Need advice on finding a new friend group. All my supposed friends are out at a party I wasn't invited to, this has become typical and displays their low regard for me. People I regarded as my closest friends have fucked me over and used me. I need to find a new group of people to preserve my sanity. Any other anons been through the same? I'm also drunk while writing this
Come on /adv/ a boyo needs help here
>>17998343
Maybe it's you OP. Maybe your just an unlikable person. Enjoy your advice!
>>17998343
Don't focus on obtaining new friends per second, but just work on being friendly in general. If you can smalltalk with strangers, then you're ready to invite them to hang out.
>>17998343
My /adv/ here is so:
Look for a new hobby, it could be almost anything. If you want real life friends, think of something that requires going outside. Maybe some martial arts? If you like gaming, try to look for some offline meetups in your area, stuff like that. This way you can meet new people and hopefully start there.
A less probable, but still legit option would be to start attending your local culture centre. These places have a lot of activities on offer and usually are low to no cost.
>>17998343
Chat up some of your acquaintances, people that you know but aren't necessarily your friends. Have a few good conversations and invite them to hang out or go out somewhere. Have a good time doing said thing and keep up talking to them and hanging out. Shoot them a text once and a while to keep in contact out of person. Assuming things progress naturally and good, you'll find out more about them and vice versa. After a good foundation of trust has been built, voila! You now have a new friend. Lather, rinse and repeat until you get a group of friends who are chill with each other. Mssion accomplished.
>EASY MODE
Try to get yourself into an already established circle of friends. Just don't come off too annoying in your efforts and most of the world will already be done.
Good luck anon!
>>17998343
Do YOU ever invite THEM anywhere? Are you ever the guy who says "Why don't we all go see that new movie"?
If you don't reach out to them, they will conclude that you don't like them. And then they'll honor your privacy by not inviting you places they assume you don't want to come.
>>17999902
Yeah I literally invited them to mine for a party last weekend