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Is Vimeo a good alternative to YouTube for a content creator?

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Friend tells me he wouldn't have sex with somone he doesn't have feelings for. We slept together but I see it as him lying since he's with somone else and I feel shitty for what I did. Especially since I have feelings for this guy.As gay as this sounds what's it like having mutual love sex?

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How the fuck do I make friends, /adv/?
>homeschooled in a midwest corn field by grandparents till I was 9
>moved into urban rust belt 80% black shithole by abusive parents
>no extracurriculars but basketball and having people be racust
>very few friends
>end up at Midwestern college but fat, asocial, unhygienic and depressed
>drop out because of a serious death
>end up in rustbelt shithole
>date girl I hardly like because I was lonely and she'd been obsessed with me for years
>end up "in love" because I was dependant on her for any companionship and she had a 9/10 body and we got along well despite how fucked she is
>we dated 4 years then she dumps me for someone thousands of miles away who is insecure and controlling so she has "totally left us in the past" bc she loves him
>she barely interacts with me now (online she's strictly appropriate bc dude monitors everything but gets horny and flirty when we're together)
>zero friends
>6 years out of highschool
>live in ghetto shithole
>good job
>onlu person from high school still in thr area is ex girlfriend from those years turned lesbian
>visited hometown and saw my cousins involved in highschool everything
>extremely lonely and depressed
>still fat

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I think it's the end of the line for me guys.

I've always been into edgy behavior, and recently I've been into messing around with whores on CL. This one girl is too much for me and threatens to call the cops on me for sending a dick pic (she asked for it) and asking to have sex for money. I wasbt too worried until she responded with my real full name and threatened to post pics of the convo on Facebook.

Am I in any real trouble here? Is she just blackmailing me and being resourceful? It's been 20 mins since she said she'd do all of this and nothing has happened. She sent me a request on Facebook and I blocked her ass so she can't do anything there. But in the eyes of the law (New Jersey here), can I really get in trouble for this?

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I derive pleasure from making girls fall in love with and become dependant on me. How do I stop?

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what angle do guys prefer to see in a video of a girl masturbating?

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Long Story short, I met this Girl at work a few months ago.
She was very nice and kind, and we started chatting.

I added her on Facebook to get advice for my job, how to do things better, faster, etc.

After a while we start talking and I start to develop emotions for her.

Little bit later I tell her, she tells me that she isn't ready for a relationship and that she isn't rejecting me.

After a while I hit a pretty bad depression and she asks what is up, so I tell her my situation and what not and I wanted to know how she really felt about me (I was losing trust in people at this stage of my depression.)

She said a few years ago at this thing I used to go to that she also went to, she found me unique, interesting, cute, and not like the other guys there.

Anyway fast forward to start of August.
She becomes really busy, and she stops talking to me, responding rather.
I couldn't hang out with her outside of work before because of how busy she was, so facebook was the only way of talking to her outside of work (btw at this stage I quit my Job, it was way too stressful and screwing me up in other factors)

So I started to get said, but then my paranoia strikes in and the situation started to look like the time my friend backstabbed me.
She stopped talking to me, she gets mad at me, she says she is my friend but doesn't act like it.

Same thing my friend did last year.

So I bring this up, she get's really upset.
The friendship kinda ends there for a bit.
Fast forward a week later I try to make it up to her, and she says she doesn't think the friendship is over and apologises for not talking to me a lot.

But then, it starts all over again.
She stops talking to me.

I get it, she is actually really busy, I know this.
But what am I supposed to do?
How can I be her friend if I can't even talk to her?

This is really fucking me up, and since I have feelings for her, it's making me feel even worse.

Sorry if that made no sense.

I just don't know what to do.

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How do I become fashionable?

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I am on a hiatus on drugs right now due to wanting to get a job. I have been a habitual user for about 3 years now.

The first week was fine, but my dreams started coming back and I am terrified. How do I deal with this?

tldr; Quit drugs. Dreams are vivid and terrifying. Too Scared to sleep. What do?

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Anyone else get pissed off by women at work keeping all guys at a distance from them because 'don't hit on me boys!'?

It's not fun working with people who won't exchange words (even just talking business) with you outside of the office. I'm not even fucking hitting on them or anything. And I'm just attractive as them.

I just want to tell them to get over themselves.

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>physical
dense lyfe: body, water, Earth...
>subtle
all thoughts and consciousness.. dreams, emotions, that song stuck in your head...
>causal
getting calm, no emotions, thoughts, desires... everything is disappearing
>turya
hard to describe: happiness. Literally this is what being happy is, it's that "homecoming" feeling people describe in NDE's, this is probably what it's like to chill in heaven
>"unknown"
dat "beyond", beyond consciousness, not an experience, but it's felt as a peace so deep, heavens greatest pleasures pale in comparison - never gets old, it's forever and you already got it, you know that? you got it but all these other greentexts are in your way

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Two bits here:

First, I'm extremely attuned to my negative traits and my fuck ups in life, so whenever I'm not distracted by work or school or people, I'm constantly being flooded by all of the memories of all the asinine stuff I've done over the years, as well as thoughts that I'm just a real piece of shit who should kill himself because of my negative traits (narcissistic, parasitic, manipulative, etc.). So I'm constantly feeling depressed and guilty. This has lead to me being a workaholic to distract myself, which got me fucking hospitalized for fatigue. What can I do to fight these thoughts so I can actually enjoy my life?

Second, I always do that thing where people bottle up their feelings, which of course leads to them eventually exploding, which has lead to a lot of the things that cause me guilt mentioned before. Obviously fixing this will help my whole situiation tremendously, but how do I actually go about fixing it? Bottling up my emotions is just my natural reaction at this point.

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Girlfriend of 4 years dumped me. It was even worse because it was out of nowhere. I know it's not the end of the world but she was my first love. And now she's gone, and so's my will to live. I've just woken up from a drunken stupor and fuck me it hurts. I hate the world and it hates me.

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I am not a day older than 18.
I've been having issues with insomnia for about 9-10 months now.
I have had problems with depression for 3-4 years.
I have had a SERIOUS problem with anxiety for 6 months now.

I am going into a branch of armed forces by the end of the year. That seems inevitable.

I am struggling so hard. I am struggling every second I am awake, hell, even when I do sleep I get constant dreams of anxiety / night mares. I often get sleep paralysis too, but not so much now.
Even had a problem with reoccurring night mares at one point.

I am so stressed out by all this and I can't do anything about it.

I am too afraid, ashamed, scared, unable to tell others. I physically can't speak, there is something preventing me from saying it. I can't do it. I can't open up unless its anonymous. And I likely never will be able to.

I can't get professional help otherwise my country's military won't take me.
That's my last resort of a better life and I can't risk throwing it away.

I can't do drugs like marijuana or LSD to help because I haven't the slightest clue of who to buy it from. I have 2 friends on this whole planet and they are as straight edge as it gets.
I rarely get a chance to leave the house and wouldn't know where to begin sourcing some.

Finally, I feel alone, I feel regret with having not done anything with my life. I feel like time is limited and I've wasted it.
I feel so incredibly unfulfilled.
>inb4 you're only 18
Doesn't really help change the way I feel. Its only that though, how I feel, (whether it's fact or not).

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The prospect of being a professional creative writer is calling to me. Whether it's writing for a show or movie, being a published author, working on comic books... anything creative really.

I'm working on my own science fiction book series already. How would I be able to land a paying gig in creative writing in the meantime?

Is my best bet to get a job that will support me and continue writing my book series, or is there a way to break into this industry?