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I need to ask this girl out really soon but I have no idea what to ask her to do with me, it's cold outside, I don't have a car, and I live in a smallish town. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
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idk really
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Nice place to eat?
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Casual dinner.
"Hey we should get together sometime soon. What's your schedule like?"
>Sounds great OP! I'm free Thursday night :3
"Thursday sounds great! Meet me at Texas Roadhouse at 7"
"Yessss I love Texas Roadhouse!!!! See you there OP!"
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>have a socially (very) active female friend from college
>girl has (seasonal) mental problems due to life, environment, pressure, finals etc.
>decide to help her out of that situation, she's my friend after all
>mutually show interest, all goes well, go concerts, events etc. spend good time together
>I treat her with huge respect, listen to her problems frequently
>2 weeks later
>she no longer texts unless I write
>start to feel stupid when I text her, almost feel ashamed because I feel like orbitter
>her replies are short
>mostly online in whatsapp, texting someone
>I can't even see her due to her finals, but she still somehow has plans in the evenings which I'm not involved in
what the fuck went wrong? now suddenly I feel creepy for insistingly texting her. But I got so fucking used to it, I enjoyed the time together. What the heck?
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People drift apart so this is just as much about her than it is about you, if not more
Worst move now is to show her your desperation
Though you could still express your feelings in a manly way
We need to talk
And make sure you're continuing this relationship for her benefit more than your own else you're a dick, good rule of thumb that
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>>17959217
>And make sure you're continuing this relationship for her benefit more than your own else you're a dick, good rule of thumb that
but how can it be a relationship if it's only about her? I guess I will just try my best to cut all the communication with her. She probably won't text me or even notice me after a few weeks of not texting.
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>what the fuck went wrong?
Doesn't matter. Finding out why won't change the outcome. You had a brief connection for a moment and now the moment is over. Thats how human relationships work. Move on.
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>girl breaks up with me
>i stop texting her
>next day she sends me a bunch of texts and calls asking me if im okay
>I tell her since weve broken up theres no point in talking and continue ignoring
>shes in complete denial that she ever said that
>keeps begging me to talk to her
>message her back 12 hours later
>asks me why I went silent on her
>tell her i dunno
>meet up, she continues denying she broke up with me
Why is she denying the obvious?
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>>17959198
She needs you to break up with her
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She regrets what she did and probably did it impulsively.
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>>17959198
How did she broke up with you, over text or how?
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Anyone know a good site where i can get pdf versions of textbooks? Worst comes to worst I'll buy the ebooks for ~$30ea but free is much better.
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Torrent sites?
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>>17959169
I tried a few, can't find the specific editions I need. I figured I'd ask here before I dug deeper into torrents.
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>>17959185
/t/ might help you. There's a sub-reddit for torrent requests and both times I've tried it I got the book I wanted.
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Girl thinks I'm not funny enough
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So this is a new one for me.
I'm 22M, kissless virgin. I usually don't care about that too much, and I've never really tried to get in a relationship. I've always waited for things to come to me, without much success.
Anyway, I've met a girl recently, and she's completely my type. She's nice, funny, and into arts. However, she told me by message today that she's "scared because she doesn't feel as intelligent as I am". For the record, I am not smart, not at all. She is way more intelligent than I am (She's soon going though very long studies, while I will drop out soon). She also told me I'm "too much into intellectual stuff, not funny enough". I remember she told me the biggest quality she could see in someone is the sense of humor.
It is true that I am usually bad at showing my emotions, but saying that I don't have a sense of humor hits me hard.
Anything I could do about this? How do I learn to be a fun person to be around
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>>17959079
This girl sounds really insecure and sends up a bunch of red flags. She's already said she's not into you. Don't try to change yourself for a girl. Be a better you for yourself and damn it, there are other girls out there anon.
