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>>17485030

tinder is what you make of it... divided by what the girl makes of it... plus what she makes of you... multiplied by the number of hot guys in the area.

what i mean to say is, its different for everyone. someone wishing to get married could find a husband there. someone wishign to get laid can find someone there.

but everyones there to at least meet in a less platonic sense so you have that baseline.

if you arent attractive you wont have much luck, unless of course you're aiming low, in which case you will.

but something i noticed about /adv/ is that 'girls' are only attractive. if they arent attractive they arent relevant to the conversation, and /adv/ will only bother if they're attractive (even if hte guy is insanely ugly)

>>17485035
I'm kind of a sexy lad though
Conversation dies though

>>17485035
i get told i am attractive by women but i very rarely get a match on tinder. i dont get it. girl that i am dating now, i met her online, and she seen the pics i use on tinder and thought i was good looking. typically random people that see my pics online tell me i am good looking/cute so i dont understand why the girl on tinder dont like me lol.

>>17485019

>what are the odds of getting a girlfriend as attractive as her?
>dont worry about hwat i look like, heres some stats that describe millions of people tho

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>>17485019
real 10/10 here

get that busted gook outta here

>>17485019
Come to Japan, you see girls like that everywhere. If you're white and in shape then you can get pussy rather quick. If your skin is anything else then it's hard mode.

>>17484999
Eres un hispanohablante? Necesito a buscar amigos hispanohablantes para mejorando mi espanol.

Yo se español

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=english+grammar+handouts

Try this link

Why do you think you have trouble connecting with people? Is it because you didn't get to practice social skills, or because you think others aren't as smart as you?

Well, I do believe most people are not as smart as me, but thats just a rule of thumb, really. I try to treat people as equals, and I don't "talk down" to them or anything like that.

I'm not even convinced its my lack of social skills. I actually do fairly well in most social situations, as one of my strengths is learning quickly, and these past three years I have forced myself into social situations.

I feel that it is something intangible that I simply don't have, and that I can't explain. Something that just pulls people toward you, and makes them want to talk to you or build relationships. I'm curious if other people feel that way.

>>17484989
In my experience the #1 thing that draws people to me is when I show an interest in them.
People fucking love talking about themselves. Ask them about themselves, and listen to their answers.
Are you actually interested in other people?

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>>17484964
Metal buttplugs are nice

If you're a mental anal slut like me then you'll have to use your imagination for prostate massagers like aneros to work well (aka prostate orgasm while drooling)

Helix is good for beginners/gentle

Progasm for advanced, shit is pretty big

>>17484964
why wouldn't you be able to bring a prostate massager on a plane, just throw it in your luggage. You weren't planning on bringing it with you on your carry on bag or something were you?

when you get a prostate toy be sure to get something that vibrates

>>17484994
>when you get a prostate toy be sure to get something that vibrates

Hell no, vibrations are distracting and just get annoying

>>17484956
just watery eyes

>>17484960
bump
pls help

>>17484956
What girl? What's their connection to each other? Are you this girl? Was it a sad song? Why would using this girl have anything to do with the situation?

>>17484945
My great-great grandfather was around the same age and he died of a heart attack shoveling the snow in his yard.

He needs to stop. Maybe he needs in-house assistance

Jesus fuck lad, he is 80, he is supposed to die at that age and you want to take away one of the few things he enjoys in life? Fuck you, worst son ever.

>>17484945
why don't you offer to mow half and he the other half

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Same really, except I never had luck before her either

bump

>>17484919
are u bored of the girls ur around?
or are u just general anxiety?

>>17485016
I think it might be anxiety, senpai. I'm constantly concerned with my appearance, wondering if someone I'm talking to is interested, what I'm doing wrong if they aren't, etc.

>>17484890
Good thread OP

I'm definitely not OP bumping my own thread because I'm hopelessly lonely and need to know I'm not the only conscious entity in this universe

>>17484890
>>17485176
Nice blog posts faggot

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What if I've never been on a carousel, Ferris wheel or a relationship?

Way to depress me even further, OP.

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>>17484879
>mfw it's the kinda autism that makes you giggle

>>17484879
Kek homecoming sucks, I hated it when I went to the us

Just ask her out, someday you might regret the decision of not asking her out.

>>17484858
depends on how you look at it, truth is usually decided yourself.

>>17484858
not a real man till you hit 100. Tinder makes it easy though

Everyone feels like their damaged in one way or another anon. Don't look at the negatives or else you'll just get stuck in a rut.

sex is overrated by our society, the companionship is the best part

>>17484850
join a boxing gym, mma, or other fighting sport.
Passion is hard to define in different things, different reactions to diffrerent things. its okay if thats just you, but sometimes we trick ourselves into believing something that wasnt true from the begging. ex: i thought i was bad at math, i thought that from middle school to end of 2nd semester of college. I wasnt bad at it, i just never tried at it because i thought i was bad at it

>>17484860
I've had enough one night stands to come to this conclusion myself. But, if I'm going to enter a relationship with someone, I'm going to want them well-fucked. I dated a girl recently. Things were going very well, and I had an awesome time lying in bed with her and cuddling. But, she wanted to fuck. Like, really fuck. And I just /didn't care/. That's not normal. (I still got her off because I'm a gentleman but you get the idea)

>>17484874
That was actually my plan. I'm entering a career field that will provide me enough danger and violence that I hope will fill this particular niche. I was going to look for a local mma gym soon, now that I just moved. I'm hoping that if I expose myself to enough things that I AM passionate about, that it'll carry over into other aspects of my life.

I'm also really worried that it won't, and this is just -who I am-.

>>17484825
Btw I'd like to mention that we were away because she had work across the country for a month and the whole thing where I thought our relationship was over was about a week ago.

To explain more she said she wanted an open relationship so I thought she didn't love me and wanted other dick. She told me she just thought it was a way to make our sorta long distance (~3 hour car ride) relationship easier. She said if I didn't want it (I don't) she wouldn't do it. She said it doesn't mean she loves me any less. I want to believe her but it's so hard. I want to know that she loves me as much as I do her, but her asking for an open relationship shocked me. Idk how to understand where she was coming from.
I'm staying with her for a week and leaving tomorrow so I guess I can see how I feel, but if this persists I'll have to break up with her and I don't want to do that :((((((((
I want to stay in this relationship but also I don't

>>17484825
>she wanted an open relationship
come on OP her damage control after you flipped out is shit. I don't believe it. How in hell does fucking other people help your relationship?

>>17484825
its over OP. accept it and move on

>>17484771
No

Yes

>>17484771
No
No

>>17484785
>>17484805
Really doesn't say a lot.

Tell yourself you'll find someone better cause you will. Plenty of fish in the sea isn't a metaphor for people who are scared to take their first step into going after the girl. It's for people who know that they need to move and and aren't gullible into thinking there is only one in the world for them.

Tell yourself you are better than the people sitting at home every day playing video games and going to their job for 8 hours a day at $13 an hour except weekends.

Man up bud. You will never get anywhere if you don't do it.

Also, think about fucking her. That helps a lot.

>>17484767
ask her out in person.
don't be a newfriend.

She was really stressed out about some stuff so I didn't ask. I messaged a her bestfriend that I'm also friends with to tell me what my chances are. 3 hours later still waiting for a text back