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>>17447954
Don't most girls find it painful the first time? She just has to deal with it.

Vaginismus. Read about it. I'm getting tired of this shit.

I'm super tight as well, no matter how turned on I am, I'm going to be tight as fuck until my boyfriend enters me. It was quite bad at first but it got much better with time.
I think your vagina accomodates with time, especially to my bf who is quite girthy.
I'll give you a few tips as I had a lot of problems with it at start.
The main advice for her is to bite her lips as you enter and deal with it. It helps a lot if you enter in missionary and she guides you in with her hand as you slowly thrust around the entrance. The worst part, where you feel most pain, is the entrance. Sometimes I like when my boyfriend just pushes it in because the whole process is much faster but more painful as well. What might make her feel even more pain is if you're a bit bent, so she should be careful with which hand she 'guides' you in.
After you're in the worst part is over trust me. If you make it to that part make sure you do a few big slow thrusts so your dick gets more wet so it doesn't feel weird inside of her, especially if she's on contraception pills, sometimes vaginas get dry cause of them which also makes the pain problem bigger.
I don't have any health problems regarding my tight vagina, I go to regular gynecologist apointments, I'm completely healthy, however even the doc described my vagina as really tight. It's funny how after a few thrusts I get super wet and feel no more pain though, I can go for forever really after that.

how are you disabled?

>>17448184
Spine, neck, and leg damage. Mobility in almost all aspects is painful and very difficult. Uses cane and actually needs electric cart while shopping if that paints a better picture

>>17448202
fug. idk bro can't help u. hang in there famalam

I’m 18, I’m fat (225lbs>), depressed, isolated, and I have ADD (hence special ed). I’m tired of having constant negative thoughts, I want order in my life. Hell, I don’t even have a car, license, job, or a viable plan for college. I've been on ADD medication in the 6th-7th grade, and that's it. The only other medication is Acne medication Doxycycline (which doesn't affect my mental state).

>>17447917
No. If you're depressed now, the Navy isn't a magical drug that cures all your problems.

>>17447938
I have enough willpower to do so though. I'm used to the feeling of sucking. I would be doing so for my own personal growth and I may be happy later on.

Why is my boyfriend freaked out because I don't sleep with other guys while I'm totally okay with him being with other girls?

I would have thought that he'd be super cool with the arrangement but as time goes on he gets more and more nervous

>>17447877

Because he's afraid that once he breaks the barrier of sleeping with other women, you will retaliate and might end up liking it, and then continue the cycle until it eventually gets to a point where you find a better man and leave him.

How do I adjust for more lee helm in my Laser, assuming my mast rake and shroud tensions are accurate for the weather? I keep pinching when I'm steering a close hauled course.

Because unless they genuinely care for you people don't want to deal with other peoples' bullshit. Nor are they obligated to.

It might be especially true for guys, because they're given less sympathy when failing at handling their own bullshit.

I'm going through the same thing. Going through a divorce, just lost my job, going deeper into debt by the minute-- it all sucks.

I'm a fun person to be around but I don't blame anyone for not wanting to be around my personal chaos. People say "I'll always stand by you" but they don't really know what that entails, or that it's a fucking drag, or they just don't have enough life experience to handle shit gracefully.

Go listen to Eric Clapton and write a personal ad or something.

https://youtu.be/0b-OHZI1Q5w

>>17447858
Because any person, and a guy especially, should be able to take care of their burdens on their own.

Your friends, buddies, even family members are just that, not your personal army of wet nurses. They have their own problems, when you expect them to coddle you when they have lot of their plates too, they just leave.

She's in need of a dicking.

She was busy on her trip, so didn't feel like wasting it messaging. Then when you never contacted her again, she felt awkward about it and it took 4 months before she finally decided to try.

Talk to her, ask her out again if you want to, but this time set a date and suggest a place. If she fades again, give up and move on.

>>17447805
she probably met someone else or lost interest for what ever reason. she is probably texting you now because she is desperate. i could be wrong but this is what i think. good luck.

You can't get high off antidepressants.
Just ask and be prepared for a good reason they're not going to give it to you.

"I've heard about (insert drug here) and I think it could help me from what I've read."

>>17447796
I know you can't. I just want my sex drive to stop. I just don't know how to ask for it sensibly.

Easy for me to say, but you know, just gotta move on and work on improving yourself.

Me personally I probably would not take her back because she's already moved on - girls tend to do this faster than men for some reason.

You on the other hand will go through a crippling depression for months. Don't do that.

Just work on other stuff and if she comes back maybe she'll have realized what she lost (you never know what you've got til it's gone). By then hopefully you'll have moved on.

