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>>17476705
Your flag is determined by the IP address the device you are using to post has.
So to change the flag, you have to change you IP.
IP that you use to connect to the internet are usually established by your internet service provider and they set their uses IPs based on Use a proxy.

>>17476722
I already tried using Proxy and it didnt work.

For mods : yeah i was banned for it but got out of it
>inb4 omg you on vpn rn

>>17476705
fuck off turkroach

>>17476682
Addendum.

I'm 32, if that matters.

About her: She's a great looking girl, a hand shorter than me, great ass and thighs, lovely DFC tits, loves to submit, knows how to suck dick, is very easy to talk to, gets off on being dominated, and is open to all kinds of fun things, from choking on my cock to anal. She ticks my preferences just fine. She's also smart, educated, outgoing, worldly and all around a great catch

As for the relationship's status/stability: She jokingly said: "Maybe it's me." when she saw how distraught I was about my performance issues, but I am dead sure: It's not. I raised this issue with her and she said, not to worry about it, and we'll deal with it as we go along.

I am at a loss on what to do or how to proceed. I feel like my body isn't working as it should, and it's doing so in a really embarassing situation.

She's a minx, so she wants the D a lot, and I would happily provide, but the current situation makes me apprehensive of sex.

So, yeh. I could try a cockring, and I am sure it'd work, at least on a physical level ([muffled erection in the distance]). Yet, it wouldn't really address the primary reason why I'm having such unreliable erections.

I'd appreciate any pointers.

>>17476682
Do you look at porn, regularly or at all?
And have you in the past?
If so, cut it out entirely and wait a few days. If you were/are a porn addict then you may well have a long time to wait before, if ever, to normal.

>>17477016
this

Go to the library, pick up Nickel and Dimed by Barbara Ehrenreich, turn to section 3 and read

Retail at Walmart is kind of like that

>>17476570
Can you briefly describe it?

Alot of walking when i was in your position. Youre going to lose weight and be sweaty alot. Also youre always going to be on your feet for your entire shift. Find spots were you can safety take a sitting break away from cameras. Also bring lots of water.

>>17476491
she has emotionally detached and preparing to exit the relationship.

>>17476496
this probably. im sorry op. a girl i am dating did this to me a few months ago, her reason was that she was thinking things over between me and her and wasnt sure if i am right for her. a week after this happened, she said she still wants to be involved with me but she has basically become a side girl. i suggest bringing it up to her, i did it and i got some answers.

>>17476512
Ok Ill bring it up and thanks anon

What is your career choice or education path

Want to be a civil engineer though there are no nearby apprenticeships for that so I would have to do mechanical. Got Us in maths and physics. Couple unis with foundation degrees said that they will accept students without maths/physics but I don't know if it is worth it

>>17476589

Appreticeship, trust me.

t. Cambridge student

Don't be needy, be attractive. That's what I learned from the book 'Models: Attracking women with honesty' by some guy name Mark. Read/Listen to it and thank me later.

>>17476383
I've heard that book recommended before and it does sound appealing. Perhaps I'll order it today.

Check out The Charisma Myth, too. I'm barely getting into it, though, but it seems alright. So far, it's gone over some practices on how to keep calm and minimize anxieties. It's already starting to help me out a little (I work in sales).

googlr tripcodes
thank me later

>>17476292
Read the FAQ.
Fucking underages can't even search for the obvious..

>>17476292
Fuck off, future tripfag.

>>17476238
I don't know what an international school is, but I know that children that go to school here pick up the accent even if their families all have the accent corresponding to their native countries, so I guess it makes sense. I like other accents, though, so I wish it didn't work that way.

>>17476238

You expect Amerifats to be smart? That's a good one.

Most of them think all other countries below their borders are just Mexican states.

>>17476238
When I learn other languages learning the accent is part of it.

>>17476204
Obviously leak it...

What dirt are we talking about here? Pedo tendencies?

>>17476204
If he raped you report his ass to the authorities. Guarantee you'll get something out of it.

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Crush his fanbase with leaks first, then quickly follow up with a lawsuit. If you just go legal, his fans wont get as emotionally involved and wont care as much. if you leak first, some fans will leave him but many will get all defensive and try to shield him. If you then follow with a lawsuit, that will be the closest thing to proof you can get, and the diehard fans will feel like theyve been betrayed by him. This will make his fanbase permanently die, and at the same time give you legal justice.

