like princesses the have approve you.

>>18728969
bumping, since I'd like to hear even more ideas

>>18731143

That makes sense. Just, how should I bring this conversation up? I feel sort of embarsssed

>>18731144

from what I remember from 6 years ago, it was really really awkward.

>>18731146

I know that. just this girl thinks highly of me, so if she's hoping for a really sweet moment, but she get really awkward and uncomfortable kiss, surely that would be disappointing

>>18731163
Just play it on and be fun.

>>18731163
Next time you talk about meeting up, just tell her "I am kinda nervous about meeting up because I have very little experience and I am scared I will ruin things. Be patient with me if I am a little awkward at the beginning."

>>18731163
>it was really really awkward.
Because they were ONS. It'll be different this time. Maybe mention you're a bit rusty but try not to make a big deal out of it.

I want to have sex at least once a day, every day.

Why is it impossible to find a girl who wants to have sex daily? Why do women have such low sex drives?

>>18731180
That sounds awful and contrived, it will totally kill the mood. He would be enduring she leaves him for the next experienced Chad. Op, don't say anything and relax.

>>18731189
Ensuring*

>>18731180

that sounds lacking confidence to me. How about - "so before we meet up, there is something I think you should know. I'm really excited to meet you in person after all these months if getting to know each other, but I'm also a bit nervous and anxious. I don't really have much experience when it comes to dating so this is gonna be new for me. I just thought you should know in case I seem shy at first."

>>18731188
In the last thread a woman was complaining about having a sex drive too high for her bf. Clearly you have to search better,

>>18731187
>>18731189

This girl is very reasonable and level headed.

When we first started messaging and I told her that I sort of like her. She said "you know, I'm not really looking for anything since I feel happy being single. But you're a really nice and interesting guy. Good looking too! So you know, I'm not closed to the idea if we get to know each other better :)" I thought that was very reasonable. she's been like that with other things too. So I don't think she's judge me based on my lack of experience. Just, I don't want to surprise her with it

>>18731202
Oh boy, you have a lot to learn. Good luck.

>>18731196
Her boyfriend was probably super low T, and she only wanted to have sex once a week.

For every girl that wants to have sex often, there is 10 girls that can literally go months without sex or masturbation and think nothing of it. That's really common for women, there's one in this thread right now.

I haven't gone more than 2 days without masturbating since I was 12, I jack off 3-6 times every day usually.

A week without masturbating would have me going insane. The smartest men on Earth are much smarter than the smartest women, the strongest men on Earth are much stronger than the strongest women, and the men with the highest sex drives are much stronger than the women with the strongest sex drives.

There is just no such thing as a female who can match my sex drive, or if there is she is really rare. I'm just asking for a girl to let me fuck her once a day.

>>18731209

Tell me pls

>>18731210

>I jack off 3-6 times every day usually.

How the fuck do you function?

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>>18731223
Fucking rookie

>>18731223
>wake up
>jack off

>going to sleep
>jack off

There's 2 already, scheduled every day.

I have super high testosterone levels.

>>18731227
>testosterone
I doubt that's the reason. It might be time to consider calling it an addiction.

>>18731117
What did you mean

>>18731227

how the fuck do you get things accomplished throughout the day. If I masturbate in the morning it ruins my whole day. I'll feel like I'm in a mental fog all day

>>18731232
I have enough testosterone that it doesn't effect me.

>>18731230
It's something that is necessary like eating food, I just do it more than I need to.

>>18731239
>It's something that is necessary like eating food,
Sounds like something I used to say when I was an addict. Sometimes compared it to breathing.

>>18731239

>I have enough testosterone that it doesn't effect me.

That doesn't make sense.

But for real you're an addict. You probably play with your dick a lot even when you're not thinking of girls, which in turn gives you a boner so you masthrbate a lot. am I right?

Girls, Have you ever asked guy's phone number

>>18728955
What do I do if me and a friend both like the same girl?

>>18731188
My boyfriend found one, me. Only limiting factor is that my bf needs to recharge after cumming, and I might need some recovery time (half a day) after having been pounded very rough multiple times in one day. Yes we exist, but we're very likely either taken, or not interested in relationships.

