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Where can I post my anti-sjw youtube videos?
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Youtube
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>>17448548
You know what I meant.
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>>17448552

Youtube.com

How do you know if you're musically gifted?

Background: I have an incredibly fast learning pace and can adapt to any instrument within a week, I've always excelled versus my peers and I can remember how to play songs from 5 years ago that I haven't played since on various instruments. I have an incredible muscle memory and when I play music I sort of feel the notes in a sense. Despite all this, I never played instruments before 3rd grade so I never had any private teachers that would expose me to complex pieces in classical music. Now, here's the twist, I can barely read music. I never learned properly from a young age and I still can't after years of playing. But when I hear a song I can match the pitches and learn how to play that song pretty well.
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>>17448450

Now the reason I ask this is because I don't know what traits qualify as being musically gifted.
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Frankly, who cares if you're musically gifted?

If you like playing music and you're good at it, then that's good enough right?
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Reading music is a skill you haven't learned because you're lazy. There is literally nothing to it except learning. Take a class at community college so you have a teacher and accountability and you will learn it. It has nothing to do with being musically gifted.

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My bf falsely accused me of cheating. To show him i wasn't, i gave him my phone to go through and he found a message of making dinner plans with a male friend who's just going through his own break up. He said by going out to dinner with another dude and not telling him, it was emotionally cheating since i was going to dinner with 'romantic intentions'. This was not the case. I just wanted to be a good friend.

So now the bf says i have to prove i'm loyal and trustworthy. When i tell him to go through my messages whenever he wants, he declines and says 'remember what happened last time?' When i try and explain that i love him and only him, he tells me words are just words. And when i try and give him a hug to console, he pushes me away and says this is not how one proves loyalty. I asked how i can prove it and i was told he shouldn't have to explain how and he shouldn't always be the one coming up with solutions.

Am i missing something? Is there a different way i'm to go about this and show i love and respect and care for him? I honestly don't know what to do to make him or the situation better.
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Dump him, you dumbass.
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>>17448433
He's not going to change and will only get worse. You have every right to a circle of friends or a social life that doesn't include him, and it is his job to respect you, not yours to give up your life to him.
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>>17448433
why would you go for a meal with someone who has just broke up with his gf? he was clearly trying to rebound on you. im sure he has male friends he can go out with, and if not, he must be secretly gay. i think your bf is is over exaggerating by calling it cheating but it does sounds stupid of you unless there is more to the story?

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How do I stop eating out of depression? I'm a massive fat fuck. It almost feels impossible to resist eating pure garbage all day every day. I know logically it doesn't make sense to pick a 2 minute endorphin rush over a better lifestyle but my willpower is garbage. How do I stop eating myself into an early grave?
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Start Exercising, and don't buy junk food.

Make small steps, just work on doing a little better every day and you'll see a difference.
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>>17448426
how do you eat so much? im a fucking skelly and struggle to get any calories. seriously, give me advice on how to eat more. how do i continue eating even when i dont feel like it
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Go whole fucking hog on it. Eat yourself so huge that they can't dig a hole big enough. Then you can't eat yourself into an early grave!

POSITIVE THINKING IS EVERYTHING!

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First dubs decides whether I kill myself. I won't do it now, but after i've got certain things done i'll get to it.
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Obviously should have been asked from /b/, but decide faggots.
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>>17448415
>pussing out before even starting
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Do it.

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What does one do when you don't have a single soul to go to in a desperate time of need?

Aside from suicide.
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>>17448365

Soldier on to prove that you can make it. Or seek professional help if it feels like too much. Therapy isn't just for nutjobs, it can help in other crisis situations too.
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>>17448365
>Aside from suicide.
I'm out of ideas, then.
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>>17448365
Take it from someone who spent 8 months in solitary confinement, you just gotta power through it anon. This is what separates the boys from the men. Soon, you will enjoy the isolation.

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How often do people normally text the person they are dating? i dont know if i should be trying to text the girl i am dating every day or if i should just chill and text when i actually want to talk.
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>>17448358

Test the waters to see what your girl would prefer. If she's okay with whenever, then text when you want to. If she needs more attention than that, then try to come up with something every or every other day. It varies.
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>>17448368
thanks. atm she is really busy with work so we have been texting only a little.
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Me and my gf text every day. Some people (girls included) are frankly not that social and don't feel the need to talk every day. It depends on how social you are, and IMO most people in general are horribly disconnected and quite shitty. This doesn't make them bad people I guess, but not one I'd want to date or have a loving relationship with.
If you're not happy with her communication with you, communicate that.

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How you doing /adv/? I am a latino high school student, with above average grades, who next year is finally graduating. I have been looking universities to apply, and this one called Thompson Rivers catch my eye. The problem it's that it's a little bit expensive and I don't know if my parents would afford it. I made myself a goal to end my final year with excellent grades so they notice I'm not fooling around. I also consider to student loans. Any advice you want to give to not fuck up?
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Yes. Get your Mexican citizenship as fast as you can because once Trump is elected you're out of here. You can get a decent carpentry job or cartel job over there I hear
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>>17448256
You need to be 18 to post here.

Gtfo
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>>17448268
Actually I want to be computer engineer and the university the one I'm looking for is in Canada
>>17448269
I missed one year of school for some personal stuff, but yeah I'm 18 and will graduate with 19

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I'm tired of being school, and stopping where I'm at is looking more appealing.

I'm currently a Paramedic, and I work for a shitty private company. With a little effort, I could get hired on with a county agency and have a decent career. I wouldn't make a lot, but it would be enough for my family. I sort of enjoy being a Paramedic, but I'm not satisfied with some aspects of the job.

