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I keep leading girls on, but never go on dates.
I've got at least three girls around that are totally in love with me, but I don't like them back. I just keep leading them on to inflate my ego. How do I have this effect on someone else that's more my type?
Is it really terrible of me to keep leading these girls on, or should I just bluntly tell them I'm not interested?
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>>18659729
get over yourself lmao.
>Leading girls on to inflate my ego
How do you think that'll make them feel once you tell them? What if you were in their position with someone that you were in love with? have some empathy for christ's sake
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>>18659764
I haven't found anyone I actually like in three years.
It's not like I'm dating them though, just playing it so they think they have a chance.
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>>18659776
>Just playing it so they think they have a chance
You said that like it's supposed to justify what you're doing. Look, ive done your kinda shit before and looking back on it i regret it alot because most of those girls are really good friends with me now. That being said you dating them is completely irrelevant. You're abusing their feelings for attention so you can stroke your massive ego.
>I haven't found anyone i actually like in three years
So? you don't need to have a bunch of bitches on your hip to be happy or live a fulfilling life.
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I never felt this lovesick before. I've been nauseous and on the verge of puking all day. And during this weekend no friends or family are in town to spend time with.
What do? I just feel like crying all day and I'm a guy.
>inb4 sleep with over girls
I tried that and I just kept thinking of that girl and disappointed the other girls as a result.
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>>18659725
i've been in your position before. you need closure man. have you tried talking to that girl about how you feel about her? worst case is that she doesnt feel the same way, and you'll end up moving on anyways
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>have you tried talking to that girl about how you feel about her?
Yeah we had that talk yesterday. My heart literally stopped beating for a second when she said she likes hanging out with me because I educate myself- I never felt any less sexy in my life. After pathetically admitting I loved her she didn't even believe me and said it's just my hurt ego talking.
After a long talk we parted ways with her saying: "we'll see each other" and me just leaving.
The thing is: what drove me to her is what drives me insane. It's so hard to define what makes her unique and so defiant of everything. I'm having a real hard time dealing with the fact that I'll never see such a fascinating person in my life again. I'm not sure if that alone is worse than her not returning the love I feel for her
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>>18659725
what's an Over Girl?
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Should I just not focus on relationships for now? 2017-08-26 04:05:42 Post No.18659724
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Should I just not focus on relationships for now?
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I'm 19, tall, good looking,well spoken etc etc. Getting girls has never been a problem especially now since I'm just starting university, casual sex is fun and all,but I much prefer long meaningful relationships unfortunately it seems like most girls my age aren't ready to commit or settle down and that's fine with me I get it, but its also discouraging at times, should I just not focus on finding a relationship till I'm older and girls are ready and mean it when they say they're commited to a relationship?
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FOCUS ON YOUR FUCKING CAREER, WOMEN CAN WAIT
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>>18659732
Yessir
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Would flying an Irish flag be likely to get you beaten up or cause offense in Northern Ireland? If it was the Republic I'd have no worries, but I don't want to be seen as being on one side of the fence or the other.
tl;dr, I wanted to do a variation of a logo using the Irish colours since we'll be doing a gig over there and we have Irish heritage
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>and we have Irish heritage
They won't care. Don't do it.
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>>18659693
And by that, I don't mean there'll be violence or anything. You'll just look like idiots.
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Thanks. I guess you should go with your gut feeling. If you have to ask, "is this a bad idea?" or "is this offensive?", then it probably is.
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Hello, I found an apartment in a 3 unit building with my sister. The owner lives in one of the units. We went over today to sign the lease. It's a 1 year lease. We signed all the paperwork and gave her a check for the first months rent and a move in fee (no deposit). The lease starts in a week. She said she would send us a copy of the lease on monday from her office. Later, she called us and said that she was really sorry but she has a family member who wants to live there and we needed to find another place. I said that we already signed a lease but she said that she didn't deposit the money yet and we don't have a copy so it doesn't mean anything. She seemed sincere and we are living with family right now so it's not a huge deal but can we pursue any legal action with this? Or is there anything we can say to her to still get us the apartment? I understand her situation but we did sign paperwork. I regret not getting a copy of it or taking a picture of the check or anything.
