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im basically retarded as far as life skills are concerned. i am terrible at interacting with other people. i have no friends or family, 30 yr old virgin.
spent the last year homeless, got a job and found a room to rent, but got fired and am having trouble finding even a single interview.
going to be homeless again in about a week.
my question is: how the fuck do i get an interview? ive applied to hundreds of jobs over the past month to no avail, before this i had a similar probem where i was living with my mom for 6 fucking years without getting anyone to respond to the apps i put out, and if i did make money it was always min wage part time which is hardly enough to live off of.
idk what im even asking. how do i exist on this planet i guess?
considering suicide honestly.
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>>18076725
I feel like your lying about how much your trying, I internally filled out one application and got a job for it. where do you live? are you really weird looking or dirty or something?
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>>18076739
live in detroit. am i dirty or weird looking? idk.
ive applied to every place i can possibly find an application for over the past month to no avail. not sure what the problem is. maybe someone knows of some common reasons why job apps are turned down by people in 'hiring' positions? i just want to make some fucking money but i dont know how to get someone to just fucking hire me.
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>>18076750
what are you applying for? and don't say 'everything'
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How well does Tinder work in hooking up?
27y/o male, and I tend to feel awkward around online dating sites.
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>>18076611
Unless you're Chad, don't waste your time
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>>18076611
Honestly I have better luck irl.
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>>18076632
IRL as in where?
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Can anyone confirm?
>pic related
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>>18076603
>being this autistic
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I've been listening to degrading rap music all my life, still Virgin in my late twenties.
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>>18076618
OP here. Well your game sucks then. So far I've been getting numbers because I've been listening to rap
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I have an obsession with fitting in with the crowd (especially with videogames). If there's anything in my way from joining everyone else, I get extremely depressed.
>a new game you probably heard of, for honor, came out a week ago
and im flat broke, with no signs of affording the game anytime soon.
>im not here to ask for money, if you think otherwise then you can fuck right off. I just need to let it out.
I've been very depressed lately from not being able to buy this game. It may sound ridiculous to hear that I'm depressed because I can't play some game, but it's more than that.
My only way of feeding my needs is through jewtube videos, and memes of for honor. I even have a meme page theming for honor, even though I don't own the game.
If you have anything to say for me I'd be satisfied .
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what the fuck
make friends
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It's shit
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>>18076571
Sounds like you need professional help
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I want a child but she doesn't 2017-02-24 04:00:55 Post No.18076535
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I want a child but she doesn't
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Her reasoning for not wanting a single biological child (while I want just one and we both agree to adopt) is she believes the world is so intensely overpopulated and she's convinced the child is 1000000% likely to be born with the mindset of "the world is miserable, never going to get better, and there is not a single sliver of happiness that exists." I tell her the world isn't necessarily overpopulated and she doesn't know what mindset the child would have and she goes apeshit. Any idea what her deal might be? Any possible way to convince her that maybe she's wrong and should give it a try?
She's not in the least worried about sex, or the actual pregnancy or birthing process, but her pessimism bleeds into this whole issue to begin with.
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>Any idea what her deal might be?
she already said it
>Any possible way to convince her that maybe she's wrong
convince? so you are relying on your want, rather than the arguments. she already said hers, if you believe otherwise then go ahead and prove your arguments
>and should give it a try?
give it a try? u make children for lulz?
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>>18076535
You need to choose. You can't have it all.
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but a child adopted to a good home is way better off
in any case, this shit takes time. your best bet rn is to get a dog and plan things out for the long run. when she matures a bit her thoughts about babies are likely to change
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Guys, has anyone here fixed legitimately bad toenail fungus? Seems like literally every cure just doesn't work
Help me
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OP I'm with you. I caught it from an ex's shower and have been trying to rid myself of it for 2 years.
I have insurance, I just really don't feel like going to the doctor about it. But you and I both are going to need to lol.
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>>18076531
My entire family has it because my dad was too lazy to replace the disgusting shower that was in my house when they moved in and too cheap to get us fixed back when we were little kids, now I'm stuck with extremely bad fungus ever since I was like 10 and everything I try doesn't work.
My mom even got a laser toenail fungus removal procedure for a couple months and it just came back in the end wtf
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>>18076534
Alright fellow anon time to realllllly fuckin get this shit under control
About to spent $50 on nail fungus shit on Amazon and just go at it.
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How do I stop getting emotionally invested in pointless internet arguments? It's obviously a big fucking waste of time, but I feel like *have* to be right and engage in some long back and forth that accomplishes nothing other than my typing speed. Then I just feel angry at the end that someone has a different opinion from me, since obviously no one has been convinced of a different view by someone else on the internet.
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grow up and realize other people aren't you.
