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so its a decently long story about this, but basically there is a girl in my friend group that I really like and we hangout alone sometimes and talk all the time, well a while back i found out she was on tinder and I thought nothing of it, me and her can never be together for a few reasons but the main one is she is my best friends ex and I wont do that to him. Anyway we matched on tinder a while back just for fun since she found me on it, I found out shes been using it alot and I'd assume talking to a guy on it since she is actually very attractive to the point of she can get any match she wants that day. But anyway she started to ignore me more and more and not talk as much which is fine because I can understand that happening when you start to talk to someone new, it kinda hurt a little and I was jealous but whatever. Now I checked her tinder and she didnt use it for like a week so I was expecting that she was talking to him with her number or whatever. Now we went from talking every single day to now I havent heard from her in a week. And I saw on tinder she is using it again so the other guy obviously didnt work. But now I feel kinda weird about it because she hasnt said a work to me in a week. I am trying my best not to say anything first to her and let her to whatever she is doing, but I keep finding myself checking my phone all the time with the small glimmer of hope she texts me first. Idk what the hell to do next about this. I think I lost my friend here and I dont even know why
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>>17998447
bump, idk if I should say anything to her or just wait it out and hope she talks to me again.
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>>17998447
Its weird because I just randomly feel empty about this, like im playing with my friends online,im talking to people and having legit fun but then I just sit here for a minute and it hits me a little that she hasnt said anything in a week and its just weird that its fucking me up. I kinda hate how I let her get me like this.
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>>17998447
Not totally sure but as a girl, i've been in situations where I could tell that one of my guy friends was crushing on me and I created space/distance to try to help him get over me/not be as in to me.
If that's her plan then this is just a temporary thing.
It could also just be that she's just been very busy or not in the mood to hang out with you lately.
Does she like genuinely really enjoy your company or is she just being nice when she hangs with you? I've been in positions before where boys who really liked me thought that I really liked them for some reason even though I was just being polite and friendly like I do to everyone.
People who I really enjoy being around, I'm not afraid to act like an idiot and really let loose around.
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How do I, a mickey-mouse manlet, stop feeling bitter and envy taller men with handsome voices?
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>>17998436
What's your voice like?
Also, lift.
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>>17998436
admit you're gay
offer a blowjob
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>>17998441
I'm 23 and my mom still can't tell me and my sister apart on the phone.
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It's been months and I'm still not over her.
I think of her every day.
I'm deeply hurt and I'm lost.
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>>17998427
keep lovin pupper
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Just give it time man, took me roughly a year to get over the girl that I was in love with.
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>>17998427
In the same situation, but she just started dating a childhood crush of hers.
Shit blows man I feel for you. What happened, homie?
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How do I overcome an intense fear of driving? I've never been in or even seen any traumatic car accidents, I'm just petrified of learning how to drive. Even the thought of sitting in the driver's seat fills me with absolute dread. I've had people in the past attempt to teach me, but I just end up acting like a total child and refusing. I've actually destroyed a few friendships over this. I've lived in large cities with public transportation, but it's pretty limiting to not be able to travel anywhere else.
The guy I'm currently dating is very close to breaking up with me because I can't overcome my fear. Please help.
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>>17998423
>How do I overcome an intense fear of driving?
By sitting the driver's seat of a car in operating the vehicle in its intended manner.
There's no other way around this. Go drive a friend or family member's car around in an empty parking lot to find your feet.
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Just put yourself in situations where you learn to drive. Have someone drive you to an empty parking lot and just get a feel for the car there. Then take it on an unpopulated back road (with your permit, of course) and drive it for a couple miles there. Just gotta take baby steps and build up from there. But you definitely need to learn to drive sometime soon, as you have already seen it's already having huge negative impacts on your life.
