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Is it okay for me to drop out of university for mental health reasons?
I have recently been told I have Asperger's syndrome, and I also deal with a lot of depression and anxiety.
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>>17484765
what year?
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if you can finish it do it,, drop out if your forced to aka fail
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>>17484765
ok lots more details needed.
"I have recently been told" by a professional mental health worker or by your idiot friend who's taking 1st-year psych?
Are you getting treated for your depression & anxiety?
Why do you want to drop out?
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I feel betrayed and I know I shouldnt.
She used a dildo 3 times across the space of a week, the dildo is about an inch bigger than me and had s clit rubber and was curved at the top.
How do I get over this and what should I do?
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Feels like I've been cucked tbqhwy
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0/10
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>>17484763
at least it's not a real dick attached to some other guy. also know when a woman gives you a number multiply by 3
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im looking for advice on being bi curious. I havent had sex with any guys but i am considering it. my problem is that i find women so much more attractive than guy but i know it would be so easy if i got into gay sex. I love fucking women but my relationships with them never last long and getting straight casual sex is a piss take if you're socially inept like me.
I can literally just ask a guy who is like an 8 if he wants sex, and he will be up for it. i know from personal experience. the standards with women are retarded. the only reason most women even look good is because of make up, yet they expect guys to be like an 8 and to keep them excited. most girls look shit with out make up. girl i am dating is like a 8 with makeup but with out it she is like a 5. i understand they have high standards because they get so much attention due to the internet but still..
opinions. suggestion, and advice would be appreciated.
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>>17484762
Your view of women is childish.
If you're attracted to men, explore it.
If you're thinking having sex with men is some kind of solution to the fact that you're a fucking sperg who has a 12 year old /r9k/ users knowledge about women I can promise you its not easier.
A gay man will be able to see your idiocy just as much if not more efficiently than a woman will.
Before you start making decisions about your orientation just do a little bit of growing up and swallowing less of the /r9k/ red pill propaganda. It will help you with both women and men.
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>>17484770
so you're saying that most women dont have high standards and dont expect guys to keep them excited? do you have any experience with women. never read the red pill nor went on r9k, my opinion are based on real life experiences and statistics. average looking men barely get matches on tinder for example, and most women find the average guy unattractive.
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Bi person here. I don't understand why any BI person would want to end up having a serious relationship with the same sex. Experiment around with them maybe but long term?
If I get in a same sex relationship that means I never have a son or a daughter with my genes in them. It kills the family tree that i'm responsible for creating. By dating a guy I would be ensuring my son never gets born. Which ensures my son's son never gets born and so on and so on. It kills generations of your future family. I can't have that on my conscience.
And raising a child with a same sex relationship doesn't seem like it would work without doing psychological damage to the kid. The role a female has in being a mother could not be replicated by a guy trying to be the mommy.
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What's a good brand of toothpaste for preventing bad breath?
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literally anything
probably just buy the cheapest one
any "prevents yadda yadda 9/10 dentists blah blah" is just marketing
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>>17484734
*furthermore, if you're already brushing regularly, bad breath is more likely caused by diet, gum health, or some other issue
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>>17484740
I don't actually brush regularly, I never have dental issues but I'm a little paranoid about my breath, and my teeth have been yellowing more than natural so might as well start.
So just go for the cheapest most simple brand?
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How do I ask for help, /adv/
I've been doing my best lately. I enrolled in a tech school for engineering, I found a girl to talk to who I'm falling in love with, and I've even got a workout routine planned, starting tomorrow morning. Everything is going so well. But I feel terrible. Almost worse than I did before. Just about the same level of terrible actually. My anxiety is through the roof, every minute I'm worried if the girl I'm talking to really likes me or if I'm driving her off. I haven't done any math in a while, so I failed my first learning support math pretest in my class and that's been driving me crazy. Every time I go to work, even though my hours have been shortened, I get stressed out to the point of crying. I self harmed for the first time since I was a kid yesterday and again today, and today I had awful suicidal thoughts and went as far as setting everything up to get it over with.
