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Can porn addiction be cured?
Does anyone have any anecdotes about it?
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>dont watch porn
>dont tug your dick
its not rocket science 2bqhwithyou fampai
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hahahahhahaa how is porn addiction real just step away from the computer hahahaa
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>>18029625
But what if I want to fap?
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Is it wrong to masturbate to videos & pictures of your ex girlfriend while in a relationship.
It was mostly long distance so I have so much, and she was very hot. I only get to see my current girlfriend a few times a week, and I'm quite bored of regular porn, I'm also past the point of emotional feeling when i view the material, it's just very hot.
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yeah, its fucking weird
if you dont see your gf much then ask her for nudes
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>>18029579
ehh, it's just like porn isnt it
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>>18029599
no. it's fucking weird. if it was just like porn you'd be looking at porn. the difference between this and porn is the emotional connection. if you want to do it, do it, but don't lie to yourself lmao.
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I think I care about others less than regular people.
Last year I left my family, friends and girlfriend and moved to another country, and I don't think I'm much less happy alone. Of course I care about them and keep in contact, but in general I don't think I value my relationships with others that much.
My problem is, I don't know what to do about my love life.
More than anything else, I'd like to meet a girl that I really love, who I care about more than myself. But obviously it's not that easy, and after reflecting on it I wonder if it's even possible for me, feeling as I do.
I like my ex-girlfriend who I get along with well, and have a lot of memories with.
I also like a girl a little older than me who I've been going on a lot of fun dates with.
I've also met a few cute girls who seem like they'd be fun to hang out with if I asked them.
But I get a strong feeling of "She's the one for me" like you see in any kind of romantic media from anyone.
I'm not interested in sleeping around... I just want to have someone I really care about to share my life with.
What should I do?
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>>18029559
What you are trying to find, is in my experience built with someone and not found.
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>>18029590
How do I know who to build it with?
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>>18029896
Stop thinking so far ahead. You sound like you're trying to life-hack your way to an "optimally satisfying" life. I hope the futility of this isn't lost on you.
Does your cup runneth over? What do you have to offer others? You seem like you're counter-productively isolating yourself, yet yearning to connect more deeply.
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>long distance gf and I had a fight and haven't spoken in three days
>this is the longest we've ever gone without talking
>she was in the wrong so I was hoping she'd apologize
>want to talk to her and resolve this, but also don't want to set a precedent of crawling back to her even if it wasn't my fault
What do?
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>>18029558
pick one and only one.
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You can send her a clear message witch explains that : I miss you, but before we met I would like to appology".
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>>18029558
>>she was in the wrong
Women are never in the wrong, you were, so you must apologise, or it will all end.
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my bf always cancels plans with his friends.
his reason is that he wants to spend more time with me. this is not ok.
it has just happened again. last weekend, he enthusiastically told me that he made plans to go play paintball with a few friends.
now i just received a message where he says that he will cancel so we can spend time together.
i have told him multiple times that i don't think his behaviour is a good idea and that he will slowly but surely turn everybody away from him if he continues like that.
what do i do?
i don't want him to ruin all his friendships over us and them complain to me about it in 10 years...
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you da real mvp
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maybe you could try going out with him and his friends?
gee I dunno, it's just a thought. I don't understand why current relationshit ""advice"" tries to advocate schisming friends from loved ones as if you're supposed to separate out your lover activities with your outdoor activities like an autistic child separating portions on his plate
It's retarded. Everyone can use novel experiences in their life.
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>>18029550
so, what should i answer him to get the point across? i toyed with the idea of making plans myself so his choice will be "sit at home alone" or "go play paintball with my friends". how rude and condescending would this be?
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What exactly is it and is it normal, also can girls find it attractive?
I'm 19 and I have a lot.
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>>18029510
>tfw no qt curly haired anon bf to match my pubes
>what exactly is it
pubic hair is hair that grows in your pubic region. thats it. no magic.
>is it normal
why wouldn't it be?
>also can girls find it attractive?
like anything, it takes some moderation. as a general rule men can go unshaved and it doesn't effect their sex lives much, but some girls pressure men to trim. some girls like a thick bush. the trim seems to be more popular these days.
