How do I stop finding women who are submissive disgusting? I just don't feel that they're human. Its like how women find weak men repulsive but for me I feel disgust and could never respect or like a girl who does that. I broke up with my last gf because after 7 months of what i thought was the best normal sex she told me she liked to be dominated in bed.
you don't. You accept that you're gay and start looking for men.
>>17483474
This is sexist and homophobic. Not liking submissive women is completely normal and not homosexual.
>>17483491
nope, only faggots dislike submissive women. sorry.
I broke up with her. I can't date her. I feel guilty when I'm with her. Doesn't feel too good without her though. I've been trying the "time heals everything" meme, and it's been a few years. Dating other women hasn't helped.
Whenever the feels about her get too strong, I go to sleep. She's started to invade my dreams more and more often though. I just woke up and I have strong emotions lingering. I uncharacteristically snapped at someone close to me. I know something has to change. I assume this is a common experience people have.
How do I cope with this without lashing out to others.
>>17483430
she didnt invade shit bitch
get over urself and then get over this dumb bitch
she dont give a fuck about u bro
u think 'u invading her dreams' too?
hell no bro she spreading her legs for some hung mf and he leavin the Nuts hanging out
get some pussy man it dont matter what that girl look like just get some walls
it helps
>>17483430
you're such a fucking faggot
more fish, really. and better
>>17483430
This is not normal. Something's wrong with your head, and the way you cope with loss. After a "few" years with no improvement, it is clear you cannot reason your way out of the situation.
Which means it's time to go talk to a grief therapist. They'll walk you through the healthy steps of getting over your ex once and for all.
>but poor and/or don't want to
Then continue wallowing stupidly.
What should I do if I know I'm getting kicked out of my parents' home in about two weeks? I have no life skills.
Find a roommate. Preferably a friend, but not necessarily. Then find a job. Unless the roommate is cool with taking care of you and feeding you and paying your share of the rent.
>>17483409
Buy a solar charger for your phone, jars of peanut butter and non perishables and barricade yourself in your room not letting anyone inside, if police or firemen are called claim you have inflammable shit like propane in there and you will set the house on fire if anyone tries to enter
>>17483441
>Unless the roommate is cool with taking care of you and feeding you and paying your share of the rent
I've been thinking that if my life is so worthless that i might as well kill my self, why shouldn't i just try become a sexual predator instead?
After all, i've always fantisized about rape, raping children and taking what i want from people without any regard for their feelings.
I think empathy and moral standards is what has held me back, and of course, the fact that im afraid of getting my life and reputation ruined, getting thrown into jail or whatever.
However, i've seen that people in general, and especially women, they don't really give a fuck about me, so why should i give a fuck about them? They're all out for themselves, so why shouldn't i behave the same?
If all my life is going to be shit, if i can never find a wife, or a family or a social context, then why should i care? I might as well have some fun, and should i get caught i might as well kill myself, because that was what i was going to do anyway.
Catch my drift?
Why bother?
You'd be as sadly pathetic as a would-be sexual predator as you've been at everything else you've tried and failed at so far.
>>17483403
There are little girls playing outside my house, i could kidnap them or something.
I just need a wan, ducttape and some other things i could probably get hold of.
>>17483391
Hey guys how the fuck does inches convert into feet?
I thought it was simple 12 inches = 1 foot so therefore 65.8 inches = 5 foot and 5.8 inches height. But according to google its 5'8?
Can somebody explain?
>>17483372
Holy fuck
Look carefully at your results. Very carefully.
.8 is 80/100, not 8/12
She asked me for my number and I gave it to her and she texted me making sure it was me
Texted back "hey X its Y"
she said "haha I know I already have your number"
Now its the morning after the fact, just woke up, no messages
I'm still pretty new to all this, am I being an autist?
Should I wait for a message or text her?
Last message between us was from her
There are different techniques people would suggest but honestly it comes down to what you judge to be appropriate given the context of your relationship. Do you like her? Enough to meet her again? Meet just for sex or a proper date? Try to figure out what you want from her and act accordingly brother. Best of luck.
And just generally, I'd suggest not waiting for some other chick to message first. If you want to see her again, message her, perhaps even with suggestions to meet again for whatever.
>>17483326
Yeah I like her
Yeah enough to meet again
>whynotboth.jog
But I wouldn't complain if it was either one and not the other
>>17483340
Alright, cool. You should probably message her sometime soon. No need to wait for her to message first.