I don't want to drive off the girl I've met with all this, I don't want to ruin this semester of college by having anxiety attacks like I did with high school. But I don't know how to fix any of this. Who do I ask to help me? What do I do if the girl finds out I'm this sad and decides to leave? What if my therapist thinks I need to be admitted to the hospital for what I tell them and it fucks up my classes? If I can't talk to my therapist about this, then who can I talk to?
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It sounds like you're just scared of disappointment. Just remember that failure can happen one million times, but whenever you succeed it'll outweigh it all.
Your therapist won't send you to a hospital you're getting your life together and it's supposed to be stressful.
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I definitely am scared of disappointment. But I've failed too often, I'm a highschool dropout and I've already dropped out of college once. I feel like now I'm going right back into failure. And I know I'm supposed to fail and learn from it, but college is expensive. It was hard to save up enough for tuition working at fast food. I don't want to have to do this a third time
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>>17484754
I would say that it is all about mentality. Basically telling yourself that you need to become better for yourself. I've heard that others say you should start working out and reaching small goals but I prefer to watch anime which pushes me forward.
Also, it's nice to have someone like you back. Fall in love anon it's the best thing out there to experience. Take risks and do what you want to do. Tell yourself to become better and have the mentality of becoming great for yourself. Don't worry if you will follow suit to what's in the future because who the fuck knows the future. But if you set small goals and build your self esteem.
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I sometimes trip bad when I smoke. Other times its awesome.
How do I stop being so paranoid and why is everything so suggestable for me when Im high? Half the shit I think is happening (social anxiety tier) makes literally no sense when Im sober so I concluded that it's actually not happening and that Im just imagining it.
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It happens to everybody, and most smokers learn quickly how to avoid situations that cause those emotions. Where do you smoke, who do you smoke with, and what bothers you whel you smoke?
I can remove the anxiety entirely by
A) smoking with cool people,
B) smoking small or moderate amounts, and
C) smoking only when there's no random bullshit on my mind
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>>17484733
What this guy said.
Another major factor could be that you haven't smoked enough. Once you get enough experience of smoking you'll start to get a better hang of yourself and everything that you do while you're high.
Kind of like
>1st time smoking you feel nothing
>2nd time you trip balls
>3rd time you're annoying
>4th time you piss off all your friends.
>10th time you laugh a lot and zone out
>20th time you chill
>100th time you chill
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>>17484707
Headphones, music and games always snaps me or of a paranoid high
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Hey guys, I'm recovering from rocky mountain spotted fever and also heartbreak (fiance never loved me; he told my dad after it was all over). I'm pulling through finally by convincing myself there's someone better over out there, but my physical pain ramps up every night and my mind goes back there. When it happened I almost didn't live through it... that was the worst emotional pain I've ever been through. So... what over-the-counter painkillers can I get which work? Aleve, tylenol, advil, toradol, Lyrica = fail.
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Have you tried other things for pain? When i was passing a kidney stone things like a hot shower did a lot for the pain.
You will need to face your mental demons to heal, I am sorry for your current situation.
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>>17484702
You probably need prescription-strength pain killers for that, especially if those OTCs aren't working for you. Take a hot bath in the dark with a candle lit if the pain gets bad.
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>>17484708
I've tried a lot. Unfortunately the only thing that really worked was prescription opiates (i.e. Vicodin, Percocet), and what doctor wants to hear that?
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I am on campus and random black people keep asking me for cash.
First two times it happened I assumed that they just ran out and needed help.
It's happened 4 times now within 60 hours, I said no the last 2 times and put on a fake russian accident and said that I didn't have any cash on me. I have yet to get sucker punched but danm I don't want to.
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>>17484700
I'm guessing you go to a ghetto school and students frequently get robbed due to ghetto schools always having open campuses.
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When an ant finds food, it goes back to the nest and leaves a pheromone trail for other ants so they know where they can easily find food the first one found.
Nature is pretty smart!
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>>17484703
I knew UH was by the 3rd ward, but they told me it had gotten better.
Fuck
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I can never seem to "socialize." it was a problem I had even as far back as when I was in school.