>girlfriend: I have an issue with you
>what is it
>girlfriend: [incredibly vague terminology like "you put a wall between us" that I'm not doing]
>ok and what specifically do I do to make you feel that way
>girlfriend: I don't know!

What's up with this? It's like she's just flat out refusing to tell me what I'm actually doing that's upsetting her. It's only vague nonspecific feelings.

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>>18731273

>>18731281
She doesn't know, she's just getting bad vibes from you. Either you're too passive, you don't touch her enough, ask her how her day has been etc - something is off and she's starting shit to let you know that she's discontent.

>>18731257
Yes.

>>18731289
Could you tell me specifically that situation?

>>18731295
Huh, it happened many times. There's no specific situation.
Met a guy, thought he was cute and interesting, asked him if he wanted to meet up again and have a coffee. If he said yes, I asked his phone number/gave him mine.

>>18731302
Have you ever been refused?

>>18731306
Yes, twice.
One had a girlfriend, the other is gay. I'm good friends with the gay one.

I'm pretty cute tho, I think that it is easier for girls than it is for guys.

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>>18731317
>I think that it is easier for girls than it is for guys.
It's that way for everything.

>>18731188
with my first gf I had sex 4-5 times a day.
We would do nothing, but fuck at every possibility.
She claimed I have addicted her to sex.

we wouldn't see each other every day, but once in two, three days min.

>>18731281
>>18731281
like the other anon said.
I study psychology and once I was desperate enough to manipulate a girl into becoming my gf. Once I realised how terrible a person she is, I just changed my body language from "I really like you and want to provide for you" to some form of dodging and despising her. When I was breaking up with her, she said something like 'I don't feel good/safe with you anymore' She thought she's breaking up with me, basically. She never contacted me again.

so improve your body language or break up

>>18731324
That's not true. There are things that are easier for girls and things that are easier for guys.

In this case, I think that asking a guy out gives you some advantage. I get to pick better guys than I would if I just sat there and waited for them to ask me out.

How does it feels for pussy to be penetrated ?

>>18731356
>There are things that are easier for girls and things that are easier for guys.

Like math, inventing things, or weight lifting.

>>18731378
Imagine the feeling of a q-tip dipped in warm water going deep into your ear. Now spread that feeling across your entire body.

Just like a q-tip, you can't put a penis too deep, otherwise you'll go from pleasure to excrutiating pain and you'll start bleeding.

If im interested on a girl, its good to ask her only "hey what are you gonna do today? wanna go out??" and just spend the date normally .

Or how to tell her im interested in a relationship, i mean its an spontaneous thing that comes out or i need to do an specific comment/action???

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>>18731439
No fucking way.

Do you girls have gangbang fantasies?

>>18731632
No, but I like watching porn of it.

>>18731638
Do all girls watch porn? Assuming its something you discuss amongst each other.

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>talking to girl I met at a store I go to
>she seems to be losing interest (not texting as much, never wants to go out)
>stop texting her altogether
>weeks go by, no communication with her at all
>have to go back to her store
>deal with someone else and ignore her entirely, don't even say hi
>as I'm leaving she interrupts a customer she's with to say "Bye, anon! See you later!" across the store
>get a text from her the very next day
What the fuck does she want from me? Why are girls like this?

>>18731641
don't be a fool, dude. Most of the girls don't even know how to use internet

>>18731632
Not at all. I'm bi and I don't even think about FFM threesomes.

>>18731641
I don't. I used to very rarely, but never found anything that did it for me, so I cut my losses. But I also have a near non-existent sex drive so this post may as well mean nothing.

>>18731646
She's trying to keep you as a orbiter, stay away.

>>18731641
Most don't, no. Basically I like that kind of porn because it turns me on to see other women wasting their lives and good looks taking dicks for money. I'm pretty sure it doesn't get much lower than that. I'm a virgin so in a way it's a type of schadenfreude. I think most women find porn either uninteresting because of it focuses too much on the girl, or it's too degrading.

>>18731660
This post gave me a boner.

>>18731641
I definitely talked about it with some of my friends. From my experience porn is definitely not for all women. I know of three of my friends what they like. One outright likes porn (and "regular", hard, male-oriented porn at that), one rarely masturbates but typically watches it when she does (once every month or so). One never watches it at all because she finds it a turn off. I watch porn about one every three times I masturbate, but only fetish stuff. For whatever reason, watching people have sex just turns me off.