Understand that your opinion isn't flawless
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>>18076499
Get into the practice of waiting a day between posts. It lets you cool off from your emotions and think more calmly and logically.
The futility of the whole endeavor may become more visceral to you after a while of doing this, as you divorce yourself from the involved emotions, which is arguably the driver for this activity.
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I feel your pain. I realized it's because I actually want to have discussion with people, but people are so fucking stupid they just want to argue and when you call them out on it they just justify their retarded behaviour. I wish I knew a place on the internet where people actually wanted to discuss things, but those places are probably a ghost town even if they do exist.
>>18076769
also this anon has some good advice
I actually stopped posting on 4chan for about a week or so just because I realized all I did was argue every single day and nothing came out of it and it was stressful being so angry all the time. I also felt bad for snapping at people or being too invested in my internet quarrels to go do something for someone IRL. I had anxiety for a little at first, but then it went away and came back again towards the end.
4chan is an addictive hellhole for overly-invested faggots like me.
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What is your method of remembering what you read while you are reading a book (such as a textbook)? 2017-02-24 03:30:02 Post No.18076458
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What is your method of remembering what you read while you are reading a book (such as a textbook)?
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I find I often have no idea what I read about five seconds after reading a paragraph, causing me to re-read and re-read. After re-reading the fourth-ish time, I inevitably space out from exhaustion and make zero progress in the book.
I tried staying "engaged" and took notes while I read. But, I kept ending up writing out every small piece of information out of fear I'd miss something while reading. My compulsive note-taking increased my reading time five times over and totally psyched me out from reading in-general. This pattern was worse than taking no notes at all..
So now, my current strategy is:
1. Keep notes closed while I read.
2. Aggressively form mental pictures of what I'm reading while I'm reading.
3. Never re-read until I've finished a page (re-reading discourages and spaces me out).
4. After each page I restate to myself what it was about.
5. I briefly skim over the page to verify if I'm correct, if wrong: I'll restate what I read until it matches what I see on the page.
6. When the chapter is done, I'll take out notes to write everything important I can recall.
7. Close notes again after fully emptying what I can recall.
8. I'll open my book again, skim the chapter page-by-page in-case I missed anything.
9. If I missed something, I'll close my notes again, re-read each offending paragraph and restate to myself what I read for each page.
10. I'll keep going until I reach the end of the chapter again: I'll then close my book again and open my notes, I'll write out everything I can recall once again.
11. Repeat this process until I am satisfied with what I can recall about the chapter.
The point is that I separate time when I read, the time when I restate the content in my own words, and time when I recall it from memory based on the connections I formed in my head. The main objective is to expediently read through my book without exhausting myself.
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I can still remember my old phone number from like 10 years ago.
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I want to add that I dislike highlighting or underlining in my books since I don't want to put marks on the pages. Maybe the benefit of doing this outweighs the anxiety of defacing my book? Maybe I can use a very light 5H pencil and erase with a kneaded eraser when I am done with the chapter/book.
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Hi Anon. For me, I like to find the audio book version of books. If I can't, then I read it slowly and carefully and at the end of each chapter, I journal about what I think of what I've just read, how it makes me feel. I'll share what I've read with my house mates too and talk about it. Those ways help me cement in my mind what I've just read and learned. It helps me process the data into useful information.
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I love the dude I'm with. He treats me like an absolute queen, stupidly so. He loves me to the moon and back, and thinks the world of me. He makes me be a better person too. That said, he is a bizarre, bizarre dude with his thought processes.
The issue is our communication. Tiny disagreements snowball into these huge fights about the argument itself. The root cause is our complete inability to communicate. It's the weirdest thing-He'll put words in my mouth I never said, and argue that I did. Sometimes he'll say I said the exact opposite of what I actually DID say. He'll switch focus to something that isn't related to what we're talking about, without acknowledging whatever it is I just said. When I point out that he's changing the topic, he'll respond by saying I changed the topic a second ago. When shit gets bad, he usually gets so upset I let it go and come back to it later.
I can deal with most of it. The main thing that makes me lose my shit is when he tells me I said the exact opposite of what I actually did. And it's not like he's slightly misquoting or exaggerating my words. I'll say "my shoes are black" and he'll say that I said "my shoes are not black." Or he'll add or subtract something that never came out of my mouth about the shoelaces too. I wish I was exaggerating, but it gets that bad almost every argument. It's to the point I only want to discuss shit via text so there's a record of what was said, because it makes me so insane. I shouldn't have to do that man. What am I supposed to do when the most basic of discussions can't even happen? I swear it's not on purpose, but how the fuck could it NOT be?
tl;dr what do to do when your SO misquotes/puts words in your mouth to a ridiculous degree?
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Stop acting like a child
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>>18076455
You could at least tell me how I'm acting like a child.
