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'sup /adv/, I recently found out that my son has autism (probably got it from me since I have ass burgers) and now I want to put him up for adoption. His mother died not long after birth which makes me his sole carer, so I shouldn't have any resistance when it comes to dumping him off. That said, I don't know anything about adoption/disownment laws in the UK so I could really use some legal advice or at least a push in the right direction.
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Shouldn't have passed your Subhuman genes
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>>18585094
pretty sure you cant just abandon a child and declare you want to put it up for adoption. baby hatches dont exist in the uk and abandonment of a child under 2 is a felony.

shorter: youre an asshole. cut off your dick
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>>18585094
You fucking aspie, kill yourself and your son. Don't reproduce with your shit tier genetics

Your son will be incel for the rest of his life because of you
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>>18585102
>>18585114
I'm going to keep on having children until I have a normal child. That's all I want. You'd understand if you grew up being treated like a retard whilst all your siblings are normal, smart, and attractive. I did everything I could to confirm that he was a normal healthy child whilst my wife was pregnant and everything came up fine. I even thought he was just a normal child right up until a few months ago when I noticed he was having problems with other children.

>>18585111
Fuck. Well I know there's always the option of claiming that I'm not capable of being his parent, but I don't want that getting in the way when I have another child and I'd rather not have family getting involved because it means a) I'd still have to provide for him. and b) It'll get in the way when I find another woman.

>shorter: youre an asshole. cut off your dick
Fuck you. Don't act as if you're on some moral highground. Do you know hard I worked to get where I am today? Do you know what it feels like to have your hopes crushed and to feel your love for your child disappear into a cloud of disgust and self-hatred? Insult me if you want but I'm perfectly justified in feeling grief over this, I've lost the son I thought I had and all that's left is an inhuman freak.
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>>18585159
Your faggot parents had to raise your aspie ass therefore you raise your child you aspie piece of shit. Don't have anymore children when you know they will come at retarded due to your Subhuman genetics, fucking asshole.
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>>18585169
Fuck you, dickhead. Where do you live? I'm going to come over there and fill your asshole with my "subhuman genetics" you incel piece of shit.
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>>18585094
If you don't want an autistic child, why did you get a biological child?Were you too stupid to realize your biological kid would have a high chance of having assburgers?
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>>18585180
I don't understand the mentality of people that adopt or don't wish to have their own children. I want my family line to continue, and I want it to continue without any hereditary disorders. I don't want to raise another man's child, I think it's sick that anyone would suggest that to me.

>Were you too stupid to realize your biological kid would have a high chance of having assburgers?
I understand that it's likely a 50/50 chance that the disorder will pass on, but I thought that there'd be a way to know if it did so I could abort them, and that even if I did have one child with the disorder I'd be able to try again. Of course it didn't work out that way and my wife died, so now I'm stuck with an autistic son that is getting in the way of me having more children.
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Feed what is left over of your family to zoo animals.
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>>18585201
>now I'm stuck with an autistic son that is getting in the way of me having more children.

Good. Don't get anymore children.
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>>18585201
>I want my family line to continue
It will. By your siblings. I'm not gonna say you shouldn't reproduce again cos of your autism, but you definitely shouldn't because of your attitude.
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>>18585214
What's wrong with my attitude? I want something, so I'm making an attempt to get it. I don't want something, so I'm making an attempt to get rid of it. I'm being as sensible as you can possibly be with a shitty hand like mine. If I was a lazy passive fuck that just put up with things and never tried to change anything I could understand you chastising me for my attitude, but what is wrong with what I'm doing now? This world is filled to the brim with people passing on their shitty genes and supporting their children so they can do it again, but it's somehow wrong for me to attempt to breed away my shitty genes so I can have a healthy child? If you think I'm just going to give up after a single failure you can think again, I'll make a mountain of retards if that's what it takes for me to have a single normal child.
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>>18585159
>I'm going to keep on having children until I have a normal child.
>has assburgers
holy fucking hell my sides
pls stop trying to reproduce, there's enough retards in the world as it is

Having said that, I'd start with calling adoption agencies and see if they have any prospective parents looking for kids with disabilities, and if any for autism since Downsbabys are very popular

