You have a first date with someone coming up. They contact you

Wait a few days. If no word about it, move on.

Try to find out what the emergency was, try to make plans when it blows over, and if not successful just understand that girl isn't interested or way too busy

>>18659632
Move on.. It's just an excuse, you can either see the excuse as being polite, OR you can see them as being cowardly

>>18659646
Don't do this. Prying will make you look desperate as fuck.

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>>18659659
This guy knows what's up.

>>18659632

Wait a day or two after the date, ask if they still want to go do whatever it is you had planned, if they say no, or maybe, move on.

>>18659632
>>18659659
Prying is an art. You can pry but not seem desperate by asking how she's doing or if she's okay. Checking up on her periodically will let her know that you're still there and if she ends up ignoring you then she isn't interested, and at that point it doesn't matter if you pry either way

>>18659659
Wrong. Life's too short not to pry and extract answers out of these irrational emotional creatures.

>>18659632
OP Just ask her as soon as you can when to arrange the next date and if she shays she doesn't know/is busy and doesn't get back to you the same day then move on

If you've got a family emergency, the last thing on your mind is going on a date with someone. Stop blindly following blanket rules like "if they don't offer to reschedule then they're really lying and not interested".

>>18659632
Insist that they show you proof. It's unacceptable to cancel a date.