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Should I study architecture for 3 years?
I live in Australia btw.
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>>18656147
As opposed to what?
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Fellow ausfag. It really depends... Are you interested in architecture, would you be able to find a job in your area or somewhere?
You need a 97+ atar to get in so it seems like a lot of work.
Your call, but if you need to ask random people on the internet about your future than maybe it isn't the best for you...
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>>18656216
So I should become some brick layer? Some brick-laying dummy.. Is that what you're saying?
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Me: "Hi there! Looking great/How's your day going?"
Them: "Thanks!/Doing great." :)
Me: "Cool. *insert generic follow-up question*
Them: *Immediate and endless silence*
This happens like 90% of the time. I dont understand what's wrong with my approach. Its a simple greeting and compliment with a generic follow-up question. They'll always respond to the first message, but then go completely silent.
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stop talking like a redditor and you might have a chance
I got bored halfway your post, imagine how boring you come off as
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>>18656145
>stop talking like a redditor
I have no idea what that means.
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You're being boring. Be engaging. Try banter. I respond to most men initially out of politeness but nothing is more boring than generic filler questions. If you want to engage in conversation then do so.
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how do i leave my shit small town? i'd prefer to go to a big city but anything somewhat nice like a small beach town would whoop the shit out of this place.
it makes me so fucking depressed theres nothing to do theres no money theres no jobs the only "career" path there is here is cutting trees which is a junk job and even those people don't do it here they all have to drive to other states and hours away and shit every single week.
it's so fucking sad i had a dream i went to a small beach town in florida and there was the beach and hot girls walking around and i was at a fair or something and i was with one of my friends and as i was waking up everything started going wrong i started fucking up all the fair games all my friends dissappeared then BOOM i woke up back in hell
this place is fucking SHIT everything is broken down like every building is falling apart and everything is rusty broken down gross looking shit i cant even tell whats abondoned anymore here. the people are all ugly and awful and fat or inbred looking or something all the scumbags here do the cheapest most rejected drugs ive ever seen and just tie off shooting up and pharmaceutical pill they can possibly find and its snowy as FUCK like 7 months out of the year and its just a frozen wasteland
i was honestly thinking of just going on a bus and saying fuck this and sleeping outside until i figured something out but i think that's impossible i just wanna find a full time job or something here i know theres 2 of them in the county that are entry level and hire sometimes but there all like 20 miles away and i have to share a car with my parents even if they let me
i just feel like my life is so bad here and satan is trying to sabotage me and trap me here forever its fucking with me so bad i just want to leave i really want to go to miami la or atlanta or a small town in florida or something
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>>18656101
Get a job, rent an apartment and stop baiting in /adv/
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>>18656102
This. Save money before you leave, look for a job when you get there, bounce around cheap AirBNB rooms until you get on your feet. You want to make sure you have your own car. If you don't, find one off of Craigslist.
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ive been seeing a trap lately. our first day was literally chillin/ suckin dick/fuckin. second day..same shit...third dsy...same shit.. fourth..i cant remember..she kinda has been ignoring me lately. i call her late at nite out of randomnes/ drunkeness..i like her. it has nothing to do w looks..so what if i see her and she blows me while i play csgo on her pc. so what if i draw dicks amd hitler mustaches on her touchscreen character shes been working on of her r0g maker thing.. i love suckin her dick. i loveee when she sucks mine. i eat her ass too. wny did she ignore me for almost a month?? shes talkin now..but only bc i randomly called and apparently maybe ill know more "next time we see eachother".....i need advice
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>trap
>she
Nigga, you're gay.
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>>18656090
Bait. Nobody is this gay.
Fuck off.
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>>18656090
>i need advice
for starters it will be healthier for you in the long run to admit you are a homosexual.
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>defrost some meat in the fridge overnight
>some of the juices leak out somehow
>get a text message from the real estate agent about it
Why would my housemates complain about this to the agent? They could just tell me about it and i would clean it up. Why are they involving the agent in this? The agent has better things to do...
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Why is there a real estate agent involved in the first place? Are you selling the place or something?
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>>18656079
This is happening because you have already pissed them off and you probably have bad or no relations with them in the first place
getting thawed meat juice all over the fridge is pretty nasty, why didn't you put the meat on a plate you retarded cro-magnon?
