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I need opinions on this :
>the shy unpopular geek is the best boyfriend material because he'll be super nice, care about you, and never cheat
How true is this in your experience, or opinion?
I always figured the main reason why they "won't cheat" is because no other girl want them, and if one shows interest they're likely to be autistic and not notice. Now if they do, they're probably more likely to cheat than popular guys because the occasion of banging a new girl isn't likely to appear any time soon.
Now of course this is generalizing, but what do you think?
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>>17959836
>he'll be super nice, care about you, and never cheat
does not 'the best boyfriend' make.
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>>17959845
True, but you get the idea.
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>>17959836
unless you're a beta yourself, it will get to you soon enough and you will cheat on him. he will still be your bf because he'll be too beta to break up and your newfound fuck skills will make up for the cheating
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TL;DR: How to gain "drive"?
That's it, never had any drive to do things.
>Picked up a lot of things but dropped them after some time
>was always afraid of failure thanks to my parents
>always functioned, never really lived
>graduated in one of the hardest subjects at University here, following the footsteps of my father, because I had no idea what else to do
>would rather spend my days sleeping and browsing
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>>17959811
What is important in your life and in the world?
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>>17959837
I dont really know... I want to create art and paint and draw, maybe cook more, but then again it's pointless because I'm stuck in this cycle of self destruction, laziness and isolation.
What's important to you?
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>>17959853
>What's important to you?
Creating passion and compassion.
>it's pointless because
Everything is objectively pointless.
What's meaningful to you, subjectively?
Why do you want to paint and draw and cook? Defining what you value is the first step in developing drive.
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Is meditation helpful? Or is it a new age meme?
Does it actually help you to just stop being stuck in your own head all the time and processing the same thoughts over and over ? Or is it just a placebo and you don't actually need this to just do stuff and stop thinking ?
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>>17959770
No it is not some miracle drug that will solve all your inner and outer problems.
Yes, it is scientifically been shown to help in many areas both mentally and physically.
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>>17959770
Its a meme, sorry OP
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>new age
people across various cultures have been meditating for thousands of years
yes, it absolutely works
the way that you think on a consistent basis builds pathways in your brain, like water flowing through a canyon. If you are angry for months or years, it will be your default way of reacting to things. If you are calm and meditative for months or years, it will be your default way of reacting to things
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I really want to kill myself.
What's the fastest most painless way to do it?
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>That feel when your luck is so shit that you can't find anyone to tell you how to kill yourself...on 4chan.
I was counting on you cunts.
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Pass out on sleeping pills and monoxide yourself in a car/garage.
Or just shoot yourself. Guns are ridiculously easy to get.
For real though. Don't do it. Become the very best version of yourself first and revisit this idea.
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Dont do it op.
If you have to ask you will fuck it up and end in a wheelchair.
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Fuck guys help. Some girl accepted to go on a date with me and I wasn't even expecting her to accept. It's tomorrow and I don't know what to do. Coffee, lunch, dinner? What do I even talk about?
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>>17959750
Keep it casual and go out for coffee and snacks. Get to know her and ask her about her background, what she enjoys doing for fun, what're her goals, stuff like that. Have a good time :) and relax.
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I assume she didn't just materialize out of thin air, so talk about something relevant to how you met (work, school, whatever). If you're feeling super nervous do coffee, normally it's just a 45 min commitment tops
And remember, she already likes you enough to want to hang out with you, so just try and get to know her more. People like talking about them selves. Ask her about her hobbies and stuff
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>>17959764
Aye, guess I'll just stick to that
>>17959765
We met on tinder but we were in the same class at high school, just never spoke. She's definitely the more reserved type so she's no hookup person
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Any other parents here want to weigh in?
My wife and I caught our daughter having sex when she was 13. Instead of getting angry, we decided to take a more sex-positive approach. We educated her on things like safe sex, consent and even put her on birth control. We also insisted that whenever she wants to have sex, she needs to do it at our house so we can ensure its a safe environment and not at some party where everyone is drunk.
Anyways, she's 15 now and so far this policy had worked well, until my sister found out from her 14 y/o daughter. She absolutely freaked out and now longer let's her kids socialize with my daughter.
My daughter was best friends with her cousin and this is devastating to both of them. How do I fix this situation?
My sister is freaking the fuck out and keeps calling me screaming, while I calmy try to explain me and my wife's idea for trying to provide a safe and responsible environment for her to explore her sexuality.
