Guys why the fuck do i have these
Even with a full nights sleep i have these
But the thing is SOME DAYS I DONT
im not malnourished, i exercise regularly.
Is it because of overmasturbation?
Im fucking sick of these
Making me look tired all the time BUT SOME DAYS THEYRE NOT THERE
Do i need more sun? I dont get alot of sun could it be viramin d deficiency?
Otherwise i mght just kill myself
normal, just tear troughs.
>>17483713
fluid level
>>17483736
>>17483740
Im 20 and everyone else in my uni class bar old folks have clear plump faces
Its making me so insecure i look so tired in photos compared to them
All right /adv/, for some reason I've been going out with a friend of mine and it has been pretty awesome.
If we are going to be honest, I know she may be out of my league for various reasons.
How do I not mess this up?
by forgetting this bullshit about leagues, for starters
>>17483711
you dont. shes either in or shes out and even the perfect most attrative boyfriend will get dumped by a girl or even want to dump a girl because of reasons. the more you invest in a relationsihp the less 'I DONT DESERVE HER' you begin to feel and you expect just as much from her as she does from you, and eventually oyu meet some sort of issue you wont agree on.
just enjoy it instead of trying to make it last forever without enjoyment.
>>17483718
Similar thing, what if one person is waaay more into the other they they are into them. Can that ever be a thing that end up OK?
Does anyone else have issues with condoms and staying hard?
Several times this has happened to me where I'm fully aroused and ready to have sex, grab a condom, put it onto the tip of my penis and i immediately go soft. If I manage to get it all the way on I still have trouble staying hard. I have had sex before with condoms and it wasn't like this, but I dated a girl for 4 years and we never used them. I'm pretty sure my experience with her and not using condoms ruined them for me. Does anyone know a remedy for this situation or have similar issues?
masturbate with condoms. I'm not even joking.
>>17483706
ugh yeah i literally cant use a condom. no matter how big or loose or non existent it claims to be, i lose my erection usually hwen putting it on, if not then shortly after. i cant feel anything.
>>17483706
That's because most condoms have some kind of numbing agent to help guys last longer. Sometimes it kills your boner because it reduces sensitivity too much down there.
I want to go swimming with my friends but I have dark inner thighs because they rub together and I hate being surrounded by pretty girls with nice bodies.
How do I muster up the courage to go swimming?
>>17483664
by mustering up the courage and going swimming
>>17483664
Do YOU spend your time at the pool looking between other people's thighs? No? Well they don't either, so it doesn't matter.
>>17483680
I remember people looking at me when I was younger in the swimming pool, mostly other girls. Laughing at me.
Hey, my dad is demanding.
Anytime he wants he asks me to do something and expects me to get up right away and go do it. This happens all day throughout the entire day. I'm 20 and I don't pay rent but still, I can't focus on anything I'm trying to do because he comes and asks me to do some random things he wants done. He's always running around the house doing random things and complaining. He especially complains about me whether I'm sleeping, eating and making dishes, leaving a cabinet open, putting my stuff anywhere outside of my room, etc.
My mom says to just listen to him and do it right away even when I tell her I'm working on something. Maybe if I wasn't demanded or something I'd feel better.
Am I wrong for not wanting to do it? Am i wrong to be going crazy over this stuff? What can I do to make this a better situation?
Thx.
>what can I do to make this situation better?
Talk to him so he knows how you feel and come to an agreement.
If that doesn't work then move out and start acting like a grown-up.
When I do do it, he asks me to do more and more. Then he gets mad when I say no .
>>17483641
> Not paying rent
> NEET
> "working"
You fucker are the reason why the boomers consider millenials to be lazy pieces of shit
You had better yes-sir/no-sir everything your dad says until you either start paying rent or move out.
What is it like to have a nerdy twink boyfriend, and how does it compare having a gf?
No traps.
While I don't have any relationship experience and I find girls a lot more physically attractive, I've alway imagined that the former would be easier and would work out better for me.
>>17483613
This picture is sinful
so you're theoretically bi but have never acted on it?
before you pursue a relationship with another man I think you should first go out and sleep with one just to make sure when push comes to shove you can actually enjoy it, reality is not quite the same as hard blush.