>>18731659
Educate me; what's an orbited? I've heard it used before, but I thought it was just a made up /r9k/ gibberish insult.

>>18731667
Some dude that gives her attention and validates her, while she doesn't do anything with him.

>>18731667
A guy "orbiting" (dancing around) a girl who entertains his attention and flirting, but is never interested in more than an ego boost from him and does not provide him with anything at all.

The main difference is that on /r9k/ they think everyone having female friends must be an orbiter. Whereas outside of /r9k/ it's a more specific thing than a guy she doesn't date.

>>18731671
>>18731677
Yeah, I'm obviously not interested in that. I'll keep my distance.

Why did my boyfriend get with me and is staying with me, when I'm not his type and he's not physically attracted to me? Every time we have sex it feels like I'm raping him because he's only acting as if he enjoys it, and he takes ages to cum. He has a very high libido, but he seems disgusted by me and just putting up with me. I am very active during sex and definitely not a starfish in bed.

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>go to bar last night with one of my buddies
>while there, his sister and her friends just happen to walk in
>start talking to them
>my ex from a few years ago is one of her friends
>no bad blood or anything like that between us, say hello and start catching up on each other
>shes a bit drunk
>she keeps doing "remember when" stuff about us when we were dating
>says she thinks about me every time she passes by my old apartment
>keeps leaning in on me
>ask me what part of her body I think is the hottest
>flirting shit ect.

Am I reading too much into this, or does she wanna fuck? I felt a bit awkward because shes dating someone else.

There's a girl i wished happy birthday too on fb that I've talked with for a while on tinder (shes interstate) she replied to me and gave me some kisses emoji and the othee people she only liked their comments, what would her reasoning be for this?

>>18731750
She definitely wants to know that you're still into her, that was what she was trying to get out of you. If she was interested in anything beyond an ego boost, who knows?

>>18731739
wait wait wait.
slowly.
did he said to you straightforward, that you're not his type?

>>18731762
He showed me what he used to fap to before we got together. I know what his exes look like and they are the opposite of me. Every girl he calls attractive looks the opposite of me. He hasn't outright said it, but did heavily imply it.

>>18731660
Most do watch porn mate.
Yes, a lot of porn is more male oriented, but there is a whole category of "female friendly" porn for a reason.
Also a lot of women share kinks with men.

>>18731660
What else would you turn you on? Women who look/behave like they're better than you getting raped/degraded?

>>18731771
>share kinks with men
To be fair, I think with male oriented they meant more that female pleasure isn't portrayed realistic (not just in terms of noises but also what causes them) or elaborately.

>Meet tinder girl
>She wants the dick
>States she only wants a hookup/fwb
>She's a virgin
>So am I

How to not make this shit and awkward? She wants to be dominated.

>>18731780
Dominate her.

>>18729141
>Walk around at night without fear

sure you don't have to fear among gender lines but racial lines you still do.

>>18731769
ok, sounds pretty reasonable, but:
>he might be into differesnt things. Most of people are.
for example I am into very small boobs, but ever since I met that girl who was quite into me and had large boobs, I was thinking about fucking her to try it.
>you don't always get the girl with the body type you like the most. His previous gfs may be such case
>you don't always fap to the same things you like in a rl sex. I do the opposite most of the time

and finally, why on earth would you think that the main reason he is with you is sex?
maybe the problem is you, treating him like a sex toy, instead of a friend

>>18731785
I don't think the main reason he's with me is sex, obviously it isn't. He's not attracted to me physically, so he's definitely not with me for sex. That doesn't change that he probably feels like he's lacking something, and wouldn't that give him a reason to cheat? Would it be better to mercy break up with him?

He's into short girls who are either than or Asian, with brown hair, bit chubby, and big boobs. I'm short, super pale, blonde hair, fit, and have small boobs. The only box I tick is short. Can't you imagine that it would be painful if your partner is disgusted by you?

>>18731795
*tan

>>18731795
1)there is no indication that he might be disgusted by you. at most, he might not be into you. Which I tried to argue against in the previous post, but you conviniently ignored all my arguments.

