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>>17485197
I know the same feel but with translation work. I just did a little bit of language learning/translation, once a week, just to get back into a non-depression mindset. Hasn't helped with the gf and stagnating career though

Force yourself to do art again. Get some training in something that will get you a better job than fucking washing dishes, or at least apply to places. Get another girlfriend.

>>17485216
I try. It hurts.

I'm also in the middle of moving and giving up drugs, which both suck.

>>17485186
Continue being a stereotypical emo college student

>>17485186
Fuck you OP, Misaki is mine and mine only.

>>17485186
Starting college is hard, I know that feeling. Find an album that speaks to you and listen to it often. Watch this video, it's amazing. It's about feeling meloncholy, might help.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PaZ1EmPOE_k

Sounds like HIV

>>17485182
Go to the doctor and get an std test

>>17485182
whatever you do, don't do what I do.

Had unprotected sex with girl, thought I had STD cause 'symptoms'. Convinced myself that my symptoms were a terrible STD. Too scared to test. Started to not date girls cause I didn't want to get them infected with my STD. Thought I was going to do for like 4 years.

Got tested, Simple urine test these days..

Got diagnosed with IBS, fixed my diet, no more symptoms.

100% clean, I did every test known to man with regards to social disease.

>MFW

>>17485160
its vandalism

Depends. Most places have policies restricting the ability of an individual to put out public notices without consent of owner. Vandalism and littering charges are a real concern. Additionally, your likely liberal university may construe your posting as hate speech and expulse you for a code of conduct violation.

>>17485180
>>17485167
well shit, guess i can't get some good laughs around here

>>17485157
>I was told that i should put effort in my appearance to get results

Yes, you have every right to be angry at yourself for making this thread when you already stated the issue in the post...

I don't think you need to be angry. Yeah, whoever told you you needed to get fit and look good was giving you bad advice, because it seems the women you know actually don't care about that. Maybe you haven't gotten a date because of your personality or something instead.
>but funny and sociable
That doesn't necessarily mean it's nice to be around you.

Confidence is sexy. You need to make your moves early on before they discover your a lurking mouth breather who has some funny jokes.

>>17485154

we are a culmination of everything thats happened. were never 'cured'. we simply grow and develop. you can grow positively, but what you consider to be a cure is better known as simply 'forgetting' in the most literal sense.

>>17485178
So that a no?

>>17485179

you can be in a healthy place. as they say 'we've all been molested'.

think of it like being gay though. do you want to be one of those faggots hwo are defined by their homosexuality, or would you rather be some layered character and this is just some small inconsequential detail to discover by those who meet you

>>17485141
>Moving out isn't an option
why

>>17485141
Why isn't moving out an option?

I can't afford it on my own and I have no family I can move in with

>>17485137
call 911, and tell them that you're having a panic attack

EMS will come and take you to a hospital where you'll get help

Control your breathing. Inhale for 5 slow seconds, hold for 5, then exhale for 5. keep doing this until you stop freaking out, this shit works like a charm

What do panic attacks feel like?

>>17485125
Sorry mate, Australia's full. Also Melbourne is cuck central anyway

>>17485318
>Australia's full
I will actually pay as a foregin (a very expensive tuition fee) and I will pay taxes.

Why cuck central?

I live in Melbourne. Don't buy into the memes. It's a good place and Melbourne uni is a nice place.
It's also really easy to get weed.

http://melbourne.craigslist.com.au/search/sss?query=420&sort=rel
>inb4 leftist sjw

14/88. I browse pol erry day.


Don't fall for the memes anon. Australia is a great place to be.

>>17485123

because you are literally looking for a reason to live by making that post. you clearly want to.

because you are well aware that you can carve out a happier life by leaving those things behind.

but you're just gonna insist you cant, so go ahead for all i care.

why did you murder your son?

>>17485136

because he was going to tell his mother what i did to him.

>>17485073

This is the person you're planing to commit to and spend the rest of your life with.

If you can't talk to her about the exact shit you just told you, you should really reassess your relationship.

Even if it bums her out, she SHOULD understand and be willing to sympathize with you and your dreams.

Talk to your fiance, tell her how you're feeling, discuss what you should do with her.

Then try decide what you want to do, a compromise of both your wants if you can.

Finally, talk to your boss. If you're doing as badly as you say you are, it behooves them to hear you out, and if you say that the unfortunate truth is that you know that neither of you are currently satisfied with your current arrangement and your progress and that you're more than willing to brainstorm to seeif they've got any ideas for how to make things better or else are willing to stick it out if or until they want to find a replacement, no hard feelings, they'll more than likely agree and you can at least part on amicable terms.

A willingness to call yourself on your own bullshit, the ability ask for help if necessary, and the self-awareness to gracefully step aside if needed, are all traits that are VASTLY much more appreciated by business owners compared to individuals who clam up, become passive, and quietly let the ship go down with them.

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>>17485139
That is great advice. Thank you, anon.

Man I wish I could drink alcohol all day and write up lists of my favorite beverages and be a """"'sommelier""""

>>17485067
You could respect her wishes and move to the next one

>>17485067
She politely told you to fuck off. Why don't you just move on? Or just an hero.

>>17485067


'Hey'

That's some weak game bro.

Plus "She doesn't know you"....try to talk to her in person, fix that part first then hit her up with 'Hey'.

She's not playing hard to get.

>>17485060

the number of jobs dont matter, the hours do, but you also arent giving us any indication of your expenses if oyu know them.

i pay 420 for my rent. others pay a lot more. i have no car expense, i imagine you do but is it just gas / insurance?

help us help you

>very few like skills like cooking, driving, etc.

are you saiyng you have those skills but not others or very few driving skills and very few cooking skills?

>>17485069
about a 60 hour work week in total. I don't know what my expenses would be, and I was just listing examples of what I meant by life skills.

I just wanted to know if this kind of living style was possible with my wage and if I could learn how to cook, drive, etc as I go along.

>>17485090

if you dont have a license, get one before you move out. you'll also need a car or some other transport if you dont have one. you can learn how to cook, its not hard, the internet is a free cookbook. but if you need to drive to get to work from where you'll be living, then yeah you need to know how to drive.

but without knowing oyur expenses, we dont know. in new york? maybe in the shittiest of areas. in the middle of america, probably get a decent apartment or shitty house with it.

it all 'depends' and until you crunch the numbers yourself you wont know

>>17485055
Do engineering. Mech.or civil have plenty of physics in them.

Something like Mechanical Engineering is literally just maths and physics. Look into it.

Lots of engineers at my company so I can't really agree to that statement. Its not remotely similar to my field so I can't comment further.

>>17485041

>did almost everything to try to stop

describe to us 'almost everything' so we dont repeat advice. what did you do to quit?

>>17485049
Tried slowing down, tried throwing away porn collection , quiting cold Turkey , longest ive gone is maybe a month if that

>>17485041
I go like three days max if you've gone a month your doing pretty well.