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I feel in such a position where its just not even worth doing anything anymore. My mother is in a fucked up situation, sick, suffering, always in bed. When shes awake she screams and cries. I feel threatened by everything and everybody. I often believe the neighbors conspire against us, or that we are disliked by everybody in the street.
Going out is a chore. I am not necessarily scared of it, nothing impedes me from doing it, I just feel I don't really belong. My conduct and my actions and I guess people disliking me in general has given me this impression. Its not that I cannot form a relationship with others (as in 'connect' with them) I can. I just think I don't have much to offer them (conversation, a charming time, etc).
For the last 6 ish month's I've had a somewhat good run of staying away from depression. I don't necessarily believe in it and it works for me. So not paying attention to it often worked. These last two days, I don't see many reasons as to do things. Maybe I am just lazy?
I've given up on eating, constantly think of the consequences yet they don't make as much sense as just simply ''dealing'' with me. I cannot kill myself. So I guess adopting this irrational behavior of starving myself everyday makes more sense? Whether it makes sense or not, it just doesn't properly click in my brain.
I am disgusted of me, eating, preserving my flesh.
But why?
Give me attention, at least for a minute. I need it. Pls respond.
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Whether or not you choose to accept this, you're exhibiting most of the symptoms of depression and possibly also mild to moderate paranoia. Are there any local clinics you can go to in order to talk with a professional?
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>>17960881
It sounds like your living situation is definitely NOT a healthy environment. Are you your mother's primary caretaker (assuming she needs one)?
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you're absolutely depressed
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following up on a bad tinder date 2017-01-16 03:37:34 Post No.17960854
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following up on a bad tinder date
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So, I'm a 23-year-old virgin guy who is pretty inexperienced wth girls, but I was feeling kinda lonely this winter, so I made a tinder account. Somehow I actually managed to catch the interest a girl. She was kind of drunk and we were texting back and forth and I asked her out, suggesting we we go on a walk. She agreed.
Well, we went on the date today, and desu it was pretty terrible. She was kind of mad at me for suggesting a walk in the middle of winter without any destination in mind, which is fair because she was drunk and couldn't be expected to plan anything. Also we are both introverts so there were a lot of awkward silences.
But... I still like her, and I think that she still likes me. She went for a hug at the end of the date, and when I told her I promised to make up for the shitty date with a better one next time, she didn't object to it.
So, I have two questions:
1) What should I do for our date? I have no idea how to plan a date or what is appropriate for a tinder date.
2) How do I escalate intimacy with her? I'd like to do more than just hug her, and I feel like she'd want to do more than that too, but I think we are both just really shy. How do I bridge that gap?
tl dr: had a bad date, but still like the girl and want to salvage the situation. what do?
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>>17960854
She was drunk. Will she remember this date you've both had?
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>>17960854
Anon its okay, she was drunk. She probably won't even remember you or your horrible date or the many dicks she had in her mouth that night anyways. Hopefully this helped.
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>>17960872
Sorry if I was unclear. She was drunk when we were texting, but she was perfectly sober during the date.
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How do I feel happy and confident as a man when I used to be such a cringeworthy loser? No matter how much I try to distance myself from the past I feel like it's always going to define me. I've made so many stupid mistakes in my life that it feels like I'm never going to redeem myself of them. Like no matter how much I improve, I'm still fundamentally a loser trying to put on a new skin.
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positive affirmations, over a long period of time.
change is slow but will happen if you stick with it.
and remember.. a beautiful pearl is formed when a piece of dirt gets stuck in the body of a clam and layers are built on top of it.
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Think you could burn the past by moving somewhere else? I've been thinking about it.
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>>17960859
this might not necessarily be a good idea though.
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What is wrong with my thumb. Keeps peeling and is painful
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Could be a myriad of reasons. Your climate. Possible contact with chemicals. Psoriasis. Allergic reaction. The list could go on.
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>>17960846
See a DR or chew it off
post pics
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looks like contact dermatitis. have you been using any new product lately or touching anything you normally haven't?
have you been sick or go to college/school?
hand food and mouth disease has been going around and is very painful, spreads to your hands to your feet and mouth. keep an eye on it if it spreads. again it could also be allergies, since we use our hands for a lot.
watch what you're using but so far it looks like an allergic reaction or chemical burn.
if it's itchy, take some benadryll.
if it gets any worse go to the doctor. keep track of any changes, especially if it gets any worse. try to keep it out of contact from things and keep it dry.
