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Any (actually) employed engineers here? I've got a question. A friend of mine did both his undergraduate and Masters degree at Carnegie Mellon in mechanical engineering. He did everything he was supposed to do, he managed to keep a 3.8 his whole time, joined relevant clubs, joined an engineering fraternity and made connections.

He did side projects and showcased them all over social media, taught as a teaching assisstant / adjust professor during grad school, but after he graduated, the dude was unemployed for over 2 years and just recently found a job working MINIMUM WAGE at an engineering firm.

What the fuck gives? Does MechE just not pay off? Most engineering students, even the mediocre ones, can expect a job upon graduation, usually anywhere from $60k - 160k depending on field an location, but this guy just got buttfucked. What can I do in my time as undergrad to avoid this type of situation?

Granted I realize his case is special, and that a majority of engineering students find jobs that pay well, but it seems MechE is having a really rough time lately.

Also, for reference, I'm doing EE with a focus in CPU architecture, sometimes called CompE or ECE. So hopefully I'll have better outlooks.
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answer me geeks
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>>18585337
No Chad posts on 4chan, no matter desperately the anons want to believe this.
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the STEM meme is about to end considering it was running its course for a while now
engineers leave the stage
next up IT and programming

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Hello /adv/. Please help me. I want some good hints/recomendations for how to I should get my hair cut.
>inb4 you dont look good in long hair
I want long hair. I will have long hair. But right now it looks messy as fuck.
I would love if one of you could link me some pictures of haircuts that would suit me and my hair so I can show the picture to my barber.
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posting more angles
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>>18585256
>>>/fa/

I usually get migranes after I finish my sport session hiw do I prevent/stop them?
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Drink more water.
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Go to a neurologyst, he'll give you some kind of medicine that you put under your tongue to melt and then migraine disappears after some time. You have to be 18+ for the medication ( just in case letting u know )
Until then, just regular painkillers should do the trick, take some and if it's a mild migraine, go and rest in a dark silent room.
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>>18585225
As they've said, water is super important to avoid headaches. You can track many headaches to dehydration. If you drink very little water for two days and then exercise, there you have it. Sodas and other meme drinks don't help.

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I could use a tip or two about dealing with insomnia
It takes me 4-6 hours to fall asleep and when I do I wake up in like 30minutes ready to roll around. Sometimes i don't get to sleep at all
I feel like i'm going to collapse
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>>18585181
To fix your sleep routine, it would take examining a lot more information than you have provided. However, a good start is to treat your bed only as a space for sleeping, meditating, or love making. No reading there. No eating there. No videogaming there. No tossing and turning. If you find yourself unable to sleep once you lay down intent to do so, get up and do some light reading or balance your check book for ten or twenty minutes, until you feel ready to sleep, then lay down in bed again with the intent to sleep. It is important to connect your bed with only the habit of restful things in order to use it for resting.
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try using food supplements daily like "herbastress" (to make you calm) and "melasleep" (something with melatonin, makes you go faster to sleep). These are european and homeopathic, not sure if you will find in your country.
best solution go to doctor, they will prescribe real medicine
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>>18585251
Melatonin supplements can be helpful if used in the right way by developing a bedtime routine around them. No alcohol, cigarettes, video games, or intense TV watching while waiting for it to kick in, that is. Melatonin supplements should only be used to help develop a rhythm for restful behavior and not as a long-term solution to sleep problems.

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Basically I want sex from my girlfriend every night. I know thats a lot, but we end up having sex once every ten days or so. And when we do it feels like shes doing me a favor.

She never had a boyfriend before me and has never been highly sexual. Unless shes lying to me, I genuinely believe she just isn't that interested in sex.

I find myself resenting her for this. Like it pisses me off. I can understand not wanting sex every night, and can settle for 2-3 times a week but her low sex drive is making me mad. Its not fun. Previous girlfriends, I did not have this problem

Is our relationship doomed? What do I do? Is there anything I can do to pump up her sex drive? Iv'e tried talking to her about what she likes but she doesn't like anything, no weird kinks. I try to get pushy and just go for it but after a couple "No."s i stop. I don't want to be rapey.


Help. I really like her and shes great but this is a problem
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>>18585152
How long have come you been together and is it possible you're just boring in bed?
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I was in a similar boat as you. Eventually, the sex started happening more frequently and went from boring as hell to fantastic. I just dealt with it and eventually found that my sex driver sort of lowered as well and I kind of enjoy the fact that we can hang out all of the time without my lizard brain acting up.
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>>18585162
How long have we been together? Over a year. I have been kind of "vanilla" with her in bed, to be honest. Didn't want to freak her out. But iv'e given her some good dick. Iv'e been with other girls and they seemed to enjoy me in bed.