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you dun goof'd well before you caught her at 13
I have no advice for you because this is a fucked situation
praying this is b8
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>>17959714
Tell your sister that if she can't respect your parenting decisions, you can't respect hers, either. So you're going to let your daughter make any steps she wants to try to have a relationship with her cousin, and your sister is going to have to deal with it. Your sister can't stop them from being family/friends. Not with technology and how easy it is to communicate with people. In a couple short years, your kid will be out on her own anyway, and can make her own rules. Just let your sister be a cunt and ignore her bullshit.
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>>17959714
Seems like a good idea
The sister is way overreacting by the sound of it. Tell your sister to fuck off and to call back when she can talk like a normal adult
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I once had a friend who needed help, he was getting in trouble with the law, so while under house arrest he cut his tether and ran away. I let him live with my friends and I, he helped me out, was my right hand man when it came to my buisness, he couldn't get a job so I gave him what he needed. Then we go to a music festival, his one wish before he went to jail (he was thinking of turning himself in), so I take him, spend over $1000 in the trip alone, then when i'm sleeping off all the partying, he goes to town, steals two ps4's phones, tablets, all my fucking games, $1000 worth of drugs, and other shit.
Following day, theres a whole manhunt going on, trying to find him, I didn't even order it, people were just pissed someone I treated so well could betray me as such, but before we could get him, the police did. He just got out of jail, only spent 6 months when he should have got years.
Charged with Malicious destruction of propery, resisting arrest, breaking probation, domestic violence, and some other.
He got out today, and I want revenge. I don't want him shot, because that would be too easy, I want something that stings, preferably i'd like to get him arrested so he serves his two year sentence, I have patience, money, and no remorse. I have a few ideas, but any more ideas or tips would be appreciated.
inb4 "revenge is bad, live your life, some shit about two graves"
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>>17959703
>inb4 "revenge is bad, live your life, some shit about two graves"
Revenge isn't bad, its just usually pointless. You waste your time, energy and money trying to get revenge over some drugs and video games. The kid sucks. He'll always suck. Waste of time, dude.
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It's not about the drugs and videogames, it's about the fact that I let him into my home, allowed him to live there, fed him, clothed him, treated him like my own brother, and all the while he was stealing from me, and eventually made the big steal and took off without any remorse. And after I spent so much money giving him the one thing he wanted before jail, he betrayed me shamelessly.
Like I said, I have patience, energy, and money that I WANT TO expend on this.
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Bumpppp
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>oneitis' dog is dying
>lots of vet bills to try and save him
>she is extremely upset and tries to get the money together by selling off all her stuff
>convince her to make a gofundme for him
>all her internet friends and orbiters spread it around too
>end up getting almost 6k donated
>she spends three grand of donations on the dog before the vets tell her there's nothing she can do anymore
>he will just be in pain until he dies slowly if she doesn't put him down
>she finally agrees and he's put to sleep
>still have about 2.5k in donations
>she wants to fucking refund people or donate it all to charity in his name
how do I convince her it's not stealing and to just keep the money? She's clearly just sad and delusional if she's saying no to free money like this
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>>17959694
You're a horrible person, that money was given to her in good faith to help an animal, not line her pockets. Tell her to donate it to the ASPCA.
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>>17959694
>She's clearly just sad and delusional if she's saying no to free money like this
Or perhaps she is just an honest person, unlike you. She just has a developed enough moral center to know using the money that people gave her to save her dying animal for a shopping spree is a shitty thing to do.
Its ok if you're a shitty person just don't go around trying to convince others to be shitty too.
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Give the money back
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How to move out?
I can't stand living with my parents. My mom is a dishonest and evil cunt. I will go nowhere in life if i stay with them.
I am 18.
I dropped out of school after my first semester, and i am 4k in debt. I have a 6 month grace period before i have to start paying off the debt.
I have 1k in my savings account, and that's all the money i have to my name. I do think my evil mother has access to my account though, so that might be something to worry about.
I don't have a job, and i live in LA, so with or without a job, it will still be hard to live on my own.
I am also considering joining the military.
Basically, i need to get out of this house and away from my mother.
Can anyone please give me some advice on this?
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There's no easy answer to this.
You're young, you don't have any real job experience, and you are already in debt. I would suck it up and somehow either go back to school and find a part-time gig or go into the military.
I keep hearing LA is generally pretty expensive, so your options are limited while you stay there. Do you have any friends that would possibly let you room with them if you worked a part-time job?
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>>17959719
Im thinking the military is probably my only option. Although id rather work a job and do music on the side, thats probably not possible.
I don't have any friends i could room with either.