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>>18656082
its a rental place
>>18656084
the meat was in a plastic bag, it wasnt placed directly on the shelf.
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I was single during 6 years and I've just met a solid 9/10 chinese woman. It look like we have the same interests but I'm not sure if she likes me. We discussed a lot and we dated twice in two weeks.
I made some compliments to her but the only compliment I get from her was I look like Carlos Solis and it was the first time we met (Oh and I am nice).
I've promised her to go to see a movie this week-end but Yesterday I sent a message she didn't receive yet.
How fucked I am ?
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Carlos Solis is creepy while you look nice, so wtf?! Although there is obviously the similar facial hair.
I don't know about what you asked.
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>>18656062
Yeah, I've checked him and I agreed to you. I'm just brown and I've the same beard, that's all. But she's chinese, for them we look like the same like us we are thinking asians looks like the same.
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I've got a pretty big dick, is there a way I can sort of advertise this when flirting without it being unsolicited or creepy? I'm great at sex but incredibly bad at everything leading up to it.
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I want you to imagine how you would react if a woman at a bar came up to you and said "I have a very tight pussy". Would this in any way shape or form actually make you want to take her back to her place and fuck her or would you just be weirded out? Pretend you're not desperate for human contact for a minute before you answer that.
The whole point of flirting is to allude to and feign a higher degree of familiarity with a person than you have all while maintaining a level of plausible deniability about what you're doing. It's a social maneuver that builds romantic and sexual tension.
>I'm great at sex but incredibly bad at everything leading up to it.
What makes you so sure you're great? Flirting is literally just verbal foreplay. If you can't figure out how to read someone's cues enough to manage foreplay, then you can't do it enough to seduce someone, or to do a more tame form of seduction like flirting. Even if you are good at sex it'll make you come across as stiff, awkward, and robotic to try to say something like that. No one wants to fuck someone who could be described as stiff, awkward, and robotic. Instead of trying to figure out a way to attract women by saying something that will put 99% of them off, learn how to actually attract them. It's a skill like any other and you can build it by practicing.
Flirting is just banter with less harsh insults and more innuendo, mixed in with getting to know someone and acting at times like you already do. It's not that hard.
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>>18655974
>I have a very tight pussy
Honestly I'd finish my drink bottoms up and ask where can we fuck. Like would 90% of men. You're obviously a woman who doesn't understand men at all.
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>>18655974
I would start laughing and ask where I could try it out.
pic related, pic from a vid my neighbor took
Need advice on what to do with this punk in my neighborhood. I live in a gated community so this kid just straght up hops the gate.
First instance of this kid I saw my neighbor's video recording the kid sneaking into their garage and tagging up their cars. spraying sht like "rich bitch" kid goes on and uses his spray paint and sprays up the camera lmaoo...
he randomly comes around once every month around 2-3am and checks if cars are locked. there is video footage of it too and im assuming the same kid.
what should I do to this kid to make sure he never comes back?
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>>18655952
>what should I do to this kid to make sure he never comes back?
Go to the police or issue him with a trespass notice.
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>>18655952
You know what needs to be done
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>>18655952
Take the video and other evidence (graffiti, etc) to the cops. They may already know him and can use the evidence to arrest him.
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ex fucked with a friend of mine...
we were both virgins, i thought she was the one, turns out i was wrong... she got on with a friend of mine and fucked after 3 days of a semi-relationship...compared to 3 months of a relationship with me plus around 8 months of constantly talking and trying to help her. here's the fun fact. she's a feminist... and both of them tell me it's my fault and that i have no reason to be mad on them
how do i cope with this? i want to turn back time
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If she wasn't with you at the time, it's your friend you should be upset with. If anyone crossed a line, it was him.
>here's the fun fact. she's a feminist
What does this have to do with anything?
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>>18655951
being a feminist, telling me how much of a strong woman who dun need no man and how all men are jerks and elitist fucks/privileged and all that crap then you fuck after 3 days and barely know the dude? that seems weird.
yeah. i am mad on both of them...i just feel played. and the fact that they push it on me and tell me that it's my fault...i really don't know what to feel
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B-b-b-but /adv/ always says a virgin girl will be loyal to you forever and you will get married and be happy!