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I don't know what caused this in my life, but for some reason I started forced breathing and now I have all kind of anxiety and impaired thinking. First of all I feel like sometimes I just push my chest out to get air, sometimes I feel like I suck air in with my nose, sometimes I feel my upper chest expand, it feels so freaking weird. Could someone help me?
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Hello,

I think some anapanasati is good for you. Search mindfulness of breath. It's purely secular despite it being a Buddhist teaching.

Look up body scan meditation.
The idea is to scan parts of the body that feels tense and just watching it and releasing it (purely.mental).

If you're in my area I would love to meditate with you and watch our breaths together.
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>>18585142
Your over thinking breathing. Stop doing it and you'll be fine.
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This guy posts this every day, and then leaves. I'd suspect some sort of bizarre nu-troll, but the longer it goes on, the more I suspect it may be some actually mentally disturbed person.

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Would life be better or worse if 50% of people were highly attractive and the other 50% were plain looking?

Beauty is a need, like sex, ppl need it sometimes but when you have so much excess of something, then what?

>Pic related
One of the MANY people who have gotten rich & famous (life on easy mode) just because of their attractiveness to others.
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What? People ARE varying levels of attractiveness, in case you haven't noticed.
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>>18585145
Yes but people are to their core attracted to "Very" attractive people

I figure it would be a new kind of "racism", a discrimination against atrractiveness.
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You're not looking for advice, you're just spouting retarded /r9k/ memes. Leave.

Is melatonin safe for teenagers. I sleep at 4am and wake up at 3pm everyday suicidal
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hello zambz
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>>18585104
can i suck you off
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Probably, yes. Still, it's better to ask a doctor instead of 4chan.

Melatonin is a natural hormone to the brain and I have never heard of bad effects besides diarhea or feeling to drowzy.

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'sup /adv/, I recently found out that my son has autism (probably got it from me since I have ass burgers) and now I want to put him up for adoption. His mother died not long after birth which makes me his sole carer, so I shouldn't have any resistance when it comes to dumping him off. That said, I don't know anything about adoption/disownment laws in the UK so I could really use some legal advice or at least a push in the right direction.
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Shouldn't have passed your Subhuman genes
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>>18585094
pretty sure you cant just abandon a child and declare you want to put it up for adoption. baby hatches dont exist in the uk and abandonment of a child under 2 is a felony.

shorter: youre an asshole. cut off your dick
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>>18585094
You fucking aspie, kill yourself and your son. Don't reproduce with your shit tier genetics

Your son will be incel for the rest of his life because of you

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My mum has recently been in close contact with very superstitious (and fiercely religious) family members.
They have convinced her of the 'healing power of energy-necklaces' and often wants me to wear them when I feel unwell (in my case occasional weather dependent headaches). She tells me stories of how it helped that aunt get over vertigo.
>what is peer-review?
>what is placebo?
>what are control groups?

As a (neuro)science/psychology student, I clearly do not trust or believe in such snakeoil scams.

At the same time I truly do not feel well wearing and thus endorsing such objects.
I am afraid that even if I wear them just to appease her, I'd encourage her trust in such voodoo and may eventually lead her to buy such useless POS.
These occasional headaches go away after an adjustment period, but through talking about improvements my mum might think it was the necklace.
Throwing away a gift would be insulting to the aunt.
>What is the best way to deal with these.
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Just straight up tell her you don't believe in them but you will accept them as a token of love or something. My girlfriend believes in chakras and energy in crystals and has given me several over the years to reduce stress and yada yada. I have one hanging from my guitar (looks pretty sweet, desu) and I keep the others on my desk at home. She knows I don't believe in their healing powers and whatnot but I also think she appreciates that I keep them around things that I am constantly interacting with. The value they hold to me is that they were a gift from someone I care about and who cares about me enough to give me something they care about.
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>>18585118
You are lucky that your gf isn't very insistent.
With me it will probably result in arguments in the vain of.
>It's good for you!
>Look how it helped your aunt.
>Look it did improve it (they go away anyway after a bit).
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>>18585133
>You are lucky that your gf isn't very insistent.
Indeed. I hate all that voodoo juju shit but whatever makes her happy, so long as she doesn't lecture me.