I don't see how seeking help on what to do with someone who I can't seem to communicate with is childish.
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>>18076461
I think you're not fucking enough 2bh.
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Do multi vitamins actually help? Like if I take them will I feel more energy and look and feel better and be healthier?
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I never felt any real difference other than a slight immunity boost personally.
Used to get sick instantly within coming in contact with someone else who was sick, no matter how minor. After I started taking vitamins regularly though I don't get sick quite as easily. Didn't notice anything else though, I think it probably varies to some degree from person to person.
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Who's that slag?
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>>18076424
I only really noticed a difference when I was homeless and not eating anything else.
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How do I become the sort of person who brightens the day of everyone they meet?
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Learn to cook and give food to everyone
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>>18076416
Sell weed?
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>be attractive, physically
>smile and greet politely
>have good manners
it's the small things, anon. plus of course the benefit of being attractive really fucking works. if you were ugly and tried being nice you'd come across as a creepy pedophile rapist sexist desperate loser.
so make sure you have step 1 down before you continue to attempt to brighten someone elses day
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living with cokehead schizo and I fear for my life 2017-02-24 03:05:22 Post No.18076402
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living with cokehead schizo and I fear for my life
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Hey guys, I've tried to fix this problem myself but since that doesn't seem to be going anywhere I decided to come here. Though this problem started when I was twelve it has never been as bad as it is now. This person who I used to consider a brother on several occasions threatened to murder me, has pulled a knife on me, attacked my father, and most recently tried to murder my sister with a broken bottle. I really don't know what to do, I've tried talking to the police several times, I told them what he's done and that I don't feel safe but they've not been capable of resolving the issue. Every moment that I am in this house I feel on edge, it's gotten to the point where I can only get 2 to 4 hours of sleep a night and where I feel the need to carry a sharpened pencil just incase he attacks. I'm a high school senior who will be off to uni in a couple months, but I can not take this any longer, my parents also refuse to do fuck all about this. I didn't even feel this stressed when my brother hung himself. I tried to leave but I have no money and I also don't want to leave because I fear for the safety of my other siblings, what should I do?
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>>18076402
The police won't do anything?
The way I see it you have two options:
- Try to get him sectioned
- Tip off the police to his drugs habit
You obviously can't do nothing. It must fucking suck but doing nothing only puts you and your family in danger.
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>>18076412
I've tried to get him sectioned before but my parents always deter me for some reason, they seem to feel the need to defend him on all occasions. Even when he tried to stab my sister they refused to contact the police.
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>remove yourself from your friend's presence
>get a better means of protecting yourself
Problem solved
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My best friend's friend committed suicide and I don't know what to do or say to comfort him. Halp.
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>>18076374
Don't say anything, just be there for him.
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>>18076374
Kill yourself, that way he will have to split his feelings of grief over two people which will halve what he feels at any particular time.
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>>18076649
>mathematics
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Hey guys. I want to buy my boyfriend a new mic to stream and make youtube videos with for his birthday. I ready that Blue Yetis were the best kind of mic, so i went and looked it up on amazon. I saw that they had a special deal that included this https://www.amazon.com/Elgato-Capture-PlayStation-gameplay-1080p/dp/B00MIQ40JQ/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8 for about $150 more. My question is, is it worth it? Or would it be a waste of money? Also, is there anything else that I could buy for him to stream with or record videos? I don't have a lot of money, but I want to get him something nice that I know he would actually want.
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Make him a sandwich for his birthday
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>>18076364
>stream to YouTube
Sounds like a fag
You gonna facilitate his fagitude?
Whatever.
Turtlebeach I hear is good
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>>18076422
He just wants to make a lot of money and also play video games, I dont really see how thats faggy lmao. Also, arent turtle beaches headphones just for playing multi player games? Ive never really been able to afford any fancy equipment for my consoles, so I don't even know where to start.
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fuck fuck fuck pregnancy scare 2017-02-24 02:34:52 Post No.18076329
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fuck fuck fuck pregnancy scare
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Had sex with my girl one time. No holes in the condom from what i saw and only precum came out. only did it for a few seconds because it was both of our first times. She is about 2 weeks away from her period and she has started having cramps, we are both worried she might be pregnant. Its been a few days and I have a pregnancy test but i'll have to use it tomorrow. im sp00ked solid to be honest. Help?
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>only precum came out
There should be no precum making contact with your girl's vagina at all. If there is, she could become pregnant.
Get her on another form of birth control so you can stop worrying about this.
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mittelschmerz
she's ovulating, not pregnant
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>>18076329
Also, pregnancy tests don't work until 21 days after sex. And Plan B (emergency contraception) works up to 5 days after sex, but its effectiveness goes down with each day.