There's plenty of fish in the sea and I know that's just a saying, but it's true. You may stumble into someone even better.

Good luck anon.

>>17447773
Breakups are tough. But you need to realise the relationship is over. Its in the past. Look to the future, your own future as an individual. Moping isn't going to get you anywhere.

>>17447786
Seeing her or hearing about her with other guys is absolutely a devestating blow.
I mean, I can't even think about being with another girl right now.
My mind is racing back and forth of shit like just move on a get with other girls. It's honestly not going to be that hard. But on the other hand I don't know if I can make myself do this.

And I KNOW without going into paragraphs of explaining on why I know this, but I know she is going to come back.
But I know it will be too late. Even if I still care I know it will be too late.
i have too much pride to go back to someone after a year that did that to me just to be "single"
I did absolutely everything for her, and though we fought sometimes we worked out so well. She's going to realize this and it's going to be too late.

I don't want it to be too late, that's why I tried to convince her to at least talk, not be together again, but to at least see where it takes us.
She said no, because she will still be going to parties and dates and she knows it will hurt me and she doesn't want to know what I do because it will hurt her too.

I tried. At least I won't regret not trying at the end.
It's still just so hard.

You got shit on in your last thread. Stop posting you frigid autistic cunt. Fortunately you're so undesirable no man with a stable career would choose you, so you don't have to worry about having kids who will interrupt your hobbies.

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>OP is this angry at anons on an African drum beating forum because they don't validate her feelings

>>17447763
Nigger please, your pathetic jealous shitposting is only funny.

>Fortunately you're so undesirable no man with a stable career would choose you
Except that's wrong but stay mad virgin neet.

If you're fucking like rabbits, not showering for three days is pretty gross. But just going a few days without a shower doesn't mean much if it's not hot and you didn't physically exert yourself. Showering daily is more a social habit than necessity. Soap etc removes the natural oils from your skin, so if you shower daily with soap then go a day without a shower, you'll get more "dirty" than someone who is used to not showering daily, or only rinsing daily with water... so it's not like if someone is used to showering every other day or every third day, it turns out for them exactly as it would for you if you go from showering daily to not showering for a couple of days.

Having said that, her reaction was weird and I do think that not brushing your teeth for three days is very odd. And not being at all self conscious about that on top...
All I can really imagine from the shower story is that either she has some sort of trauma, or she felt so embarrassed that you noticed that she doesn't shower often that she tried to make it into an exception because she can't deal with your shower.
And the worst case scenario is she has a phobia for drowning and doesn't dare to.

I tell my girlfriend this sometimes, like when she's trying to kiss me. I just say, "sorry babe, but your breath's kinda smelly."

She'll be kinda sad and offended obviously, but she's horny so she'll go and brush her teeth and we'll do the sex after.

>>17447741
How clean is your bathroom?

well they may have rolled back the odometer.

>>17447739
those little trucks were either driven to shit because they were too poor to afford anything else, or have low miles because they were the truck parked in the back yard that they brought out when they had to move something or their car was in the shop.

The 2.3l engine is really weak, and it's even more noticable if it's paired with a manual transmission.

Make sure the speedo works, and the odometer works too while you're at it. And if it's one that doesn't have a reading beyond 99,999 miles do a vin check to see if you can track the miles if they'd rolled over once, twice, or even three times.

>>17447754
Yea, I have a 92 ranger. The odo only goes to 99,999 after that it rolls over. It probably is 146k miles. But rangers are grandpa cars, it could have spent 10 years in a garage after the old man was too old to drive it.

>>17447734
How about craigslist, or a similar online forum/thrift shop?

Fuck that guy

>>17447734
ask >>>/n/ about what would be the best bike for you.

go to walmart and buy a brand new bike for 100 bucks

and if you get into the hobby and enjoy it, then see about getting a higher quality bike.

Or if your city has a public bike access program, they're usually pretty fair. Ours is 25 bucks for a years pass, and that nets me 2 hours of ride time per day.

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What are you even talking about. Are people who vape REALLY like this?

>>17447698
this has got to be satire desu senpai. I just can't picture a subculture so smug and pretentious developing in just a few years

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>Even talk about our relationship*

Another random message

Maybe she's trying to keep you in her back pocket possibly in case she's got no one else and knows you may want her back. Could be wrong of course but theres some food for thought

Yeah she knows i wanted to work at it. I personally think she had someone lined up before leaving me (though I never mentioned it). Mainly it was miscommunication on both parta which kind of lead both not happy about things.

I've thought about being blunt amd asking why she contacts me. Maybe add its not that it's necessarily unwelcome..

Yes.

>>17447610
How much longer? Can I see?

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