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where to find virgin dudes in real life? how to approach them?

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where to find virgin dudes in real life?
how to approach them?
what are their natural habitats? (without their homes)
how to know is a dude virgin or just shy?
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>>18584928
You can find them anywhere.
You can just talk to them and act friendly.
They probably like to do things like normal people. They mostly work and then find a place to hang low after to go home.
You really can't tell, but i wish you the best of luck in your journey. My friend is a virgin still and he's senpai by 3 years. I'm 24 .__. I want to find him a faithful nice woman. He prefers white women i guess. He said asian women all fall for the bbc and white supremecy meme....
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>>18584928
Check in the summer time when they annually fly to find mates.
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>>18584937
>asian women all fall for the bbc and white supremecy meme.
I'd disagree, most asian women where Im at stay with asians, generally stay away from blacks and only go out with 'proper' white guys(prep, in the club, have a future..etc)

OP they're just normal dudes
Youve just gotta learn how to weed them out from the whores, which isnt so hard, and go from there
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>>18584937
i have found few examples before, but it was in my university, so too risky to get with them (in my place, ppl in uni know everyting about you, gossip/stalking all time), so I thought I should search other places...

>me no job, student
>whole day stay at home
>kind of shut in
>want to do a good deed
>horny, didnt have sex for whole year
>help someone loose virginity
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>>18584928
>how to know is a dude virgin or just shy?
Think of it this way: A shy dude is just someone who didn't lose his virginity from getting fucked.
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>>18584946
sure place is where they have pc gaming tournaments and stuff, but me is too dumb to go there and be comfortable, literally no knowledge in pc and stuff
might apperar too dumb to even have proper conversation
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>>18584928
In the engineering department
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any public places where girls are quite normal to see? like library and such? what other possible places?
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>>18584928
Good rule of thumb, with remarkably few exceptions:

If they're on 4chan, they're virgins
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>>18584928
Maybe if you told us somethibg about yourself, your intentions or where do you live, we could give you better advice than
>bee yourself

The rule of thumb:
Introvert will be more likely virgin than extrovert.
If he cant flirt, he is virgin.
If he acts very badly around girls, he is virgin.

But really, why do you want to know?
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>>18585027
>But really, why do you want to know?
need trust worthy person, all guys which friends tried to introduce me to are literally trash - had banged more girls than finger on their hand and want only one night stands. I need a decent guy not to be afraid of getting AIDS from breathing same air.
Also, had fantasy about doing naughty things with virgin boy.............. for a very long time
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>>18585049
Are you a virgin though?
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>>18584928

That's great but as a virgin fag I'd like to know,where are virgin guys supposed to go to find girls seeking virgin guys ?
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>>18585049
Are you some foreign exchange student or something?
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>Are you a virgin though?
no ( 2 serious relationship that together lasted nerarly 4 years, both included regular sex)

>That's great but as a virgin fag I'd like to know,where are virgin guys supposed to go to find girls seeking virgin guys ?
idk, I stay at home now mostly, had hard time studying, so now relaxin at home - avalable only when go shopping for food... when i hung out with friends, we go to bar - I'm probably the only girl that goes to bar without dressing sluty (usually all covered up, even though it might be hot outside)

>Are you some foreign exchange student or something?
no, I major in law, so have to study nonstop
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>>18585078
Your english is a bit off. I would date you, anon.

But srsly: >>18584995 and
>>18585027
Are pretty good tips on finding the virgin.
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>>18585049
Well first, you dont need virgin. Also virgin can turn into manslut when he finally gains confidence.

What you want is monogamous old school boring boy. Plenty of them, but they are probably invisible for you. As i said, your best bet is INTROVERT. He doesnt go to parties when bored. He is hidden in his basement.

So where do you find him? Online dating is good place to try. When you are uncomfortable at places with a lots of people, how will you look for lady? Also chat him first. The worse his texting game will be, the bigger chance you will be his first (and depending on your actions) and last gf ever.

You really can dig out boy who will taste yours pussy only if you do it right. The more awkward, shy and stupid they act, the bigger chance they are what you are looking for. Keep in mind you cant do the typical girls wait and see approach. They can be scared of you, you probably will need to wear pants in relationship and hunt them down.

