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Well you could just go on tinder if all you're looking for is sex. Your success depends a lot on how you look. Post a picture and I can tell you what to change etc.

Get fit and huge muscles and some nice clothes.

Just signal to bitches that you have a big dick and you're ready to fuck.

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>>18080085
I feel like I look pretty average desu just have a big nose really

>>18079973
There is no fast way to earn money online, aside from camming and other pornographic stuff.

I would say look into your campus. There are generally jobs as TA's, lab assistants and stuff.

I am employed by my campus as a TA and while its not much, it helps.

>>18079979
Trust me, I tried but again I'm not allowed to. All the jobs refuse Medical/Biology majors or only allow locals to work.

It doesn't have to be super fast money. But at least as much as a part time job.

>>18079981
I am studying medicine (MS4), and got hired as a lab assistant, teaching first year students and generally helping around in the histology/anatomy labs.

If you are bilingual, you could translate for your professors. Did that too, they usually pay for each page. You translate articles and textbooks, both ways. Hard work, but still work and you can do it on your own time.

Pathology also hires students as lab technicians. You get the sections, and fixate/dye. Would recommend asking your professors about that too.

Finally, there should be a school psychiatrist. They generally do not charge anything.

Best of luck.

>>18079955
You don't have to use it all in one go, you know. Just use it every now and then instead of cash or a debit card

Pay it off as soon as you spend with it. The point is to build good credit, so make small purchases you know you can pay off. Otherwise, you'll get stuck paying interest every month, and go nowhere as it climbs/stays constant.

>>18079955
You should at the very least use 30% of the limit. This will help your credit score build up.

Not using the card at all, or not being on time with the payments will cause your credit score to deteriorate.

PROTIP

Hang around little ceasers pizza when they close. All those hot n ready pizzas get thrown out at the end of the night. I knew a homeless guy who would snag 2-6 of them every night and then sell them for some cash.

Not sure who would buy a cold pizza from a homeless guy but apparently he does manage to sell most of them.

>>18079912
Where do u live faggot

Go see if u can get council housing if ur in the uk

>>18079912
Get a tent and a sleeping bag. It's not the end of the world.

>>18079887
Why do you care? He's a cunt, just ignore him and get in with your life

>>18079896
I care because this little shit is taking away every fucking opportunity.

Want to meet new people? Too fucking bad. You want to run for the debate team? Too fucking bad, he's grabbed up all the positions for himself and a handful of other people. You want to run for the college board organization? Same fucking issue. He doesn't even do the fucking work, other people do it for him. Everyone is just afraid to say no to him.

And he's talking shit about me but that's the least of my concerns.

>>18079887
translating OP's post:

This guy is clever, hard-working, popular and successful, and I want to punish him for that.

I dated a girl 3 years older than me. There were times when she didn't respect me as a man, even if she wanted to.

There is no problem with this unless you are talking 20 and 15 years old.

Once you have both fully matured mentally it doesn't make a difference the age.

>>18079882
meaning she would look down on you? I can imagine that happens yeah.

"neither" was supposed to be *with

>>18079830
You just hang around with some people. If you don't click with them hang around other people. I used to hang out with this party girl. She knows a lot of people and I was introduced to some of them but turns out, most of them like to party way too much for my likes. I stopped frequenting them altogether since I saw it as a waste of time.

I've been talking to these guys who are more laid back. Last week we just chilled at one girls house, watching YouTube and talking about everyday stuff.

>>18079841
Thanks for taking the time to reply. I guess it's the initial act of meeting and hanging with people that I have trouble with. Should I just talk to random people?

>>18079795
this is awkward, cause I'm your boyfriend...

10/10

>>18079795
>i haven't really addressed any of the issues i've listed

So long as you acknowledge that you haven't tried: let me tell you that you are leaps and bounds ahead of literally millions of women.

Originally I was going to say "stick with it" but
> constant negativity is really wearing me down.

Nah just forget it. If a person,male or female, can't make you enjoy yourself it's just not worth it. Granted I don't know WHAT he is being negative about but even if I did know it's his job as your Boyfriend to not be a boy but be a Man.

>>18079784
sink
suffer
self-destruct

rise
stronger
reconstruct

>>18079784
realize the world was always shitty and it was never been back in the day i promise

test

I'm 31 AND I WILL NEVER STOP FAPPING.

I'm married btw

You got nothing to fear anon. As long as you are productive in your real life and don't let your habits interfere with work or personal life masturbating shouldn't be an issue.

>>18079794
Thanks for your kind words anon. It's just mostly the feeling of not having complete control of myself I don't like. Masturbating used to be very enjoyable, but has become an activity I almost feel like I need to do.

