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>>18657870
Yes. Your dad has done weed, LSD, acid, meth a couple times. He knows his shit and knows you got ripped off on your weak ass weed.

you better fucking believe it.

but take that as a warning. he expects you to be smart enough to understand the gravity of his remark, and to be smarter about your affairs from now on.

most dads are all about out of sight, out of mind

>>18657883
Internet guru, my dad has been straight edge his whole life. Only drinks

>>18657868

>I can't call a crisis centre on a fucking iPad

Enable wifi calling. Also there is online chat rooms for this exact reason

Please don't hurt yourself btw

>>18657897
Thank you, I'll give them a call or at the very least get into a chat room before I stick myself again.

>>18657868
get a job while staying at your grandparents, and be nice to them if you want them to be happy.

>>18657854
>they don't want to reconnect
Leave it be and respect there wishes.

>>18657854
Best to leave them alone.

In any case you really want to reconnect and amend for wrongs you did to them, just nudge them slowly. Be persistent yet not forceful.

>>18657854
Apologize but be genuine and acknowledge you hurt her, and don't expect anything from it

>>18657819

While I was heading back to my unit we happened to take the same elevator. He was in his late teens to his early twenties pretty much what you'd expect a trap to look like, long hair, slim using a bit more cosmetics than you'd expect a straight guy would use, slightly feminine clothes. I expect small talk and end it there but to my surprise, he actually asked after my well being. He mentioned that I always looked tired and asked if I've been eating enough I wanted to lash out at him and tell him to mind his own fucking business but I suppose there was a chink in my defenses seeing as 4chan has mostly been the only human contact that I've had for the past few years (you guys have been with me through thick and thin, thank you for that Anons). So I tell him that yeah, I was pretty tired but I told him that I was about to grab dinner at my unit. He sees through my bullshit and tells me that people here never really see me bring food up. I do what any man clinging to the last strings of his dignity would do and bullshit him that I eat out, again stupid me lying badly.

He tries to keep at it but the elevator saved me and I managed to avoid the situation. My dignity intact, I do my best to forget about it. Next day, I get something I have never had since I lived in this place - someone knocking on my door. Its him and he says he brought food, I try evading again but it smelled so good and I haven't really been eating well. A few weeks later he managed to worm his way into my life, sometimes he cooks for me, sometimes he asks me to come over and play some vidya or watch TV, I would refuse but this laptop has been my only source of entertainment in like forever. At first I thought he was just one of those metrosexuals but as we got close, he started to feel less shy and began wearing more feminine and feminine and last week was the worst when we had a couple of drinks while hanging out and playing vidya.

>>18657822
Drunk as I was and desensitized by enough trap threads from literally every board here and before I notice he went from leaning on me to sitting on my lap. I managed to get ahold of myself before we went past making out but its too fucking late and now its been weird with my best and only friend. We pretended nothing happened after but this week has been particularly hellish, as I start to realize that whenever he texts me I get these weird feelings that I soon identified as the butterflies. The weekend draws near and I have no idea how I can possibly handle this.

There are two things that trouble me, first is the most obvious one, I don't think I'm gay and while a soft bodied kid in drag might fool my drunken brain I don't think I'll ever have it in me to look at another man's dick. The second problem is, while I do genuinely appreciate the friendship that he's given me and even if I can look past said dick, I don't think I can be in a relationship. My life is simply too fucked up right now and I can't be dealing with fucking butterfiles and sleepless nights like I'm some fucking schoolboy having a crush for the first time.

What do I fucking do?

>>18657826
You accept and embrace you are probably bi, and there is nothijg wrong with it.

You are lonely, fix your life and don't feel guilty about liking a trap, many would like to be in your pants, don't kink shame yourself. Traps are seen as lesser in society, but they are no less than anyone, they are just people.
Just do what you want to do, stop overthinking, don't punish yourself

Accept new experiences and new kinks, accept what life takes and what life gives. But if you don't truly wanted or if you know you won't be able tonhandle it then don't


Just do what you feel like doing, no judging, no overthinking

Your life sounds like something that needs to be fixed, so pay your debts and make plans to better it

OP. Electric is prepaid. We are currently trying to get her to cover the remaining electric for the month of Aug as we have paid it from 1st to 25th. We want her to at least pay 10 days of Sept electric as well.

We think telling her we are leaving as well will add fire to flame.

>>18657824
a letter avoid unforced drama IMO. "yeah I wrote that"

>>18657813
It was verbal so just tell her straight up. Who cares what happens to her.

>>18657809
Your post is a parodox. Go find meaning.