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Most likely not legal but idk about your state Anon. Ask for a monetary compensation if you think it's not a big deal.
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My laptop is breaking down (overheating due to fucked fan, fucked battery, half of the USB ports don't work, headphone port doesn't work, screen has vertical lines) and I'm saving up money to buy a new one. I'd fix this one but I already tried to fix it a bunch of times and it just breaks something else a few months later, already replaced the fan like two times, already replaced the keyboard. So, since this one is like 10 years old, I'm figuring I'd just buy a new one and get it over with.
What are some good cheap laptops? I'd build my own PC but I really need a laptop due to uni and shit. Plus, I'm not too big on gaming, as long as the laptop can run most recent games on at least min settings, it's fine by me. My current one can't run anything older than 2013.
Pic related is my laptop. As long as I buy something better for a good price, I'm good.
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I had a Pavilion a few years ago, the entire series is notorious for this shit, they're truly pieces of shit
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>>18659675
Try this:
https://www.productchart.com/
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I miss my grandma.
She passed away about 2 weeks ago in an accident. She still had a lot of energy and her health was good. She was the closest person to me and I think I will never had another connection like the one I had with her. How do I stop feeling so sad? I have no energy at all but I need to do shit and I think I'm going crazy.
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What do you think she would say to you if you said this to her instead of anon?
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>>18659676
She wouldn't want me to feel bad. She was very religious so she would probably say something about the afterlife. I'm not too religious though.
Also I kinda dislike everyone else in my house, they aren't making the duel just harder.
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I started talking to this girl a couple weeks ago, we met on social media. She seemed cool and we had a lot of similar interests. I got her number and a few days later we went on a date. She lives an hour away from me so that already had me kinda hesitant but I figured "whatever, if I like her it's worth it."
So we hung out, it was a little weird since it was our first time but it went good overall. I'm 24 years old, I thought she was just a couple years younger than me but she's actually 19 and that was another red flag but nonetheless, we continued talking. Shes a nice girl but also kind of immature which isn't surprising considering her age.
She's got all sorts of tattoos and plans on getting more and desu I don't know how I feel about that..
She also post provocative pictures on social media with her ass and boobs hanging out and to me that's just not something a decent girl would post. I always initiate conversation but she's always responsive and flirty I just wish she would initiate too.
Im not really sure what to do at his point, we had sex the second time we hung out and I'd like to at least be fwb but I'm not worried if it doesn't happen. I guess we're looking for different things, but I've never been in a relationship in my life. I don't know how these things work and I'm just trying my best to avoid hurting this girls feelings because she is a nice girl but I guess I'm looking for something more serious with a girl that; lack for a better word, is more..decent.
What do I do? I'm oblivious to how these things work and idk if I'm just overthinking things. Sometimes I feel like I really like her and other times I'm completely ok if it doesn't work out.
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>>18659654
she's not initiative, but always responsive and flirty... she won't be hurt.
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>>18659669
We'll I talked to her on the phone a couple days ago and I asked her if she saw us going anywhere because I don't know how else to ask but to be straightforward and she said that she did and wanted to know if I thought the same, I said yea I just wanted to know because I didn't want to waste your time or mine. So yea, idk what to think because it's just some mixed signals. There's more to it than that but just the gist.
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>we met on social media
there's your problem
you can't "meet" anyone on social media
meeting on social media is the equivalent of a party hook up
you see some random cute or hot bitch you want to stick your dick into but since you are too much of a pussy to go and get what you want you decide to be nice and make small talk so you don't feel guilty about fucking some random slut, instead you would have fucked that girl that works at target part time and goes to school, but you will never be able to say something personal about her like, "I used to bang this girl from college buy had to stop after our career paths took different courses.'
who knows you might just hit it off but 95% of the time you end up trying to force things and shit goes bad.
stop trying to find love online, which only focuses on the superficial things. go to school, get a job, but find someone you can actually get to know first before you think about getting serious
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Ex-GF hates me, talking about about me to her friends, etc. 2017-08-26 03:27:20 Post No.18659649
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Ex-GF hates me, talking about about me to her friends, etc.