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How do I stop from coming so goddamn fast?
The best I can do is 5-7 minutes and if I haven’t masturbated at least once that day, it’s usually less. Occasionally if I resist the urge to cum a couple of times I can gain back control of when I finish, but that involves coming to almost a complete stop and I can usually feel her frustration at the change of pace.
If there are any that even work, I’d prefer not to use pills because I don’t want to become reliant on a chemical to fuck well...
I’ve started edging when I masturbate because I’ve heard that after a few years it makes it harder for you to cum, but I’ve also heard that it makes it harder to get erections too and I’d rather not introduce even more problems than I already have.
Has anyone beaten pre-mature ejaculation that has any advice?
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>>18655917
I can't speak to pre-jac'ing, but I know for a fact edging doesn't make it harder for you to get erections. The point of edging is practicing coming to the edge and being able to stop or dial it back.
Get her off once before you start fucking. Fuck her till you cum, however long that takes, then get hard and start fucking her again, it'll take forever before you cum again. P.S., 7 minutes is average time for straight fucking, if she's not getting off in your 7 minutes either you're fucking her wrong or not doing enough foreplay.
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>>18655917
Your talking about cuming from sex right? I assume so.
The first time I had sex, I fucked her hard for an entire TV episode, about 50 minutes and still didn't cum. She ended up sucking me off and I jerked myself off at the same time
and came that way.
I found out why. When I jerk off, I go absurdly fast. Faster than possible when having sex. So I'll only cum from having sex if I haven't in awhile, like a week or so.
Alternatively you can just jerk off before sex as someone else stated. Or have sex more than once.
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>>18655941
This. I fucking abuse my dick when I jack off, so it's actually kind of difficult for me to come from just sex alone if I've beaten my meat in the past couple of days. If you start jerking of with more intensity and speed, you'll start to become more desensitized, which means you'll have to seek more from sex to get off. And if you don't have the worry of premature ejaculation, you can focus more on pleasuring your partner, which absolutely pays off in the long run.
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I've developed a serious anxiety around women.
Most people have said just keep trying, you'll get comfortable with rejection. But it's only gotten worse over time. I've made it to a point where I see a girl and I start shaking and fearing for my life. This happens with any type of female, and sex workers, like strippers. I've also had a horrible experience with hookers, as I was robbed (literally got nothing out of it, just my wallet/stuff stolen).
I also get suicidal and anxious thoughts because I'm 29 and it makes me depressed to live with myself. Is there any way I could cope with this?
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Try making some changes in other areas of your life
When you get blown off or rejected by a woman, you need to 1. not take it to heart but 2. analyse what happened to improve your social compass
It will get easier anon
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>>18655890
Yo Anon, sounds like you're in a tough spot. All the advice I can really give you, is to try to adapt to the mindset that women are equal to you: they are just people, going about their daily lives and living it just like you do. Only by putting them on a pedestal or seeing them like some kind of otherworldly godesses will you start trembling when one appears. Work on becoming the person you strive to be, present yourself just the way you would to any man, and most importantly, don't -ever- see any female as 'unreachable' or 'out of your league'. Even though some theoretically may be, it will better you as a person in the end. Anxiety stems from overthinking, so working on your mentality and the way you look at the people you're afraid of talking to is the core here.
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>>18656510
I came here to say this. I mean I asked the similar question as OP and someone gave me the same advise and it drastically change dme as a person. I haven't got a girlfriend yet but I have a lot of female friends.