If not online, focus on places THEY have to go to. School for example. Look around and find the loners. They usually have low friends count and wont engage in conversation with strangers no matter what. So you locate them, sit next to them and invade their lives. Literally.

The more introverted they are, the less they goes out and the higher chance you will be the first girl they ever talked with. And make sure you know what you want. Dealing with insecure shy boys can be draining in the same way as dealing with insecure girls.

Good luck on virgin hunt! And remember, they wont ask you on date, YOU will have do the honors.
>mwf there wasnt single virgin huntress at my school
:-)
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>>18584928
>>18585100

Why are girl virgin chasers so rare ...
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>>18585112
>nice wizard implication stupid frog poster
But in my case i grew up from virgin phase. It was slow and painful process, but it can be done. First step is to actually want to and try.
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>>18585090
aww so sweet <3 I'm not a native english speaker
I know theese tips were good, but main problem is that I used to be very out-going and did lots of fun stuff, but as I started uni, parents expectations crushed me and had to study nonstop to get scolarship and stuff, now exhausted as fuck and while others do internship I just rest, have few friends but they are sluts, so they just go for fuckboys... Also hanging out is limited since they are busy and I have a very hard time going out alone.
Feel confident only when shopping alone or in public library...

>18585100
thanks <3 this is one really good advice

>>18585112
virgins are also rare in my area...
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oh and most guys in my city looks like this, since I'm eastern european
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>>18585139
Chad, chad, chad, malnourished chad, smug face chad and tryToActLikeABoss idiot.

:-D

You want the boy who isnt in the photo and nobody talks to him in hos class.
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>>18585130
You might have to travel for this one :o

>pic unrelated, but enjoyed.

The one up front looks so fierce, but i bet she has a soft spot for something cheezy lol c:
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>>18584928
If you live anywhere near San Jose, im a virgin

>pic related
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>>18585166
u dont look like virgin, would bang immediately... I'm eastern european, so.. :(
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>>18585171
Honestly I'd probably only cuddle, so dont be sad :3
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>>18585171
Post/lurk on the virgin threads on /soc/. I'll find you there, slut.
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Pure maths degree employment.
(Engineers, statistics, recent PhDs, Actuaries etc.)
Church would be another place.
To be honest, you'll have to have their same value system/interests to get remotely close to them. The fact that you can't find them yet suggests you probably shouldn't or wont get what you're expecting.
Good Hunting.
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>>18585171
Eastern europe where exactly?
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>>18585367
Implying anyone will find you if you disclose your country.
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On 4 chan, specially on /gif/ and /b/!

You can also find them on lan houses.
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>>18585361
I'm kind of undercover nerd/neet/ or whatever term, ppl around me knows I study hard, but just to blend in the company I make sex jokes and put efforts into appearing as normal as possible, also caring for good friends; when at home enjoy anime, kdramas, at some point liked gaming, but was shitty at that so dropped... friend know only about me watching kdrama and think I only watch 2-3ep a day (tells me I need to get a life), when actually I go binge watching 10ep if possible.
I just keep false image of myself so people wouldnt think I'm creepy, but I also enjoy helping people -last christmas went volunteering to psychologicaly disabled adults, helping out in church with events for children.
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I just work, run errands, lift at gym and grab an occasional beer/movie/trip with my small group of friends. When Im not at home of course.

Im trying to change through some volunteer work at a homeless shelter. Also Jordan Peterson got me interested in classical religion.

I will also enroll in a German language course.

Dont really know where to find guys like us, we tend to hide it pretty strong.
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>>18585139
>eastern european
Oh, nice. Where are you from? I'm from eastern Europe as well.

To answer your question, though, I dunno exactly. Most people kinda summed it up already. Like other anons said most of us are probably introverts, at least I am. I have a couple of friends so I do go out every once in a while during my free time. I do enjoy pool and go out to play sometimes. I'm really similar to >>18585529 as in I do everything the same, except that I enjoy video games and I very rarely volunteer. Last time I volunteered was probably 2 years ago.
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Its fairly difficult to be honest but there are some obvious virgins.
Like complete inexperience or ability to flirt.