Im thinking of doing the military, and then moving out of state to somewhere cheaper.
Do you know of any cheap areas to live where i could still find work?
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>>17959691
I have a similar issue except I want to move somewhere else I'm thinking a decent major city that's still kinda cheap
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I have fantasies about cutting womens limbs off and eating them infront of her. Should I suppress this fantasy or do nothing?
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>>17959636
of course suppress it. I think it's not normal. Because if you encourage this fantasy, one day you will try do this stuff in real life. But it's my opinion.
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This is how serial killers start out. Seek help
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>started college at 18
>dropped out at 19 due to bad grades
>started again at 21
>24 right now and probably won't graduate for another 2 or 3 years.
I feel so self conscious about my age and where I'm at in life. I'm not failing classes, but I am taking about 3 classes a semester because I also work. It's just so slow. I keep telling myself that I would quit my job and take a bunch of classes, but I'm scared to quit.
Everyone is younger than me. I have no friends. People have invited me to do stuff, but I feel weird being with them even though I know it's not even a big deal. I don't even look or act my age. People have said that they thought I was 20. Some girl asked me out, but she was 19. I always say no to hanging out. I know it's my fault, but I feel embarrassed that I'm still in college at this age.
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Dont overthink it you are there to learn and to improve yourself as a person. The fact that you are doing that on your own is in itself a noble act.
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get over it
i'm turning 29 and i'm on good terms with mostly everyone in my college classes
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I am 18 and guy in my English class is 25. Most mature person out there. We never discussed anything about his age and he doesn't feel self-conscious as well.
It is OK.
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Okay here goes. How do I get closer to someone who doesn't talk? I have my roommate that I've known for years but I really have no idea why were friends and whenever I bring it up he doesn't know either. We barely talk and have the same interests. I hear things through the grapevine that he's going through shit and that he wants to hang out with me more but he would never EVER tell me himself. When a mutual friend tells me this stuff he gets upset. She's only trying to help me help him. I don't know what to do at this point. And for the mutha fuckas, no I don't want to fuck him. I just want to be closer friends.
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>>17959573
Drink with him, he'll start talking
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>>17960542
He doesn't drink that much anything else?
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If he wants to hang out with you then just keep asking him to hang out until eventually he says yes. If he's not into drinking invite him to other shit, like getting lunch or even going to the grocery store or something.
Maybe he's secretly in love with you and is too scared to show it so that's why he's bitching about it to your friend
I'm always sad. I would really like it if people asked me how I was every now and then. If anyone does ask I usually tell them that I'm feeling under; however, if I do they kind of brush it off and don't ask anymore. Does this mean no one actually cares?
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>>17959563
Maybe people don't ask you how you're doing, because they know you're always sad and dump your emotional garbage on them. They probably have problems of their own to deal with.
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>>17959569
most people have the tendency to "beat around the bush," if it's something that has been persistent for a long time should they be more concerned? I don't want to be selfish, but I would like to have someone to really talk to about this.
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>>17959563 why are you sad op?
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My girlfriend is a snapchat addict and I can't keep up. It's like having a babysitter check up on me every hour
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>>17959561
Have you talked to her about it?
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>>17959577
No because she's 19 and I expect this level of immaturity; everything else about her is great
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check up on you?
just let her do her social media shit, why do you need to be involved?
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How to be good enough for a woman that isn't shit
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I really want kids but at the same time I pretty much hate women.
It doesn't seem like anyone is happy with their marriage these days it's the same old story, as soon as the kids are born the wife starts treating her husband like garbage and never has sex and then you get divorced.
I really want to be this standup father figure kind of guy, I love kids and the idea of a large family though. I WANT a loving marital relationship but I don't see any successful examples of that anywhere.
I think I would be happiest with a very submissive, obedient, inexperienced non-white girl for lowest risk of arguments, bitterness and eventual divorce.
I don't have much education so my earning potential isn't very high and I don't think I could realistically afford a housewife without living on govt aid perpetually.
I'm 6ft tall and white so that helps in attracting brown girls but idk
Do I basically need to get ripped as fuck and super charismatic to make up for not having much money, in order to get a girl like this? They pretty much want chad just like a white girl right?
>you're so sexist
I just don't want a life of getting shit all over and then divorced
of course I'll go out of my way to treat my wife well the problem is white girls expect a princess treatment and then make you sleep on the couch, they demand everything and contribute nothing
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>>17959550
Adopt.
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It's extremely hard for a single man to adopt children
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there are other places than america, places with actual culture where people care about others in some way that isn't strictly machiavellian.