Whenever I saw someone new or someone I was interested in, I'd walk up to them and try to talk to them, but I could tell I was making them uncomfortable, even in supposedly social situations. Looking back as a kid, I wasn't all that weird or strange looking, but I never made friends or anything else despite actually trying.
And even today, I head to social places (bars, clubs, etc.) and try to meet new people but I get much of the same. The person being really uncomfortable around me, but being more than happy to talk to someone else.
What the fuck am I doing wrong? People say I'm fairly good looking, I talk to people, but I still don't seem to be doing it right, because nobody wants to really associate with me.
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In the same boat. All I have is my mum.
Holy shit.
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Find a D&D group on craigslist, I used to move around a lot and it's definitely an easy way to get your foot in the door with very nice people and it's a lot of fun to. Football season just began to so maybe try getting into that? Easy way to strike up a conversation at a bar is just talking about what's on the tube. Take up pool? You guys have options.
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Pretty sure this is half of /adv/. 4chan is a hotbed of depressed social rejects.
We're with you anon. You don't have to suffer alone.
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need some girl help xdd
>be me (needed some way to start this greentext bois haven't been on 4chan in years)
>friends lil sister hits my dm like 3 weeks ago
>flirts with me, im sending all screenshots to mate (Ben) because we're bros and i play along
>convos go a point where im talking to her without my friend and i fucking around
>they go on holiday
>come back, she texts me
>trying to get through to mate but he keeps ignoring my messages, turns out the day i was calling him all day he had a lil gathering at his blah blah no invite 4 me
>i say fuck it
>his sis is hot and le trendy frank oshun blond xD
>assntitties.jpg
>meet her
>get off within 30 mins of talking
>hookup again
>she puts me on her fucking sc story
>whatever.jpg
>getting off with her, see my friends face LOL
>>they're related n shit my conscious just made me see him cuhz
>draw out, she's literally boutta suck my dick
>constant battle between heart and dick
>decide to cut date short
>tell other mate what happens
>idk how, but Ben finds out, maybe through gossip or some dumb shit, and i find out he found out through another mate
>decide to spill the beans as he hasn't confronted me yet
>before i meet him tell his sister it's over
>she says ''sure!''
>no messaging between us
>tonight
>listening to channel orange like a true patrician
>she snaps me telling me she loves me
>>can't tell if she's serious
>>very dazed and confused and not sure where this post is going atm help me out
>want to fuck this girl, still
pic related kinda looks like her but she's nicer
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>>17484686
Nothing wrong with fucking your mates sister.
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You type like a fucking retard. Stop memeing, you dumb cunt.
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You type like such a colossal tryhard faggot
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my apartment is so full of shit, dirty shit and garbage, that it resembles a level two hoarder and i cant clean and i cant pick up trash without dealing with massive amounts of anger. To make matters worse the fucking neigbrg entered my apartment because the door was open all night and its a matter of time before i get a complain.
Im dealing with way too much fucking shit as it is and now this, they are going to have to fucking drag me and my new butcher knife if they want me out.
Also apparently i have brain damage so make fun of that too
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Dude clean it, that's nasty op. Your anger probably comes from so much shit you can't let go of. Get therapy and you'll be fine.
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>>17484663
i fucking cant, when i pick something to clean i get really fucking angry and want to smash it so bad i either leave it back there or smash the fuck out of it.
And when i pick something to throw away i feel incredible dredd and mental anguish
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>>17484663
therapy failed me, psychatrist became my active enemy.
I wish i could hunt down the fat bitch that got me into the system as a kid and strip bits of flesh from her little by little but she is probably already dead
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Currently high as fuck and getting drunk for the first time of my life. I'm miserable but I don't give a fuck ok?
I'm about to contact my ex cheating girlfriend. She loves me but also loves someone else right now.
Convince me not to. . .
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>>17484651
Not being retarded is your job, nobody has to tell you anything.
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>>17484651
Do it you pussy.
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>>17484655
>Not being retarded is your job
it's a little bit too late for that i'm afraid;
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When should i hit her up again?