>im 19 and i have a lot
trim it if you want
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Jesus. Pubes are typically considered the hair on your dick and/or vag.
Some people also consider other body hair pubes, but mostly when people are thinking of pubes its referring to hair on your gentiles.
Yes, it's normal for literally anyone past the age of 16. The amount you have, how thick, and what color depends on genetics.
Literally anyone can find anything under the sun attractive. So "Can" girls find it attractive? Of course.
Do most? That's debatable.
The general consensus I've found through survey is most people are ok with trimmed pubes. Meaning you cut them back to a shorter length, but don't completely remove/shave them. Shaving/waxing pubes is a pain in the ass, so lots of people don't bother with it.
The normal issue regarding the "to shave/to not" debate is usually around oral. Most people don't want pubes in their mouth/teeth. So if you want oral, usually you're going to compromise somewhere and either shave or trim.
Some fetishists really like bush though. Just depends on the person.
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>>18029532
most women just want trim, very few find it sexy to be bald down there, loosk like a kids dick
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I feel pretty confident, but something is preventing me from just going to women or groups with women. I can consider myself pretty handsome, starting to lift, but I can't muster up myself. I know that once I do it'll get easier.
But I don't, so I just end up being in the corner with a group of college acquaintances just looking relaxed. I can make friends and also charismatic, but what's stopping me? How do I get over these inhibitions?
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>>18029482
>i feel pretty confident
>but apparently im not
honestly the only way to get over it is to, well, get over it. you can try writing something on your hand like 'kick ass' to remind yourself in the moment or whatever but it boils down to you making amove.
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I can't even approach girls I know are checking me out. For me, it's more of a communications issue in general.
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>>18029482
In a similar boat OP and for me it's fear of being hurt. Rejection hurts a little but being heartbroken after a good relationship or even just getting to attached to a person you have been intimate with hurts a lot more.
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Hello 4chan,
Can someone help me understand why this happened? Talked to a co-worker, and then I asked him to hang out and he said "sure yeah, I'm usually busy but in the near future" and then he blocked me, not sure why? I wasn't mean and I didn't say anything provocative. I know he has a gf but I didn't say it in a way that seemed like I was asking him out, well at least, that's what I think. Anyway, I'm just trying to figure why he blocked me, male anons help
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>>18029480
So you're a girl, he's a guy in a committed relationship, and you wanted to "hang out" one-on-one? Grow up.
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prob thought you were coming on to him. or his GF read your message and was overly protective and asked him to block you/did it herself.
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>>18029480
you a femanon?
Guys especially guys with gf don't like having friends that are grills.
If so try and get friendly with some other grills.
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Hello /adv/
I'm currently recovering from homelessness. The last two years of my life have been a series of constant fuckups and backstabbings that eventually led me to a state of severe depression and eventually losing everything I had. I won't go into anymore detail on this because it isn't the issue anymore.
My dilemma is that I am having recurrent, severely violent thoughts about all the people who have wronged me.
Being on 4chan, I expect to be called edgy or an angsty 18 year old. But this is becoming a serious problem for me now.
Because of what has previously happened to me in the past. My paranoia has gone off the rails. I carry a hunting knife with me daily despite being very illegal where I live. I have found myself, yet again, mixing styrofoam, lighter fluid and petrol in my kitchen and bottling it up. (I have a history of arson, never been caught) and on top of all that. I have been in 4 fights over the last 3 months. All of which have resulted in hospitalisation of those involved.
I can't control my temper at all anymore. The slightest thing sets me off into a blind rage. I break anything and everything I can, I have pinned family members and close friends against walls while screaming at them (I don't remember anything I say, and can't find out because said people rightfully cut contact with me).
It's only a matter of time before I do something severe and get arrested. For example, the only thing I have thought about doing the last week is firebombing a government owned building, and more specifically, a certain person inside.
I couldn't care less if I was shot and killed for these acts. The desire to act is getting stronger day by day and is only held back because deep down I know it isn't the answer.
My question to you guys. What do I do to put a stop to all this. Where do I go, who do I talk to and more importantly how do I talk about this to someone without getting V&.
Please help.
