Do you ever worry about dissapointing your parents?
Is a friendless kv of a son so bad if he's on his own and makes money?
Yes, I worry about that sometimes and I feel guilty about it, but justify my lifestyle by thinking of myself as an asshole.
Also, you're pretty fucking amazing compared to a NEET who hasn't worked in his life and mooches off his parents while not doing anything around the house and having no ambitions or aspirations for the future. (AKA me)
>>17484435
No, because my parents are extremely proud of me and always make me out to be this amazing person, or at least they do a damn good job of pretending.
I'm a friendless KV, they don't seem to care that much about that though.
Not really. My extended family basically forgot to have kids, so it's just myself, my brother, and my cousin. Otherwise everyone else is 60+. It would be pretty retarded to give me shit for not really pursuing a wife and kids considering I've only seen funerals but no baby showers.
Hey guys, my gf and I broke up a week ago. I know she's seeing other guys, but I wanna let that slide because I don't give a fuck anymore. We're gonna meet at her house, where she's gonna give me my stuff and have a 15 minute talk. How do I work this so we could keep talking. I want her back, I'm gonna try to kiss her. And by talk I mean texting at night.
If not, how could I get her back, what should I do when I see her.
>>17484418
>I know she's seeing other guys
>I wanna let that slide because I don't give a fuck anymore
>I want her back, I'm gonna try to kiss her.
To be young and full of whiplash inducing mixed signals.
Nvm, I love her but I wanna let her go. She's probably gonna do 3 years worth of making up for not talking to guys. What's a good perspective to have here.
Ty.
>>17484431
I think what anon is trying to say is he doesn't care that she cheat because he still in love with her.
Poor fool.
I'm having this tonight and I'm having doubts about having applied to Marine officer candidate school.
I've already done my time in the Navy, why did I feel like I needed to go back?
>>17484390
Can you still back out? Nothing is more glorious than backing out at the last minute when it's incredibly inconvenient and saving yourself years of agony.
>>17484395
The thing is, I don't know what else I'd do with a Bachelor's in History
>>17484415
I dunno man, it's six years. You are going to be fucking 32 by the time you get out, unless you did college online while in. You have money to get a real degree? I assume you got some GI education coins?
Hi /adv/ how can I start making candy? I don't mean the homemade candy, I want to make candy like pic related and chocolates. I want to know how to make actual candy that can be "mass produced" and sold, what should I study to learn? are there any books? I don't even know where to start.
>>17484383
Poroshenko, is that you!?
In all seriousness, why the fuck would you want to make candy.
>how to start
1. Make some fucking candy.
2. Try to sell it on Etsy or something.
But seriously, that's about the stupidest business you can try to get into imo. It's so saturated you have virtually no chance.
>>17484383
I would buy your candy !
Is working in a candy factory for a while a good idea?
>>17484394
I was thinking of making vegan alternatives to normal non vegan candy like gummies, chocolates, etc... that market isn't as saturated as the normal candy market at least in my country and I think it could be profitable and at least it could make some people happy.
>>17484399
thanks :)
What's up.
I started smoking last year when my college roommates were selling. Loved every second of it.
Now I'm back home and I want to smoke, but I don't have any contacts. There's a guy I was cool with in high school that I think would know someone, but I'm new to this shit and don't know how to approach/message him on facebook. Do I make small talk first or just cut straight to the chase and say "hey do you know a dealer?"
Also: any etiquette on when/if I find someone? Again I'm clueless since the only dealer I had I lived with and was chill with, so I'd just ask for an $80 bag and we'd be cool, but I don't know if actual deals are different.
Yeah its fine to ask him.
As for actual dealers, be prepared for them to move at stoner time. If you need to pickup pretty much expect your entire night to be blown.
Every dealer is a little different
>>17484464
This.
Also, be familiar with quantities and their prices so you don't get fucked over.
>Dub/1 gram - $20
>Eighth /3.5 grams - $40
>Quarter/7 grams - $70
And so on. Invest in a small scale.
>>17484477
Prices vary quite a bit though. $40 eighths would be a bargain where I live, I usually pay 50-55 for good stuff.
When do I find out what my passion is, and make dreams
Every day goes by and I get more and more depressed that I have no goals or whatever
>Just go out more
Fuck you i do go out, that shit doesn't help
>Do what you like!
Yeah but I don't wanna fucking do anything I lose motivation so easy
>What are your interests?
