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Fix sleep schedule
Go to class
Do assignments
Get tutoring
Pass exams
Profit
Immediately lose profit to crippling loan debt

You're gonna make it.

>>17961840
OP here
I don't really have classes or assignments because of the exams' period + no debt cuz i live in europe. The whole problem is gonna be passing the exams that start next week. Time just passes by... and another day is wasted... fml

>>17961829
Bump
Any and all advice encouraged

yes. you raped her.

You're fine. She has no evidence to stand on and it wouldn't be worth her time and money to pursue it.

>>17961822
If you're in the US, this could be considered a verbal contract or as a gift so she could reasonably take you to court. Hard to tell if she'd win though.

>>17961796
>ghetto
>rapper
Underage out!

>>17961855
I'm in my 20s

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South Side Suicide
Kill yourself, hoe.

>>17961786
Most people will cite "kids" and "love," but there really is no clear happiness that comes with marriage, maybe a tax exemption or sating a woman's biological clock. Kids limit most ambitious plans, and self-improvement is much more reliable than marriage for keeping a steady fuck a phone call away after the sexual revolution.

>>17961786
As follows:

Depending on your country, there may be tax, insurance or similar benefits due to laws or customs benefiting married couples.

Joint incomes, reductions in costs due to economy of scale. But you could achieve that in a defacto relationship. Or if you're really keen a poly one.

Getting ahead in life because the world sees you as a married couple. Not one of those filthy queers. Seriously this one opened up plenty of professional opportunities for myself as a nerdy introvert.

Once you're 'taken' other women want you more. The weekend after I got engaged, had a bar girl desparate to get a hotel room with me. She was only keen after I was 'off the market'.

>>17961786
There are some financial benefits you can get from being married - tax reductions, for example.
In general living together cuts the costs, too.
If you plan to have a family together, being married gives more guarantees to your kids and to your partner.
In case you die, your partner should inherit what you own and where I live they also get some money.

In general, you have one person who is legally responsible for you. Which means that, whatever happens, you have one person that you can count on. If you're sick, if you lose everything you own, you have something who is responsible for your well being.

Socially, married people are perceived like adults and are more respected.

Cons... divorce sucks.

>A girl that I date for only 1.5 year is talking about marriage and kids, the past 6 months has been kinda bland.

Don't do this, don't get tricked by hormones.

>>17961833
Shes a muslim, so we have been living kinda under the radar for the past 1,5 years. It seems like the only solution is marriage if we want to stay together...

I'm really sorry that happened OP. What were you working towards? Maybe it still isn't too late.

That's a terrible feeling OP. what happened? What is your ultimate goal?

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>>17961772
>What meaning am I supposed to find in life at this point?

likely a new goal ?

c'mon nobody bats 1000 nobody gets everything they want in life

op kinds of reads like typical special snowflake, or hildabeast supporter after TRUMP WON

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my man im going through a similar situation but my ex is now dating my former best mate so theres some difference , either way you gotta move on. You've gotta see she's missing out and your fucking great and you can get anyone you want. Chances are im not wrong am i anon ? So don't dwell on the past , look to the future and if she comes crawling back keep her as far as you can throw her. She's no good to you anon shes like drugs ( pic related drugs are bad mckaaay )

Awesome reply, bro! So sorry you've been going through that shit! Absolutely you are NOT wrong. I wish you the best of luck on getting through this!!

If you change the word 'partner' to 'sister' in this image, it fits my relationship to my sister.

>>17961711
Same here.I keep making promises I can't keep and then even though I have the opportunity to succeed , I let my self and anybody that cares about me down.

In short, by doing it.

Make goals, accomplish them, repeat.

In my case, I used to view things as challenges.

"I don't have the energy to do that right now" turns into "I wonder how fast I could do this?"

Eventually, it just becomes nature.

What becomes difficult is deciding which commitments are worth keeping.

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>>17961711
>Why do i become a more disciplined
>Why do i go about this?
>Why does one strengthen their resolve

Fixed that for you.

>>17961710

((berg))

>>17961710
Look for Rose and say Jack will have a space on the debris she'll be on. Also, she's gonna hide that goddamn jewel with her until she throws it into the ocean decades later.

>>17961710
Beeyourself

To expand, she got mad at me because I told her that I didn't like the way she asked me for things. She never says please and thank you and I feel like a butler, that's what I told her. She says she did something special for me recently (she did) and feels that I should put up with it this one time.

Raise the issue to point it out. Don't fight about it (deliberately), just address that you don't like it when she does a certain thing and then move on.

This lets the issue defuse so she can actually think about it calmly without it becoming a Stand up For Who I Am battle for HER.

That said, don't fear her. Stand up for yourself and stick to your guns if its important. If the relationship ends as a consequence, so be it. Better to have done with it then continue in a relationship that makes you feel like shit.

>>17961726
Raising the issue was what caused it. I mentioned it again when she did the same thing and that caused her to be really mad at me.

Magic wand like the hitachi are maybe too strong for her and might scare her

Go for vibrator that used at least two batteries. Don't get anything with too many functions, they're very badly manufactured so it's better to aim for simplicity. Preferentially ones that are hard plastic on the outside (easier to wash) and have a small for precise clit stimulation

>>17961707

Any specific vibrator that you would recommend?

My thought too that Hitachi would be to strong for her. But are there any which are more "moderate" or are those not good at all?

>>17961718
Pretty hard to evaluate desu. I don't know any big brands, most of the more reasonably priced ones don't have one I think.

Two triple A batteries are a good indicator of power. Try to avoid anything extremely cheap though, I have bought one that uses two batteries but the vibration is very weak, and it cost like half what they usually do in my country.

I'm 21 years old, by the way. I'm sure age matters under this context.

give me attention pls

>>17961755
Attention whore.

>>17961685
>she's incredibly loyal girl
>i want to keep her
Oh really? Then what is there you dont know about? Stop over thinking and date her dummy.

no, stay inside

>>17961675
I was thinking about getting a massage or buying weed, which requires me to drive about 90 minutes to get legally.

>>17961681
Do both! Make a day of it. Become the most baked and relaxed person on the planet.

I don't understand what, if anything, you're afraid of.

You asking someone on a date and getting turned down isn't going to get you in trouble. If you had slapped her ass or something or maybe HAD been a jerk when rejected, but no harm no foul. Just be as casual as ever knowing the chances are now closer to 0

they may scoff at you or make a joke at your expense but no you cant get in trouble lad

invest in the lottery Kappa

You cant

Working is not bad

Without work you would be bored in less than 2 months

Think a bit positive