I met a girl on Tuesday at this social gathering (not important what) and chatted with her, got her number. Most people would think she's ugly, but I think she's really cute. She has the most beautiful voice too.
So anyway, we talked on Wednesday and Thursday and also texted each other a lot, but then we both left on Thursday after the social gathering finished up and she hasn't responded to my texts since then. I've tested her 3 times since then. We were planning on seeing a movie and then going out to dinner, but now she hasn't texted me since Thursday? What should I do?
The last text I sent her said "you can just say no if you don't want to go see that movie"
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ball's in her court. All you can do is wait.
DON'T send her any more texts until she responds
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>"you can just say no if you don't want to go see that movie"
cringy as fuck.
always assume the girl is down to hang out with you until you know she's not, then stop trying, without being butthurt.
if she's not responding, just let it go. anything you do will make you look more desperate.
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>>17960844
This. Texting more than once because you haven't gotten a response makes you look weak, makes you look like you've low self esteem and low self respect, no confidence. That screams desperate. Just chill and wait to hear back from her. There are tons of reasons why she hasn't responded yet. Just assume you're still on to hang.
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I have trouble fully inserting my penis in other positions other than this one.
When my gf wants to try other positions I either have trouble going in all the way or trouble inserting in the first place. For example I cannot seem to get my penis in from behind partially because im semi limp most of the time. But thats no problem in legs up missionary
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>>17960814
iktf
having them riding cowgirl also works for me, but your pic is definitely the most effective.
does your dick curve upwards too?
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>>17960814
how big are you?
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>>17960823
Doesn't everyones?
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How to properly break up with a nice person 2017-01-16 03:15:55 Post No.17960801
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How to properly break up with a nice person
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So /adv/ I'm in a situation here. I've been dating a really nice girl for about two months. She seems to really like me, and has been talking about all the things we'll be doing together over the course of the year etc. She's hot, a gamer, a techie, independent, etc.
The problem is our belief systems are just incompatible. We're literally opposites in terms of politics, metaphysical beliefs, and really critical social issues. There are also some other things: she would never get an abortion, and I've always known I'd never be with a girl without that option. She's got a ton of baggage that is like, relentless. I like her and we've had fun but I've realized it won't work long term.
I've never broken up with anyone before; I'm on a business trip and right now she thinks everything is cool, we're texting like normal. Next time I see her I'm going to break up with her.
How do I do this kindly? I like her and I dont want to add to her issues, which suck and are unfair for her, but we're just not compatible.
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It's better to just be straight up honest with her and basically say what you just said here. If you're not compatible then you're not compatible. There's zero sense in worrying about "adding to someone's problems." It'd be problematic and selfish if you didn't tell her what you're thinking. Yeah she'll be hurt and probably really depressed for a while but it's better in the long run man.
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Just be honest and don't try to keep her as a friend.
Your relationship is well all over after this.
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Is she Christian? If so, tell her it's not good to be 'unequally yoked'.
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How to change your personality and way of looking at the world? I do not want to be like this anymore.
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Be more specific...?
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positive affirmations and meditation over long periods of time. you have to catch yourself having stupid thoughts and force yourself to think a different way, over and over and over, until it sticks.
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>>17960793
whats your personality and what dont you like about it?
I'm sad. I want to have someone in my life I could share my honest feelings with. The mask is starting to give me axiety. I have friends but I feel like I can really only open to someone I love. I'm not ok.
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>>17960779
You're not ok because you put so much stock in another person. What if you found that person and you got cheated on? Or they said something mean about you? Or what if they just laughed at you 'opening up'.
You put way too much stock in the idea of a partner and think that it will fix your life if you find someone. It won't anon.
Why exactly are you sad?
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>>17960786
I'm lonely. And it's getting way too heavy.