I'm working on becoming a nurse and it's just exhausting me. When I'm in school, I don't ever have time off. I don't get to see my kids. And I've got two more years to go. I had plans to eventual become an ARNP but it seems so far away right now.

I'm just worn out, tired of being in school, and settling is looking pretty good. But I don't think I'd feel fulfilled doing this job, and if I don't finish my nursing degree I won't be able to commision in the military (I'll be too old when I finish a regular degree). So I guess, settle and find a work/home balance, or keep going and deal with it?
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>>17448230

OP, finish your degree, get a commission. I'm in the Navy and from what I've read and hear our Nurse Corp is good living and good work.

Mind if I ask you your opinion of my current career? I'd really appreciate someone in your positions perspective.
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>>17448266

Sure. I'm not sure how much my opinion would count for anything since i feel lost right now but fire away.
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>>17448314

Sorry for the delay, hope you're here.

I'm currently an E5 in the Navy and make about 52k before taxes. Some of my benefits include free healthcare/dental, 30 days of paid leave a year, cheap or free college, and the opportunity to retire and receive a pension after 20years, at which point I would be 39 years old and receive at least 32k a year in pensions until I drop dead. Sometimes I think I'd like the freedom of being a civilian again and going home to study and be close to family. Now I do like the Navy, but my question is (especially considering the cost of living of my future family), should I appreciate the deal I have, suck it up, and stick with it?

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Any tips on being a good shot? Id post on /k/ but i would probably get memed on
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1.point
2.shoot

it helps using your dominant eye to point the rifle. theres also things on the top of the barrel called sights to help you point it.
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google "pistol correction chart targets." if you're using a rifle and not a pistol then I guess you'd google "rifle correction chart targets."

>download
>print out
>take to range
>shoot
>follow instructions on the part of the paper with the most bullet holes in it
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>>17448254
I worded that last bit wrong, what I mean is
>stop doing whatever it says on the part of the paper with the most bullet holes in it

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How do i stop my girlfriend from being so depressed.

I dont want her to kill herself and my dumbass self not know what to do.
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Support her, remind her when she's in a slump that things feel terrible right now but it's not going to be like that forever. Get her professional help.
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>>17448176
meditate
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>>17448183
this is what i do and when i get more money soon i will take her to one, but i cant now since im broke as hell.
i know she said shes had treatment when she was younger like 16, 8 years ago, idk if it ever helped her.

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Hey /adv/ so I'm starting college soon and I'm pretty much new to the adult life in the real world. Right now it would be helpful if you guys could explain to me how credit works since I'm most likely going to start using it soon
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cred·it
ˈkredət/
noun
1. the ability of a customer to obtain goods or services before payment, based on the trust that payment will be made in the future.

>explain

You start out with neither bad or good credit. You ask a lender for money or goods and they "loan" to you. When you pay it, overtime your credit will become "good."

If you don't repay it, your credit will become "bad."

It's nothing more than your reputation (credibility) in regards to finance. The more you repay, the more credibility you get. When you don't repay, you lose that credibility.
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You don't need credit or a credit card. I've never had one and I am very successful.
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Credit is just a way for the Jews to squeeze out more money from you then what you actually should pay. Pay for everything in cash up front. If you can't do it then don't do it.

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My work rides me so hard, I just spend my days off lying around.

I was gonna go to the park with rednecks today, but I'm half asleep right now.

My little sisters abandoned me, too.
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Quit working, you wagecuck. NEET life is best life.
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>>17448240

How the hell do you pay the bills if you're living The neet life?
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>>17448241
Well, I guess I'm not fully a NEET since I do work about 4 hours a week helping Chinese people practice their English over the internet. Housing is also very cheap where I live so it's enough to (barely) survive on.

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Recently, I joined a diversity committee at work. I currently work in a hospital, and there is a lot of data suggesting that focusing on certain races or cultures can help provide better care. For example, some of our medicines contain gelatin from pigs, so Muslims and Jews can't use that. Knowing that aides our hospital in becoming better for everyone.

Recently I was speaking with two women about the committee and they were laughing at me because I'm a white man. They said I couldn't contribute to diversity. I was kind of shocked and taken aback, so I left without saying anything.

Is it okay to write them an email explaining that I want to help provide culturally competent care to our community, and that by marginalizing me by race and gender, they humiliated me? I want them to recognize me for my accomplishments and not just my demographics, but at the same time, I don't want to start a fight. I thought about going to HR but didn't; again, I want to keep it civil.

Pic unrelated. It's a cat.
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>>17448037
Bump. PLEASE don't make me ask pol....
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>I joined a diversity committee at work
> they were laughing at me because I'm a white man
>white man
>man
>diversity committee

Found your problem.
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>>17448037
You should absolutely tell them that, but don't expect it to go anywhere

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My parents and all my relatives hate me. Should I suicide? Grandmother say that " I am bastard child and my father is so stupid when he was young" , father say that I am ugly piece of shit and I always be stupid and poor without proper job , wife , friends. I just can't take it anymore and it's even worse I am in 3rd world shithole.
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if you really live in a third world shithole, then leaving your family and being homeless can't be that much worse than living with them, right? so leave home. try and find some place where you can do odd jobs and find somewhere cheap to live. save as much money as possible, get more skills, better job, better housing.
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>>17448341

Just don't come to the United States we're full.
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>>17448353
that plus our food is kinda bullshit. don't come here unless you want to get fat

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