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>>17959105
Well I guess this is the answer I needed but don't wanted. Thank you anon
I guess
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>>17959115
Didn't mean to be too harsh but it just pisses me off when I see people trying to be something for the wrong reasons.
"She's afraid of me because she says I'm too smart"
That just screams insecurity and future manipulation.
"She said I'm too intellectual and not funny enough."
So then she makes statements about how you're not "enough" for her.
Doesn't sound like someone to pursue romantically man.
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Hey /adv/, does it matter to you how many sex partners your date has had before he/she met you?
I am not one of those idiots who think you need to get married as a virgin, but if a girl has had more than one or two boyfriends before me, let's say for example 10, then for me she would only qualify for a one night stand, but never for a relationship as I'd always think I am just number 11.
I also don't understand why men that have had many sex partners are considered more attractive.
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If a woman has had many partners I will not get into a relationship with her. Fuck and then chuck
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>>17959033
I'm not the greatest at math but what is that chart supposed to say?
How are men constantly higher on average? Aren't they fucking women? And if they do, why doesn't the women-average go up?
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Chick here, the number doesn't concern me in any "moral" sense. Personally, I find that shit stupid, but to each their own.
The only thing that concerns be about a high number is
A, does this guy have every STD known to man now?
or B, does he have a fuck ton of kids he may or may not know about that could potentially become my problem in the future.
Now, the STD thing is easy to prove. Go take a test, show me your results. You clean? Good, idgaf how many women you've been with.
The kids thing is more scary to me, because they could just be completely unaware of it and then suddenly we have a good life together 20 years down the road and suddenly his bastard shows up on our doorstep demanding money or something. (This literally happened to my neighbor, so I know it happens.)
Ergo, the types of partners he;s been with also matters. Has he had 10 one night stands? Or 10 girlfriends that he actually cared about and knew more than just their names? If he's only ever really screwed people he at least had some sort of relationship with, I'd say if the chick got knocked up, the chances of her at least telling him about it would be higher. The ons who didn't even know his name to track him down even if she wanted to, well, he's got kids he don't know about.
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>I also don't understand why men that have had many sex partners are considered more attractive.
For me personally, it's because I'm shy, insecure, and inexperienced with a kink for dom/sub. A dude who's more experienced than me is attractive because to me that means he's dominating me in that sense. However there's still a limit to that. The guy who's bragging about fucking 100's of chicks is just going to make me shrink back and know I'll never be any good. The guy who's had a couple and knows what he's doing, and can be a little cocky about it, that's hot.
On the flip side, even the dude who can fake like he knows what hes doing is attractive. Confidence is more sexy than the number in the end.
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Topic about a lonely loser 2017-01-15 04:51:29 Post No.17959027
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>be me
>be 20
>physically ugly in every single way
>broken mind
>no goals, no purpose
>addict
>no enjoyment in anything
>quite stupid most of the time
>kv, but at this point I don't even care anymore
>BPD runs in the family and I share a lot of traits but I never got diagnosed
I feel like I got dealt shitty cards (in terms of genes and childhood) but I also feel like I'm shit at the game. Am I beyond the point of return or is there still hope?
I feel like I'm just setting myself up for more disappointment every second I live.
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>>17959027
There are enough successful people, that you can google, who got dealt shitty cards in every aspect to not shitpost on a vietnamese bee raising forum.
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>>17959043
forgot to tell you to go back to r9k
go back to r9k
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>>be me
>>be 20
>>physically ugly in every single way
Probably exaggeration.
>>no goals, no purpose
Goals can be good but don't focus on them. Look up systems.
This looks like a good start: http://blog.dilbert.com/post/102964992706/goals-vs-systems
>>broken mind
>>addict
>>no enjoyment in anything
>>quite stupid most of the time
>>kv, but at this point I don't even care anymore
>>BPD runs in the family and I share a lot of traits but I never got diagnosed
If you can, visit a doctor because you need therapy.