>>18585133
Kind of reminds me of my mother. Perhaps try telling her that you appreciate it but as a medical student, you'd prefer your own methods.
Have you had consistent headaches your whole life? I feel that may help your argument.

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I've only had sex once in my life and during that encounter I couldnt finish and when I got back to school the week after, the girl told all her friends I was small. This really broke my confidence. I told her it was average so I don't know why you're being a cunt. I'm around 5.5 inches erect maybe a lil more. So eversince that im scared to get physical again and it makes me sad.
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They're bitches. You can still satisfy a woman my dude don't worry about it so much.
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>>18585059

I've had sex a few times. all were pretty bad. I can't do it anymore after being raped. my dick stays flacid.

there isn't anywhere to go anon. :).
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>>18585059
Fuck sex workers.

For a while I had a big pimple on my right butt cheek.

Yesterday that pimple suddenly got way bigger than usual and it hurt when I sat down. Today when I woke up, I noticed that it got even bigger. It hurts like hell.

What do I do? Do I try to squeeze it to pop it or what?

Looks a lot like pic related but mine is darker and area around it is more red.
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It's a boil/furuncle. Do NOT pop it or it will scar and might even get infected. See a doctor ASAP and have him cut it open. This needs professional treatment.

t. anon who had two of those fuckers on her thigh.
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>>18584966

Also: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boil

Again, only let a professional handle it.
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>>18584973
>her thigh.

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where to find virgin dudes in real life?
how to approach them?
what are their natural habitats? (without their homes)
how to know is a dude virgin or just shy?
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>>18584928
You can find them anywhere.
You can just talk to them and act friendly.
They probably like to do things like normal people. They mostly work and then find a place to hang low after to go home.
You really can't tell, but i wish you the best of luck in your journey. My friend is a virgin still and he's senpai by 3 years. I'm 24 .__. I want to find him a faithful nice woman. He prefers white women i guess. He said asian women all fall for the bbc and white supremecy meme....
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>>18584928
Check in the summer time when they annually fly to find mates.
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>>18584937
>asian women all fall for the bbc and white supremecy meme.
I'd disagree, most asian women where Im at stay with asians, generally stay away from blacks and only go out with 'proper' white guys(prep, in the club, have a future..etc)

OP they're just normal dudes
Youve just gotta learn how to weed them out from the whores, which isnt so hard, and go from there

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when I started dating in my teens, girls just wanted it gentle. Not just girls my age but even older women.

Now, 15 years later, virtually every woman I hook up with wants it as rough as possible.

I've talked to women and they agreed with me that they have changed this last years.

What's up with this vast change in sexual preference?
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More than anything I'm pretty sure this has to do with their awareness and being comfortable in their sexuality. Women are submissive in nature and like being controlled, but it's more mainstream now than it was in the past is all. My two cents anyways. They're less shy about it.
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>dating in your teens
>hookup in your 30's
Keep in mind the type of women you're with now are very different and most of the "gentle girls" from your teens may have settled down.
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You sure you are not effected by confermation bias?

Hey guys. I've had a few girls (through kik and other things not real, physical, 3D girls) like me, but I can never feel any attachment to them. I've tried to make friends but I can't seem to relate to anyone at all. Even if I can, people will typically just leave me after a few days or weeks without notice. This kind of thing happening over and over has led to me being unable to connect with others, I think? I don't know. It's 4 AM and I have no friends or connections with anyone and I've spent the last 3 months or so coming here everyday and doing whatever to pass the time. I don't know what I want out of this thread. Validation, someone to listen and try to understand?
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I would guess that no one wants to maintain a relationship with you (friendship or otherwise) because you are not a very interesting person...though I don't know you myself.

git gud?
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>>18584835
Idk your life but I say roll with it dude. I'm the same way, and shit goes a lot smoother when I don't try and give a shit about the people in my life. You're defining a human experience man just live and be you.

Shitty advice maybe.
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>>18584871
Maybe I am a bit boring. I'm not really passionate about anything. I don't watch TV or movies or listen to music or use social media or anything that most people do. I only picked the major I did because I want money. I guess I know stuff about random things? Most of what I do involves shitposting and vidya, but mostly obscure stuff no one would know about. I wish I could git gud.

>>18584886
I generally do roll with it. Not like I have a choice. I know it's me and me alone, most I can usually do is keep myself occupied at all times.

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