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>>17998423
> tfw over here you need to do theoretical lessons (14 lessons each 90 minutes long), first aid course (basically lasts one day)
> then pass a theoretical test
> then you are allowed to take drivers lessons
> Usually 14-20
> on top of that there are all sorts of special driving classes you need to take
> then you have your practical test
> and then you spend 1500-2000 Euro on your drivers license
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>have friend
>he is depressed, unemployed, and living with his grandma in our podunk hometown
>invite him to live with me in the city so that he can get a fresh start
>line up a job for him
>he works for a while then quits because he can't stand answering to any kind of authority
>gets another job then quits after 2 weeks
>claims he's "too anxious" to work
>has been unemployed for over 3 months now
>says he can't handle working and is instead "focusing on himself"
>by that he really means "playing Hearthstone all day every day"
Whenever I confront him about not even trying to work or get out or do anything he gets defensive and talks about being too depressed. I get that depression is a real thing, but at the same time I also feel that a person should be willing to try to get better and that there is no magic pill that will cure anxiety or depression without some effort on the individual's part.
Wat do?
Btw he's 29.
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>>17998388
Don't invest in depressed people. It just gives them something to be depressed about and pisses you off. Just hang and do shit for fun.
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You've already gone above a beyond what most people would do. I would still be there as a friend but I wouldn't help him out anymore. He seems content doing nothing.
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>>17998388
Your friend sounds like a cunt, I'd cherish the opportunity you gave him.
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I own a Sonic the Fighters arcade cabinet, which currently sits in the "game room" of my house, which feels very tucked away. I just got a smaller house and it seems like it would be a cool thing for people to see when they enter the house.
Totally sophomoric, or a cool conversation piece?
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>>17998381
Smaller couch, not smaller house, my bad. Lots of room to fill in the living room at the moment.
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>>17998381
Sonic is like a red flag for autism so just hide it and get some retro-n-famous game like pacman or some shit that normies will like and relate to
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>>17998381
>Totally sophomoric, or a cool conversation piece?
Neither. It's fine. Just keep it in your living room
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>Friend decides to cut all connections
>Sends me a text message wishing I wouldn't say hello to me even If I saw him
What do you even say to that? Should I even respond to that? This person used to be more closer but became more distant over time. It makes me sad to know he would write something like that.
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Don't. It's hard but you just gotta let them go, they wanna be like that, so be it.
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>>17998375
>No explanation
It feels meanspirited in a way.
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I pretty much did the same to my old friends. I didn't tell them to not say hello or anything I just dropped all contact. I was getting into a bad place and needed to sort shit out, it wasn't anything personal against them.
I know it sucks but I wouldn't say anything. Its unlikely to make anything better
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I've been in the mind to start my own religion.
How should I go about doing this?
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>>17998359
Believe in it.
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>>17998378
I absolutely do. Except that I haven't quite managed to weasel out an excuse as to why such a belief system would allow smoking, drugs and alcohol, but I want to practice what I preach.
What next?
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Need advice on finding a new friend group. All my supposed friends are out at a party I wasn't invited to, this has become typical and displays their low regard for me. People I regarded as my closest friends have fucked me over and used me. I need to find a new group of people to preserve my sanity. Any other anons been through the same? I'm also drunk while writing this
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Come on /adv/ a boyo needs help here
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>>17998343
Maybe it's you OP. Maybe your just an unlikable person. Enjoy your advice!
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>>17998343
Don't focus on obtaining new friends per second, but just work on being friendly in general. If you can smalltalk with strangers, then you're ready to invite them to hang out.
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Sup guys, I'll not bother you with the details, but basically, here's the situation:
I have been unable to move on from ex after a few months, and it's negatively impacting my life. Just recently, she started going out with someone else and now I realize I can't deal with having her in my life (we have a lot of mutual friends).
I want to unfriend her, unfollow, etc, just remove her from my life while I get my shit in order. We have a lot of mutual friends, and to be honest, I feel like I should at least video chat and explain what I'm doing and why. I'm partially salty she broke up with me via message, but yeah.
TLDR: Should I tell my ex I'm removing them and trying to move on, or let it run through the grape vine?
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>>17998328
This is normal, you really don't have to make a thing out of it at all. Remove her from your social media, do your best to avoid parties she's going too, stuff like that. You obviously can't completely "delete" someone from your life, and it would be a mistake to make it overtly awkward for your mutual friends.