Nothing. I literally sit at my computer watch YouTube videos and sometimes play games. The only other thing I like is Sonic but I cant fucking turn that into s profession
I just don't know anymore friends. I really am starting to slip. All my dreams and ambition have been lost. Every day is just a blur to me.
Where do I find whatever it is im looking for
>>17484360
passion does not equal profession. dreams do not equal dollars.
my day job is managing a psychic. my passion is being a writer.
>>17484374
Fair enough
But the passion isn't there
The dreams aren't there
The interests aren't there
There is fucking nothing I even wanna do. I have legitimately lost all interest in any kind of goal. I've regressed back to a simple caveman who sleeps eats and survives and occasionally becomes curious about some shiny thing, then loses interest
>>17484378
did you lose interest or did you not explore interest?
lets say you love sonic for instance, but you really hate how the story telling has declined after sonic adventure 2 or the general dreamcast/gamecube era. why not pursue that?
make a radio play, make a comic, make an animation, make a fan game. branch the story in a different direction and have fun with that.
/adv/, I have been thinking for some days if it's really better to be alone than in bad company when talking about friends.
My case:
I am 18 and I hang out with guys of my age. This guys are the exact opposite to me, and there are thing that are very difficult for me to deal with, becase I find them invidious and regrettable. Just to bring some examples up, they go to partys and discos where girls of 14-15 usually go just because they know it is easier to make them out. Another fact is that two of them are brothers (one is 18 and the other 15), but they hide this because they think girls wouldn't get interested in them. They are also very sexist and homophobic (two conducts I despise), and they are obssesed with flirting and with bodybuilding in a bad way.
The thing is I don't enjoy their company, nor going to partys with them, because they always do stupid things and get involved in trouble. However, they are not false friends. They really appreciate me and they honestly want me to be their friend. They have never had a bad word for me.
I don't have any other friend to hang out with, but this year I'm starting the university (in my city, I'm not moving), so I could make new friends.
Knowing all that, should I stop meeting them (knowing I won't have friends), or should I remain with them (knowing I don't enjoy their company).
I'll appreciate your advice.
>>17484324
It is better to have no friends than bad friends. That's not to say you need to be a drama queen and "break-up" with them or anything. Just stop hanging out with them if it displeases you.
You sound like an insecure person. That's probably what makes it hard for you to make good friends. You won't be so insecure once you're bold enough to cut the bad people out of your life.
>>17484324
You can always become the "normal" guy in the group, the one that just go and laugh about the shit your friends do.
You obviously care about, them maybe you need a break. Just don't hang with them for a while till you want to.
What should I get from McDonalds? I'm feeling really slutty tonight so I need at least two pieces of thick meat in my mouth
>>17484323
don't just get fast food, eat something healthy
>>17484334
I specifically want some McMeat in my mouth so no
>>17484323
Get your tightest dress, clear high heels best make up and cheapest jewelery on, go to the most questionable part of a city near you, that where the minorities work at a mcdonalds for to support their family. Tell how desperate you stuff at least two piece of meat instead you and see where the night goes from there.
How bad is it to do work don't love but pays really well?
I think it's a pretty valuable thing to do short term. Make some bank, learn to do what you hate, and get your discipline in order so that you can excel and work your ass off and enjoy it when you let it go to do something you do love.
>>17484273
Are you serious? Liking your job is a meme. The only people I have heard trying to pass it off as serious are complete morons and people who don't NEED to ever work.
>>17484273
In my experience the money only makes a difference if you have an objective to use it.
When my job got really fucking boring the salary made no difference to me.
This is my first post so sorry if it's too long.
>Was in a relationship for about a year in highschool
>Long distance, we lived two hours away and were teenagers without cars
>Good relationship, but I break it off after falling out of love with her
>We would always spend time in my hometown and hang out with my friends, she liked it here better
>After breakup expect her to fuck off back to her hometown
>Find out she's still coming to my hometown every weekend to hang out with my friends
Few months later after graduation
>Group of friends plan cabin trip for us all to go on
>She insists on going
>I insist on her not going
>Eventually just buy out her share so I can go and have fun with friends
A year later after graduation
>Most of my friends went off to college
>I stick around to work, didn't like school
>Ex has still been hanging out with my friends, probably more than I have
>They plan another cabin trip, I see my ex is invited
>I just decide not to go
Now all I ever here from my friends when I see them is how they miss me and hope I'd be a bigger part of the group again. But I feel kinda distanced from them after this BS. They're great friends, I've known a lot of them since childhood, but I know that reconnecting with them means confronting my ex who I haven't talked to in like a year. Do I have to deal with my Ex to stay a part of my friend group? Or do I need new friends? Neither option seems very appealing. Any advice guys?
deal with it
Why is so scaring the thought of facing your ex?