>>17483613
depends on the twink, every one has a different personality. there are certain stereotypes that many adhere to, but its by no means across the board.
im a twink and often date other twinks and its pretty great though if you're dating a nice sane one, and especially a geeky one
>find a nice really tight bodied geeky guy with the perfect ass
>very submissive, likes a little bit of pain
>our foreplay was me pinching and nibbling all over his body
i miss that guy. the one i had last week was nice but no booty. kinda a requirement for me
Autist here. I don't like being touched. Apparently, being willing to shake hands just isn't enough in a society of faggots rubbing up against me because they think it's funny, coworkers patting me on the back, and "friends" giving me hugs because they know it makes me uncomfortable. How do I learn to handle this better before keeping my anger pent up just sends me on a murderous rampage?
Hug them first so you're in control of the situation. I heard autists like control and it makes them feel comfortable. Nobody is going to hug you immediately after you hug them
>>17483602
stop showering
>>17483602
Where the fuck do you life? Faggotville? Use body language OP make them feel uncomfortable when you step back from them trying to rub up.
Help me. 22 year old KV and my first ever date is tomorrow. Any tips? She's actually really cool and QT and I don't want to screw this up.
>>17483597
If you go with that mindset you will be uptight and things are going to probably fuck up.
Instead, try to play it cool in your mind by trying to have fun. First priority must be this really, otherwise you are going to be all time worry.
1.Be a gentleman at all times.
2.When you start talking to her you'll eventually start talking about something you both are interested in.
3. Dress accordingly.
4. Some topics are off limits (death, cancer, her weight, etc.)
5. Some of the above can be used if you can present them in a funny way, only if you can
6. Try to practice with your friend if you can so you can get some feedback before the actual thing.
7. Let her do most of the talking, especially if you are nervous while talking to women, you should rather try to steer the conversation in your favor with maybe a sentence or two, that is after you have told her about your education, music, or whatever else she asks about you
8. As for closure, you'll have to decide by yourself, if you feel the connection, go for the kiss, if not arrangr another date, it's not awkward if she awoids the kiss, kiss her on the cheek and tell her that is just a tradition when saying goodbye
9. Have fun and good luck OP
>>17484037
>1.Be a gentleman at all times.
Is our new housemate a psychopath?
He's only been here 3 months and he's acting overdramatic.
See pic.
>>17483586
depends on whats going on. its easy to take a picture of the note sand say 'ISNT HE UNREASONABLE!!?'
but after six occassions where i wake up adn cant wipe my ass cuz no one bothered to tell me there is no fucking toilet paper, and for the past six months I'm the only one who has ever bought us any toilet paper, than its not unreasonable for me to simply stop buying them toilet paper and hide my rolls under my bed.
This is why I always choose a semi-expensive place, weirdos can't afford them.
>>17483589
You're supposed to have your own supply anyway.
From your line of reasoning you believe other people were already supposed to supply them for you.
That doesn't make any sense.
Adults look after themselves.
Sup /adv/
Story time:
Me:
>22,never had gf, puberty and acne stopped about a year ago.
>Lost virginity to crazy chick down my hallway 7 months ago and had wild sex with her till last month so not unexperienced.
Got cute chick in uni class(19), parties a lot, most of the time hungover in class, if she's there.
Recognize lots of my former self in her (there's a reason i'm older) and decide to help her out by passing notes etc.
She lives in dorm, one floor down and kitchen is under my room.
+-month ago i overheard conversation by mere coincidence, as it's summer most of the time my windows are open so i've heard convos for the last month (willingly and unwillingly). It comes down to this : Chick is a virgin, extremely shy,low self esteem and very into me. Her friend has been pushing her to call me for the last month, 2 weeks ago i asked chick via fb if the convos were about me and told her that i overheard some things. She denies everything and closes up immedeately. However now the situation has returned to the original scenario. (friend pushing her, her pussying out)
What do i do /adv/? She acts as a scared deer everytime i see her or talk to her and when i catch her looking at me she looks like she's going to have a panic attack.
