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>>18076762
how the fuck would we know??

>>18076762
Maybe you're fucking crazy?

>>18076762
Either lower your standards or approach men yourself.

Man thats a lof of typos, my bad

*otherwise she wouldnt hate her that much

*pretty fucking offensive

*would trust me

there you go

question i would immediately ask is would you be ok if the roles were reversed? she has an attractive guy friend for a year and shes inviting him to a party? i think her biggest problem with that girl is how close she is too you, distance wise. it would make cheating infinitely easier

throwing a birthday party at your house?

are you fucking 12?

>>18074003
If it happens it happens. Just stop worrying about it and move on. Most people aren't getting married anyways so you can hide it.

>>18074003
maybe you could be less dramatic about life and take it head on

get a job first, become social, maybe find a girl, try online dating, etc.

get a job

>>18070117
Ya know, I remember a freshman who use to date a senior.

They fucked plenty for a couple of weeks, broke up, and he trashed talker her ever since she left.

But that was high school, you're in college, si?

>>18070124
Yes, I'm in college

>>18070135
K, then you'll probably have better chances.

Never felt right for me, but if you feel like you two are meant to be together for that time being, go for it.

bump for more wild replies

What's the best way to pump and dump smoothly? I'm concerned with the getaway and being completely fucking gone before she tries to attack my life like women usually do.

>>18077934
Make sure she has no connections to you IRL, such as a co-worker or something. Don't let them get too friendly on social media either. Stick with snapchat or something, where they can't add your family etc.

You'll run into chicken before the egg situations.

To get id, bank account, insurance, job, you need an address which requires you to have a job, id, etc.

The cycle is endless.

honestly most grant money tends to filter to youth based services. it wouldn't be fun, but you could run wild and be housed, in a program, have your shot taken care of for you
.. but you would be around a lot of drugs, Sec, and compromising shot. shot will be stolen from you, you will be taken advantage of and sit at the most disrespected and hated rungs in society. but you'd be a street Kid. you'd have a family and a host of people looking out for you. you could easily be assisted out or you could live in,a park with gutter punks. it's your world at that point. uhh just exist in a major city, one that is more liberal. it will be cake. you just have to be aware, and give up creature comforts

>>18076046
>>18076054
You're also run into being turned away from about 80% of current standing shelters because they no longer accept single adult men, and fighting out a wait line at the remaining 20% that will.

One day you'll grow up, stop being so immature, and look back on this and laugh at how retarded you are though, so you have that to look forward to.

Yeesh. Dude if you're that caught up in stupid shit like this past 18, that's a bad sign. Go to fucking class, get your goddamn degree thats what you're there for. I had to do group work with shit heads all the time. That's adulthood, you suck it the fuck up and get the job done.

>>18079734

I know I blame my fucking depression, I could have go on and ignore them but I feel old already for this shit and the depression makes all the worse.

But you´re right, perhaps I should try to endure a little more.

>>18079746
If you haven't already, get a therapist.
If you have one, they aint doing a good job.

I play piano, guitar, and dance like michael jackson.

I'm a multi-instrumentalist myself, but I can't seem to enjoy playing anymore.

>>18079714
did you try dancing like michael jackson

Just go for it. I've had a friend that kinda annoyed me but blah blah. He called me one day and I was petty and didn't answer and he was looking for advice. Well we fell apart. About 2 years later I just felt that same thing and appologized and what not. And were all good now. A good relationship at one point should always be able to be returned to that. It just takes on person to make the move

for men its usually as simple as just reaching out and saying you should catch up. then you throw in an apology and try to keep things happy.

Funny that you don't make clear what exactly happened.

What caused the falling out? Did you fuck his dad?

Focus on why you're angry instead of being angry.

I can control my heartbeat pretty well, so I don't get that problem.

take a chill pill, literally

there are medications that can help you take control of your emotions

#1: They need to be willing, the more the better - the amount always varies.

#2: Among the willing, ponder their long-term abilities. Don't ever let yourself work for someone who is on the verge of going broke - especially after you finish and enter the workforce.

#3: Among the willing and able, pick the one you can most see yourself working with in varying ways. One day might be up close, one day might be other side of the world.

>>18079486
>going broke
what do you mean by this?
how can a professor go broke? you mean not having any projects funded?

>Any horror stories? Pitfalls to avoid?

First and foremost: since you're betting your future on this, obviously you need to be sure THEY aren't going to wind up disappearing or being suddenly disabled. Sounds crazy, but keep in mind this is largely old people we're talking about.

Other than that, don't worry about numbers or search for indicators of assured success. Give your instincts a chance to speak, and they'll steer you away from dangers that numbers can't express. In other words, the things people actually *regret* after they've made a multi-year commitment they end up hating. They usually don't hate it because of numbers, unless the numbers are absolute trash.

First of all, you need to be attractive and have money or you better hope you can manipulate some poor girl into believing a lie in order to get something.

And as a side note, why is this so important to you?

>>18079464
>And as a side note, why is this so important to you?

Because I'd like to try to improve my solo social skills with girls and possibly increase my chances of casually hooking up or making new friends.

As for attractive factors I'm definitely not ugly so I'm not too worried about that. Money though that's a bit of a problem.

>>18079497
dude, I'm telling you right now that girls are just people at the end of the day. They all have the same wants and desires we do.

Don't get me wrong, there is a specific game you have to play in order to just hook up, but if you want a friend or just to get better socially, you need to just treat them like a normal person. Listen to them, actually listen and contribute. If you have nothing to contribute, then make them talk about themselves more. People love to talk about themselves.

Money is going to be your problem. You need to at least be able to afford something to bring to the table, whether it's some shit like mini-golf, dinner and a movie, or even a box of condoms.

There's a bunch of broke ass dudes that hook up with girls but most likely they're playing a dangerous game of leading a girl on, fucking with their heads, and then in turn making girls very skeptical about even trusting men to begin with.

So what do I care, because if pussy means the world to you, then have fun. But it isn't going to do shit for your social skills, I can tell you that much.

yeah, just stop being like that and realize you can't please everyone.

>>18079430
maybe you've got autism?

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>>18079430
fuck her if she cant handle the bantz

And why specifically do you think you need a therapist?

>>18079414
1. Stop wallowing in self-pity
2. Tell us what's ailing you

>>18079414
To a job

Not even memeing

>doing hobbies to be intersting
>not doing hobbies because you are interested

ur doomed

Gardening, collecting rocks, feeding stray animals, volunteering, skateboarding, making music online with free VST's, building things with recycled materials.

little more expensive: music instruments

>>18079433
also thrift store shopping and going to the library.