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Why do all girls seem the same? I really thought my ex was different, and she is in the way that, she doesn't go out get drunk / sleep around and shit like that, she's a nice girl. But even then after one year together, after having an amazing connection with each other, being each others firsts, making lots of good memories, she breaks up with me? I stopped contact as all we were doing was arguing and being horrible to each other, but I just don't get it. We were perfect. In fact she was the one who wanted it to work, the one talking of a future, always being cute with me writing me paragraphs how she'd be lost without me and stuff. But now it just seems she can't remember anything, and I'm a bad person who she hates? What do I do bros.
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Welcome to emotions enjoy ur stay
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>>18659649
If It was so perfect, why'd she break up with you?
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>>18659656
Because a lot of other stuff was going on outside the relationship, like her getting back in contact with her dad after so long, moving school as she got bullied in her last, those same people trying to come between us, her mum giving birth, I mean towards the end yeah we were both pretty stressed and it was a strain on the relationship but between me and her personally, nothing bad happened and we were great together.
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What did you do when you realised you were the problem?
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i got to work to fix my shit
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my life was like a positive parabola
angry a bit realizing everyone was stupid and if you want something done right you do it yourself
but then it got better
you grow a pair and life is good
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i'm pregnant and almost blacked out a few mins ago. i immediately lay down, so it got better again.
do i have to inform my obgyn or is this neglectable?
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Better safe than sorry?
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>>18659643
Talk to your doctor, ya goof.
Your blood pressure is wonky.
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Best to call anyway, even if you can just talk over the phone to ask if it's worth coming in.
Also how far along are you? Are you still in the miscarriage zone?
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Any tips for someone about to lose their virginity? We have these threads kind of often so I do apologize for the redundancy.
If it matters, were both 18, she's had sex once before and hated it, idk if she uses tampons or not/masturbates/does anything that involves putting things into her vag, and I haven't jacked off in like 2 weeks or something. I guess if you have any more questions feel free to ask. I appreciate any advice thank you
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wrap your willy
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Girls like it when you whip it out and spurt all over the carpet before you even get in there.
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You have a first date with someone coming up. They contact you the day before and tell you that because of a family emergency, they can't make it.
The person you were meeting apologizes and thanks you for being so understanding, but makes no effort to re-arrange the date for a later date.
How do you proceed, /adv/?
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Wait a few days. If no word about it, move on.
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Try to find out what the emergency was, try to make plans when it blows over, and if not successful just understand that girl isn't interested or way too busy
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>>18659632
Move on.. It's just an excuse, you can either see the excuse as being polite, OR you can see them as being cowardly
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What should I do today, /adv/?
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>>18659625
Youtube: self-hypnosis. Those things are cool.
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Repair For Severe Autism 2017-08-26 03:17:54 Post No.18659621
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>be me
>18
>like a bunch of anime,mostly some battle Shounen and sports
>at family gathering meet cousin I've been friends with a few years back who also likes anime and is like 16
>start talking to him
>he talks kinda weird and sounds kinda detached from the real world
>starts watching ecchi in front of little kids
>o shit
>three year old climbs up
>he lets him watch for a bit and then pushes him off
>whatthefuckisyourproblem.jpg
>starts linking it to some time I punched him as a six year old and tells me how he wants to make the world burn and make me pay
Is there a repair for this level of autism?
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Let him grow up and he'll eventually get over it and cringe about his past. Or maybe he won't.
I don't think you can do anything about it other than point out his bullshit but even then he probably wouldn't get it.
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>>18659621
Maybe he depersonalized there.