2)you are not in a position to mercy break up. He is.

3)I like asians in porn. I wouldn't get into a relationship with one, ever.

4)if he never told you about feeling he lacks anything, I wouldn't assume so.

so the bottom line is - you have some serious mental issues and it would be probably way better for the guy to find himself a new partner

>>18731795
I like tall, lanky pale dudes with light hair and light eyes. I like guys with Slavic traits a lot, too.

My boyfriend is 5'8" and average built. He has brown hair and brown eyes.

I'm not disgusted by him in any way. I think he's hot. He's not my type, but I still think he is very hot.
I love fucking him. We have sex 4 times a week, and we have been together for 9 years.

It's not like attraction works like "you're my type" or "you're disgusting". Especially if you are generally hot (and you seem to be), it hardly fucking matters.

>>18731810
He doesn't watch porn, he faps to girls their instagram pictures and says they are awesome and pretty.
He says he doesn't want to break up with me, but rather marry me.

>>18731815
Well I'm not considered hot, his friends make fun of him for being with me, they don't understand why he'd go for someone with my looks. I'm considered to be slightly below average.

>be me 29
>meet 29yo girl, amazing, sweet, smart, green eyes, big boobs
>talk with her so many times
>she confesses you her secrets on a daily basis
>she says to you that you're the only one she talks about this things

Am I friendzoned?

>>18731816
>he wants to marry you
>even in spite of liking girls with other body types
>you want to break up with him "out of mercy"
wtf is wrong with you?

he really should abandon you, but for different reasons than you think

>>18731826
Why haven't you tried to kiss her yet? She goddamn friendzoned your ass.

How do I stop my boyfriend from calling me names during arguments?

He thinks he can say whatever he feels like when angry.
I get called a cunt, dirtbag, trash, retard, piece of shit, rain man, person with special needs, autistic and so on and he thinks he shouldn't apologize. Not once has he apologized.

>>18731832

we live 2 hours far.

I'm planning to visit her, but it's not worth the effort if she friendzoned me.

>>18731843
well, just tell him it's a matter of respect.
he doesn't understand - leave him. That's all.
In fact, I wouldn't ever try to stay with a person who does this to me during an argument. It hints, that he just uses you and will be happy to leave you for someone he likes more.

btw what does rain man mean? I'm not a native.

>>18731843
I would leave. How do you expect him to ever respect you when he treats you like a piece of shit - literally calls you a piece of shit - and you take it?

>>18731843
>rain man
>autistic
does your boyfriend browse 4chan or are you a real sperg?

>>18731850
So this is LD? Forget it man.

>>18731850
so if you can't fuck her, she isn't worth meeting?
then maybe you're not 'friendzoned', but simply too egoistic and sex-centered to get intimate with

>>18731810
>I like asians in porn but wouldn't get with one in a relationship

Yet that's what turns you on at core level. Not black girls for example.

You might date a black girl (only an example) because you think she's pretty for a black girl, has a good personality but she'll never float your boat like an Asian.

I really don't see how you fail to understand for a woman it is humiliating to know your partner won't ever be sexually attracted to you the way he is to a random Instagram girl.

I don't think that's love. He is with her because he probably thinks he should date someone like her personality wise but that's all rational.

>>18731860
No man will travel 2 hours to be the emotional tampon of a chick.

>>18731854
Nope. I'm perfectly normal. He has been on 4chan for years

>>18731851
Rain man means autistic and is used in a derogatory way.
From the movie with Dustin Hoffman where he plays an autistic guy

>>18731855

yep.

>>18731860

She's not worth meeting because she said to me, when I asked her out, "I've left my bf since 3 days, let's wait a little bit". But she admitted she had a crush for me, and I felt the same too.

I have some issues with intimacy, but here the problem is this: she carefully waits for the moment in which her feelings (light feelings, but still feelings) for me drop. And then she treats me like her girlfriend.

This is not fair, she kinda played games, and in this case, yes, she wouldn't be worth meeting.

This is only an hypothesis but I'm trying to understand.

>>18731851
>btw what does rain man mean? I'm not a native.
It's slang meaning autist/on the spectrum. Rain Man is a Dustin Hoffman/Tom Cruise movie where Tom takes care of his autistic savant of a brother.