4 days ago:
>matched with a qt on tinder
>say cheesy pick up line
>It works! She ate it up and gave me one right back and it was very sexual
>ask if she wants to meet up, she said she's at her friends house and she can't right now
>i said i didnt mean tonight, she said 'okay, im free on the weekends'
>gave me her number, she said next weekend, not this weekend
>we text a bit for the next 2 days, flirting a bit
>i asked "so we're meeting up next weekend then, correct? How does friday work for you?"
>she said yes, she is probably free thursday through sunday
>i said that sounds good
>conversation ended then, 2 days ago.
Now she said yes, she does want to meet next weekend, so i feel like i should leave her be until it comes closer to that time, BUT, i kind of want to text her again. Reason for this is because last year i had a girl agree to meet, but she was leaving for a week-long trip the next day and said yeah when she gets back. I didn't text her at all because i didn't want to bug her while she was on her trip. Well when she got back it was "oops! Sorry i totally forgot! Reschedule??"
We rescheduled but both said fuck it because she was going back to school.
This girl goes to school right here though.
Well long story short, we have plans, but i don't want her to forget about me (it's easy for girls to forget about you).
Should i text her now?
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Unless she is 100% dtf you probably came on too strong.
How hard have you been pushing her to meet up? You need to make girls interested by using stupid pick up lines etc then transition into a normal conversation. Show her you are just a normal guy looking for fun, let her feel comfortable around you then push for the date.
No girl wants to feel like they are just being used for sex..
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>>17484644
I didn't push to meet up for sex at all, nor imply that i want to meet up for sex. I actually want to meet up for a date and see where it goes from there.
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>>17484644
The only thing sexual in the entire conversation was her response pick up line. Then we did have a normal conversation.
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I met this girl not too long ago (~6 months) through mutual friends. We have hung out a few times with our little friend group. I was able to get her number and Snapchat as well.
The problem is that I don't think she feels the same way I feel about her. From the moment I met her, I fell head over heels. Our texting is mostly one-sided; she usually does not give me more than a one-worded answer, and I almost ALWAYS have to initiate the conversation. It's very frustrating. She sometimes will send me something on Snapchat (usually from her story), but it's weird because I don't think she has ever actually opened any of my snaps...
The time has come for me to make a decision. I could either ask her to hangout one on one with me (I don't want to call it a date to scare her off), or just stop talking to her. If the latter was so easy, I would have just done that already, but it is very hard for me. I just cannot for the life of me stop thinking of her. Please advise me on what I should do next.
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>>17484627
You should probably give up if she isn't reciprocating the same interest. But try one more time what do you have to lose?
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>>17484627
One word answers are signals that the girl isn't interested. Stop wasting your time and find someone who wants to talk to you.
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>Our texting is mostly one-sided; she usually does not give me more than a one-worded answer, and I almost ALWAYS have to initiate the conversation.
She's not interested.
>I could either ask her to hangout one on one with me (I don't want to call it a date to scare her off)
Scare her off from what? She barely talks to you, doesn't follow you on social media and makes no effort to get to know you.
Its safe to assume that there isn't anything to scare her off form.
You're spending your time on trying to interact with someone who obviously isn't interested in interacting with you. Have some fuckin respect for yourself and move on. Its getting real sad here, buddy.
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Should I go to a cheaper, smaller college with a friend of mine or a larger, more expensive one alone? Both are good schools, but only the larger one has transportation.
I'm an artist, if that helps. Not entirely sure if I'd be going to major in Art or maybe a foreign language while taking some art courses.
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I'm also interested in video games, but I don't want to get meme'd. So if anything, I'll try to go for concept artist jobs.
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Doesn't matter, art degrees are basically worthless. If you have any talent a degree won't do much for you. Only reasons for an art degree is to sell other peoples art, teach, or work in a gallery.
I have three friends with art degrees, one is a bouncer, one stocks shelves at a grocer, and the other is a secretary at a document translating firm.
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>>17484636
Shit, dawg. Is learning Japanese a worthwhile path?