>>17484253
It's not scary, it's just awkward and I'd rather not. Why can't we just be ex's and not talk? Is it selfish for me to want my own friends all to myself?
So I got my second DUI charge last night. I feel like a dumbass, but I have to face what I did responsibly. What should I expect to happen in court? I can't afford a lawyer on my own, I'm pretty low on cash right now. Went to jail for a few hours too. Can anyone give me some tips? Help?
>>17484215
Just get wasted bruh.
Anyway, I guess they are taking your license. You have a job or go to school, right? You are going to need to beg to be allowed to drive for the specific purpose of getting to work/school.
>Can anyone give me some tips?
1. Be prepared to go to jail for up to a year.
2. Be prepared to pay hundreds or more as a fine.
3. Be prepared to use another method of transportation to get places.
They are not as kind on the second offense as they are on the first.
>>17484255
I am assuming I'll lose my license already. I drive to work and back home mostly, but not much else.
I've always gotten these weird ticks/urges to hurt people, and these urges have been getting stronger and more intense as I get older. It's not that I'm a sociopath - not even close, I feel absolutely terrible when I hurt people, especially emotionally. And it's not a sexual thing - sado-masochism does nothing for me. But you know how when you stand on the edge of a cliff, a little part of you wants to jump? Whenever a cyclist rides by me, I have a strong urge to kick them over. When toddlers are near me, I often have a strong urge to punt them. Recently I was literally gripping a couch tightly to stop myself from groping my best friend's girlfriend's breast when she was wearing a loose shirt, and I don't even find her attractive.
Oh I forgot the question: What's going on with me? Seeking a diagnosis.
>>17484214
Well most people get thoughts like this.
>Oh I could totally kill someone now
Sounds like you have pretty bad self control though.
Just be careful dude. You've probably not got any condition.
>>17484214
yeah i have those thoughts all the time, especially when im in a really nice house with a lot of glass in it. "what would happen if i just went ballistic and broke everything and shoved the glass in peoples eyes"
Quick question\advice somebody with rl experince
Im 22 virgin soon to be 23, living with 3 roommates 1 dude 2 chicks. I believe i have a shot with the 28\29 year old roommate.
Now im pretty sure its because she gives me vibe she's lonely,not much soical life and pretty much me(I guess you'd call it easy).
talking about have sex life she said she doesnt like flings and only into relationships ( also all her friends about her age married with children,but so is my sister, at age 28 " oops i got pregnant lets keep it" )
Anyway im asking advice what do you think?
on one hand it feels like if i make it clear im not interested in a relationship we'd still have something good for the both of us other hand i feel like theres a red flag plus taking a shit where you eat kinda thing
>>17484197
>talking about have sex life she said she doesnt like flings and only into relationships
Then she won't fuck you unless she's in a relationship, and if you do manage to get sex out of her without a relationship, your life will not be a happy one and she'll tell everyone you're an asshole, because you are.
>>17484206
+1
well said
>>17484206
>>17484210
Plus we're running on the assumption that she actually wants to fuck you, which, considering you're this desperate for sex, is pretty unlikely.
I like a chubby girl and we're pretty much at bf gf stage but I'm worried about what people will think about us because I'm pretty much a skinny and good looking guy. I'm worried that people will eventually say that "I deserve someone fit or even prettier" and that this is going to hurt her feelings. Also, how do I hint her about working out and getting fit? Not because I dislike her this way but because I think it would improve our relationship since I will like her even more. Pic related
You shouldn't be worried about what people think. Remember, pork is only haram for Muslims.
Don't worry about what people think you silly narcissist. It /will/ destroy your relationship.
-t. future you (1.5yrs)
Leave her, because this is eventually going to destroy your relationship. Not the fact that she's chubby, but the fact that you care about what people think of you more than you care about her.
How long is 3/8 inch of beard hair?
I have to trim my beard for work purposes but I get beard trimming anxiety. The longest guide comb I have for my razor is 3/8 of an inch. Is there anyway to tell about how long that is?
It's less than a quarter of an inch...
It's about 3/8 of an inch long. The way to tell how long that is is to look at a ruler.
>>17484133
Did well in math, did you?