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I just had a long fight with my parents over religion well more of an argument, their catholic and i was too until about when i was 11, i used to libe in a trailer with both my parents, sister and my grandparents, we lived in a preety isolated area in a town with 3000 people and i didnt any friends near me and at school i had very little friends. one cloudy summer day a cyclone was coming down, i lived in california btw so a tornado is extremely rare, my parents werent home so it was just me my sister and my grandparents i still remember the loud thunder that struck that day i prayedand prayed like my confirmation school taught me but nothing happened a few minutes later, about 15, everything settled down but outside was a mess, trees were bent my basketball hoop fell and I saw how destructive nature can be. Later in school i learned about the wheather and how tornados and other types of storms happen and I remember whatching a documentary that closed my mind from what i have been taught on how nature works and opened the realm of science ever since that day i've been skeptical of what the bible teaches and prefer to be able to have a way of knowing and proving everything that has science behind it with mathmatical equations we can use to proove them, even if we dont know how a specific occurence is happening it just means we have not discovered the science behind it and so we have to strive towards getting answers. So my parents signed me up for my second and last year of confirmation and I had a small chat with them and they would not not let me speak about my opinions over religion so since then i have lost a respect i once had in them. they got pissed so they had another talk with me this time i didnt let them shush me I spoke qhat I believed in and told them what they believe in just iant enough to satisfy my understanding of the universe and my dad said that i am forced to be catholic until i am over age, im currently 16, and that until im overage i must
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respect and obey them I told him respect is a 2 way street and that if they dont respect my opinion over religion i simply cant respect either of them as i have before, they responded that its not a choice and I can start making my own decisions when im 18, i replied holding back tears "alright i guess you'll lose me when im 18 over religion" what should I do I like my parents they are kind people for the most part ut i simply do not believe in what they believe i begging the good people on 4chan for advice I dont want no teen depression hotline numbers i want honest opinions - thank you
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>>18655887
Don't get angry with them... its a mixture of fear, ignorance, indoctrination and the need to feel order and rules in the universe.
Your parents still love you, even if they believe in fairy tales.
Let this be a lesson to you about how powerful faith is. It doesn't mean gods are real, but as a human force it shapes our history. don't underestimate it.... understand it.
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>spoil the ending of a tv show for a friend
>friend is initially upset
feel bad, offer to send them a gift from amazon
>they decline, but I do so any way
>for context, friend's parents are abusive and hate my guts because I decided to prank call them a lot 2 years ago.
>I feel remorse for those actions of prank calling and have made up to my friend ever since
Friend has forgiven me, but his parents still strongly dislike me
>Despite my friend decling my offer, I decided to get him something anyway
>Order fidget spinner from Amazon with a passage of Mein Kampf as the gift message
>Order arrives at his house, friend's mom loses her shit because she sees my full name, address and phone # on the shipping label
>She hates me and now knows all this information about me
>She loses her shit on my friend and calls his dad
>Friend's dad is now furious
>He comes home, doesn't even glance at my friend
>Takes the package containing all my information on it
How fucked am I? What's the worst they can do with this besides contacting my parents and constant harassment? They've never actually met me and get furious at the sound of my name. What to do, /adv/?
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You must be 18 years of age or older to post on 4chan
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>>18655866
I'm 19, you silly goose
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My boyfriend has a friend who has a sex doll collection. I happen to know that, that friend let's them fuck his sex dolls and I'm pretty sure my boyfriend fucks them and its really aggravating and insulting. I get they fulfill certain fantasies of his, but I find it weird he doesn't attempt to fulfill them with me.
I don't know what to do, any advice?
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you need to be a special kind of ugly to be less attractive than a doll
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>>18655850
get a dildo.
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>>18655850
Stop comparing yourself to a sex doll
they aren't having sex
its just elaborate masturbation....
if you feel threatened by this, it is only a reflection of your own fears and insecurities
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>go to sex club party with a couple of friends.
>they are super into it, get into the thick of it right away
>I am super shy, end up just kind of walking through the place, trying not to interupt much of the action
>bump into girl who is doing the same
>fat white girl, dressed in a slutty over the top goth outfit with really nice make up.
>duck into a bathroom with her
>share a blunt and chat while in there.
>laugh about the fact there was all this stuff we wanted to do in our heads but were too cripplingly shy to do it.
>make out a bit, rub her tits over her clothes, slip a hand under her skirt
>finger her, she cums pretty quick
>she jacks me off.
>gives me her number and email.
I didn't expect to meet someone I want to hook up with outside of this sort of experience. I really like her a lot and want to pursue things, the only problem is, it'll be hard because I already have a girlfriend.
Should I go for it? I let slip I have a girlfriend and she still seems down.
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>>18655820
lol
has gf... goes to sex clubs.... later on experiences a moral dilemma.... lol
you should break up with your gf either way, its clearly not for you
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>>18655820
fat white chuck dressed as a slutty goth? dodge that fuckin bullet dude