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As a side note. I'm currently living off grid as I'm 100% sure the police are looking for me over the last few incidents. I'm paying cash to one of my old colleagues to stay in a small rundown flat and am using a nearby families unsecured wifi to post this. I can't sign myself to any services or tenancy agreements etc. because I know my name will pop up somewhere and I will be found. I have a small cash flow to keep me going, but yet again, That involves more crime.
I've gotten myself into so much shit and I cannot see a way out. I don't know what to expect from this website, but at the minute, the animosity and a small amount of hope that someone has an answer is all I can think of doing.
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>I'm currently living off grid
>Here let me post about my life and give context clues to all the alphabet agencies on 4chan
You're neither edgy nor special: you're retarded. Enjoy g-men at your door.
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So hey man, just gonna start off by saying that I've been homeless, I've dealt with shitty people, and I've royally fucked up too.
Anger is typically a direct result of fear, vengeance isn't all that it's cracked up to be, and you give more power to the people who have wronged you by latching onto those grudges.
Short of your current situation and recent events, what are you afraid of man?
You've definitely made quite a bit of progress just by being here and saying what all you've said but it sounds like you need to dig a little deeper. Try and reflect a little bit on what it is that you've done to get you yourself to this point. Self accountability will set you free. The only person that holds power over your life at the end of the day is you.
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I lost my greed and desire to do new things and improve on my life. I noticed that I got fucked over by today's society of everything just being handed to me that it made me stop improving in life. Like for example I get horny? Ok go online and jerk off instead of find a girl. I'm hungry? Go get fast food and get fatter instead of learning to cook and make home meals. Like I become dependent on these easy things to help me get instant gratification in life and I don't work for anything and if I do the reward is meh so I don't continue. How can I gain my greed to get more and improve and desire to change back? Or am I just too corrupted by modern society.
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>>18029456
You haven't lost your greed, you're just being lazy.
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>>18029603
I won't deny it but still I need a way to make rewards back into my life. Too many things are easy for me to get and are cheap make ups for real things I can't get as easily.
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>>18029456
>jeez modern society has really corrupted me, I guess I'm just helpless in the clutches of modern society
t. every lazy, weak-willed person throughout history
There's no magic solution, you just have to kick yourself in the ass and force yourself to make better choices. I find it can be very helpful to write out a list of positive things you can do each day
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Hey guys.
I'm at a crossroads in life. I graduated uni and moved back in with my parents for lack of a job gf and money/anywhere else to go. The good news is I have no student debt.
I have been applying for jobs for a while now and had 2 interviews one failed and the other I was supposed to hear back today about it.
Option A: keep applying for low tier NHS jobs even though I only have 1reference since I never had a job before and wait until I get a successful response and interview.
Option B: Go back to uni as I have a year of funding left and get a master's in a similar field as my Bsc Hons.
Option C: Jack the degree and get a cscs card from a full day or 2day course and get into construction (I have an A in woodworking intermediate 2 and exp building things with my dad)
Option D: Join the military as an officer due to my degree and try get a position in a lab or hospital. Either as exp for another job or full time as a career.
Option E: An hero.
Any advice or opinions on where to take my life are greatly appreciated. Will post more info if required for you to make a better choice.
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>>18029427
More info needed
What's your degree in? And where did you get it from? It sounds like something medical-related?
Also how do you have no debt? Curiosity
Don't be disheartened at this point. It's very common to get loads of rejections before you get a job.
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HEY YOU GUYS!
Help please, I value your opinions. Also how about a break from replying to the usual relationship problem threads that make up 90% of the board?
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Okay so I have this little group of three friends(Tyler, Gary and Me) and we all smoke weed at Tyler's house. So the other day I ask my friend Gary if he wants to smoke Tuesday but says no becuase he has to work. So today Tyler sent me a snap of Gary on his couch "tripping." When I told Tyler that Gary told me he was working he made up some excuse about him not having to work after all. So I have no clue why they lied about hanging out today but they did invite to pick me up tonight and smoke. So what exactly should I do? I fucking hate when people lie so I'm not in the mood to forgive and forget. So what would make a better statement? Staying home and telling them to fuck off or hang out with them tonight and make them feel uncomfortable?