I was a virgin til 22 and the girl I started seeing was completely stunned that I was one because I'd taken initiative all the time and just kinda copied what I'd seen.

But prior to about 21 when I didn't have any confidence it was obvious, any girl getting close to me would result in me kinda closing up or trying to escape the situation.
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Well Im 26 and a virgin.

Been working 40 hours a week since I was what 22 and finished my first BS. I went back to school part time and got another degree. Now a days I usually spend my evenings at the gym and on the weekends playing disc golf, regular golf, or craft beer bar. I also try to go to a bunch of reggae and jam band concerts. I like to be outside a lot, since Im at a fucking desk inside the majority of the time.


Im shy, introverted and possibly autistic. Im really difficult to talk to small talk wise, but if you ask me about something I know I could easily lecture you. I wouldn't know if a girl was hitting on me though, I had some interesting experiences with this.

Im white and American but i have indian friends and I was offered an arranged marriage, probably should have taken it...going to die alone. SAD!
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OP here, I thought this thread will die soon, anyway glad to see new advices.
I think I'll go to public library tommorow, will look for some books and try hunting :DDDD
It's summer + friday... can't belive I'll go to library..
God, bless all virgins, they might help me get good
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>>18586987
You are old enough to know what to do: leave your comfort zone and hit on ladies online or offline. But you actually dont want to do that, do you?

>>18587049
>hunting :DDDD
We will see you in action lady. One thing is theory, but hitting on strangers in public can be really scary. We tell scared boys to grow balls and force themselves to do it (and many need also alcohol to push them over edge), but you are girl, so grow your boobs i guess?

Good luck!
:-D
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>>18587112
yup, alcohol is my saviour

another question do virgin guys find smoking girls very unattractive? I dont do drugs weed or whatever, just smoke cigaretes 3-4 a day, usually and mostly at home
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>>18584928
Download Tinder and swipe right on the guys on which you would normally swipe left.
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>>18587112
I thought if i was good looking they hit on me?
>>18587200
Id rather she smoke pot, because I smoke pot every night before bed. Cigs are fucking gross, paying to inhale rat poison is not very intelligent.
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>just some golddigger looking for a green card
Well what else could I have honestly expected
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>>18587216
I had hundreds of matches and I'm a virgin. I somehow managed to even fail on tinder. OP we should meet up, I'm from Eastern Europe as well. :3
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>>18587393
>Cigs are fucking gross
same opninion abour pot dude, no offence.

>>18587216
bad decision, too many friends/aquitances there... dont want them to find out

>>18587458
EU citizenship is more worthy than trashy green card, no offence. US has a very bad image you know... Its where all gheto things happen, mass murders, porn, rape, fucktards with guns... In my eyes EU is way much better and wouldnt even consider getting green card. Here, we peaceful as fuck, just those ISIS bitches do their atacks sometimes.

>>18587910
u know baltic countrys? I'm from one of them.
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Male virgins shouldn't be that hard to come by. But I don't think it should matter that much unless you're a virgin yourself. Even then, don't let it go to your head. Sometimes it's better to have someone who's experienced, and it's a plus if it's not some random dude and you actually know them and like them romantically and for who they are. I'm an 18 YO virgin-by-choice, I was waiting for my girl best friend until it turned out she had sex once when she was 13 and lost it to an 18YO at a party. She regrets it, but I think it made it sweeter when we did have sex for the first time, because she rejected her first uncomfortable coitus and wanted me to be her first. So in the end, she's gonna always say that I was her first.
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>>18588587
lol
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>>18588444
>u know baltic countrys? I'm from one of them.
I'm from Lithuania but I have a feeling you're from Latvia or Estonia probably. There's barely any guys here who look like in the picture you posted >>18585139
Most of them probably left to UK or something.
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>>18588587
xd
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>>18588773
Labas katinėli :DD Daumi čia tu?
now that there is actual possibility, I'm a bit afraid to meet in person :D I think I'll retreat for now, but if we meet one day, its fate.
I'll go to public library tommorow, if we meet its fate, even if it wont be working I'll be there
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>>18589819
Deja ne, bet tikiuosi rasi žmogų, kuris patinka. Sekmės.
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>>18589840
Maniau, kad mano draugelis :DD Iš kurio miesto? Man net šiurpuliukai per nugarą eina
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>>18589854
Iš Telšių, bet pagrinde Klaipėdoje gyvenu, nes ten mokausi. Vasarai tik grižau į Telšius. Iš kur tu?
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>>18589862
Kauno, čia tikrai visi kaip marozai... Gaila, bet varkė nepaeis :/ Bet vis tiek džiugu, kad bent vienas lietuvis atsiliepė :D sėkmės ir tau laukiant išrinktosios <3
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>>18586987
>SAD!
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>>18589875
Na jo, apie Kauną nemažai esu girdėjes. Jei nori dar lietuvių gali paieškoti /int/. Yra /balt/ thread kur keli lietuviai pastoviai lankosi, nežinau tik kas jie per vieni. Bet sekmės ir tau dar kartą :)
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Why tho
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I work all day and then go home