JUST DO IT!!!!!!!!
Just ask her out, be chill about it, just be like "hey, do you wanna go for a walk or some coffee sometime?" Ezpz
you haven't made a move or asked her out and all she's thinking is that you hate her. just fucking do it. she obviously likes you.
I have G. Skill Ares series RAM 8GB 1866Mhz DDR3 kit 2x4GB.
I plan on adding one 8GB RAM chip. Will it be fine as long as it has same frequency and DDR as these 2 I already have?
Yes try not to mix brands or voltages though
>>17483611
Doesn't matter. Any ram will be fine as long as the clock frequency is the same or higher than what you already have. Matching RAM sticks hasn't been needed since EDO RAM became obsolete in the early 90's.
>>17483821
>what is dual channel
Single Britdick here
>21st Birthday 9 days time, on a Tuesday.
>Clubs and pubs will be shit on a weekday, even with uni-holidays.
>Barely any friends since leaving college.
>Can't drink alcohol due to prescription medicine.
I don't see the big deal in the 21st as I moved out of my parent's house 2 years ago.
Haven't I been an adult for the last 2 years?
This last year I've been actually doing something with my life but I don't feel any different about it.
>What would/did you do for your 21st?
>>17483560
you're contradicting yourself. you are tryign to set your self up for some tragic 'WAHHH WHY DIDNT I HAVE A GOOD BIRTHDAY?'
yet you're saying shit like 'i dont see the big deal'.
birthdays are annual, they do not mark the time you moved out and have nothing to do with whether or not you've been an adult.
your birthday is just to celebrate your progress from year to year. you know theres been some, and 'dont feel any about it'.
have you consideredj ust doing whatever the fuck you want? my friend likes a big dinner with everyone he knows there. i prefer a smalelr intimate group to go play laser tag with. my other friend plans to invite the same small group to an arcade. my other friend doesn't care as long as his friends are down to go.
>>17483565
I'm probably so up my own arse about it because everybody else had lots of people for their birthday but I'd only have 3 people to hang out with.
>>17483571
wanna know a secret anon? i only had three people at my birthday too.
this is the perfect example of 'quality, not quantity'. and now you may be saying 'BUT IM NOT THAT CLOSE TO ANY OF THEM!!1!'
then you should take this as a chance to become closer to the ones you are most fond of.
pic related. just a silly night of lasertag with some mostly new friends, but it really helped cement the direction of our friendship and inspired a recent string of 'guys nights'
I'm 23 years old and I have never had a relationship before, haven't even kissed a girl. I am not much of of a looker, not really fat, but a bit overweight, started doing sports about half an year ago, now it's on hold cause I have to work 2 jobs for the summer, but in about a month I am going back to it. Can't really complain about money, I make enough for my age. Now since this is by far the best time of my life (in high school I was the looser of the class), I figured I have a decent chance of getting a gf now. All these years this is been something that has bothered me a lot, I even got depressed every day because of it and I still feel bad that I missed out on the best years of my life, but if I keep living in the past I'll never be happy. So here are the problems that I am facing on the quest to loosing my virginity:
-the fact alone that I never had sex at this age makes me a total freak-no woman will look at that and think that it is cute or something.
-I am a funny guy when you get to know me, but until then I'm very anxious and women don't like stuttering man.
-I don't have a lot of friends, that leads to few social contacts and little to no woman I can hook up with. On the other hand I can't walk up to an unknown girl and generate a relationship out of thin air. I thought about truing that and when I was 5 meters away from her my body just stopped and I couldn't make a move.
-Some people will ask if I don't know any girl from my job, but when you get to this stage most of the women are already in a relationship.
-I lack basic experience when it comes to flirting or reading signals. For all I know I could get a chance and blow it, simply because I didn't notice her intentions, but I've never felt anyone really liking me that way.
I'm sorry that this got so long, and I hope there is someone who has been trough this and has some advice, because I really am very confused on what to do.
>>17483556
i have a copy pasta that will help, but here are two things id like to comment on first.