If you can't get a doctor I don't know what to tell you. Maybe go on some IRC channel about BPD to talk about it but don't start just lurking or IRC/4chins/plebbit/other internet garbage.
Godspeed anon.
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last night a sand nigger was coming over to my gf's place in the city while she was high. My gf got raped last night what do I do
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Report it to the police. Find and kill him if youre an edgy tryhard.
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report it to the authorities and break up with your gf.
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I bet she enjoyed every single second of it.
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Halp. I started taking antidepressants about a year ago. It has done wonders for my anxiety and depression and the associated personal issues that come along with those disorders, but the downside is that my prick doesn't work any more. I am 29 years old, good looking, but I cant get it up. Last night I brought a girl over to my house but I couldn't do the deed. I'm at a fucking loss, have any of you guys been in this position before?
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No idea, but that's something you should bring to your doc, not to 4chan. Maybe it's a side effect.
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Its a side effect in some people. Same thing happened to me when I was on Zoloft. So I changed to Lexapro, it got better but still wasn't completely normal. Switched to Welbutrin, now my dick works but it didn't have the same antidepressant effect on me as the other two, so I started meditation/therapy/cardio as adjuncts. What are you on? There's other meds you can try
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>>17959012
My family doctor is semi-retired, he's a great guy but it takes me forever to get to see him, my appointment is for later this month. I'm just fucking pissed right now, I could have gotten some poon last night.
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People say I scare them.
What do they mean by that?
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Maybe your appearence or the way you talk. Ask them what makes them feel scared.
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>>17958950
Don't be such a stupid fuck. If you're going to generate a fucking thread, add as much fucking detail as you can so we can help. How the fuck can we help from such a generic fucking question? Pictures, examples, ect. Fuck you op.
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I included a picture of me
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Why won't my gf cum when we fuck. We've been fucking for about three weeks now (she's my first fuck) and she hasn't climaxed once.
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Why do you care?
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Have you asked her what makes her cum?
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>>17958941
is she complaining already?
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Should I seek therapy? 2017-01-15 04:14:00 Post No.17958927
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Tl;dr I'm really attracted to my cousin and have been since the first day I had sexual thoughts. Should I seek therapy
Forgive any bad writing/explaining as I'm on my phone...
When I was 9 I met my 17 year old cousin for the first time on a family holiday to Europe and one time after a long day he stole my seat and so I sat on his lap, something I only ever did with my dad. He instantly asked me to get off and I refused so he tickled me until I got off.
I kept doing this until the little game turned into a thing where he would run his hands over me slowly and then squeeze my leg/tickle me when I didn't expect it. I remember, even at that age, liking it more for what came inbetween the tickling/leg squeezing than anything else.
When I had a nightmare on that holiday I went to his bed, not my parents. This ironically probably resulted in my baby brother as he was conceived on that holiday.
I think those two repeated acts on that holiday triggered whats been(I'd describe) an unhealthy obsession. That holiday was the first time I remember ever having butterflies over a person and that empty feeling under my stomach.
I'm 18 now, and throughout my teen years there were points it got really bad. When I found out he had a girlfriend I tried to dress like her, do my makeup like her and style my hair like her. I even bought a a sweater she wore in a picture he seemed to really like for when his family stayed at our place.
Its also struck me as really unhealthy on a month by month level... My other relationships have all been deeply unrewarding.
I've read that you can be attracted to relatives you don't see much and stuff but this feels like its beyond that.
The reason I'm posting this now is because my sisters wedding is fast approaching and his family will be staying in our house for the two weeks leading up to the wedding...
I'm sorry for how rambly this is but I'm 18 and this "phase", this "crush" is still here...
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Well. You won't ever have a relatioship with him so you put that out of your mind. He'd probably fuck you, I would if I were him. That is about as far as it's gonna get. Just forget about it.
