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No romantic direction 2017-02-07 09:58:10 Post No. 18029559
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I think I care about others less than regular people.
Last year I left my family, friends and girlfriend and moved to another country, and I don't think I'm much less happy alone. Of course I care about them and keep in contact, but in general I don't think I value my relationships with others that much.
My problem is, I don't know what to do about my love life.
More than anything else, I'd like to meet a girl that I really love, who I care about more than myself. But obviously it's not that easy, and after reflecting on it I wonder if it's even possible for me, feeling as I do.
I like my ex-girlfriend who I get along with well, and have a lot of memories with.
I also like a girl a little older than me who I've been going on a lot of fun dates with.
I've also met a few cute girls who seem like they'd be fun to hang out with if I asked them.
But I get a strong feeling of "She's the one for me" like you see in any kind of romantic media from anyone.
I'm not interested in sleeping around... I just want to have someone I really care about to share my life with.
What should I do?
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>>18029559
What you are trying to find, is in my experience built with someone and not found.
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>>18029590
How do I know who to build it with?
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>>18029896
Stop thinking so far ahead. You sound like you're trying to life-hack your way to an "optimally satisfying" life. I hope the futility of this isn't lost on you.
Does your cup runneth over? What do you have to offer others? You seem like you're counter-productively isolating yourself, yet yearning to connect more deeply.
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>>18029909
So how should I be thinking? Should I just be trying to date people and when I find someone I think I could spend my future with stick it out?
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Little bump
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>>18029559
Wait
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>>18030566
Think think think. Do you feel? Do you know relationships are born of from feeling, and not of thinking?
How satisfying could a relationship be if you didn't feel anything? It seems from what little you've said that you're chronically depressed. Would you say the the feeling in your body is relatively low?
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>>18031114
No no, I definitely feel that I like people, am interested in them etc but I feel this about multiple people and I don't feel like it's enough to pursue a relationship over.
It's never an overwhelming desire like you see in romance stories. Those people always seem so sure.
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