>most women are already in a relationship
this is false. you simply do not know enough about women to say this. you are more prone to notice couples because you can see them interacting. but there are tons of single girls you simply do not notice. you should also differentiate between 'girls' and 'girls id do'.
that being said, stop expecting women to do your job for you. men these days act all surprised that women arent the aggressors, sending 'signals' or even for ignoring your signals. girls dont want to take the steering wheel.
i remember a cringy af post an anon posted asking 'why wont she take the hint?' where he posted a screencap of a conversation with a girl where he kept saying 'IM SURE SOMEBODY LIKES YOU ;)' over and over again with slightly different wording, but refused to say it was him, and got mad at her for not inferring for him.
even if a girl isn't 'sending a signal' you just go for it. asking her on a date or flirting with her anyway is how you start to see what is or isnt a signal. but you can still ignore htem. there is no law that says you must see X Y and Z signal before asking a girl out.
also, if you arent still losing weight with two jobs, DIET. use this time to cut then sports time to bulk.
good luck and here is a copy pasta:
>>17483574
advice
>dont just hit on a woman
its no secret that women are the ones who are approached, and they make decisions on which men to keep in their lives. that being said, desperately drooling over each and every girl as if they are a potential love interest is silly.
give yourself more value by not letting a woman sway you on first impressions alone. before you ever begin to say anything remotely flirtatious, talk to the girl. see what she actually acts like when you interact with her. have a normal conversation. if there isnt anything special there beyond her looks, friendzone her. or simply stop talking to her. you do not need to hit on each and every girl that looks good enough to be your partner.
doing this gives you more value, and the psychological effects are great. in addition, women will take you more seriously. instead of being 1 of 500 men in new york who went straight for the kill, you took the time to get to know them. whether it goes anywhere or not, this approach also just gives you practice talking to girls in a casual context. its less pressure than trying to impress them.
>>17483578
>only ever use dating apps as a supplement to your real life dating.
dating apps are toxic. consider the following
>people use dating apps because they arent having much luck in real life
>they go to a dating app where they are introduced to an entire smorgasbord of men who want nothing more than to bang and/or date them
>after just one day they will have seen everyone in their area
>within one week they would have talked to everyone they are interested in
so anyone who has been using the app for more than a few weeks clearly has some sort of issue. likely, they are the female equivelent of what i discussed in my first post.
they want a 'bf' but because they have a very specific idea of what a bf is, they arent finding it anywhere. instead of seeing if they have real chemistry, they are simply walking down the aisle, trying to figure out what is the ONE thing at the groccery store they can buy, based solely on pictures and labels.
if a woman is on tinder for too long, they are losing their ability to feel chemistry.
you as a man can fall into a very similar pattern here, but with the added harshness of constant rejection.
it is an app made for people who want to date, yet no one seems to have success there for very long. that should tell you something.
Basically I met this girl through a mutual friend, we started talking and clicked instantly. We couldn't see each other because of distance barrier but eventually I asked her out and she swung by. We pretty much just talked for 5 hours straight, there was some minor flirting but nothing too serious to go off, she's pretty shy and she told me she hasn't dated anyone in 3 years. According to mutual friends she had a lot of fun and when I mentioned going out again she was down, unfortunately for me, she left back for school (2 hour drive).
I'm going to be at her campus in 2 weeks for a convention. Should I try to keep in contact with her and then ask to go out when I get there? Or is this already too much effort?
what, you want us to decide for you if it's too much effort on your part? I don't know dude, is it too much effort?
>>17483514
Good melee meme
>>17483750
Lol m2k
>>17483543
I mean I guess I just can't really tell if I should try to keep in touch and dating her. I don't even know if it will end anywhere. She's pretty cool, but I never can tell if first dates go well or not.
2 months ago i was in a relationship with the love of my life. Now i'm alone and browsing /soc/ for chicks to send dick pics to. I fucking hate myself. .
>>17483440
could be worse, I just knocked up a bitch im going to have to pay child support to for the next 18 years plus other expenses. good thing it ended before that shit happened let me tell you...
>>17483453
very original post 10/10