How old is the kid? Im assuming it's not a baby right? It would have been much easier then
In any case, all you need to do is find some parents willing to adopt him, surrender your parental rights and be prepared to make a strong case that this is in the best interest for your child

Read the laws of your country and get yourself a good lawyer.
And get the ball rolling on adoption agencies since it can take forever to find parents, especially in your case
good luck
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>I had a hard time growing up because of my mental disorder
>My son is now an analog for my own life
>Better up the ante and dump him

He probably isn't even diagnosed, I bet you're just a spaz.
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>>18585201
>I want it to continue without any hereditary disorders.
I don't think you understand how recessive and dominant traits work. Aspergers are in your genes, even if your next kids are normal your grandchildren may be fucked as well.
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>>18585094

That's what you get when you're such a weakling, I don't even understand how the mother wanted to have a child with you.
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>>18585094
Dad get off 4chan. I'm 34 and you can't give me up for adoption.
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This is such a troll bait lol, it's unbelievable that someone could act this way. I mean Christ... you'd be the trash of humanity if that was the case!

/facepalm
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>>18585223
you're incredibly irresponsible and it makes me sad that you have doomed a human life to an existence of self hate. You are not mature enough to be a father, please kill yourself. Honestly you being dead would help your son more than anything
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>>18585229
Thanks for the solid advice. He's 3, so wouldn't that give him a better chance of adoption? He's really good around adults, has a friendly demeanour, smart for his age, and can talk surprisingly well given that he has autism so I'm sure he'll be fine. I'm a little bit worried that it seems as if there's a market for disabled children though, I'd rather not see him be adopted by some goody-two-shoes sickos that will spoil him and treat him as if he's some handbag chihuahua to parade around.

>>18585247
He was diagnosed though. I didn't even believe it myself since he's so good at home and around other adults, but apparently he's been having a lot of trouble with other children in pre-school and when I took him to the doctors they told me that they were 99% sure that he had inherited it from me and that he'd have to get a full diagnosis when he's a little older.

>>18585261
I understand that eugenics isn't simple, but so long as my bloodline keeps making sure to have at least one normal child I'm sure it can eventually be breeded out. Or at the very least in the future there might be better testing available to make it possible.

>>18585276
>>18585284
I bet you're a women.
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>>18585284
By the way, self-hate is the only way for someone with a mental disability to actually climb above it. I'm sure you've seen how autists behave when they're smothered by their parents and society, they become useless manchildren that had their chance to grow into adults stolen away from them. Accepting weakness destroys your humanity and reduces you to something less than human, it's only by rejecting it and wanting to become something more that you can stay human. I never would've become a father, I never would've found a job, if I just accepted help and believed what my mother told me. I might have a nasty personality and I might be cold but at least I'm not leeching off of my parents and causing them misery, which is more than I can say for half the people in this thread.
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Trap thread. It's just someone seeking attention again. OP could have just gone to a specialist to talk about this but he needed " advices " on 4chan for this.

Be serious guys and stop replying to this thread.
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>>18585288
That's not how it fucking works, dude.

You have asburgers? Then your kids, your kids kids, and your kids kids kids will carry that gene with them.

Imagine a weeaboo standing here telling us that he's gonna have pure Japanese children, he just needs to work the numbers a little.
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>>18585309
It doesn't matter how many generations it'll take, so long as my children, and grandchildren, and great grandchildren make an effort to have normal children that gene will be wiped away in time. Even if it doesn't work the same way as getting rid of a chromosome or two, eugenics will solve it in the long-run. I understand that it's it'll be difficult and the chances aren't good but by the time my children are adults there should be significant advances in DNA testing to prevent people like me from being born. I know it's not simple and I may even be a little bit delusional but this is my dream and I'm prepared to sacrifice even my own children for the sake of achieving it.
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Jesus Christ this thread is the very definition of autism.

>>I want it to be MY blood and I want it to be clean!

>>My child might be autistic like I am so I want to get rid of it

This is like the adult version when an autistic child destroys the house because his bike isn't the right color.