>>17476098
>Does anyone have any success stories of hitting the town solo?

Nope.

Try going to a bar with a theme night.one of my favorite bar in town has this theme on tuesdays where people put stickers of the flag of there country and also stickers of the countries whose language you wanna learn and mingling is pretty much encouraged. This pretty much cracks open the first step that many guys have trouble with. I went there with a friend but he disapeared at one point during the night so it was as if I went solo. I would suggest you find a bar or club of some sort that has these types of evenings where it isent about being a group as much about everybody being social and meeting eachother.

>>17476098

its arguably easier to do it on your own in my experience, though I've only ever gone with a friend to one of these places once. every ot her time i go alone, so i might be biased. but its pretty easy going out alone

I feel you on this...although I have found that there are other things that I might not be so honest with myself about, that is childish. Sometimes...my attitude.. You do grow out of friendships, sometimes...and sometimes the relationships just change. It's really not a question of where you are at in life, compared to others.. Its about whether or not, those people still fit in the same place. I have found that many people self medicate...some in healthy ways (restricted diet, etc) others with drugs...doesn’t mean they are bad people, but sometimes it's easier to help a person you know nothing about than someone that you know all their business. Either way, seems like you are working it out. Change is ok. Just be as good to people as you can..Have a good day, Sir.

>>17476026
it's lack of compassion, running rampant because of today's disconnected world. I understand being angry at other's stupidity but it's because you can't see past your own perspective into a reality where you might not be so smart as to make perfect decisions.

>>17476026
>It's sad but I dont know if its me being a prick or just life pushing us apart.

This seems to be the closest thing to a question, so I'll focus on that. Probably the latter, m8. I've given up on a few friends that would rather be degenerates than get help/allow me to help, it happens. I didn't have this problem, but if you feel guilty about being a "true friend" and sticking it out for them, use your best judgement. How long were you friends? Did you become friends by meeting each other, or basically forced to be friends by mutual acquaintances? Is it really worth it for either party for you to remain in contact? Sometimes it's better for everyone to cut ties, but definitely do your best to help people you genuinely care about.

>>17476045
That would be a decent point, if the people described weren't pill-popping degenerates in a pity pot. I get having empathy for them in their plight, but these people need help, and if he can't/won't provide it, why stick around? He'd just seem condescending to them, and their problems would spill onto him - net loss for everyone. There's only so much empathy that one can squeeze out before becoming desensitized, after all.

Take a few days off. Tell people you're busy. Do whatever you want to do instead of what you think will help.

>>17475855
Those people are damn right about not letting you alone. Hanging out with people helps depression, wallowing in self pity makes it worse. Be grateful for those people.

>>17475861
Thank you, just apologized to two of my best friends. I was under the impression they didn't know what my mental state was but they empathized with me immediately. I have a long way to go but I'm hoping this is a turning point

Everything is temporary. Eventually, you will get over it. Do not let this experience put you down, instead, learn from it.

>>17475851
Focus in your studies, work, hit the gym.
Most importantly. Cut contact with the bitch. She doesn't deserve anything from you anymore

>>17475885
I am trying but it's not helping. She cut it off with me

>>17475828
>2 years
Jeez, man, why haven't you been to see a doctor? Does it cost money in your country?

>>17476157
Because none of them know what's causing it. I'm starting to think it's reflux. I think it's stomach acid coming up and irritating the back of my throat

Did the doctors make you swallow a camera and do tests to see whats wrong?

>>17475802

There is no such thing as a time related friend zone. Just because you have been friends with someone for so long mean shit about whether or not you can have something more. With that said, she could have equally decide a long time that there wasnt attraction.

Is it worth it to only be friends with girl A from now on and forever?

yes) then simply be friends
no) drop her

either way, it is obvious girl A will never be anything more than a friend.

I've dropped girl A for good. I'm not worried about friendzone for girl B. I'm just worried that maybe I only like Girl B because I'm lonely. I'm also worried that because I told girl B i didn't like her a few weeks ago that asking her out now will just be weird