So I think you really shouldn't call her up and tell her you're "removing her," that's overly dramatic and it makes it really clear you're not over her. But if you just avoid her until you're feeling better, people will understand.
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>>17998340
I mean, I don't think it's any secret that I'm not over her in our group. My only worry is that everyone else I know will be confused why I just leave all these group chats etc.
My situation is pretty shit since I don't have many friends she doesn't know so it's a huge undertaking basically.
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>>17998328
>want to unfriend her, unfollow, etc, just remove her from my life while I get my shit in order.
That's normal, nothing wrong with that.
>I feel like I should at least video chat and explain what I'm doing and why.
You don't owe her an explanation and I don't really think she cares.
>>17998348
>My only worry is that everyone else I know will be confused why I just leave all these group chats etc.
Then tell them why if they ask you.
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So i just broke up with my partner of two years. I really thoughy she was the one.
After i finish work tonight, ill come home to nothing in my house. Except my pc and my dog.
What do i do from here? She was my closest friend and the only person i really talked to... im feeling pretty lost..
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>>17998319
sorry anon, cant relate. i come home to "nothing" every day and make do somehow. youll get used to it (again).
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>>17998325
I mean shes taking pretty much everything with her, i dont even have a bed to sleep on and neither does ny gog, she took that bed too.
I know I will have to get used to it.
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>>17998331
spread a duvet on the floor and its a futon!
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hey /adv/ im 23 and im starting to see small hair in my back and im freaking out.
the hair is small enough that you need to pay attention to see it., or be under while lighting
i mean if you see me shirtless you are probably not gonna notice it.
my dad did have back hair but it was curly near the triceps and shoulers but there are only a few of them and my mothers father was hairless
should i just give up, or is there a chance for it to stop growing and becoming thicker?
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>>17998275
Yes. Give up. One day you'll be amazed to realize just how little something like that matters.
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>>17998275
You will have a hairy back and ass and shoulders and chest
women dont give a fuck.
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rip you will never be a cute twink now
better become straight or fat
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why am I so attracted to physically disabled girls. When I see a girl in a wheelchair or using walking assistance I immediately fall in love.
I watched this girl on youtube for 5 seconds and instantly wanted to marry her
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vsmxssn7fEk
what does this say about me?
To be clear, I am not attracted to mental issues or mental retardation
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>>17998268
You like girls who seem helpless. You want to be their hero.
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>>17998268
me, too
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>>17998268
If you want to marry her now....
this is her few years ago
so hot
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IwIwTdBOJvk
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I'm 24 years old, at what point does being scene become losery?
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>>17998251
the truth is no matter what age you are, people are going to see you as losery. i remember the scene kids being made fun of a lot in highschool. the only people who DONT think of it as losery are, well, scene kids.
the older you get the worse it gets. theres not some cut off where people stop taking you seriously. its just overall bad.
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when you become a neo hippie.
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>>17998251
>>17998278
that being said if you love it and its not affecting work, who cares, enjoy it.
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10/10 thinks I'm hot -- heard from a friend. Anyway, her and I did some coke together in a car with said friend while we were heading to a bar. She was digging me.
Anyway, today she texted me out of the blue before work saying whether I worked -- I replied and then a couple hours later she said, oh I was just wondering if you were busy, I was just wondering if you wanted to have a smoke together.
It was totally out of character for her -- she was totally bubbly. But she has a tendency, I heard from people, that she plays guys for attention. So Im not sure if she's putting on an act of being shy, or if she's actually spilling spaghetti right now.
Needless to say, I don't really know how to respond. I mean, it is a Friday, I could ask her to go for a drink with me tonight, but Im not sure how to word it.
Mind you, Im pretty to the point and business like when I text, I usually only set up stuff, I dont use it to flirt or anything, but I do want to go out on a date and hookup with her tonight.
It's been a while since a girl like this has come my way, even if it's just a fling, so I needed a second opinion -- I have experience with women, just not 10/10 women.
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>>17998226
>she was totally bubbly
I mean, wasn't totally bubble like usual, she was pretty serious
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What is your question?
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Are you on coke right now? Because you're rambling like a 5 year old