>>18657809
if you need other people to tell you to, then you won't ever kill yourself. it takes absolute resolution to do

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>>18657809
I like to have suicide as a backup plan, when shit gets hard (which is almost always). If you don't have any goals in life, develop goals. Here are a few ideas:
>Start working out/lifting, have fitness or physique goals
>Start eating healthy
>Stop spending so much time on a device
>Read a book a day
>Pursue a hobby
>Take some courses
>Learn to cook
>Date

There are essentially endless possibilities of things you could be pursuing. Just stop being a pussy and actually start somewhere.

friends

money

hobbies

Three things the modern generation lacks.

>>18657796
Happy alone is kinda misleading. That'd imply you'll have to be happy doing things alone while it might not be everyone's cup of tea.

The main point is to not make that girl your main and only source of happiness. Don't act like if she's not there you'll be like fish out of water.

It's more that you're comfortable with being alone and you enjoy your own company. That way you won't find yourself tolerating a shitty relationship that drains your soul because you'd rather an unhealthy relationship over being alone again.

>>18657792
Why don't you have your own car? Or maybe call some cab/uber.

If it's the very first time you two will meet, II suggest to not stay in her's.
Could be another attempt at kidney theft, eh.

For precaution bring your own condom, bring pepper spray, always flush used condom by yourself in toilet, be ready for an ambush.

>>18657802
It must be so nice living in such a fucked up culture, not knowing how well off we are over here, where nobody ever get their organs removed by anyone

I'm kinda scared because it's my first time doing something like this, but the chances of me being in danger are kinda slim... Idk

I'm going to meet her in a really crowded place and then go together to her home. If I see us going to any seedy places I'll just go back.

I will take note of the condom trips tho. Will also try to cum out for extra measure...

Did you vote for Wilders? You deserve it, if so

Just suck it up and focus on doing the job in most efficient way as possible.

If that's what happened, telling HR won't do no good for you. They'll rat you out and leave you to die dry in dark corner.

>>18657847
Yeah figured so. I just wanted to drag this annoying entitled bitch out and thought this was maybe a good enough excuse.

>>18657770
Sell all your video games and counsels.
Get a smaller more manageable hobby.

>>18657837
Not OP but this is a really drastic solution that must be done if everything else don't work.

>>18657889
That's not drastic, that's what you have to do to keep from destroying yourself. I had to uninstall Steam and sell my x-box because I was gaming 16 hours a day. Now I'm a biochemist.

>>18657768
If it's online friend, in this era you could just go everywhere. Hell, even 4chan got /soc/ for you if you wanna meetup.

Play some competitive games online,
Go to facebook and attend local events of your liking.
Tinder, dating sites.

Always pursue offline, face-to-face meet with online friends, and remember life's a numbers game.
Of course always follow the advice from picture you posted, might be sound cunty, but a good one otherwise.

>>18657768
Of course, as a basement dweller I'd say this, but MMORPGs are really fun for meeting people.

>>18657765
I dunno smartass what do you think?

>>18657765
What things do you do that are stupid? It could have been things you picked up from your parents.

>>18657760
Talk to him, try to work it out. It could just be his stress is too much he kick back to old habits.

Be there for him.

I never understood why the guy can't just finger his partner. I'm no expert but i'm pretty sure there are many ways to display intimacy without the need for an erection. If he can't get it up with you, who cares. As long as he cares enough to satisfy you in other ways because he cares about YOU, then the problem is moot.

btw, a porn addiction is probably the best kind of addiction to have if he's going to have an addiction at all.

>>18658757
Boy having a boner IS A PHYSICAL PROOF HE FINDS YOUR BODY SEXY.

No boner = kills mood and free thoughs about how unattractive and how he doesnt love you.

Also boys are constantly horny and then they go and sex up their gf which also shows her they still care about them. Now he does porn 24/7, doesnt even care about cuddling, romantic gestures and when you demand sex he is like
>ew whatever
doesnt do any foreplay and since he cant even pop a boner it is just anti fun.

>>18657730

Go to therapy.

>>18657735
But therapy is a meme to get my shekels.

>>18657730
Provided enough intelligence, it's almost inevitable to get slightly bitter over time. That's normal.
And this will influence the way you'll treat people, however this is... well, bad.

My suggestion: find something that makes you happy and you don't mind talking about. It's really hard to be an arsehole when we talk about stuff we love.

>>18657728
>"You are not allowed to do things or have a life, until you have experience from such."
Time to do things you're not allowed to do.

>>18657728
Do things you're not allowed to.

If you still live with your dad, then move. If he really loves you then he would understand even when he could be rejecting your attempt ffor few times.

>>18657780
>>18657789

My parent's idea is this:
I'm only allowed to do thing when I have experience in such, but my parent are not letting me build to experience.

I live on my own, but my apartment is very bleak and boring. Remember Robin Williams from 1-hour photo? My apartment is like that, but without the "photo-wall"