>>18079705
1. Yes you got unmatched
2. No you got no chance to talk back to them

Knowing tinder, it's probably a glitch. Such a popular app that makes tons of money -- it really should not have as many glitches as it does. I had this same glitch before, and many others.

If he unmatched you, you would never see him again unless you deleted and remade your account.

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>>18079721
Then I didnt get unmatched. Because we've still been talking back and forth. His profiles just gone, whenever I get a notification instead of getting his picture I just get the tinder logo. But he's sent about 4-5 messages since his profile just poofed that I've all received and responded to.

That's nothing. Keep it in a savings account to cover an unexpected expense or two.

>>18079684
Personally I own a house, so I'd probably sink it all into a principle payment so I could get rid of my out age insurance that's like 75 a month.

Why did you just come into some money? Use it to go to college. Take a fuckton of classes at a local college in some thing guaranteed to make you money.

I'm already going to college and I too own a house.

>>18079679
How did you encounter her? Is it a situation that can happen again - e.g. being at a party or meeting along with others? If so, just engage her in conversation and, if it goes well, casually say "It's fun chatting with you. Would you like to get together for coffee sometime soon?"

>>18079679
>How can I go about dating a woman who's that old, i.e asking her out without the age gap instantly rejecting me?

This is dependent on the person, not whatever magical technique you think exists for making a person say "yes" to the idea of having a relationship with you.

If it's something you really want to pursue, expect a lot of rejection and assumptions that you aren't serious about them because the desire for that age gap is important to you, not their qualities as a person.

If she is really 50 that is fucked up dude.

Singer from a band I was in was like, 30 and got with a women who was in her mid 40's and at the time she was very attractive for her age, you'd have said they were the same age.

Now though he is pushing 40 and she is starting to rapidly (like every 6 months she looks much older) turn into an old lady.

If you seriously wish to pursue a relationship with a much older woman (and I can't say that it is automatically a bad idea) then you've got to understand that your path in life is going to be unconventional and she'll get old, sick and dead much sooner than you will.

I mean, I can actually imagine marrying for money in this sort of situation if she is very rich. You get to spend your 20's and 30's travelling and being taken care of and then hopefully they die and you are free to do your thing, but with a fat payout.

My own mother is like 57 and lives with a 25 year old. They've been dating for about 2 years. Thing is she is loaded, they live in a villa in Spain in the middle of a citrus grove with a pool. He is kind of disgusting to be honest, sickly looking, skinny, pale, bad skin, bald.

I think she is with him because she has always had low self esteem and been validated by her relationships with often dominating personalities and I think at this point in her life she can't think of anything more alpha than being in control of such a young guy and having all the money. I find it kind of tragic that she hasn't dealt with these issues yet.

>>18079620
I too, know these feels.

>join lots of clubs
>just sit in a corner during meetings
>everyone is in their own cliques inside each different club
>nobody talks to me, and I talk to nobody
>surrounded by people, but still alone
I dunno senpai. I try to meet new people, but every time it's like trying to grab a doorknob that you know is going to shock you. I used to think I had the answers to this shit, but three years later and I'm still in the same position, arguably worse.

I've always found it strange that people "feel" as if they need to be out socializing. It sounds, every time I read something like this, that it's completely external. I feel that if one is content staying inside, and doesn't feel any urge to go out and socialize, then you are totally cool with staying inside. You're not getting paid to hang out at bars, so if you don't enjoy it, why the fuck would you do it?

Albeit, as you'll find out, I'm a little biased.

>online uni student
>programming major
>stay inside all day
>parents are confused as to why I don't go out
>think I might be a psychopath

But to be honest, I feel fucking amazing chilling inside all day. Like, I'm getting my BS, learning a valuable skill(s) and am just chilling.

OP, if you feel like you wanna go out man, go out! But if you feel okay with being inside, or doing what you do, that's perfect too!

>>18079651
You just have to put your self out there. No one is going to come to you. You have to go to them. I had the same issue last year.

>>18079612
so you're just gonna make post about being a fucking loser? Self sabotage, self fulfilled prophecy i guess.

So you would rather make a post on 4chan over doing something with your life? Eventually you're going to die. So either kill yourself or find yourself. The choice is yours. Don't give us the ultimatum

>>18079622

I don't even know what I want to "do with my life" anymore. I feel like the lights been totally broken. I don't have any goals or dreams anymore. It's like I'm just slowly waiting to die. I don't know what happened to me.

Even if I do radically change my life situation, everything will end up the same way. Move out to an apartment? I'll stay in my room forever and go to a dead end job just like before. So why bother?

>>18079612
I would try mushrooms or acid, maybe fucking ketamine or ayahuasca. DESU, they show the beauty in things that you didn't see there and they get you to face your fears that are numbing you.