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>>18029409
>telling them to fuck off
they fucked earlier today so just go toke with them tonight if your into that kinda thing...they are gay for each other
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>>18029409
Just fuckin stay home, you sad-sack drama queen. It's just a friendly hangout so don't go if you're gonna be all passive-aggressive. I'd bet that shit like this is the reason they want to avoid you sometimes
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your friends might not like you, or they just didn't think you were someone they wanted to do psychedelics with
i've been in that kinda situation several times and have cut off fellow smoker friends with another friend several times
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back in high school i had a girlfriend who broke up with me several times (i know) but we always got back together until one of my friends told me that every time she broke up with me she went a fucked some other dude so she *technically* wasn't cheating on me after that i dumped her, this got me scared of getting close to other girls, got into depression, and into hardcore anime stuff and vydia (always liked anime and games) , mostly to escape reality. meet some friends with the same interest in college started buying figurines/manga/anime etc. as I live alone and got early into a good paying job i have accumulated quite the collection.
don't get me wrong i enjoy this stuff but I'm no a weaboo most of my normal acquaintances/coworkers don't even know i like that stuff i'm good at hiding my powerlevel
two years ago my parents died and i couldn't spend my Xmas with them and i didn't want to impose on my sister as she is married so i spent xmas alone watching anime and the loneliness hit me hard i cried alone in front of the PC monitor for who knows how long. there was a thread on /a/ about the amagami challenge (for those of you who don't know is about getting a gf before xmas like the MC of that anime)
So i got to work started by going to the gym, buying trendy clothes with help of some of my coworkers and started to going out when invited by someone at work or a friend (always used to refuse) meet some girls but never anyone who I was interested in.
Last November a new instructor started working at my gym we started talking casually we clicked naturally, she is beautiful, smart, caring, funny, fucking hot and most important she actually likes me. well shit I wasn't going to let this chance slip by i Invited her to a few dates and after that we where officially going out. I got to spend this xmas at her house life is good so far
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>>18029404
except for we been going out for about two months and she want to come to my house I always found an excuse for her not to as I have all my figurines on display all my bookshelves are full of manga I have easily 20K of the stuff
she's been kinda moody and pushy about this and i think the thinks i'm married or something, i don't want to make her mad and lose her I KNOW i need to invite her to my house eventually I'm just scared that she will think i'm weird I could explain about my HS GF but then is kinda embarrassing to tell her she is my second girlfriend (I'm 27) I Could trash everything (or give it away) but it would be such a waste and all that stuff hold certain sentimental value as it helped me on one of my lowest moments
I know i'm being a pussy faggot ... shit
writing that make me realize that i'm being a faggot about this I just sent her a messeage to come over tomorrow gave her my address what ever happens will happen
So i what should i do reveal the embarrassing hobby and tell her what i wrote here or do i trash everything i forget about it if get going right now i can clean my room by midnight probably?
Fuck
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Put it in storage, dumbass.
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>>18029413
holyshit well i guess i have to go to buy some cardboard boxes
now how do I explain the empty bookshelves?
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why do amerishits think it's bad to be a virgin/have a prejudice against virgins?
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i suggest you visit america so you realize well adjusted people don't care
don't base your opinions off americans on 4chan, i certainly don't base my opinion of foreigners off of idiots like you
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>>18029398
I'm an American and I believe the opposite.
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>>18029424
Ahahahaaa deeeeeeeestroyed
What are some part time jobs where you get to use your hands and learn a skill? I'm in college and work part time but I want to work somewhere where I'm doing more than working a cash register, customer service, doing mindless shit, etc. i liked woodshop in high school but every woodshop/cabinet maker wants years of experience. Or should I just work a shitty menial job until I graduate and find a job related to my degree like every other 20 something college student?
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>>18029469
Woodworking you may be able to find a job as like, idk, an assistant. They'd probably prefer someone with sone training at a technical college so they don't have to teach you literally everything. That'll be the same for most jobs of that kind.
You could be a janitor though
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>>18029478
Being a janitor seems like it fits more into the mindless category though..
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I worked at a botanical garden during college. Do you have regional parks that hire seasonally?