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Please help
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>be me
>in LDR
>we play wow almost all day every day together
>always in Skype
>love each other, masturbate with each other a lot
>she has a friend that drives a truck, known her for longer than me
>he's friendzoned like fuck
>gets in public voice chat when he parks
>calls her everyday and drones on and on about stupid shit
>still on skype while they talk, can hear her saying "Uh-huh..Uh-huh...Uh-huh", like you do when you dont want to talk
>always cockblocks me by calling when we're getting horny
>think that he knows he does this
How do I get this fuckin annoying piece of shit to stop calling and wasting my time/boner? He makes me fuckin rage
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Fuckin cunt just parked and got in voice chat and he's being annoying a fuckin shit. God dammit, I wish he was dead, jesus.
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>>17960773
>putting this much stock in an LDR
>not realizing LDRs dont work
>thinking you're special
>incredibly insecure about his relationship
See you when she cheats/dumps you for a guy.
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>>17960794
We were talking about moving in together today, I'm not insecure, dude just pisses me off.
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my gf hates her feet and said I wasnt allowed to touch them. yesterday i licked them a little and she claimed it felt so good and would guide her entire foot up and down my tongue. i dont know if it actually felt good to her or if she was faking it.
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Feet in general have thousands of nerve endings and are a common erogenous zone. It sounds like she's insecure about her body in general. Most societies condition is to believe certain parts of our bodies are "disgusting" or "dirty" like feet. So long story short, she probably really did enjoy it. Just ask her and share with her what you're thinking.
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Fuckin footfags
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>>17960758
be glad its not her b hole
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So here's the skinny
>long time lurker, mostly /b, first time on /adv
>have been aware of the quoteDARKWEBZunquote
>finally after years of lurking, some asshat spilled the beans of a reputable darkweb chems site.
>jackpot
I won't say what it is because the only thing /b/ro that talked had to say was "remember, nobody talks, everybody walks" so I'm not saying shit about the site is 100% legit.
My main question is, before I go through any transaction, if you are one thats aware of what I'm talking about. Without being a dumbass like last anon, can anyone thats done this before tell me the basics of making sure I do this right?
>pic very unrelated
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Assuming you're buying with BitCoin? If so, make sure you put it through a tumbler first. They ship however they do, so just be patient. Also know that it might get seized. Almost like money you can loose. Never had it happen, but it could I suppose.
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>>17960757
Gotcha. Losing the money isn't an issue.
How imperative is tumbling the money first? I saw theres a fee, but if it's my very first (and possibly only) transaction, can i get away with just going through once vanilla with tor and a half ass vpn?
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>>17960771
Personally, I always do that. Just an extra layer of protection. One less roll of the dice. Up to you though man. I would say do it.
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Removing something from Long-Term Memory 2017-01-16 02:53:51 Post No.17960739
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Removing something from Long-Term Memory
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I learned a thing because I was bored and wikipedia articles chained me to it. It's not really the worst thing ever but I'm curious if it's possible to forget it. I've known about it for about 12 hours so it's in long-term memory, but I don't have any friends so I couldn't try distracting myself in the 30 second window it takes since it was interesting.
Is it possible to forget something like that? I've forgotten plenty of things I've known for longer, but it seems like whenever you want to forget a thing it gets cemented.
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>>17960739
Replace it with something worse
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>>17960745
I feel like I'd remember both
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take a shitload of valium or clonazepam and maybe some alcohol. you pronbably wont forget it though, just everything that happened while you're high.
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Why is is so fucking difficult for a girl to decide on a day and time for a date
Shit is retarded. You always have to start with a time and day that you have in mind or else it just goes fucking nowhere it seems. I've literally asked a girl to disneyland,and I know she loves fucking disneyland but she would rather stall the whole thing with a "I'd have to check" than go into the confirmation phase.
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That'd be a no then. Maybe she's afraid that if she tells you outright you'll freak out and murder her so she's trying to be nice
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>>17960728
She doesn't like you at all my dude. I've gone to the beach with a girl who later admitted to not liking the beach, and she went just because I would be there. Find a girl who actually likes you.
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>>17960728
You're supposed to be the man and to lead.
Even if she was interested in you, she'll lose attraction when you try to get her to make decisions.
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Can I get some help filling up my FEELS folder?
I'll be dumping in the mean time.
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