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dear professor

I have Wednesday or Thursday at 4pm free, which works better for you?

Thanks,
your name

(put in whatever two days you actually are free, give them a choice between two days even though you have more days free. if he needs a reminder about what it's for, he'll ask.)

>>17475752

Keep it polite but casual so he knows you don't intend to bother him. I chat with professors and employers all the time and I'd simply say something like this... it may be a little informal so you might have to change the "hi" to "dear" and the "best wishes" to "yours sincerely" or whatever but we keep it quite informal with our lecturers here so that's why I'd just use that. He won't think you're rude, don't worry, professors forget shit ALL the time and you just have to nag them. Take this as a template:

Hi <prof name>,

Hope you are well. Just dropping you a quick email regarding the student research opportunities we discussed a couple of weeks ago. I know you said you were busy last week but I still haven't received any correspondence from you. When you've got a moment, could you please let me know when you'd be available for a chat just so I know when to expect some more information on this? I am really interested in getting involved.

Best wishes,

<your name>

With a personality like yours, there's a point in your life where you ought to learn that sometimes you have to stop overthinking it and JUST DO IT.

Hopefully that point is now.

Because life sucks. Im 28 and still get it.

It usually goes away when you can grow a beard. I'm still waiting for my turn

>>17475742
I was gonna get laser treatment for the scarring once I stop getting acne, 3 years later and here I am, still getting it.

>>17475744
I have a beard though.

take her on a date and try face to face convos instead.

>>17475768
I plan on doing that the next time I'm in town. But the semester has just started so I have no idea how long that will be. I'm a good hour and a half drive away.

Femfriend, my friend (Femfriend's boyfriend) and I are gonna do a skype call as per usual, and the girl is gonna be at femfriend's house tomorrow night so she'll be there. I figured we usually talk for a good two to three hours in those calls, so there's plenty of time to try to figure out if she's just a shy texter or if it translates into real talking as well.

>>17475709
You can't really change them. That laughing emoji is the equivalent of the old "lol/haha" after everything. and not really having deep discussions is just a part of who she is. If you're someone that really wants in depth conversations and someone to engage you, she's not someone you'll match with on an intimate level.

>>17475678
Depends on the reason for the split.. and sometimes the who.

If you're already looking to it, and or if you feel a sense of emptiness in terms of interest one way or another.

>>17475678
tensiom, problems with communication, bigger differences between these two people, no need for another person, etc.

Drink a lot of water. If you don't smoke much often you should be fine. Being skinny helps, goodluck

Sweat. Lose as much water weight as you can
Then the night before drug test flood your system with water.

Skinnyfat spic hijacking OP's thread. I hadn't smoked weed all year up until I went to california three weeks ago and smoked an entire blunt everyday for 3 days

is it gone by now? having drug test in 2 weeks

Very high chance. If not directly from rain, moisture will start wrecking bulb housing and wiring.

>>17475660
None, your car has fuses to start with. You'll just need to buy another light. t. mechanic

>>17475893
Yes, that's why light clusters have watertight seals and we can drive them underwater?

If moisture or rain gets into the wiring or fittings it will start to corrode causing short circuits. A fuse will not inhibit corrosion.

Cool story bro

>>17475631
Faggot

>>17475625
Go see a fucking Doctor if you are seriously hurt. This post isn't any better than those relationship posts.

I am from a small city in southern Europe and the average person here cannot speak English fluently. Will I leave an impression on the Anglophone customers at my company/Anglophone coworkers visiting my city because of their jobs if I speak English fluently?

>>17475705
To what regards do you mean impression? They won't offer you a job, but perhaps note it and be impressed. If you really want to gain something, you have to take the initiative.

>>17475793
No I don't mean a job offer but I mean remember me more or something like that

Should I try going to the state fair and getting drunk then hitting on random girls? I'd only be able to do that drunk.

Anyone?

Cry hard its the only way

>>17475506
Holy fuck just kill yourself already. Noone gives a fuck about your French trip and the shitty problems you are having there. I hope you get hit by a truck of peace. Sssaaaaggggeeee

>>17475380
If she's aroused, it won't be that tight. She was probably just too nervous to really be aroused. Take it slow and make sure she's comfortable.

>>17475391
She was wet af tho m8, but she'd never put anything inside

But yee probs v nervous

I have experience in this department as I am also a qt chinese girl and had similar problems when I lost my virginity but managed to do it just fine.

So here's what you can do depending really how patient/horny the both of you are.

1. stretch out her pussy with fingers/small dildo
2. rip through that virginity because it's still gonna fucking hurt, since we're so fucking tiny

Personally I tried to stretch it out with my own fingers but frankly because i'm so fucking tiny like many chinese girls are, it didn't help too much. So my bf used his fingers to help me out a little. But eventually we became too horny and we just did it. It hurt like fucking hell at first. It helps to just hold your dick inside for a bit until her pussy can relax and get accustomed to your dick. She can let you know when you can start pumping that shit.

In my experience, the fucking didn't hurt after he held it in for a little bit. But when he pulled all the way out, I realized how much my pussy hurt and I couldn't walk at all. She sounds like she's much tighter than I was. I had a balance of patience and just going for it.

And honestly the pain from losing my virginity was really hot for my bf and me.

Good luck, anon!

Even last semester I was feeling so positive but this decent looking girl made me fall in love with her, then used me for homework then dropped me like a piece of fucking garbage. I honestly hate my fucking parents for giving birth to me, but they tell me they only had me because my older good looking brother died in an accident.

i am so tired of studying, reading, questioning, solving, trying to find that one fucking cure that will fix my problems and finally allow people to love me. But it's not going to happen. It's all bullshit. Life is nature, nature is cruel, nature has no mind, reasoning or requirements. The good and strong live, the weak live a life worse than death, or they die.

I am an observer because I never had a chance to participate. I barely existed because either I was never there or people didn't acknowledge my existence. My creator only made me to make up for his past mistakes, but then realized I was another mistakes and so they abandoned me, both emotionally and physically.

I saw a childhood picture of mine. My head was tilted, I was staring at the camera and I was thinking, I know exactly what I was thinking. I have spent three fucking decades thinking the same thing - why does my life suck so fucking hard. I see all these douchebag terrible people being loved because they had the proper genes and the proper nest to born into.

>>17475244
Are you still living with your parents? Sounds like you just need to go somewhere new and start fresh if you can. Otherwise just cut contact with anyone that fucks with you. Just ignore them and be kind of a dick so they will leave you alone. Don't bother being nice to people who aren't nice to you. Either ignore them or give them as much shit as they give you.

Get her drunk.

>>17475176
No

Reno, Nevada. Contrary to popular misconception, NOT Las Vegas.

>>17475253
For a guy though? I already called all the brothels there and couldn't find a single one for men.

Longer than a damn month Jesus.


Have you had sex with her yet?

>>17475082
yes we had sex the moment we decided to officially be a couple. we made out a bit when we first became friends though but that was short lived.

and ya its only been about a month but we've been best friends for about a year now.

main reason why Im thinking about it so much is because we spend more time together at either of our place than we spend separated, and despite the relationship being young, I dont really forsee that changing drastically.

>>17475078

There's an entire check list of things I'm too lazy to type out right now, but I'm just going to ask just the first one to save us both some time:

Have you told each other "I love you" yet?

Because I REALLY doubt it after 1 month.