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Fuck off, this is from an anime
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>>17958944
sauce in that anime
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Okay so me and my gf of a pretty short time just broke up and I need some advice because idk if it over or not. Me and this girl met at work and she was amazing and she felt the same way about me. So over time we started to date and everything was great. Everyone said we were perfect for each other and so good for each other. Soon into the relationship though her dad passes away. This was a hard hit for her and her family. I was there and willing to help and that's what I did. But as time passes I see an attitude change in her towards me. She started to hate the thought of a future with me and would get mad at me for small things. So about two weeks ago I asked her if she still loved me and she said of course she did and she didn't want anything else and is just going through a lot. But recently she broke up with me and her excuses seemed... off. She said we were to different and I was to young and that she didn't want to hurt me anymore (the difference in age is 3 years). I found it odd that she said it was because of my age because at the beginning she didn't mind my age because age is a number and I was mature enough to understand what a relationship entitles. Idk what the whole you're to different thing was about but I have always thought opposites attract. Soon after she broke up with me, my dumbass put on social media that our relationship was complicated. She messaged me and said that its not complicated. we are done. I even had her friend call her and her friend told me that she sounds pretty done with me. I also had to go over there to pick up my stuff from her house and she didn't even come outside her mom did. Her mom said she is going through a lot and she needs time to grief. But her mom also made it seem like she doesn't want anything to do with me. Everyone says I need to give it time but there are things about this that don't give me hope about a future with her. What should I do?
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What age are you? Teens or adult, BECOUSE ether or I would walk and get some personal space, remember most humans especially the imature ones need a blow out they feel it's easier to hate or dislike rather then end a relationship peocestyle and move on ,
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I turn 20 in Feb. and she is 23.
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>>17958971
Honestly bro, walk away and get some breathing room , I just ended a 7 year relationship in similar circumstances , just be glad you had the experiance and good times you did have and great full it didn't stretch out into years of deniel and mutual dislike covered with fear of leaving , you need to get your personal strength back and find your footing as a human , relationships have people in each other's shoes can be bit ching hard to stand on ones own feet agein but it's something you need to do for yourself
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I got a girlfriend this week, and I told my ex because we're close friends now. And she's married. So, anyway, I tell her. Two days later, She messages me, And says she still loves me. And always has.
What the fuck, How am I supposed to take this information?
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>close friends with ex
Cut contact, retard.
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>>17958877
Tbf, she's like 52. And was married when we got together.
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Bitch got jealous that you found someone to replace her. She wanted you to be miserable and is (sub)consciously making an effort to try and keep you miserable and begging for her, even if you guys are still in friendly terms.
Ignore it. She'll cheat on her husband anyways
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Need some help real quick
>talk to a really cool girl that's really my type the other day at a student thing
>we hit it off really good and she clearly showed signs of interest (kept touching me, playing with her hair, maintaining strong eye contact etc.)
>talked to her again over facebook last night while being out
>I said something that wasn't meant mean (more like teasing but in a joking manner) but I guess it could be interpreted mean (it's difficult to convey satire over messages unfortunately) and she never replied, in fact it shows that she hasn't even seen the message yet even though it says she's been active in the app several times throughout the day (I'm thinking she saw the message last night, got upset and just blew me off)
>even if you did interpret my message as something mean it wasn't even that bad but yeah idk I have a pretty high sensitivity to taking the piss and maybe she doesn't
So what do I do now? Do I text her like "btw I hope you didn't take that seriously last night" or just stay silent and wait it out, hoping she'll reach out again? She seems really cool and I would hate to miss my chance because of something this silly
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You're obsessing too much over this one person and your last message to them. Maybe they're busy or maybe they just didn't feel like talking or maybe they're just as nervous as you are. There are many many reason for why she hasn't responded yet. Get your mind off of it and find something fun to do with your time. You are not defined by this girl.
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>>17958862
I have no sympathy for those of you that get yourself in shit like this via text. How about using the talkie/listen/talkie feature of your phone.
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>>17958894
kinda hard when there's loud music playing m8