>>18731860
>so if you can't fuck her, she isn't worth meeting?
Why else would you drive 2 hours to meet a woman?

>>18731884
>>18731868

it's ok if I don't fuck her asap. I just don't want to be her gay friend

>>18731884
cause she's my friend?
I would travel two days to meet a friend. I do it whenever I can

>>18731892

what if you feel something for her/him?

>>18731867
ffs, I said I * like* asians.
I like watching them
I like whites as well
and I want to be in a relationship with a white, even if I would enjoy the asian looks more.

yes, I fail to see all the humilitation you're talking about. It seems similar to this femnazi bullshit to me

>>18731892
You're not a man, though. Whatever friendship a man can have with a woman there's a better one to be had with another man. Whatever conversation a man can have with a woman there's a more interesting one to be had with a fellow man. Women are alright for pleasant conversation, just some brief small-talk. Unless you get to use her holes there's no reason whatsoever to spend 120 fucking minutes traveling just to make small talk.

>>18731878
ok, if your hypothesis is right, your reasoning is fine here. I doubt if it's right though, as people don't normally control their feelings this much.
Good luck anyway

>>18731899
I feel sorry for you that you are attracted only (assuming you're not bi) to people you think so little of. But it's not universal for men.

>>18731895
I feel something for most of my female firends. Sometimes more, sometimes less. But I don't delude myslef they all consider me a good partner, nor that our relationship would definitely be worth trying too hard.
I just go with the flow and let things happen.
She wants my dick? Fine, I'm in for it
She wants to be my friend? Also fine.
I'm happy this way.

>>18731899
sure I am.
and there were very few interesting conversations I ever had with men, and much more I had with women. You are just repeating stereotypes/memes or are trying to force your opinions as if they were facts.

>>18731907
I don't think little of them, I just acknowledge that men make for more interesting conversation. I enjoy small-talk with women but not to the point where I'd drive for 2 hours to listen to her.

>>18731925
>I don't think little of them
>any serious conversation is better with any men than with a woman

These two don't line up. If you think someone is incapable of being an interesting conversational partner (for more than "small talk") then you either think little of them or you do not value intelligence, personal development and eloquence at all... which seems unlikely.

>>18731930
Or perhaps I just realize that they don't like talking about things I find interesting? I don't know where the fuck you're going talking about personal development and eloquence, you passive-aggressive little rat.

>>18731938
>I find interesting
Then it would have suited you to speak for yourself and not proclaim that this is the way it is for men, bracketing their individual interests. Aka:
>Whatever conversation a man can have with a woman there's a more interesting one to be had with a fellow man.

>personal development and eloquence
Because they are fundamental to being a challenging conversational partner in a deeper conversation. Someone with a track record of no introspection or a stunted ability to express themselves verbally will not be able to keep up.

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Do girls have this ''undressing with eyes'' look?
I mean men can definitely tell when his friend is looking at a girl and imagining her naked (pic semi related)

A little backstory: I was working with a girl in customer service. A customer (girl about my age) comes in and my colleague approaches her. I don't really pay any attention, the customer leaves and my coworker says to me:"Did you see the way she looked at you? She definitely wants you". I was like wtf, since I paid 0 attention.
So my question is: do girls really give men these kinds of subtle looks? How can I learn to identify if a girl is looking at me like that (cause I kinda think that it happened again)

>>18731944
I like you

>>18731944

I think that now YOU are kinda reasoning by stereotypes.

>they are

who? all women?

it really depends by woman and woman.

How to know if a girl is interested on a relationship or is just being nice/educated with a guy??

*I mean when dating

>>18731955
"They" here refers to the qualities I mentioned (intelligence, eloquence, personal development) which are greatly beneficial to being able to converse well and being considered interesting to talk to, especially when it comes to complicated topics. Not all that matters, not mandatory, sure, but it never hurts.

>>18731961

I don't know. Interesting isn't equal to sexually interesting.

hey girls i have a question
I do not have much experience, I even lost my virginity last week

I took a lot of time for foreplay because I was afraid of failing at sex, even because of stress, I got a coocain before I met. I stopped counting after the 10th orgasm when foreplay, i think i did well this part

Should I stop playing with my partner's clit during sex for vaginal orgasm ?