Lol I hope op gets fucking culled by a terrorist so his child can have a better chance at life.
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>>18585223
normally your attitude would be correct if it was an object, but you're talking about a human life, a child who never asked to be born, a child that came into existence because of your faggot selfishness and now you want to get rid of him also through your selfishness

kill yourself
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>I have mental issues
>I'm going to keep making trial babies and toss out the ones that had my mental issue genes until I find a normal child

And people wonder why idiots have more kids than successful normal people?
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>>18585341
But you can stop people like you from being born RIGHT NOW.

Your family line is already being continued by your siblings, if you're not in it for the Fatherhood, then you might as well drop the pretense. You're obviously unfit to raise a kid, anyway.
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>>18585350
Would you want to raise a down's child? Now imagine it's not quite as bad as down's but there's a very good chance that any other children you have will have the same disorder. Now imagine being tormented by the fact that even if you have a normal child there's a good chance their children will have disorders too. So the only choice you have is to either gamble with your children's lives or die leaving absolutely nothing behind and forever being a failure in your parent's and society's eyes. I'm sure you'd fucking tantrum too if you had to live with this.

>>18585358
You can hardly consider failures like us to be human. If a healthy normal human can be born does it really matter if the failures suffer for the sake of that? They should be happy. All the suffering I've gone through would be worth it if it resulted in a happy healthy child being born into this world.

>>18585364
If you're so successful and normal maybe you should fucking have children then, you fucking BASTARD? You complain about idiots but who would do all those unrewarding jobs if it wasn't for us? You wouldn't need us and you wouldn't need to import savages if you got your fucking shit together and HAD CHILDREN LIKE LIVING CREATURES ARE MEANT TO DO INSTEAD OF PISSING AWAY YOUR LIFE ON STUPID WORTHLESS SHIT LIKE YOUR DAMNED CAREER THAT WON'T FUCKING MEAN ANYTHING WHEN YOU'RE DEAD IN THE GROUND WITH NO LEGACY LEFT BEHIND

>>18585381
I want to be a father, not a tardhandler, and there's no reason for me to live if I'm not going to have children, unfortunately I wasn't aborted so I'm going to continue having children until I'm satisfied.
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>>18585388
Uh, yeah. So you die without raising kids and stop your shitty genetic line from ruining other children. That's the point

Im willing to take this bait in hopes actual autists don't try this.
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>>18585388
I understand that you want a child to leave something behind.
As myself, with my frame of mind, If I was in your position; I would either work to advance studys into the feild of producing "normal" children. Or since it seems you are already a bit older and have a career path, I would work to financially fund genetic research so that the "Legacy" you leave would be one of the following: One of the people who "discovered a way to prevent such births" you could do this as a corporate foundation under your name so you get the credit. And, If you where not too old, it could even be a procedure done in your lifetime, so you have a 100% chance.
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It doesn't matter how many times your descendants breed, they'll always have the gene for autism. Continuing your family line will only net more retards. Just end it.
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>>18585094
>>18585159
>>18585177
>>18585201
>>18585223
>>18585288

There's no way any of this is real.

Also people screeching about Aspergers. I'd honestly rather be an aspie than some intellectual failures like the majority of the people on this board.

There's a reason such a high number of geniuses are autistic. When you can tell other people to fuck off and have high capacity for critical thinking shit just makes sense.
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>>18585388
How about you stop being a bitch an raise your aspie kids to be good socially. Aspies aren't fucking cursed to be social outcasts forever. It just means they need to LEARN to be sociable rather than knowing it inherently like most kids. Really, keep the kid and raise him right. You'll have a smarter than average kid and if you raise him to be sociable then he'll have one of the best advantages in life. Social ques you can learn. Inherent intelligence is genetic.

Aspies are the master race. If the majority of the world had aspergers than the social interactions would follow suit and all you'd have left is above intelligence people.
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B8
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>>18585350
What'd you expect with the fit? He's an aspie.


Good luck finding another woman who's okay with killing her children just because they aren't up to par with your beliefs and wants. You're a terrible person op and I hope you aren't able to reproduce anymore because of ball cancer.
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>>18585874
I'm sure you realise it already, but you're not exactly much different for attacking someone and wishing bad things upon them. You can act like you're on the moral highground all you want but in the end all you're doing is telling a mentally ill person that they should get cancer for having different beliefs and wants to yourself.
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