Is it possible to still engage in something you're addicted to but not overdo it?
I play spend entirely too much time online but I don't want to give it up entirely
>>17483293
It's possible, but you need to condition yourself like a dog. It's easier to condition to just avoid something or have very clear slots of time allocated to fun.
I'm thinking of only using my smartphone for my online use and then getting an app that'll restrict the use of Google to certain times of the day.
Assuming that I don't abuse the blocking app 's password that ought to do it, I would think.
Yeah bro, it's Hella possible. It just takes a lot of willpower to keep yourself in check. If I can pull it off with drugs you can do it with the internet
I'm 95% sure my dad is cheating on my mother. They're 65 and have been together for almost 40 years. My mom is oblivious. How far should I investigate this or should I leave it all alone?
>>17483291
Leave it alone
>>17483291
Complicated issue. You find out he is fucking some 45 year old. He is happy. Your mom is happy not knowing. What, exactly, are you going to do?
>>17483302
>"Hey mom, dad found someone else, better lube your wrinkly old vagina!"
I'm going to be starting study of a BSc in maths in a few weeks, but I have one small issue- what if I want to study a masters?
They introduce a 4-year course that's seperate, although content in the first and second year is the same for both courses, excluding the 2nd and 3rd years taking out some optional courses for the masters so they can tie it in more nicely.
Will I need to apply for a seperate masters somewhere else since they don't offer a one-year masters course, or will I have the opportunity to study a masters by the end of the first or second year? (this is assuming I choose to do a masters- which I probably won't but I want to keep my options open, and that I maintain a decent set of grades)
I'm studying in the UK btw.
help would be appreciated
Have you talked to someone at your university? They're really the best people to answer this
Ask the guidance counsellor at your uni. It's their job to answer these questions. They usually have an email address or something
/adv/ is
1. can't get gf. halp
2. depressed. usually about gf.
What the fuck. Why do people want girlfriends, if all it does is bring on misery and despair?
>>17483242
I understand the need to mate and to feel loved, but if what comes out of it is them fucking you over, or you fucking them over, like what the fuck? I'm not saying I don't have a gf or don't want 1, but it doesn't seem worth it. It seems like a novelty that would wear off REALLY QUICK, but hell, maybe I'm wrong.
You've been brainwashed by all the tv and movies you watch as a kid that bashed the idea of the american dream and the nuclear family into your skull.
>>17483242
The real question is:
Do women experience as many problems with crazy bfs as men do with theirs gfs?
When is political correctness going to fuck off for awhile?
It's sorta destroying everything. And not enough important people are saying so in solidarity.
>>17483234
Why? It affects people in their everyday lives. You have to walk on eggshells out there.
And that board is a shithole, don't pretend anyone can function there.
Wise people with "politically incorrect" opinions tend to not tell everybody about their opinions.
Dont browse 9gag
so basically, my gf has been texting me goodmorning and goodnight daily for the past 2 years or so and she forgot this morning, at night she hit me up with this and i dont know where to go from now. She wants to text irregularly, which is fine as long as we still text atleast 50% of the week, but i dont know what her real intention is with this. I feel like shes distancing to prepare for a breakup soon, which worries me. What do?
>>17483184
Let me hit her up for some ez pussy b0ss
I just see it as a slippery slope, at first its just 1 or 2 days without texting but then it goes up to 3,4 etc eventually all contant is gone and were no longer close
Yeah dawg I think she's trying to tell you something.
Any advice on how to study efficiently?
>>17483165
bump for interest
>>17483165
What works for me is writing down the important things in the chapter and then making up a mock test and mastering it. It takes time but is quite effective.
bumpity I'm interested too
So i've been with my gf for two months now, we're both pretty inexperienced, but things have been getting slowly getting steamier.
We're at a point now when we always end up grinding over each over until it hurts for one of us and then we stop. Does anyone have any experience with moving beyond this stage?
Take your pants off, that typically helps
>>17483155
Should mention that we dont grind fully clothed, usually just wearing pants
Also sorry for shitty english
At that point there's literally nothing to do other than sticking your dick into her. After you're grinding for a few minutes just take off her panties and your shorts and stick your dick in her. It's that simple.
I want to work in Japan for at least 5 years.
What kind of foreigners do Japanese companies usually hire for that long period? What fields do they want?
Engineers and English teachers.
Also app developers
>>17483152
What kind of engineering, to be precise?
>>17483159
Just go to gaijinpot jobs and you'll pick out the the popular work in no time