So there you go, bet alot of virgins are doing that because they just don't go out much
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I hate you all so much. If a guy asks about finding a virgin girl even if he's one himself he's berated in nearly every comment and the only actual advice is church.

But if a girl asks nobody questions here and actually give legitimate advice.

You're all a bunch of desperate fucking hypocrites.
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>>18590260
That actually got a laugh out of me. Sorry, anon. But seriously, I imagine it's because most of the guys replying here are virgins themselves so they're talking about it from their experience. I, for one, don't know shit where to find virgin girls. I also imagine it's easier for a girl to get laid, so a virgin guy isn't as uncommon as a virgin girl. All the girls I know have already had countless boyfriends except for one and she mostly just stayed in her house all the time, so there's not much I could suggest on how to meet such a person.
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>>18590367
Oh, and this girl I'm talking about just got a boyfriend recently. How the fuck did he ask her out? I have no idea. She only goes out for work, so maybe it was some coworker or something. I dunno.
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>>18584928

First rule of virgin club; never talk about virgin club.

Second rule of virgin club; talk about it, and you're on your own buddy, you get to deal with that stigma yourself.

You're not going to find a virgin guy because even if you find one he'll never admit it.
I've always been pretty open about being a virgin, but if a girl seemed interested I'd do everything in my power to avoid the question for as long as possible.
I won't lie, it's bound to get out sooner or later, but I'll swerve that question like the plague. Keep things going all good until I'm compelled to answer.

Third rule of virgin club; we're virgins for reasons. People do not want us.
And neither will you.

That said, I actually get quite a bit of attention. It's like I woke up on day and found myself in a universe where slightly chubby/buildfat nerds with scraggly beards and crooked teeth were suddenly attractive.
Anyway, due to past experience, I never act out on this attention, so that's also something you need to consider.

When you find a guy you like, he might not ever be willing to make a move, no matter how much you hint.
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>>18585171
Just buy me a train ticket to your city ffs.
lol joke's on you. I wouldnt want to meet my russian bride in her honeypot. Fuck eastern europe. Maybe we dont have western negro muslims but chances of getting mugged by strangers is the same. Well maybe if you live close to sea i might take that bait.
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>>18590260
I am sorry dude. I am simple man, i see question i know advice for, i give them advice.

>desparate
At least we have not given up?
>hypocrites
Well, the genders never were equal in the first place. Virgin girl? Some 9 years old maybe in primary school, wait behing wall and kidnap some. But that will land you in jail. Virgin boy? Rare among normies, but still easiet to find than virgin girl.

And now back to robot board.
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>>18584928
>virgin dudes
I dunno about others, but i'm a wizard neet so i'm home
absolutely nobody somewhat desirable to me would want to be near one, so i save everyone the trouble and effort
blah blah yes that sounds depressive but i'm genuinely not depressive when away from the computer and/or with enjoyable company, though i'm still shy

I imagine most virgins are at least shy. as for natural habitats, probably across the board
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>>18584928

I am not virgin (10 women) but everybody says that I am
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